AtoZ Challenge: H is for…Hello Baby (aka Dear Blueberry – 28 Weeks)

A to Z Challenge

H is for….Hello Baby

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Hello third trimester. Here we go! So today I went to see the midwife, all sorts to check up on. While sat in the waiting room, I bumped into my Grandad who was there collecting some bits for Grandma. I got my results from my glucose test frm last week – that was all good, there was also a test for my iron levels which were also normal (yeah!).

I had a trainee midwife for some of my appointment, she had a feel of my bump and measured it (normal range again!), she worked out that either baby’s head or baby’s bottom was just under my ribs on my right hand side. I had to have my anti-d injection which made my arm hurt for a few minutes. She asked did I want a warning or should she just go ahead, I said just go ahead. She gave me the injection and my arm bled a little bit and some of the injection dribbled down my arm so she had to grab a swab thing to soak up the blood/injection combination. After having my injection, I had to be weighed. The midwife was very impressed that I’d only put on about 2.5kg (6ish pounds) since my booking appointment just before Christmas. I think it’s the most normal I’ve ever been!

AtoZ Challenge: G is for…God

A to Z Challenge

G is for….God

My Grandma is one of my biggest role models. Through her whole life she’s trusted God that he’d provide and that he has a plan for her.

On Tuesday I saw her at the coffee morning at the church my parents and my grandparents attend. It’s funny that my rota day off in the week because of my Saturday shifts actually coincides with the coffee morning. It means I get to see my mum and my grandparents all in one day. We sat around the table this week chatting about how God provides and often provides at just the moment that you need it. Our circumstances changed at Christmas and it was exactly what we needed at that moment it time.

My mum sat at the other end of the table and got out my two scan pictures so show off. She’s so excited about her new grandbaby. Mum started knitting various bits and pieces and I’ve been crocheting ready for baby to arrive.

Each time I hear baby’s heartbeat and see baby fidgeting away on the monitor at my scans a certain bible verse pings into my brain, it’s from Psalm 139 and it says “I am fearfully and wonderfully made.”

AtoZ Challenge: F is for…Films

A to Z Challenge

F is for….Films
This weekend was a unexpected mass film weekend. On Sunday evening, Chris and I went to see Noah at the cinema then this evening we went to see Divergent.

Noah Movie PosterAs you may have heard, Noah has had it’s critics. When I saw it was directed by Darren Aronofsky (directed Black Swan) I was always prepared that it wasn’t going to be a rainbows and butterflies version of the story – it was going to be dark and twisty because that seems to be what he does best (I saw Black Swan at the cinema and it gave me the creeps!).

Overall I liked the film, I’m not sure it’s necessarily one I’ll be downloading or getting on DVD but was interesting and raised questions. Chris and I spent most of the journey home chatting about the film. I think like a few bible stories we have a Sunday School version of it in a way, at Christmas we have a twee version with non-smelly animals and Easter doesn’t have the blood or the gore. The story of Noah takes 3 chapters in Genesis which in the whole scheme of things is a really small section of the bible. But actually even when you just count the rain (40 days and nights) and the amount of time it takes for the earth to dry out it’s nearly a year and that’s excluding all the time that Noah and his family spend building the ark in the first place. I think it was only when I saw Ila (Emma Watson’s character go through her pregnancy in the story did I realise quite how long they were in the ark for). A lot of Christians have been “upset” by the interpretation but once you get your head round that it isn’t a literal translation of the story then it is a good story in the long run.

Divergent was next up. My cousin is back from uni at the moment so we decided to go see the film. My aunt and my cousin are my film buddies, we saw all the Twilight films and the Hunger Games together so far, now we have the Divergent series to add to the list.

I read the book of Divergent in April 2012, so although I remembered bits of the story, I wasn’t entirely sure about the rest of the story. I think they did a really good job about getting Shailene to be like the Beatrice/Tris in the book, on the way back to the car we talked about how it was better than the version of Bella between the Twilight films and the Twilight movies. Overall I enjoyed it and it was a good film, some bits were tense and had me on the edge of my seat, there were a couple of bits that were missing between the book and the film but you always expect some bits to be missing along the line.

April 7: Currently…

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Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
The Good Wife (Season 4)
Rev (Season 3)
Grey’s Anatomy (Season 10 – finally seen the wedding!!)
Les Miserables
The Smurfs 2
The Amazing Spiderman

Reading:
Rizzoli and Isles: The Apprentice (about half way through)

Listening:
Les Miserables – 10th Anniversary Concert Soundtrack

Making:
I finished the baby blanket for Blueberry and delivered a baby blanket I made for my friend K at her baby shower this weekend.

Feeling:
Excited – counting down the shifts until my holiday! Yeah! (And then I’ll be counting down to maternity leave)

Planning:
My baby shower -Mum and I spent Saturday afternoon making Baby shower invites.

Loving:
Hugs! The end of last week was kinda tough and I was glad to get home and hang with the boys at the end of last week.

AtoZ Challenge: E is for…Edible

A to Z Challenge

E is for….Edible
Around two years ago Chris discovered that he needed to consider a gluten free diet as the gluten in his diet was making him poorly.

At first, we headed for the Free From range and started there. Even now with intolerances rising, Free From food is still more pricey that it’s gluten containing counterpart.

When I discovered that they sell gluten free flour in the Free From section I decided that I’d start experimenting with some of the “normal” recipes I like making but with Free From ingredients.

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One of the best discoveries was American Pancakes and how to make them with gluten free. Rather than using plain flour like you do with normal pancakes, you chuck in gluten free self raising flour and you get puffed up yummy pancakes. A friend of my Mum’s lives in the US part of the time and on one of his trips back to the UK, he brought me back proper American Maple Syrup which was the perfect accompaniment for the gluten free pancakes.

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This is technically normal chocolate muesli as per my Mums recipe but I did make it for Chris with gluten free muesli (I think it was Nut and Vine Fruit mix or something like that). Basically rather than chucking in the 3 cups of muesli that we normally use I chucked in the gluten free muesli and did the rest of the recipe as it’s goes. And it worked! Chris loved it!

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This was my latest attempt and discovery, I have a love for Rocky Road, after my Mum’s Chocolate Muesli and Grandma’s Polish Cake I think it’s then my favourite. I looked up the recipe for Rocky Road and found it was really easy. We grabbed some gluten free biscuits and made a batch of gluten free Rocky Road. Both Chocolate Muesli and Rocky Road and really easy to make and then throw them in the fridge over night ready for snacks the next day. My Mum used to make chocolate muesli as my Dad had muesli for breakfast so it was often in the house anyway and worked amazing for packed lunches and for “pudding” at tea time. (In our house it works wonders for breakfast when Chris doesn’t have time for a bowl of cereal).

AtoZ Challenge: D is for…Dreams

AtoZ Challenge

Today’s letter for the AtoZ Challenge is…D

D is for….Dreams

On one of my pin boards on Pinterest there is this photo…(unfortunately there isn’t a source link on it, if someone knows where it is from please let me know so I can credit it properly).

Lots of my dreams are for my baby, what he or she will be like when they arrive, whether he or she will take after me or Chris, will he or she look like my side of the family or Chris’s. I look like my Mum’s side – I have dark hair and dark eyes like my Mum and Grandma (actually my cousin has dark hair and dark eyes too – when we were younger we looked like siblings).

I also have dreams for Our Sidekick. I hope that he’ll be happy whatever he ends up doing, that if graphic design and art is his passion that he’ll follow that. I hope that he’ll one day find a lovely girl and they will encourage each other to be the best they can be like I hope Chris and I do and that he’ll have his own family one day if that’s right for him.

I dream that Chris and I will be happy for many many years, I’m sure we’ll have fallings out and disagreements across the years but I hope that one day, we’ll see Blueberry graduate university of they decide that’s what they want to do and that if Blueberry is a girl, Chris will get to walk her down the aisle like my Dad did for me and then we’ll be chasing Blueberry’s kids round the garden and winding them up like crazy before sending them home (that’s the job of a grandparent right?).

AtoZ Challenge: C is for…Crochet

A to Z Challenge

C is for…Crochet
For as long as i can remember my Mum always had a project on the go whether it was on her sewing machine sat at the dining room table, or knitting in front of the TV or cleverly crocheting something out of some yarn and a hook that probably looked like a method of torture than something used for something as peaceful as crochet!

I remember being taught cross stitch and how to sew – both of which came fairly easy, I’d watch my Mum and pick it up. Knitting and crochet however were another story.

I think I was first taught knitting when I was about 16 – I’d get the hang of it when Mum showed me but then I’d put it down and by the time I’d gone back to it I would have forgotten again and would ask for the hundredth time “How do I do it?”, Eventually it would stick and I got the hang of knitting and (Eventually!) purling. With crochet it was worse, I was so busy trying to mimic how my Mum crochets that I’d always be tense and uncomfortable. Eventually I got the hang of it and realised, like writing and things like that you have to get the hang of how you do it and how you find it comfortable.

About 18 months ago, Mum sat with me and taught me how to crochet, I don’t know what it was this time but it clicked – something just fell into place and I did it. So far there’s been no stopping me. I’ve now crocheted four baby blankets, a number of squares for a giant blanket that was made to raise funds for Macmillan Cancer Support, a tetris blanket and most recently I’ve been working on baby blanket for Blueberry.

Our Sidekick's Blanket

K's baby blanket

Another Baby Blanket

Tetris Blanket

J's Blanket

Blueberry's first blanket

AtoZ Challenge: A is for…April Goals

A to Z Challenge

A is for…April Goals
AtoZ Challenge is…..
On the 1st ish of each month I blog my goals for the month and how the last month went. Some months are a little easier than others.

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How the March Goals went….

Finish the blanket I started for Our Sidekick.
I finished the blanket for Our Sidekick and left it outside his bedroom door while he was asleep. I got in from work the following day and he and Chris were hanging out in the living room. I went upstairs and when I came back onto the landing they were both stood at the top of the stairs wearing their respective “Hannah Made Blankets” as superhero capes. They both refused to run up the street for me so I could take a photo of the blankets flying behind them like capes.

Work on/Finish the baby blanket that I’m making for Blueberry.
I’ve been working on the baby blanket for Blueberry. I’m almost there – at the end of March I was down to about 3 or 4 squares to make but just needed to organise them around the squares I’ve already made.

Continue to work on my “Things for Baby” list – I’m sure I’ve forgotten something!
I got a checklist from one of the baby stores so I could have a starting point for my list. I crossed a heap off because either we didn’t need them or they’d be “nice to have” rather than “we need”. I was asked by a friend what I’d like and I’m still struggling – need to work on the list in theory.

So the goals for April go something like this…

Keep up on my body magic/Walk More
I live about a ten minute walk from where I work so for me to drive it’s really lazy. Some days it is needed because I finish work at 5 for example and have to be somewhere at 5:30 but while I can and as the weather gets better I want to try and walk instead of cheating.

Healthy/Optimised Eating
Since being pregnant, I’ve got into really bad habits with what I eat. I try and eat more fruit when I fancy something sweet but more often than not it doesn’t work, so now I’m attempting to do something about it. I know I’m supposed to put on weight but I can at least attempt to keep it in a healthy place (so far gained 5.5lbs since October and it’s still 11lbs lighters than in August last year when I started Slimming World.

Update Baby Wish List
I know that we still don’t have bedding for the cot or a change of bedding for the Moses basket so they need to go on there. I also need to get out all the baby clothes and see what I actually have in each age bracket. Then I need to think about things like an outfit to bring baby home in, but as I don’t know if we’re having a girl or boy do I take something unisex or do I take a girl outfit and a boy outfit just in case? But of course there are practical things to be done too.

Baby Shower Guest List
Write baby shower guest list (I wish Ruby could come but Australia is a little far away to come for a baby shower! Am thinking a skype baby shower might be possible). Is there an etiquette to who you invite to a baby shower? I completed a first draft yesterday but there was more people on it then I kind of expected so I’m not sure what to do. I’m guessing it’s up to me but at the same time I don’t want to miss out someone who’s really important and should be there.

Finish the baby blanket
I am really close to finishing the baby blanket so I want to get that done. I think I’ve got about a row and a half to go all the way round as a border and then it’ll be done. The question is…what shall I do next??

March 31: Currently…

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Watching:
The Good Wife (Season 3 – it’s on Netflix and I’m working my way through – almost at the end of Season 3!)
Rev (Season 3)
Grey’s Anatomy (Season 10 – finally seen the wedding!!)
Wreck It Ralph

Reading:
Bloom by Kelle Hampton (almost half way through – I struggle to put it down each night! Kelle’s blog is pretty cool too).
Life After Life by Kate Atkinson

Listening:
Worship music or the Frozen Soundtrack. Have also added Bellowhead to this. It was my Dad’s Birthday and I got him two Bellowhead albums – I realised that I hadn’t listened to it in ages.

Making:
Baby blanket is still in progress but it is getting there. I think I have about 3 or 4 squares left to crochet and then all fourteen to sew to the main section I have so far.

Feeling:
Feeling a little less meh but did have a cry on Friday. It was only about five tears and I was holding it together until Our Sidekick hugged me. It’s always the hugs that get me!!!

Planning:
Working on the baby wish list and guest list for my baby shower.

Loving:
My snuggly warm bed unfortunately it’s a little too warm and snuggly!

March 24: Currently…

For the last couple of days my blog has been having a hiccup. Thankfully it’s been fixed and we are back up and running. Chris (my IT Whizzkid) was able to do what he could to get it fixed and here it is!

Currently...
Watching:
The Good Wife (Season 3)
Grey’s Anatomy (Season 10)
Brave
The Runaway Bride
Tarzan

Reading:
Bloom by Kelle Hampton
Life After Life by Kate Atkinson

Listening:
Worship music or the Frozen Soundtrack.

Making:
Baby blanket is still in progress but it is getting there. I’ve been sewing the squares together while crocheting some more. I currently have a 5 by 7 blanket.

Feeling:
A bit more in one place rather than all over the place but still the tiniest things make me bawl my eyes out.

Planning:
Adventures and the layout of the nursery, the new dividing wall goes up on Thursday and I’ve been looking at paint cards to give Chris some idea what I’d like. (And working out how many shifts I have less – I’ve got that it’s 1 Saturday and I think 6 lates hehe)

Loving:
The snuggly fleece blanket that I can curl up under on the sofa. Haven’t done much napping recently but it makes me relax when I need to.>

March 17: Currently….

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Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
The Good Wife (Season 2)
Grey’s Anatomy (Season 10)
The Lucky One

Reading:
Not a lot! Mainly Pinterest and Blogs

Listening:
Worship music – as I write this I’m listening to Redemption Songs by Kate Simmonds. It’s a bit of an older album but I still love it. When I was Lost, We’ve Come To Praise You and We Come In Your Name are my two favourites.

Making:
Baby blanket is still in progress but it is getting there. Squares 23 to 25 were powered by sunshine and blue skies.

Blueberry's Baby BlanketFeeling:
All over the place. Pregnancy hormones are driving me bananas. They make me cry or just down right grumpy but a bit hopeless too. I feel a bit down in the dumps and little things make me stress more. I’m sure it’ll pass and if not I’ll mention it to the midwife when I see her in four weeks ish.

Planning:
Adventures. Because of Blueberry being due just before the summer holidays we’re working on fitting our main family holiday in Easter or May Half Term. Current idea is to go to Ironbridge and the local area to that.

Loving:
The sunshine. That’s two Sundays in a row where we’ve had sunshine and it’s been warm enough to sit outside. Chris worked on the garden this Sunday while I crocheted and observed. Well I’d get in trouble if I moved the dead fence panel or tried to cut the grass.

Blue Skies

Singing Birdie in The Tree

March 13: Sleep Would Be Good…

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In that way that those posts appear on Facebook like “10 Things to do while on a conference call” (if they can’t see you, crochet or knit!!) or “10 Things to do in your lunch break” (well other than eat of course!) I was about to call this post 10 Things to do while not sleeping. Why is it I spend most of the day feeling shattered and fight curling up for a nap under my desk or in my car during my lunch break (if like today I go from one thing to the next) then when it comes to bed I get a second wind and wake up again? Maybe it’s tied to being pregnant and will all make sense eventually. It probably doesn’t help that Blueberry seems to settle then around 11:30/12ish decides to crank up the kicking. Thankfully the novelty is still there and I’m often still awake even if I’m tired. Maybe I need to try some of that scented bubble bath that’s supposed to be relaxing and helps you to sleep. Anyone got any tips or suggestions?

March 12: Dear Blueberry – 24 Weeks

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Dear Blueberry,

All those hormones that make a small human grow have been making me super tired and also made me grumpy and moody. All the info says by now I should feel more energetic but it’s not really happening. Mum (aka Grandma S) says that I need to tell the midwife in case I’m anaemic or something like that. You’ll learn as you grow up her and Dad (aka Grandpa) are both full of all sorts of wisdom and information. If you need help with History homework we’ll call Grandpa he’s a whizz! When it comes to sewing Grandma is your person to call.

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On Wednesday, we went to see the Midwife. You made your presence known by kicking the Doppler when she attempted to listen to your heart beat. It’s so amazing and such a miracle to think that 25 weeks ago you were just a bunch of cells that had multiplied and now you’re a fully formed human – some bits are still getting themselves in the right places and developing but you’re definitely there.

Baby you are wonderfully and fearfully made! God knows exactly the time at which you’ll arrive whether that’s early or late – while we make multiple plans for every eventuality!

On Sunday I was given a baby blanket by Grandma’s friend Maureen. It’s knitted and so soft. Can’t wait to wrap you up in it when you need to be warm and snuggly. Grandma had the Moses basket on her dining room table so we put the blanket in there to see what it looked like. I’m so excited little one. I can’t wait to meet you.

On Saturday, we’d watched the Six Nations rugby with Grandpa and Grandma. At one point you kicked really hard so I grabbed Grandma’s hand but then you stopped. The second time you kicked hard we managed to get her hand to my tummy in time, she felt you kick but you stopped again by the time Grandpa got there. There’s still 15 and a bit weeks I’m sure they will have plenty of opportunities to feel you kick. I’m guessing in the next 15 weeks I might get annoyed at it but I think it’s your way of saying hello.

24 Weeks
24 Weeks Take Two
I tried to take a bump picture this week but I think depending on the time of day, what I’ve eaten and the clothes I wear depends on how big you look.

March 10: Currently…

Currently...

Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
The Good Wife (Season 2)
Criminal Minds (Season 1)

Reading:
Not many books recently but have been reading Today’s Letters and Chino House.

Listening:
Disney CD in the car, on my iPod…..Frozen, Wicked and The Lion King OST. We Will Rock You has also been added.

Making:
Finished one baby blanket and carried on with mine. Also working on a prayer shawl.

Feeling:
Blessed and grateful.

Planning:
The wall!!! By the end of March the dividing wall should be up which means we’ll have a nursery of sorts. Tempted to go look at colours but that’ll be when Chris says it’s completely the wrong colour lol.

Loving:
Sleep! And my new team at work. My new manager is fab and so caring.

March 8: Gluten Free Banana Bread

Since Chris discovered that a gluten free diet was better for him than all that gluten in his diet I’ve been attempting to make more and more gluten free cakes and biscuits so that he doesn’t feel like he’s missing out when Our Sidekick and I can buy cake or snacks and not worry so much about the ingredients.

I had meant to take a picture but the bread was cut into before I remembered. Doh!

Serves: 12
75g (3 oz) butter or margarine
175g (6 oz) sugar
2 eggs, beaten
450g (1 lb) bananas, mashed
200g (7 oz) gluten free self raising flour

1. Grease and line a 2 lb loaf tin.
2. Cream butter and sugar until pale and fluffy.
3. Add eggs a one at a time, beating between each addition.
4. Add bananas and beat again.
5. Stir in the flour, bicarbonate of soda and nuts.
6. Put in the prepared tin and bake for about 1 and 1/4 hours at 180 C / Gas 4 until well risen and firm. Turn out onto a wire rack to cool.

March 4: WIPs

I nearly always have a project on the go – especially at the moment as I’m trying to clear out my yarn stash and finish up on the projects that I’ve started but not finished.

These are the current two in progress. I started this blanket for Our Sidekick back before Christmas but didn’t finish it.

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This is the second blanket I have in progress. These squares are going to be sewn together to create a baby blanket for Blueberry. I do have the next project lined up – I just need to clear one of these before starting.

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March 4: Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not….(Kindle Offer)

Geli Voyante's Hot or Not

Today’s actual post follows shortly but following an email I received today I had to spread the word.

Back in September and again in October I wrote about my friend Elle and her fabulous second book “Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not”. I absolutely loved it and am super excited that Elle is penning her follow up to her first novel, Kept at the moment. This is entitled Lost and I can’t wait for it!

Anyway I am writing about this because between today and Thursday you can find Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not for free on the Amazon Kindle Store. Yes I did say FREE. So give it a try.

The UK store is here and the US store is here.

“This is another fabbity book, as Geli would say, from new(ish) author Elle Field. Like her debut novel Kept, this is a brilliant example of the chick lit genre – it’s full of witty and funny moments with plenty of twists and turns in the storyline to keep you gripped! I absolutely loved the characters, especially Geli and her quirky ways, and Tiggy was the perfect “frenemy” to boo and hiss at!

If you’re a fan of the chick lit greats such as Sophie Kinsella and Helen Fielding, you won’t regret reading this. Another book soon please Elle!”

March 3: Currently….

Currently...

Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
The Good Wife (Season 1 and 5) – 5 started a couple of weeks ago on the TV and although I’d heard of it, I’d never actually seen any episodes so having watched a couple of Season 5 episodes I went back to the beginning.
How I Met Your Mother (Final Season!!) – Our Sidekick and I have been watching the episodes as close to transmission as we can to make sure we don’t miss anything!!

Reading:
Still reading Ink Heart by Cornelia Funke. I was given it for Christmas but hadn’t got any further than 5 or 6 chapters.

Listening:
The Lion King Soundtrack (deluxe – it has songs from the stage show as well as the films)
Les Miserables Soundtrack (Original London Cast)

Making:
Working on Our Sidekick’s blanket so that it’s all finished so I can work on my baby blanket and two commissions that I’ve been asked to do.

Feeling:
Weary but okay. I’m sort of struggling to sleep. I struggle to get to sleep then when I am asleep I sometimes wake up in the night either completely wide awake and usually bolt awake rather than dozy and not with it. In the last week I’ve had leg cramps too so have been even more awake!!

Planning:
Where to go from here….my blog is 7 at the end of March. Where should I go from here? Also planning things like “Would I like a baby shower?” and “Should I plan it myself?”

Loving:
My Frühstück CD that has been in the car for almost a year. I saw them play at Esquires back in April 2013. Rock and loud!! Educating Blueberry while I can!

March 1: March Goals

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So the goals I set for February and how they went were:

Finish the Tetris Blanket for Chris (aiming for Valentine’s but we’ll see if that happens!)

I managed to finish the Tetris Blanket for Chris at about 11:30pm on the 13th. It has already had a chunk of use and I think Our Sidekick may have adopted it at one point as he was cold!

Maintain weight.

This didn’t happen. In February I put on four and a half pounds. I knew it wasn’t going great because one week I was absolutely starving all the time! It’s possible that, that particular week baby was having a growth spurt (it was also explain how even after a full nights sleep with no disturbances, it’s now 3:30 and I’m shattered!). I could have probably done better by trying to optimise what I did eat but at the same time it’s perfectly normal to gain weight while pregnant. Continuing to go to Slimming World while pregnant was about staying in control and trying to make sure I didn’t completely undo what I’d achieved since August. At the last SW meeting of February I was half a pound being back at a stone off (having been at a stone and a half at Christmas). I am disappointed but I’m sort of trying to be okay about it. I keep walking where I can, so to work and to my Mum’s when possible. I walked a bunch around Cambridge with Chris last week and planned to go for a walk with JD at some point. It’s not the end of the world and if needed I can draw a line in the sand so to speak once baby arrives and get back on track towards my target. As I said to Chris, I can get baby in the buggy, load up the changing bag and walk places, to my grandparents it’s about a 3 mile round trip – if I take the bridlepath I think it’s slightly quicker but it would be a little impossible to manoeuvre the buggy along the path until it gets a bit smoother!

Get blog organised. With a chunk of stuff including getting ready for a baby, the next few months need to be organised where I can!

This happened in as far as that I tried to schedule a copy of posts each week and start drafts to place mark other posts. I had hope to be a bit more organised and do more than that but it works for now. I’ll be working on more posts as I can.

Goals for March

  • Finish the blanket I started for Our Sidekick. It’s almost there but just needs a few final bits.
  • Work on/Finish the baby blanket that I’m making for Blueberry.
  • Continue to work on my “Things for Baby” list – I’m sure I’ve forgotten something!

February 26: Dear Blueberry – 22 Weeks

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Dear Blueberry,

As I wrote after the scan on Friday, this week had been kinda of short.

I think you’ve a growth spurt this week as I’ve been hungry and because work was a bit crazy too I’ve been coming home exhausted!! Having said that I’ve got lots of crochet done.

You’ve been fidgeting more and making yourself known. Daddy even tried putting his head to my tummy to see if he could hear anything – well clearly you weren’t going to talk to him but he said he could hear something going on – unfortunately I can’t get my ear to my belly to see what’s going on lol.

One night I even told him he had to put his hand on my tummy to see if he could feel you kicking, I feel you everyday shuffling around and moving, so know exactly what you feel like, he doesn’t get that feeling in the same way so only when you’re strong enough and we time it right does he feel what’s going on. The best way I can describe it is a bit like when you get a muscle twitch – I usually get it in my eyelid when I’m tired which is funny but it’s like that but in my tummy just below my belly button – as you get bigger I think it’ll be more obvious.

I think you like food as you always seem to fidget more after lunch or dinner.

Hopefully I’ll have more to write about next week. For now little one, stay safe, I love you loads!

Mummy

February 19 (actually 21): Dear Blueberry – 21 Weeks

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Dear Blueberry,

You have definitely got more of a fidget on this week. I sat watching TV on Tuesday and you were getting to the point of proper kicks, there was definitely more movement. I then sat in bed and I think you did it on purpose, I was watching my tummy to see if I could actually see any movement when you kicked, well of course about ten minutes after Daddy was asleep next to me you went nuts and kicked like three times in a row.

After the first time I grabbed my phone and videoed it because I decided that if I did wake him up you’d more than likely stop but if I didn’t then you would carry on. I sent him the video so that even if I wasn’t up he could see the video first thing in the morning. He thought it was funny that I had sent him a video of my tummy to start with then saw you kick and he was grateful that I’d taken the effort as well as grateful that I’d let him sleep.

Technically you turned 21 weeks on Wednesday but as your next scan is today (Friday) I decided to save the post for today.

I keep getting asked “are you going to find out if bump is a girl or a boy?” I kinda wanted to know so that I could get things and make things that were girl or boy specific. Daddy on the other hand wants to wait and see what you are when you’re born in the summer. So instead you have a multicoloured crochet blanket in progress and there is a dinosaur onesie that I think you might have to wear whether you’re a girl or a boy. I also saw a pair of train leggings for small babies today – wondering if I can get away with those if you’re a girl. Well your Grandpa S loves trains and has rubbed off on me, and Daddy loves the Underground and has also rubbed off on me, kid, it might not be safe around here so get used to it transport museums could be on the cards as you get older!

Anyway, Daddy has taken Big Brother out for breakfast this morning as we all have the day off between school holidays and days off work, I really ought to get dressed before they come home and tell me I’m being lazy or something like that!

So I got up and got dressed and all four of us went to the hospital for the scan.

According to the midwife it’s all good. That’s four perfect chambers of the heart, two arms, two legs, two kidneys, functioning stomach and bladder. Healthy size head, legs and abdomen. Good good!

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Chris also snapped this one of me as my friend in Australia requested an updated bump picture.

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Love you lots little one.

February 20: Field Trip to Cambridge

I had meant to write this on my way back from Cambridge on Thursday but then I ended up driving us home and it was all a bit crazy as I jumped from one thing to the next. So didn’t get there in the end.

Chris and I headed over to Cambridge to spend the day together. Chris had been surfing on the internet to see what we could do. He knows that I love ancient history (as much as I love modern history!) So when he came across the Museum of Classical Archaeology at the University of Cambridge, Faculty of Classics, he knew for sure that it would be right up my street. It’s near Newnham College but if you didn’t know it was there you could miss it (especially if you mistime it and catch a change of lecture time like I think we did!). We parked the car near Coe Fen (Fen Causeway runs right through the middle of it) and we headed for the museum, while we were parking my phone started ringing and it was Our Sidekick asking a bunch of questions, we switched it to FaceTime so that he could join us for part of the adventure. It started to rain so I was trying to keep it level while not getting rain all over my phone lol.

The museum was really interesting and was crammed full to bursting with statues and casts of famous statues. I kept telling Chris about how this one in front of us was related to the one over there via this one over here – I think he was either really bored or excited that I was excited.

We headed for lunch at the Rainbow Cafe which is on the parade of shops opposite King’s College, this was another of Chris’s internet discoveries. The menu was vegetarian, vegan and gluten free friendly. Chris had said it was gluten free and vegetarian friendly so I thought I could at least get egg on toast or something like that. When we got there it was really lovely. It’s in the basement of one of the shop fronts, you go along the side of one of the buildings and in through what would be a back door for the ground floor. You go downstairs and there you are in this little cafe. It is really small so you would struggle with a buggy, so if we went back with Blueberry, I’d make sure that s/he was in a carrier – then again I don’t always do stairs that well so I might make sure that Chris was carrying at that point. Anyway, we found a table and got comfy, I had Vegetarian Spaghetti Bolognese and Chris had a potato bake thing. It was strange going out for dinner and Chris being able to order direct from the menu rather than having to take out all the “glutened” parts. He also asked very nicely if he could have pudding given that like 90% was gluten free. I said he could and I ended up having vegan soya ice cream – and oh my word it was lovely. Part of me expected that it would taste rubbish because of the fact it was vegan and made from soya but it tasted amazing!!

Found a mummy. #fitzwilliammuseum

Following lunch we went to Paperchase (I needed my fix okay??? If they ever opened one in Bedford I’d be so poor!) and then headed to the Fitzwilliam Museum. By this point I was beginning to feel it and really needed to sit down – why do museums rarely ever have chairs or if they do they are miles away from anything! I found a wall to prop myself against near this mummy, I think if I wasn’t flagging I would have found it more interesting. I did however find the coptic jars for one of the mummies and so sent a picture to Our Sidekick (by this point he was super annoyed at Chris and I and so contact was restricted to required contact lol).

We headed back to the car and then back towards Bedford but it seemed like everyone else had, had the same idea because the traffic was horrible on the way home. It got to the point where Chris had to drop me off at SW straight away and thankfully my Mum was able to take me to Embroider’s Guild. Normally it would have been the Monster Yarns Knitting Group at Peniseri but because Judit was talking at EG, Mum, two of our friends and I went to Embroider’s Guild to cheer Judit on. As we often say, Judit has a passion and gets us all so excited about knitting, crocheting and what we can create.

February 16: A Ride on a Train

The week and the weekend didn’t exactly go to plan but that is another story maybe in the future sometime. Anyway, so on Sunday, Chris and I decided that we would miss church for the morning and go off an adventure. Now it’s become a bit of a joke for one of us to turn to the other in the morning and say “shall we more work and go on adventure?”.

Well missing church is a little less job-threatening than missing work! Chris tapped away on his phone and in the end found somewhere slightly different to go. We headed down the bypass and towards Husborne Crawley. I’m sure it probably wasn’t the most direct route to where we were going but it did add to the adventure.

After a few guessing games including me guessing the telephone codes to try and work out where we were (I can’t help it!! My dad was a telephone engineer so it was often a conversation on holidays and then I worked in customer service processing orders so it was handy to know what the full dialling code should be if numbers were missing etc – NERD!) we ended up at the Narrow Gauge Railway at Leighton Buzzard. Unfortunately it was a diesel train rather than a steam and because it being early in the season the train only went half way along the route and back rather than all the way to the end and back.

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This was the engine that pulled our train. It’s called Beaudesert. Following the ride we wandered round to the engine shed where you could see a couple of other engines and read about the history of the railway and why it was there. My Dad loves transport museums and things like that so growing up I was interested in trains, I texted my Dad the first time I went on a Pendolino (heading from MK to Birmingham to visit Rickie), I’ve even been watching Michael Portillo’s Great Railways or something like that using the Bradshaw’s Guide. I love the history of the London Underground but I think that’s the love for trains that my Dad instilled in me mixed with Chris’s love for the Underground and it’s history. (I have a whole board on Pinterest that has different maps of the Underground and things like that!)

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Some bits of the ticket office, station and cafe all could do with a lick of paint and an update but the staff are lovely and friendly and made us feel really welcome. The railway is mainly staffed by volunteers (from what we could gather) and on a Sunday once you get on the train watch the footballers in the field next door – they get really puzzled when they can hear the whistle being blown but it’s nothing to do with their match. The trains were clean and tidy and I can imagine it being quite busy during the summer. The guys in the cafe were nice and welcoming but if you wanted more than a cup of coffee or a cake there wasn’t much choice.

And if you couldn’t tell that I was a train fan from my purse then I don’t know what would prove it. (I have the proper purse rather than the coin purse but it’s the same pattern)

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As part of our adventure, we then headed to the local Harvester for lunch. We did have to wait to be seated but it was Sunday lunchtime so we expected a bit of a delay. Our waitress was lovely and friendly and checked on us quite a few times even though it was busy which was good.

Following lunch we headed home again and ended up watching more of the Olympics when we got in. The Women’s Slopestyle (?) was on and it was scary watching some of the girls have to pull out the race – one time the girl took the jump but hadn’t got enough speed up so ended up landing at the bottom of the jump – she should have landed on the safety crash mats but actually she missed them. It’s such a fast race that even if you could pick yourself up and carry on, the race would be finished within seconds. Has anyone else been enjoying the Olympics? Do you have a favourite event?

February 14: Happy Valentine’s Day (and Chocolate Muesli!!)

At work there were all sorts of activities going on this week because it was Valentine’s Day.

This included a quiz sheet, raffle, a video competition between the teams and a Bake Off Cooking Competition. I took part in the quiz and helped a few other people when they were stuck! As the money was going to charity I bought a couple of raffle tickets – I didn’t win anything but the money is going to the NSPCC so that’s okay. I took part in the video competition by being the camera lady for our team and a bit of directing along the way lol. Our team won which was really cool. I’d love to share the video but I don’t think I can. Then there was the Bake Off, well this week I had most definitely ran out of time so I emailed my Mum for her chocolate muesli recipe. I think it was found in a magazine or recipe book somewhere along the line but it’s something that I’ve grown up with. My dad would have muesli for cereal so it was often in the house anyway then the rest of the ingredients are golden syrup, margarine and plain cooking chocolate – dead simple (and if you have excess chocolate over Easter I have used Dairy Milk or Easter Egg chocolate to make it in the past).

Following a request from a friend who had seen the below picture on Instagram here it is….(also means that next time I need it I know where to find it!)

Yummy Mummy’s Chocolate Muesli

So ingredients:

3 cups of Muesli
5oz plain chocolate (about 120g ish)
3 tablespoons Golden Syrup
2 tablespoons Margarine

I use Tesco Swiss Style in the red bag because that’s what Mum uses lol. I think you want something with oats and raisins. You can always add a handful of extra raisins or maybe something different like dried fruit for a different flavour. While in the supermarket I got a box of the gluten free muesli Chris has – I figured I’d also try a GF version while I’m off work next week.

1. Grab a tin or tray to put your chocolate muesli in. My mum uses a sponge tin that’s about the size of an A4 piece of paper and about a centimetre deep. I used a dish that was deeper than that and smaller – this mean I had thicker but smaller pieces. Line your tin either using tin foil or grease proof. I used tin foil as it was easier to cut and peel off the chocolate muesli when it was set.

2. Put your chocolate in a glass bowl over a saucepan of hot water so that the chocolate melts – you want it to go runny but not to burn. If it goes running then starts to get lumpy you’ve gone to far.

3. While it’s melting chuck in the golden syrup and the margarine, using a wooden spoon mix it and prod the bits of chocolate while they melt.

4. When the chocolate has melted throw in your muesli and stir, you want to cover all the muesli in chocolate – it’ll start to clump together which is fine but you need to mix the muesli in quickly otherwise the chocolate will cool before you’ve got it all covered.

4. When it’s all covered load your mixture into tray. Grab a metal spoon (normal dessert one is fine) and push the mixture into the corners and level it out. I usually start by pushing it towards me then spin the tray 90 degrees and work my way round making sure it’s sort of level.

5. Stick in the fridge and wait for it to set. On this occasion I left it overnight but I think you could make it in the morning and it would be ready for tea time.

This is what it looked like before I cut it up….

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February 12: Dear Blueberry – 20 Weeks

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Dear Blueberry,

This week you definitely had the fidgets on. I could tell you were moving around but there weren’t any definite kicks or at least not any that hurt me. On Friday, Our Sidekick and I were watching the Opening Ceremony of the Winter Olympics in Sochi. I was sat on the sofa and he was snuggled next to me. He said to me “Did baby just kick you?” And I said “I couldn’t tell, why did baby kick you in the head?” He said “No! Baby kicked me in the ear!”

I told Kewey and Becca all about it. Becca said “That is too cute! Blueberry just wanted to let big bro have some love.”

Having been such a fidget earlier in the week on Sunday when you barely moved (or at least not movements I could feel) I started to get worried. I didn’t feel ill so I didn’t think it was too serious but you weren’t moving and it was scaring me. I googled for advice to start with the first message board I was on the advice was “baby has probably just moved and so kicking in a different direction, if you’re really worried seek help.” Okay I figured I’d sit down through the service as I tend to feel the kicks and movement more while sitting down. Nothing happened during the service – or nothing I could properly distinguish but then during the lunch to say goodbye to a church friend I got an almighty kick in the side. I think once I had food in my tummy you got excited. I hope you take after Chris is that you can pack away the food but you burn it off just as quick unlike me who has to be sensible lol.

I sat watching Grand Designs and you were kicking away – maybe you’ll be like Daddy and Me and really like dreaming about new houses or what we’d do on our “Grand Designs” house.

Anyway

I get to see you on the screen again next week and I’m so excited!!

Love you lots little one.

Mummy x

February 10: February Goals

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Technically it’s the 10th February which means a good third of the month has already gone.

I decided that I needed to be a bit more organised if I could manage it (especially as this morning the house is really cold – you can tell no one is normally at home at 10:30 during the day).

So the goals for February are:

  • Finish the Tetris Blanket for Chris (aiming for Valentine’s but we’ll see if that happens!)
  • Maintain weight. Having started Slimming World in August and then finding at the end of October that was I was expecting Blueberry, I’ve been trying to maintain my weight, it has fluctuated a bit along the way but it still within about 5lbs of the starting point and I think had it been more my Slimming World Consultant who would be having a word with me.
  • Finish Speak Love and the other books that I’ve started so far in 2014 (I think I’m already on 3!)
  • Get blog organised. With a chunk of stuff including getting ready for a baby, the next few months need to be organised where I can!

February 5: Dear Blueberry – 19 Weeks

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Dear Little Blueberry,

One app tells me you’re about the size of an heirloom tomato and another says you’re the size of a Mango. All I know is you’re about 300g which is kind of impressive but also sounds really small – that is small but special.

(Honorary) Aunty Kewey and I were talking about my day because it wasn’t so good. Clearly you were sort of there and so might have caught some of it. She was worried about me but she ended one of her messages with “Please don’t overcook yourself Hannie. if your body is saying nap then nap! Everyone will understand. You and blueberry are very precious.” She has this way of knowing what I need to hear when I need to hear it even though she lives what seems forever away.

I think if you had pants then today there were most definitely ants in those pants lol. I think you had/have a fidget on good and proper but you’re still a little little to proper poke. Hopefully I will get the hang of it and will know what you’re movements feel like. I get this feeling just below my belly button like a pulse but it’s too irregular to be my heart or something like that – I think it’s you telling me you’re there.

I haven’t taken a bump picture yet but am going to ask your Grandma to take it for me when I see her tomorrow.

At the parenting course earlier we were talking about Love Languages and I kept wondering what would be yours – would you snuggle up to me when you wanted to feel loved or would you want me to tell you how good you’d done something? I guess we will see – all in good time.

Anyway it’s time for me to sleep otherwise you and me will be too tired to face tomorrow and all that holds.

I love you baby bump. Good Night.

Mumma xx

February 1 – Review – January 2014

Review 2012
Books
Speak Love by Annie F. Downs
The Five Teenage Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Ink Heart by Cornelia Funke

Films
The Hobbit 2: The Desolation of Smaug
Happy Endings
Into The Wild
A Slightly Pregnant Man (French film I was given for Christmas)
Never Let Me Go
101 Dalmatians
102 Dalmatians
The Sisterhood of The Travelling Pants
27 Dresses
Loch Ness
The Blind Side
Sweet Home Alabama
Something’s Gotta Give
The Girl with The Pearl Earring
Frozen
Green Lantern

Television
Downton Abbey (Season Four and Christmas Special 2013)
Silent Witness
Don’t Look Down (documentary I watched to make sure it was okay for Our Sidekick to watch)
Hinterland
Who Do You Think You Are USA

The Month in Bullets
We started the month by going over to see Chris’s Auntie and her lodger/housemate aka Chris’s Second Aunt.

Was given like 5 or 6 carrier bags of baby clothes. I’d been looking at baby grobags as my friend used them for her daughters and they’ve always seemed like a good idea. The best way I can describe it is a sleeping bag but with dungaree straps so because it’s a set size and has those straps you don’t have all that spare fabric to get tangled in. I opened one of the bags and there were three second hand grobags (or along the lines even if not an official one!) and a brand new one. The brand new one is bright pink so might not work for us but a friend of mine is due weeks before me so her little one might use it instead.

Chris and I started the Parenting Teenagers Course that church is running, it’s written by the same people who wrote the Alpha Course and The Marriage Course. So far it’s been really good and interesting.

My mum and I went for a girlie day – I think it was supposed to just be the morning but because of how big MK shopping centre is and the fact that we couldn’t find what we were looking for it took longer. I over tired myself and when I got home I slept for 45 minutes! Oops not good.

While we were out we looked at patterns for baby blankets and maternity trousers. I have a plan for a baby blanket and at the moment I think it’s going to be the most unique baby blanket ever lol. My mum has sent me off with a mission to get some fabric for the maternity pattern that she ordered off the web having had a look in a famous department store.

She also ordered some bits that I had half thought about but one set of bits that I hadn’t even considered. I’m so blessed to have my Mum around to come up with the bits that I’ve missed or not considered.

At work I won the joint Buzz of the month which was really exciting. I also achieved my Excel 2010 Advanced certificate and my Outlook 2010. I’ll be sure to add them to my CV just in case (and possibly make sure I print off colour copies for the future!)

January 29: Dear Blueberry – 18 Weeks

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Dear Blueberry,

I keep meaning to start some kind of journal where I write to you about what’s going on but at the same time I’m trying to tidy our room (that is mine and Daddy’s) to make sure there is room for you too so going out and buying a new journal isn’t in the plan and I’d probably get distracted and write to do lists or shopping lists – as you grow up you’ll realise that I run on lists, Daddy doesn’t – well at least when it comes to food shopping he doesn’t!

18 Weeks Bump

Anyway so today you are 18 weeks in a bump. I snapped the above picture on Monday while I was out shopping with your Grandma (my mum). In three weeks ish we have our next scan so we get to see your photo again – have to make sure I get a copy for Grandma and Grandpa (my mum and Dad) and Grandma and Grandad (Daddy’s Mum and Dad). So these names could change, but I’m pretty sure that my Dad is going to be Grandpa – I think he suits it!!).

And….on Sunday you had like your third cinema trip, you me and JellySlug went to see Frozen. It does mean that I’ve been singing Disney songs on and off for the last three days. I’m hoping you love them as much as me otherwise there might be trouble!! (Just kidding!!)

I had the hiccups earlier and I’m sure it probably felt like an earthquake or something to you – I was asked if you’d had the hiccups but seeing as I’ve not probably felt you move yet it would be interesting to feel hiccups that weren’t mine for once! I think you had your first sort of fidget last night but I couldn’t tell if I was imagining it or if it was my intestines being funky instead of you. I’m sure give it a week or a few and you’ll be kicking me in the ribs and I will most certainly know that you are definitely there!

I’m writing this sat next to Daddy – he’s on a mission to write up some stuff for work. Our Sidekick thinks he has a cold so he packed himself off to bed pretty early. Connect Group looked after him while we were at church for the Parenting Course. I imagine that you’ll get to know Connect Group pretty well as you grow up.

Anyway what else can I tell you about this week. Supposedly it’s going to snow but I’m not sure when – I’m excited for the first time it snows after you’re born, I’m guessing if it’s around your first Christmas you might be a little young to understand it but I think by the following Christmas you’ll either be excited like me when it snows or you’ll dislike the cold like Our Sidekick. I guess we will see when it happens.

Anyway I am going back to crochet your blanket I’ve start square 3.

Good night and God Bless Little Blueberry.

January 26: FB – Friend or Foe?

As you all know because I keep posting about it I’ve been reading a book called #SpeakLove by Annie F. Downs. It’s really inspiring and often gets me thinking at really random times like 5:45 on New Year’s Eve morning or just now in the shower!

A friend of mine approached me about something that was written on FB. It doesn’t matter who was involved and what was said but it has had me thinking most of the week. The thing that was said I’m sure was meant in a completely innocent way but from an outsider looking in – it doesn’t look so innocent.

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I joined FB back in 2006 – this was one of my first statuses (as you can see it wasn’t particularly earth shattering!). I think it’s so easy to get a bit “social media happy” that we don’t think about what we’re writing or how it might come across to other people. I know when I was first on FB I did make some faux pas. I’d post something thinking it was vague enough that people wouldn’t know what was going on but actually it was really glaringly obvious in fact I had a similar hiccup about two or three months ago and so it’s still a learning curve for sure.

But people remember in a lot of cases not just your friends and family can see the posts. Especially when it’s so easy to take a screenshot and it be shared again and again. I know that the company I work for do have a Social Media policy in place with regards to commenting on the company FB page or if your friend is ranting about the company to possibly avoid the conversation rather than wade in, in case what you’re saying isn’t necessarily in line with policy and things like that, but what about it from the other angle. What if your future employer saw a status you wrote or pictures of you up to no good? Sometimes you can’t stop what is posted by your friends but you can do your part by filtering what you post.

I hope this make sense. What do you think? Is it easy to get “social media happy” and post without thinking? Is it easy to forget that there is an audience out there who are going to see your posts?

January 21: Baby J aka Blueberry: Weeks 7 to 12ish

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This was all written over the last 16ish weeks. Some bits are a little fuzzy but they are there. This post is from Week Seven to Twelve.

Week Seven
(November 15th)
This week started with my mad day at BBC Radio 2 for Children in Need. On Saturday, I really wanted to stay in bed, I was really shattered. I got out of bed and ran some errands. This meant that by lunchtime on Saturday I was really flagging again. I had to have a tough conversation with a friend of mine and so add that to the tiredness and I really want to snuggle at home. I got in from church on Sunday and had a look through the clothes, some are really tiny and I can’t believe they actually fit a baby – then again a newborn is that small!

I keep referring to baby as Blueberry as at 7 weeks a baby is about that size. I texted Chris whole standing on the platform at Bedford Station saying “Blueberry says it’s cold!” I think he thinks I’m officially nuts but I think it’s funny (especially when I say “Goodnight Blueberry” while rubbing my tummy!)

Week Eight
(November 22nd)
This week has been harder, one of my colleagues has had a stinker of a cold and so as much as I don’t want to get sick I don’t want to offend him by moving desk or something like that to avoid him lol. I popped to the supermarket and grabbed him some cold relief and OJ on my way to work – I figured it he was going to drag himself into work as we had some important stuff to get on with the least I could do was to help some how. Hopefully he will be better soon and all these extra hormones will help me not to get sick!

People joke about your sense of smell being super sensitive but I thought they were kidding! I opened the fridge door earlier and nearly fell over – I’m sure there’s nothing bad in there but it was just a shock! My back has been hurting a little bit when I sit in one position for too long and things like that. I stood on the bathroom scales on Wednesday so see how I was doing in relation to weigh in at Slimming World, it looks like I’ve lost more weight, it’s only 2lbs but it’s still going the wrong way lol. I know I shouldn’t put on too much before Week 12 (or at least try and stay as normal as possible) but am I okay still losing weight or should I being eating more or differently? My question is then can I weight until I see the midwife for my booking appointment in two weeks or should I ask Lorraine at SW before then………dilemmas!!

Having said all that I stood on the scales at Slimming World on Thursday and had maintained. It’s kind of funny when you say well at least if I maintain then that’s a good week. According to my phone I am going the wrong way! I could have expected to gain between 1 and 3 pounds by this point and I’m losing them instead.

Week Nine
(November 29th)
I’m so glad that my Mum is in the Inner Circle who know at this point. On Friday after work we went to a new store that opened over at Interchange but as I had a Next voucher I went to have a look what they had in at the moment – especially as I’m still looking for a Christmas jumper for the 13th December. While we were in there we had a look at the baby clothes – we were both going gooey over the cute little girl dresses. I made a joke to my Mum that a little boy wouldn’t necessarily look so good in a dress – either that or he might get a complex! Then it got me thinking – is it possible to subconsciously know if you’re having a girl or a boy?

Right now hormones can go kiss my butt! This weekend I’ve spent more time in tears then happy I think. I’ve shouted at Chris which wasn’t that friendly. On some occasions there was something genuinely wrong and I reacted badly rather than being human and lovely and friendly trying to discuss it and at other points he’d not actually done anything wrong and I just lost the plot. I did google it and apparently the hormone craziness does calm down following 10 Weeks at least for a little while, so I am pleased that I’m not going to be a horrible angry monster for too much longer – hopefully it does calm down other wise I might just lock myself in the bedroom for weekends and then go back to work Monday morning and do my best to be friendly lol.

On the other hand I wrote a list of who we needed to tell family wise and I’m off to research annoucement cards – they aren’t really a birth annoucement as we’d be doing that in July when baby actually arrives but is it normal to send out an annoucement card when it’s like a “We’re pregnant” kind of moment? Any suggestions – of course I can’t ask people without giving it away! ISSUES!

Week Ten
(December 6th)
In the end I decided we would do an Announcement, I took a look on Pinterest for ideas and went from there. I created just a word document with the text on it. Chris then put his graphic design skills to my idea and came up with a fab plan. Can’t wait to get it all printed and see it all done.

Week Eleven
(December 13th)
I spoke to my midwife but my booking appointment – there’s a whole separate story to that but it does mean I wasted holiday hanging around for an appointment that didn’t happen. Grr! On the other hand the kitchen and living room were super tidy!!

Week Twelve
(December 20th)
Because of a hiccup with the midwife we weren’t able to do my booking appointment until the morning of the scan. I’m guessing normally this is done separately but actually by having it before the scan they were able to do all the blood tests in one go rather than having to go for separate ones – and it meant I got someone on the antenatal team rather than going to haematology and having to wait in a production line queue. Last time I had a blood test at the hospital I ended up with a bruise on my arm about two inches long but when I give blood I have no problems and don’t bruise. Thankfully the girl on the blood tests was amazing, she apologised when she accidentally wiggled the needle by mistake but it didn’t do anything and I didn’t notice anything. Following the scan we went for some breakfast then I went to see my parents to show my mum the scan – as it happened both my dad and my brother had the day off work so they all came to see I was okay and take a look at the scan picture too!

At the scan, the midwife said that due to baby’s size I was actually ahead so instead of being 12 weeks on the dot I was 12+3 and baby’s due date had moved to the 1st July instead of the 4th.

On Sunday, we went over to Godmanchester to see Chris’s Parents and visit their church for the carol service. I told Chris that if it wasn’t proper carols I’d throw a strop. Thankfully it was carols but quite a few had adapted words! Following the service we headed back to Chris’s parents house and broke the news about them being grandparents. I think they were a bit shell shocked as their reaction was a little tame, but when we opened our Christmas presents I think the excitement had caught up. We had a baby toy and a book of “things to do before you start a family”. I was also given a ball of baby wool and a crochet pattern.

Week Thirteen
(December 25th)
Christmas is here!! We sent out the announcement cards and they were sent by second class mail so they should have arrived after Christmas so that everyone knew around the same time but the Grandparents knew first. Well Royal Mail for once ran ahead of schedule or something because three people outside the MK postcode area all got their cards on Christmas Eve morning. Oh dear. Plan didn’t work. At first it was okay it was one relative who’s not on FB and wouldn’t spill the beans to other people. But then other things popped up. I spoke to my Mum and she suggested dropping in the cards to the Grandparents so that they definitely knew before too many other people did. Our Sidekick came with me and we popped to Grandad S’s followed by Grandma and Grandad B. While at Grandma and Grandad’s house, Grandma mentioned that my Uncle was on his way for a visit. Well his card was still at home so I ended up sending Our Sidekick back into the house grabbing the card for my Uncle and his family then us jumping back in the car to deliver it! Talk about a saga lol.

On Christmas Day with the relatives who needed to know being informed we gave the Pastor at Church the nod to announce the news in church. Chris told him then as I walked through the door about five paces behind I was asked by the Pastor was it okay and had Chris made a decision without telling me — I said yes it was fine but he asked me like another three times just to confirm that it was genuinely okay.

During the service the associate pastor wandered round and asked people about their Christmas presents. He asked Princess Nat what she got for Christmas and then asked the Pastor’s daughter who was back from university. Then he came to ask me, it went something like this:

AP: so Hannah what did you get for Christmas?
Han: Erm, well I’ve only opened two presents so far, I was given wool by Lil Sis and her family.
Pastor: Sorry to interrupt but I think this is the right moment to say this……(announces to the church)

I swear in the time it took him to say his bit and take his seat again, our Second Mum had already got her phone out and had texted congratulations across church!! Following the service I had like twenty hugs and was all hugged out lol.

Following Christmas dinner we posted the scan picture and the announcement card on FB, let’s say my poor phone needed a stiff drink but the end of the afternoon lol.

January 20: Baby J aka Blueberry: Weeks 1 to 6ish

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Part of me wanted to share this when it actually happened but also it was too early to tell the world and important members of our family (and social workers when it came to how Our Sidekick would still fit into our “family”) meant that I couldn’t share it then. I decided that I’d write a post as we went through so that I had some idea of how I felt each week and things like that.

This was all written over the last 16ish weeks. Some bits are a little fuzzy but they are there. This post is from the start to about Week 6.

Today it’s the 31st October 2013, I’ve know for about a week that I’m actually pregnant looking back at various symptoms it’s possible that I knew I was pregnant and last Friday was the tick in the box. I told Chris when he got in from work but actually I’d desperately been watching Star Trek for about an hour trying not to give the game away – how are you supposed to cheer and get excited when that would involve telling Our Sidekick before Chris! Yeah not such a good idea so I had to keep it myself! I went to the doctor’s yesterday (30th) and got my green book, I was also weighed and the GP updated my Asthma bits so if I needed another prescription the review was done. The GP asked had I done any maths as I knew the answers to the questions almost straight away! (a friend of mine found out she was pregnant about 9 weeks ago so I’d gone through the logical questions with her over the phone so I had some idea what the doctor was going to ask!) I am due on the 4th July 2014, it’s very exciting and so incredibly scary – I’m going to responsible for another human life, and this time unlike Our Sidekick who can tell us what’s wrong, this little human isn’t going to be able to tell us to start with.

Part of me keeps wondering if I’m not and I imagined the positive result. The GP confirmed that you can get false negatives but you don’t get false positives. I’m sure once I actually see the baby on the scan around 12 weeks it will be real and I’ll genuinely know it’s not me imagining it!

I chatted to Lorraine (who runs the Slimming World group I attend) as well to make sure where Slimming World could fit in. Slimming World actually works with the RCM (Royal College of Midwifery) to make sure that they have a plan for pregnant ladies and new mums to support them. You are obviously encouraged not to crash diet or have massive weight changes while pregnant, but given the fact that I’ve lost over a stone since August I wanted to see if I could use it to keep an eye on how much I’d gained and things like that rather than just piling on lots and then trying to lose it all again this time next year. I would like to try and stick to the extra 200-300 calories that you need per day while pregnant but I don’t want to go over board and be like – “ah ha I’m eating for two lets eat loads!”

In fact I stood on the scales today at Slimming World and had actually lost half a pound. I need to chat to my midwife when I meet with her and figure out what I can and can’t do and things like that.

I was really excited on Friday and again on Saturday. Yesterday we told Our Sidekick, I was concerned that he’d think we were trying to replace him or something like that but when we told him, he was so excited about the tiny baby socks and tiny baby shoes. I think he decided that he was going to save his pocket money and get a pair of baby DC trainers when the time came! He’s such a sweetie and he’s so excited – I think both him and Chris will be more excited when there’s a scan picture or an actual bump (as opposed to my shrinking overweight tummy!)

We haven’t told my parents yet. I really want to tell my Mum sooner rather than later so that if anything does go wrong she knows why I’m upset and why she might have to come scrap me off the floor. Chris wanted to wait until 12 weeks and I totally understand why but I wanted to be able to talk to her about things (sometimes it just needs to be a girlie chat!!)

Week 5
So that was all written on the 31st October and now it’s the 5th November. So on Friday we told my parents and my brother that I was pregnant. I know it’s early but I wanted to tell my Mum so that if there were problems and I needed her I wouldn’t need to explain everything! She’s super excited and can’t wait to get out her knitting needles and get out her baby cardigans and jumper patterns and get knitting for me. Next to tell is the in-laws,

Week 6
I get that around 12 weeks when you start show you might need different clothes but I live in jeans. I’ve found that my jeans are getting more and more uncomfortable so have bought a new pair of jogging bottoms. Not because they are tight or anything like that just that they aren’t comfortable. Then again having worn them to the Fireworks Night I need to put them through the wash. Maybe a third pair is needed?

I have been under the weather this week. Between having an infection that needed medical treatment (just antibiotics nothing to worry about) and being seriously exhausted I’ve been glad for the weekend to roll around again. Then again this week has to ramp up to Children in Need on Friday!

I went to see the Midwife on Wednesday but it seems there were wires crossed. The information I’d been given by the doctor implied that I was supposed to get in touch straight away but the midwife was like you don’t need to really come until a few weeks time when we can actually listen to the heartbeat. She told me when my first scan would be and also called the hospital to make sure that the pregnancy was registered. 20th December, how’s that for a Christmas present!

January 19 – The Daily Post

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Who was the first person you encountered today? Write about him or her.

The first person I encountered was Chris of course!! He was his usual more awake self than me, he went to run a bath but when the hot water didn’t kick in he knew something was up.

He came back into the bedroom and got dressed so that he could try and figure out what was wrong. It would later turn out that the pump in the boiler had been leaking and had sort of worn itself out. Chris emptied the cupboard and explored to find out what was going on. He spent a chunk of time before church working out what the problem was and if it was something we could do ourselves or if we needed a plumber. In the end we needed to call a plumber. I love his make do and mend attitude. Some times it bugs me but sometimes like today it was a good thing.

January 14 – Outgoing Mail

With the new holiday year and the new rota starting at work I ended up with a four day weekend. This did mean that apart from Sunday and yesterday I spent most of the mornings in bed – I figured that while I had the chance I’d relax and chill and enjoy the lazy days where possible.

This morning I sat in bed and watched TV on my iPad while working some more on the Tetris blanket and also decided then I’d get ahead on my letter writing. I had four letters to go out in the end today.

#outgoingmail (letter 1) and #thebletchleycircle.

This one was for my newest penpal. Her name is Maria and she lives here in the UK. I was watching The Bletchley Circle in the background having finished the last episode of Agatha Christie’s Poirot. (I know it was actually written that way but the end just seemed slightly implausible – but I won’t post spoilers in case you’ve not seen it).

#outgoingmail (letter 2) #snailmail #letters #penpal

One for Becca. She’s so lovely. I think she’s been having a bit of a tough time recently but hopefully this would bring in a bit of sunshine.

#outgoingmail (letter 3) this time going to the USA. #snailmail #penpal

To Lily in Missouri, USA!

And another. Had written this one but it got tidied away by the boys!! #penpal #letters #snailmail

To Lexi up in Merseyside.

January 11 – Ouch Sore Lips

Sick

Being sick over Christmas sucks and I should know that from the time I had a fluey cold thing on Christmas Day when I was in my teens – I think I pretty much opened my presents and went back to sleep till lunchtime, didn’t eat anything and then watched TV from the sofa while wrapped in my duvet – or something like that.

The photo above was taken when I was sick a few years ago – it has a green wall which means it’s our current house but it’s the green sofa which means it was before Our Sidekick came to live with us. We now have a dark blue Ikea special lol.

Anyway, this year it crept up on me – I’d been well over Christmas (Well apart from the usual Baby Growing Exhaustion which is a regular feeling at the moment!) and then on the weekend between Christmas and New Year I just got this cold. Our Sidekick had been coughing and we dealt with that but then I went down with it.

I dragged myself into work on the 30th but after like two hours I was ready to come home – our office is always too hot or too cold so that plus feeling rubbish just made me want to curl up and sleep. I stayed home New Year’s Eve too – I even missed a NYE party in favour of staying in bed and watching TV on my iPad.

Having slept on and off all day I felt much better and was up to going to see Chris’s Auntie which I blogged about on the way back in the evening.

But why am I writing about it – well I have found that between all the coughing, sneezing and nose blowing I’ve ended up with super dry sore chapped lips. I’ve been trying various lip balms but they make my lips feel really greasy – currently back on the Carmex to see if that makes any difference. Does anyone else have any tips?

January 1 – Road Trip (of sorts)

Each Christmas we end up doing various catch ups, spend some time with my parents, see Chris’s Parents and see my Grandparents. As well as these we go to visit Chris’s Auntie and her housemate/lodger (she’s like a second auntie in a way as she’s always been in Chris’s life).

Last year Second Auntie wasn’t very well and plans had to be rescheduled and in the end cancelled. Because of one thing and another it met that the next time we got to see them was now which means that we haven’t seen them for two years.

Chris’s Auntie lives in Suffolk so its a bit of a road trip from Bedford. Because Chris wanted to get up and go to be at their house for 11 I spent most of the car journey crocheting and just chilling rather than snapping random photos. It’s actually good I wasn’t driving as quite a few of my landmarks have changed. At the roundabout at Caxton Gibbet the old Chinese Restaurant has been knocked down and replaced with two fast food chains and a coffee shop and when you get almost to the village before the one Chris’s auntie lives in there have been a whole chunk of new ish houses built. I guess if all else had failed I’d have stuck on the splat nav and got on with it.

We arrived around 11ish after a flying trip to the supermarket on the way there. We all got settled and caught up with what was going on. We exchanged Christmas presents. I was given a Christmas mug by Chris’s Auntie and between Chris and I, we were given a wooden solitaire puzzle from Second Auntie.

We had a lovely roast dinner for lunch. I tried Chestnut stuffing and a Parsley and Sage stuffing. Personally I’d prefer sausagemeat or Sage and Onion but I didn’t mind trying it. Chris’s auntie is a lovely good and when she does a roast you know you won’t be going hungry.

Chris’s Auntie had made a butternut squash sponge for pudding – I know it sounds random but it was really nice. It was orange which was quite funny. Apparently she’d stumbled on it by accident when trying to find a way to use up a butternut squash.

After lunch we played various board games, Chris won when we played The Logo Board game, we then played another one called Fun in a Box or something like that but it didn’t entirely make sense how to play and for what it was seemed really complicated.

I’m now writing this in the car on the way home. In one of the villages there is a railway crossing and just before the crossing there is an old style telephone box but instead of just normal clear glass there is stained glass in each window. Really I should have jumped out and taken a picture on the way as it was too dark on the way back.

Wish I'd taken a picture in daylight this doesn't do it justice at all but irs still an amazing #telephonebox #redtelephonebox

I love the idea of having a red telephone box in the garden but I imagine they are getting rarer and rarer. While I’m sat in the car I’m going to plot and plan and hopefully post a bit more this month than I did last month!

At least now I can talk about being a mum!

2013: A Sort of Round Up

January
January kicked off with a Burns Night hosted by The Murf. He even Blessed The Haggis – and I tried not to laugh! I’d been volunteered to sing or read a poem. Well I tried to learn the tune for My Luv is Like A Red Red Rose” well I had just about learnt it but decided that I’d just read it as a poem in the end. There had been encouragement to wear something tartan themed but the only thing I had was my tartan pajamas. Thankfully The Murf came to my rescue and I had some ribbon to tie in my hair.

#tartan bow for #burnsnight at #connectgroup. Well it was this or my tartan pyjamas!

I went to the first Stitch ‘n’ Bitch of year and decided that I was going to join the WI. Also led games at JD’s Youth Group.

I read The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin. And went on a bit of a mission as far as tidying my side of the bedroom. I think I might need to reread it again in 2014.

The Happiness Project

February
I went to my first proper WI meeting and got to meet Mario from Someone Once Told Me. I had my picture taken and I did appear on his website one day.

I finished my first baby blanket. It was sent to my friend but I feared that it hadn’t arrived. Thank you Royal Mail.

On the blog: #photos of the finished #babyblanket. Lots of #crochet, #wool and #love.

March
Went to the first Monster Yarns Knitting Group and met the very lovely Judit.

Finished up at my old job and started looking for something new. In one of those crazy God knows the plan before you do moments, I finished the Thursday before Easter and by the following weekend I had a temp part time job working with one of my Mum’s friends. It was working in the kitchen at an oldies home in Bedford. Most of the care assistants were lovely and really helpful – a couple were grumpy but I think they warmed up to us in the end!

Attended the Free Hugs Flash Mob in Bedford town centre but between looking after Our Sidekick while Chris was at work I could literally only be there for like twenty minutes then had to go again.

April
Kept applying for other jobs and had a couple of interviews. Signed up with some temping agencies too. Worked over at the golf course at Woburn serving at some of their evening dos (so old people at lunch, jump in the car and serve golfers in the evening). Took a little while to come back to me but thankfully working as a waitress in my teens clearly helped me along the way.

Being able to cook a half decent sponge came into great help some days. Especially when I made chocolate sponge and got lots of positive comments.

I made #chocolate sponge today at work. Surprised it came out as well as it did. Not everything ran as smooth today.


We went up to Nottinghamshire for Kewey’s wedding. She’d made these gorgeous crocheted hearts to decorate the favours.

#wedding #favours.

My Friend’s band Verra Cruz and a couple of others (Frühstück and Through Dying Eyes) played at Esquires the night before my birthday. I went to the gig then while cleared up from a group using The Fountain, I curled up on the sofa and recovered.

Post gig lock in. Well kinda. The boys are tidying up and I'm "supervising" #thefountain

May
The month started with Our Sidekick’s birthday and a trip to town for Free Comic Book Day. I reduced my hours at the oldies home and started my new job. By the end of the first training day part of me didn’t want to go back but that little voice in my head that repeats what my Mum would say in those moments was on one about doing the first week and see what’s it’s like, don’t give up on the first day. Second day was still classroom based and we were talked at but by the third and fourth day we were off doing stuff and by the following week I was proving to my team manager what I could do with a spreadsheet given half the chance.

Playing with #rhonnadesigns app as it's free in the AppStore today.

There were various comments about not volunteering for extra bits but I am most definitely a firm believer of offering to do those extra bits because then when you need help – maybe you need to leave a few minutes early because of an emergency or you need to be a bit flexible with your shifts one day. If you are willing to go the extra mile for your team or to help the management aren’t they little bit more likely to try and help you out.

June
Unfortunately I didn’t make it down in person until later in the day but BedYarn took place along the embankment and there was all sorts of yarn bombed loveliness going on. My favourites were all these pom poms hanging from one of the trees.

BedYarn 2013

At the end of June there was a sponsored bounce to raise money for a Cystic Fibrosis charity. One of the lovely ladies made the cake below. I went on the trampoline and got a bit of coaching from one of the guys from Bedford Flyers. Apparently for the last 14 years since I first got on no proper trampoline I’ve always been doing seat drops wrong! Our Sidekick got some proper coaching while we were there too. The guy was able to teach him how to do proper somersaults and do them safely.

Photos
July
When my mum was pregnant with me, her and my Aunt (who was pregnant with my cousin at the time) went to see Cats. The touring version was on in MK so my mum and I went on an adventure to see it.

August
In one of Chris’s days off we went to Anglesey Abbey, there’s quite a lot of woodland and gardens there so we got to run around like mad people for a bit. I’d taken both my phone and the DSLR, so I gave Our Sidekick my phone and he went a bit snap happy and took loads of pictures for me.

#oursidekick snapped this picture of @thecgbj and me messing around.

The following day while at church my friend’s little girl snuggled up on my knee in church and fell asleep.

My friend's little girl fell asleep on my knee....so cute

I decided that it was about time that I did something about my weight so at the beginning of August I went and signed up with Slimming World, I figured if I had outside accountability I couldn’t get away with just eating junk.

Later in the month We went to Blackpool and the surrounding area for the week. I once again proved why I don’t like rollercoasters. I guarded the bags and read instead that day. We went to Liverpool too and went to The Beatles Story which was fascinating except I think the boys were fed up with me singing along. Then again I still agree with John Hannah in Sliding Doors….

“Everybody’s born knowing all the Beatles lyrics instinctively. They’re passed into the fetus subconsciously along with all the amniotic stuff. Fact, they should be called “The Fetals”.”

#blackpooltower
September
At some point around here our contracts got extended at work which meant we could breathe a sigh of relief or at least a little sigh lol.

Having lived and breathed it Cat and I finished the majority of the big Macmillan Blanket we were making and showed it off at the Coffee Morning up in Ravensden. I think swore off doing crochet for a week or so while my sanity returned lol. Cat did find it comical that I walked all the ya from the post office in Renhold to rhe Village Hall in Ravensden.

Man! That's nuts! And we're no where near finished! #macmillan #blanket
October
Towards done beginning of October I was able to go to the Knitting and Stitching Show at Ally Pally, I went with Ellie and Angie which was sensibly good fun!

How about these for knitting? They are like over a metre long!! @monsteryarns
We found out that our little crazy clan (not family – long story!) would be gaining a new member next summer.

November
We went to the Fireworks display at Kimbolton School with Bex and her little boy. We all had a really good time.

#kspafireworks #fireworks
We told my parents that they would be grandparents. We told them before other family members as had anything gone wrong, they’d have been on Emergency Sidekick duty.

December
We got to meet the latest member of the family. We also said goodbye to Samuel The Guinea Pig when he passed away, we said a so long see you soon to Owen the Guinea Pig who had gone to live with my in laws and their guinea pigs – apparently guinea pigs don’t do so well when they are on their own. It means our kitchen is quiet now.

#christmas!!!!
A couple of days after Christmas I collected my stone and a half award from Slimming World just in time to put some of it back on again to be pregnant lol.

In other news we celebrated our third Christmas together and told the other members of the family about our latest member. Which actually coincided with the 12 week scan.

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New Years Eve – 5am ish

It’s unusual that people see this early on NYE. Normally they are expecting to stay up late and see the following morning in. Well why am I up, well a combination of things, it’s either the cold making me breathe funny, the headache that either comes from those cells dilating or so I’m told or from blowing my nose too much or it’s just the 14 week old baby doing Riverdance either on my bladder or just fidgeting. I haven’t figured out yes, when I know I might post about it, but it means that at 5am I am awake. I was hoping that I would to back to work today but I could find that by 8am and my shift starting that I feel like curling up for a nap anyway. I woke up the same time yesterday morning but just got up went to the loo and then came back to sleep. Having said that there are a few bloggers I know of out there who get up around 4:30/5ish and start their day as a fully functioning human. Clearly it helps if you’re used to it!

I’ve just realised that I haven’t formally introduced you to my baby, then again for now s/he is just a black and white grainy scan image nicknamed either Pickle or Blueberry. I’ve abducted Chris’s iPad as it was on charge downstairs when I decided that staying in bed tossing and turning was just going to wake Chris up. I’ve been reading Speak Love by Annie F. Downs. In there she talks about Moses and the burning bush experience. Well like a lot of kids who grew up in Sunday School I’ve heard the story over and over but it’s only now that I broke it down and probably read it at as a grown up with Annie’s observations did I realise a few things, like the fire thing God says is Moses name, well how much better do we feel when someone remembers our name or calls up by name rather than Darling or Sweetheart.

Speak Love by Annie F. Downs
The second thing is for his safety in a way and because God cares for him and doesn’t want to see him harmed – after all yes there’s a burning bush that isn’t burning up but is still blazing hot and will hurt him if he sticks his hand in the flames.

Then he introduced himself – as if Moses didn’t know but it’s like when someone comes up to me and says “ah you’re Hannah, Albert’s granddaughter” it sort of puts it at ease that it’s not some complete weirdy bob that knows my name. God then tells Moses. “I’m the God of your father and his father and his father too” it’s like I know your whole family and it’s nice to meet you.

How much more loved to we feel when we’re introduced by our name and then our relationship so, this is Hannah my wife or Chris my husband rather than my husband Chris – it’s sometimes as if the fact Chris is my husband over takes the fact that he is Chris to start with. Okay so this doesn’t quite work as give it a little while and I’ll just be baby’s mum before I’m Hannah but it’s okay, God still knows me as Hannah and then Chris’s wife, Our Sidekick’s Foster Mum and Pickle’s Mum. He’s got my name written on his hand and if you asked him he could find it and point it out without even wondering where it was hiding.

These are probably just rambling a of a tired pregnant lady but hopefully they make sense.

Let’s attempt for a few more hours sleep. Night night.

December where did you go?

#christmas!!!!

Hi there. 3 posts later and December is almost done.

It’s the 30th and I’ve spend most of the day in bed. I did get up and go to the supermarket on my way to work in the hope that Orange Juice and snacking on satsuma or five would help me feel better. However by about 9:40 I was feeling rubbish and decided that hope and bed was going to do me better (this is why I’m blogging from my phone while my iPad plays You’ve Got Mail wrapped up in my fleecy pjams and duvet).

So where did December go? Well Christmas usually starts around the 15th with the Carol Service at my parent’s church and the Nativity at church. Well this year I wasn’t involved in the Nativity which was one less thing to fit in. Then again this year we were invited and were able to go to the Christmas Dinner at my parent’s church which was at the beginning of December so Christmas started earlier.

Every year I try to be a bit more organised than the previous year, I was doing better this year until various things stepped out of line and I ended up at Interchange on the 20th trying to get one last present. Having said that I did get one present today but then the person I was giving it to has been out of the country and then catching up with family and sleep since touching down in the UK lol.

So January will soon be upon us and 2014 is full of a crazy amount of adventure for us….but more to come in another post. I’ll be back soon.

December 28 – What Am I Doing??

Tetris Blanket

I don’t know the actual source of this picture so I can’t tag it and give if the reference and all that sort of thing but having just googled Tetris Blankets there are like thousands of different incarnations out there so I can’t even find it that way. I had another look using the actual google search and managed to find it from a store on Etsy. If I make another I might play with the layout and come out with a different pattern. Mine is different in the pattern for each square and the way they are connected together.

Anyway, so having seen the picture above this was the patttern that I’ve drawn out for the blanket which I’m making for Chris. I imagine that if I can make like 3 squares a day then it should take about a month and a half maybe two months. I guess we will see – check Instagram for updates me thinks…….@girltaristhan

Creating some form of plan. Why is it I always get an idea for another project when I've just cast one on!!

Monday, why did you misbehave?

Two years ish ago, Our Sidekick and us adopted two Guinea pigs called Samuel and Owen. They were sort of rescued when a friend of ours could no longer look after them.

I am the Guardian of The Guinea Pigs while #oursidekick and @cgbj clean out the piggies cage.

I think they’ve been a bit spoilt over the time that they have been with us but we are sensible and try not to over spoil them lol.

Samuel and Owen were my first pets, both Chris and Our Sidekick had had pets in the past. As my friend Lily put it on FB earlier, “they worm their way into your heart and sometimes you don’t realise just how much until they are sick.” She is so right, Chris has texted me this morning and said that he was out of sorts but really out of sorts. I often to pop home at lunchtime and I’ll tell you something half an hour lunch break was not long enough. I went straight in to see Samuel and he was snuggled in the corner of the cage. I went out into the garden and got him some grass, normally him and Owen go nuts and squeak as long as they possibly can, but he barely reacted, even when I put it in front of his nose he was like “meh!”. I nipped to get a different jumper to wear this afternoon at work (too hot for my chunky jumper too cold to go without!) and when I came back into the kitchen he’d wiggled himself under the wooden box we have in the cage. Rather than lying on all fours paying attention to everything he was lying on his side with his front legs out all funny. He moved a little but he seemed wobbly on his feet – best way I could describe it to Chris was he looked wobbly like I do when I have a headache (you know the pounding ones that make you feel like your head might explode if you move too quick). I picked him up and gave him a stroke, usually he’d fight me a bit and get worked up about being held but he barely reacted, he stayed put then I think he’d had enough and did fidget, I put him back in the cage and had to go back to work, but I really wasn’t all there – I’m surprised I really got anything done.

I called Chris to explain what had happened and grabbed some lunch, I got back to my desk dead on 1pm and dropped my manager am email because although I was convinced it was dead on 1pm if it wasn’t I wanted him to know why.

Kamikaze guinea pigs #guardianofgps

Roll forward to 5pm and I was due to be doing an hours overtime, I popped to the loo at like 10 to 5 ready to focus on my overtime slot and I got a missed call from Chris, he said, Our Sidekick needs you like right away, and I asked right away like I need to go home or right away like I need to call him. Chris said “he’s witnessed a car accident outside the house and the guinea pig has passed away”. As you can imagine I was like stuff the overtime I got to be home like NOW! I went and grabbed the manager who was on duty and tried to spit out that I couldn’t stay as he’d witnessed this accident and I had to go now rather than wait for 5pm to arrive (it was like 3 minutes but I had to go). He was like “Yes of course go”. I signed out my computer and tried to spit out to my desk neighbour that I was going and why I was going. He was also lovely and said not to worry he’d make sure my computer was shut down properly and things like that.

As I charged for the car I called home to tell Our Sidekick that I’d be home soon, I’d try and get as close as I could to the house depending on the accident and I’d run the rest of the way if needed. The ambulance had already gone so by the time I got home I managed to get through with no problems. I walked through the front door and Our Sidekick gave me a hug before I even managed to get my coat off. He had had a little cry before I got there but he said he was okay and didn’t need another one quite yet. He’d been really grown up and got Samuel the Guinea pig out of the cage and into a separate box. I asked him to get me a shoebox and I sorted that out. I spent lots of time reading about what to feed them and how to take care off them but when it comes to burial of guinea pigs I don’t really know how to do it, a shoe box and newspaper seemed like a good place to start. As I write this he’s sat in the shoe box next to the back door ready to go out in the garden. I think he needs to be buried near the grass as he loved munching grass especially out in the Sunshine during the summer. I wish I had a pebble or a big enough rock to paint his name on. I can always sort that another day.

Stunt guinea pigs now lol.

We watched half an hour of TV while drinking sugary tea for the shock and then I despatched Our Sidekick off to do his homework (yeah so mean!). We watched the next episode of Charley Boorman’s US Adventure – I missed the bit that I actually wanted to see as I went to feed Owen the Guinea Pig some carrot – as I said to Chris in some situations only chocolate will do and given that guinea pigs can’t eat chocolate extra grass and veggies is a good replacement for guinea pigs.

December 2 – This Weekend I…


Joining with Sar from [Life of Love]
and Syndal from Synfully Delicious.
 

This Weekend I… went over to Interchange with my Mum. The Range opened a new store in Bedford so we went for an explore after some of our friends have been talking about it. It was fairly busy but not jammed like Chris said it would be! I had a good time and it was lovely to catch up with my Mum, we pottered round Argos and Next. Did a favour for one of her friend’s while we were over there too. We got tea and headed home again. I got some felt for a Christmas project, some writing paper, another Christmas present and new pillows – my big chunky one I purchased during the summer or possibly even spring seems to have vanished!

This Weekend I… got up and went to the supermarket to get the bits I needed for the dinner party I was hosting on Saturday Evening. By the time I’d finished shopping two people had dropped out 🙁 . While I was in the supermarket I bumped into my Mum who was shopping with my brother before it got to busy. While I was looking at the cheese, my trolley got moved from beside me, when I looked up it was my brother dragging it away from me. It was kind of funny but he nearly got an earful! I told Chris when I got home that someone had tried to steal my trolley in the supermarket, he looked horrified then I told him it was my brother and he started laughing.

This Weekend I… spent some time just chilling out and surfing the internet – I am pretty sure that I could have spent the time better but actually in the crazy that was going to happen I decided to chill for a bit. I tidied the kitchen a bit around the surfing and also had some lunch.

This Weekend I… popped round to see Judit who helped me cast off my loom knitting project, I had made it as a Christmas present for one person but I’ve had a reshuffle but think I’m still going to use it for a Christmas present. It would seem the casting off is all about the crochet – which is really funny given that it’s loom knitting!

This Weekend I… got home and followed the instructions to make a low syn version of Lasagne. It’s not the same but it’s a close alternative that’s for sure! You can find it here.

This Weekend I…  hosted a dinner party of sorts. My two guests arrived and dinner was almost ready as they walked through the door so the guests sat in the living room for about 10 minutes while I finished getting ready then we all sat down to eat. Dinner was lasagne with side salad. Pudding was fruit salad and ice cream. Following dinner we sat in the living room and chatted then shortly after 9 we put the TV on to watch The Bible series that started on Channel 5 this weekend. (What was with the ninja angels? And what happened to Joseph?)

This Weekend I… and Chris (yes bad English I know!) ended up watching more Elementary – we ended up a couple of episodes behind what was showing on TV so we’re now catching up. We’re now up to Episode 5. Episode 6 here we come! I carried on reading Summer Falls by Amelia Williams. It’s a tie in to the Doctor Who episode that it appears – it was a really easy read and I was definitely too old for it!

This Weekend I… sat at church working on a crochet blanket while I listened to the band rehearse and Chris opened the building ready for the service. During the preach I decided I really needed a drink and couldn’t wait for the end of the service. I snuck out and went into the kitchen – normally by that point on a Sunday there are mugs out on the side and a jug of squash ready for the kids. But actually there wasn’t anything ready, I’d just seen The Murf who would probably have some idea about whether refreshements was cancelled after the service. I managed to find him and we found out that the Connect Group who were supposed to be doing refreshments had forgotten they were on duty. As I know how to drive the coffee machine, K and me got on the case and got the refreshments ready just in time for the end of the service. I stayed around to help serve the refreshments and once we were down to cleaning up I went to find Chris as we had other bits to be getting on with.

This Weekend We… were invited for dinner at our friend’s house we had chicken and noodle soup and ended up talking lots of cheese! Mainly me talking about my love for Bavarian or Hungarian smoked cheese. It’s my favourite!

This Weekend I… got in from church and flopped in a heap on the sofa. I had originally grabbed the purple blanket that lives on the back of one of the chairs, but as I curled up on the sofa, Our Sidekick walked over to me and took the blanket off me, then put his duvet over me – I think he’d been cold and so had brought it down from his bedroom, he’d then seen that I wasn’t 100% so gave it up for me! he’s such a sweetie! He’s going to make a good husband to a lovely girl one day. I watched Strictly Come Dancing (predicted who was going home and I was correct!) then watched A Christmas Wish. The happy ending made me son, Chris tapped me on the shoulder and asked me if I was okay because my breathing had gone all funny.

This Weekend We… watched another episode of Elementary. I finished reading Summer Falls and started Cranky, Beautiful Faith by Nadia Bolz-Weber. This lady is amazing, she’s a recovering alcoholic, put herself through seminary and then trained to be a Lutheran Pastor, on one fore arm she has a tattoo of Mary Magdalene and tattoos on the other arm too. I think if you saw a picture of her and didn’t know who she was, Pastor would be one of the last guesses when it came to her occupation.

NaBloPoMo: November 27 – the pre-30 bucket list

the pre-30 list

So it’s about seven months since I wrote my list. There’s a heap of changes and also some to cross off as completed.

  1. One thing that scares me
  2. I did this. It scared the pants off me! It’s well known in my circle of friends and family that Chris loves roller coasters. I can’t put my finger on it but I don’t like them. I don’t understand why but I just don’t like them. I went on Nemesis when I was 16 and was fine but what’s changed now that I’m 27? Because I can’t put my finger on what I don’t like about them I decided this was my thing that scared me, so while we were on holiday I went on the Grand National roller coaster at The Blackpool Pleasure Beach. That was definitely more of a day for the boys so I’m glad that I went armed with my iPad to be able to read while they were on the rides that I didn’t want to go on. I told the boys that really one of them needed to sit with me and hold my hand. I think they thought I was joking because they both sat in the carriage in front of me.

    At one point Ryan turned round, looked at me (tear streaming down my face and I’m screaming out of fear rather than usual roller coaster screaming) he turns to Chris and shouts at him that I’m not okay. Chris then briefly looks over his shoulder and realises that maybe it wasn’t such a good idea me going on it. Well we got off the ride and I found the nearest free bench, carried on crying then pulled myself together. If anyone has any idea why it makes me feel like this please explain. The idea of going on the vomit comet really excites me but roller coasters terrify me! It’s probably a good job that I pulled out of the annual Alton Towers trip.

    Having said this all we went on the ride at the end of the Blackpool Dungeon tour, it’s one of these rides where you get pulled up and then dropped. The idea being it goes with the story, there’s a video clip that plays up on the screen then the guy on the video says something about commending spirits into God’s hands and then the ride drops. Well this was okay – I could tell by the pause in the clip what was happening and what was going to happen next. The funniest thing was that Chris left his jumper behind by mistake and one of the actors put it on and came out into the shop pretending to be a model!

  3. One thing that I’ve always wanted to do
  4. Dance at the Tower Ballroom. Okay so it was never going to be doing proper ballroom or something like that but it kind of happened by accident. During the Summer there are children’s/family parties in Ballroom during the evening. Chris thought it might be an idea for us to go to one and see of it was any good. As part of it they had a kids dance competition. On this particular occasion they were doing the Cha Cha Slide and had got the parents to go up onto the dance floor area. Well Our Sidekick was dying of embarrassment but Chris came up with me. Okay so it was the Cha Cha Slide but it still counts right – I can still say that I danced at The Tower Ballroom, can’t I?

  5. Get a new job……or vocation
  6. At the end of May, I landed a temp job working at a company who have an office based just round the corner from me. There have been some rough patches along the way but I am really enjoying it and really like the people. My manager is a lovely guy and I am blessed to have a group of 3 friends who I’d call my Work Best Friends, I know when they ask me in the morning how I am it’s not out of some kind of politeness but actually because they want to know how I am doing. I also get to work on spreadsheets nearly all the day which is completely up my street and has meant that I’ve been helping lots of my colleagues when they have questions or need help.

  7. Get BMI to “normal” bracket
  8. At present this is still a work in progress. I’m back in the overweight category rather than obese which is really good. I’ve lost almost a stone and a half since starting Slimming World at the beginning of August. Lorraine who runs the Castle Road group here in Bedford is so lovely and friendly. She’s really approachable so if you do have questions or you just need someone to help you along the way she’s lovely and caring. If you know you’re going to have a rough week she’ll make a little mental note and try to remember to give you a call or just a text in the week to see if you’re okay. I still have something like a stone and a half-ish to go to my goal and I’m not sure the path is exactly going to be smooth but Chris is on my side, Our Sidekick has been such a gem and will often walk with me to the supermarket rather than jump in the car (it’s a little harder now it’s dark in the evenings but we’re still working on it!).

NaBloPoMo: November 26

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I’m sorry there is a little bit of strong language in the video but it makes sense in a sec……

As it would happen, I know how Margaret feels, even now I get asked “When are you going to get a job that relates to your degree?”, I’m 27 and been graduated university almost 7 years. Unfortunately paying the bills and support my family where needed comes first. I have been married for almost 7 years and have been a foster parent to a teenage boy for two of those. That isn’t necessary a recipe to try chasing my dream job right now…..

Anyway so I wrote this long reply to Margaret……

Hi Margaret

I’m 27….

At 21 I graduated university. That was in the May. I has a temp job until August, I was then unemployed until the November. I was in my job for four months then was “encouraged” to leave – I think I didn’t fit what they wanted. My next job I stayed in for five years, I did like it but towards the end I hated it, I hated getting up each morning and going to a job that I hated – it sucked!

I worked in an old folks home for about three months – well that was part time during the week and then Saturdays when I started my current temp job. Admittedly this new temp job I really enjoy and really hope that I get made permanent.

I’m 27 I still don’t have it figured out. If it pays the bills (and is legal lol) then that’s better than nothing. So working in my temp job isn’t my dream job but I spend everyday working on spreadsheets and for some strange reason that floats my boat and for now that is good for me. I have three friends at work who when they ask me how I am in the morning it’s because they genuinely want to know and I know that when I do have a bad day and I get hugs because I’m sad it’s because they want to see that I’m okay.

I have a degree in Performing Arts and the closest I get to using it is writing scripts for the church nativity or serenading my colleagues when it’s too quiet. So I don’t have it together and I don’t have my dream job – heck I may never have my dream job but I would say that I’m happy.

If sweeping the floor of the candy store is what you need to do right now to pay the bills or because you enjoy it then do it. So it’s not someone else’s plan but it’s also not their life, it’s yours, you shouldn’t have to apologise for that, at all! Does it make you happy? Does it bridge a gap to the next thing (what ever that maybe?)

Don’t worry lovely. You’ve got time to figure it out – whatever it is for you!

My friend from school is also 27, she’s actually a month older than me. I did the family thing, I got married, I have a foster son. She did the career thing, she’s current in NY doing a Post-Doctorate course and as far as I can tell she is loving NY and all the new experiences she is having – I can’t see me being able to do a Post Doctorate somewhere else in the world, can you? You do what’s right for you.

As the saying goes, it’ll be alright in the end and if it’s not alright then it is not the end.

Having wrote this I thought a bit more about it, while listening to Christmas songs! Would I rather be in a job that paid loads of money but I hated it or a job that paid above minimum wage but I loved it……? Which would be better……

NaBloPoMo: November 25


Joining with Sar from [Life of Love]
and Syndal from Synfully Delicious
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NaBloPoMo 2013

This Weekend I… started Saturday really lazy again – work has been crazy on top of still getting over the rough patch I’ve had!

This Weekend I… had to help my SIL with her car insurance – it’s complicated enough when it’s your own insurance let alone when you’re doing it for someone else! In the end Chris had to take over as I had to be elsewhere.

This Weekend I… helped at church as we had a “Unwanted for Wanted” sale. The idea was that people donated those awkward presents that they’ve been given but they don’t like. They had to be near enough brand new and unused. I ended up spending most of the afternoon with my Mum which was good. I have seen her but we’ve always been going somewhere else or being somewhere for a particular event. When it was a bit quieter we managed to cram in a proper girlie chat which was good.

This Weekend I… following the event at church we headed home. I sat on the stairs and knitted as there wasn’t really any point getting comfortable as we were going out again. Chris dropped Our Sidekick and I off at my parents. We were invading to have chinese for tea and watch Doctor Who. Chris was a little annoyed that we were watching it without him but I had texted him earlier saying “I promise no spoilers (sweetie) and I will watch it with you.” (Oh no! I just realised for all this time I might have been misquoting it! It’s Hello Sweetie or Spoilers! Well according to Wikiquote anyway).

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This Weekend I… following hanging out with my parents, we came home, while Chris started the episode of Doctor Who I jumped in the shower and then came back for the remainder of the episode – it was easier than trying to not release spoilers for the whole thing lol.

This Weekend I… should have been at church on Sunday morning but for one or another reason we didn’t make it. It was nice to spend time together but it was a bit tense for a little while. We went out for lunch then walked home via the supermarket as we needed to pop to the supermarket. I then spent most of the afternoon working my way through a pile of craft magazines that my Mum had given me.

This Weekend I… having found a plan in a magazine of how to make your own envelopes I make like 10 envelopes out of magazine pages – however the instructions weren’t that clear so I kept playing with the pattern – it said about drawing three rectangles – but if you have three rectangles then it overlaps and doesn’t fold properly. Talk about complicated! I found places where you could buy a template but that didn’t help me really.

Template for making envelopes

NaBloPoMo: November 15

NaBloPoMo 2013

Today it’s Friday and it’s a bit of a crazy day. By the time I got in from WI last night via the supermarket and then had some food it was heading towards 11pm. I then woke up around 2:30am in a panic thinking that I had missed my alarm and the lift from my Mum. When I woke up and it was still dark I checked my phone and realised that I was okay and I wasn’t late!

I fell asleep again pretty quickly and then woke up with my alarm at 6:45am. I was still shattered but I’m kind of getting used to the feeling at the moment – hopefully I will either get used to it or get over it lol.

I got to the train station and thought my train left at 7:58 but that was actually a First Capital Connect service so I had a look for the closest East Midlands service as they only have one or two stops around Luton and then straight through to London St. Pancras. I got on what should have been the 7:55 service but it was running late – it was expected at 8:02 at one point but then caught up time and pulled in dead on 8am.

I got into London about 8:40 and was having a panic as I needed to be at the new BBC Broadcasting House around 9ish – we had to be there at 9:30 to start our duty at 10am. It was lovely to see everyone again, got so many hugs from the ladies and gents who help out. It’s like seeing old friends – some of us only chat on Facebook and see each other in person for this event.

This morning seemed to go really quickly even though at some points it was really quiet on the phones. This year we were in New Broadcasting House rather than being in Western House round the corner where we’ve been in past years. Radio 2 itself is in Western house whereas Radio 1 is in New Broadcasting house so we actually had visitors from there as well. I got to meet Scott Mills, Ken Bruce, Lynn Bowles, Jeremy Vine and Chris Evans. Some of them I have met in the past and some were new meetings. Then again I’m sure they meet so many people that I was a just a blur in the crowd lol. It was nice to meet Scott Mills, he shook my hand and made time to have a proper chat (then again some of the ladies I was sat with didn’t know who he was until I told them – well he plays for the wrong team when it comes to our love for radio stations!). Sara Cox was also lovely. One of the ladies will us had a knitted or crocheted flower brooch above her name badge and Sara commented how lovely it was.

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These are just some of the pictures I snapped. As I walked through St Pancras in the morning I spotted all these “themed” Pudsey bears. I didn’t have time to snap a picture in the morning but on the way back through I managed to snap some pictures.

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I love the Coldplay one and the Wogan one. (2nd one and last one). I had a lovely day in London with all the Bloggers and had a lovely time at Radio 2. The team at Radio 2 who look after us each time are so welcoming and caring while we are there.

NaBloPoMo: November 12
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This Weekend I… got to go to the fireworks display over at Kimbolton School. Originally my friend from work was coming with the boys and I but unfortunately she was poorly so couldn’t come (boo!!) I did get a bit camera happy though and took lots of pictures! Some are better than others but given that they were all taken on my phone I’m really impressed with the quality (Okay maybe not necessarily but I really like them!). The last one didn’t focus so well but it looks like that bokeh style of photography – what do you think? (Click any of the pictures and that will take you to my Flickr Photostream).

As my friend couldn’t come we decided we’d throw open the spare seats in our car to anyone who wanted to come, there were certain requirements but we were able to sort out some of them to get my friend and her son to come with us. Clearly it was a good night as our friend’s son fell asleep in the car on the way back even though we were chatting really loud!

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This Weekend I… once again started off really lazy. Somehow I managed to sleep until 10:30! I got myself up and try to organise Our Sidekick so he was ready for contact – what didn’t help was that the driver arrived 10 minutes early – Our Sidekick is a bit stubborn and if the driver arrives early (apart from in bad weather) then he makes the driver wait – I’m sure it’s not a good thing to necessarily do but it’s not like I can pick Our Sidekick up under my arm and carry him out to the car!

This Weekend I… following contact we went to the second attempt at our friend’s daughter’s birthday party. Veronica and Marc plus some extra assistants were able to get the party ready again after last weekend when it had to be cancelled at last minute. I love all the decorations that Veronica made – it was so fabulous! Their little girl was super cute in her little pink tutu (might have to get me one of those if I have a little girl one day!!). I was handed one of Veronica’s cameras at one point to snap some family pictures of Veronica and Marc with their kids, it was really complicated at there were so many buttons on the camera – thankfully Marc came to my rescue and set it up for me, I was then able to snap away! (Can Veronica do my birthday party…..?)

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This Weekend I… following going to the party we headed to my Mum’s for a little while. My Mum and I sat at the dining room table and created a paper draft of the banner she’s going to make for her church. We then went to the supermarket to get some ingredients as it was Christmas Saturday, my mum was on a mission to make her Christmas Puddings and measure out all the ingredients for the Christmas cakes – we even got gluten free flour for our Christmas cake to make sure I’m not the only one eating it this year!

This Weekend I… took up residence on the sofa and watched Strictly Come Dancing, I do really like Dave but it really was time for him to go. We’d been debating over on FB whether we should create a protest of sorts and not watch it anymore if Dave didn’t go.

This Weekend I… made it to church. Chris was playing taxi service so we got a lift with our friend. This meant that we were in fact on time for the church service (which doesn’t seem to happen at the moment!).

This Weekend I… had been under the weather anyway but by the middle of the church service, it was really bad. I texted Chris across the church building and then I snuck out and jumped in the car and popped up to the Medical Centre. I had to wait for like an hour for an appointment so I sat and crocheted in the waiting room. At one point I had an audience watching me which was quite comical! When I did see the doctor, he agreed with me when it came to a diagnosis and I was sent away with antibiotics.

This Weekend We… had guests round for dinner after church. This was a good plan until I realised that I’d taken my antibiotics but hadn’t had enough food with them so was essentially taking them on an empty stomach! People don’t do this. It’s not pretty! I thought I was going to throw up and my head started to pound! *sad face* I did go to bed and Our Sidekick and Chris held the fort.

This Weekend I… watched more TV! Once I came too and started to feel more human I sat in bed and watched a bunch of TV.

NaBloPoMo: November 11

Yesterday at the remembrance service in the village where my parents go to church my dad was honoured to lay a wreath at the war memorial.

Growing up my Dad would encourage/make us watch war films and go to museums about history and things like that but now as a twenty something history nut I’m glad he did.

They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning
We will remember them.

From Laurence Binyon’s poem For the Fallen, written in September 1914

NaBloPoMo: November 7

NaBloPoMo 2013

It’s November which means it’s that time of year again. Here’s NaBloPoMo again. 

This appeared on my Facebook Timeline – must be watched with tissues!! I imagine that if Ruby and I ever met we’d be like this!

NaBloPoMo: November 6

NaBloPoMo 2013

I’ve spent all day trying to think about what to write about. Now at about 11:30 I’m trying to cram in a high speed post before bed!

Between crocheting Christmas presents, rescuing my Sister In Law when her car broke down (actually Chris properly rescued her – I assisted with 5 push start attempts!) and then hosting Connect Group at our house, I’ve been working on a letter to my friend Lizzie. She’s a penpal of sort but seeing as I see her at church and at Connect Group I’m guessing it doesn’t properly count as snail mail!

On the other hand I have got penpals all over the world. There’s Adrienne in Germany, Bobberdilly in Kansas, Lily in Missouri, Sarah in Australia, Lexi in Bootle (near Liverpool) and Becca in Norwich. (I think that’s everyone – did I miss anyone?) I love writing letters and they are all handwritten (like 99%) of the time. I love getting in from work and finding a funky letters tucked in the back of the door or on the door mat – especially if I’ve had a pants day and really need some sunshine. It’s funny how somehow on the really bad days a letter appears like my penpal knew I was going to have a bad day before I knew I was going to have it.

Do you like snail mail? What do you love about it?

NaBloPoMo: November 5


Joining with Sar from [Life of Love]
and Syndal from Synfully Delicious
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NaBloPoMo 2013

This Weekend I…started the weekend by going to talk to my brother and my parents about some bits that are going on in our lives at the moment. Some were exciting and some were ranty but it was a good time with them.

This Weekend I…. went to church to help my friend Veronica set up for her little girl’s birthday party. The theme was a lemon yellow and pale pink. Veronica is a really cool photographer so there were loads of pictures on show too.

This Weekend I… had a very lazy Saturday. It was supposed to be productive but even on about eight hours of sleep I was struggling. In the end I spent like 4 hours in bed watching TV (specifically Charley Boorman’s South African Adventure and various other documentaries on BBC iPlayer). I got dressed around 11 but still stayed wrapped up in the duvet.. Eventually I got up and shuffled some washing around and made lunch. Then I moved the crochet production line to the sofa. Christmas is getting closer and my hands aren’t getting faster!

This Weekend I…was supposed to go to Veronica’s Little Girl’s birthday party but at lunchtime on Saturday she was poorly and the party had to be cancelled at the last minute. I was really disappointed and really hoped that she’d feel better soon. Our Sidekick arrived home and I told him that we weren’t going to the party but if his room was tidy he was allowed to out to play – as it happened as we were chatting his friend rang to ask if he could go out.

This Weekend I…well we had a visit from my Father in Law and Sister In Law. My FIL had had a massive clear out of his DVD collection and found that he had a bunch of duplicates – would we like to adopt some of them? Yes please thank you very much. I love movies! They arrived around 8ish and we went through the pile. We hadn’t actually had dinner so were treated to fish and chips.

This Weekend We…finished Season 3 of Downton Abbey, this means that we’re either going to get a Season Pass to start Season 4 or we need to watch the Christmas Special first (Can someone tell me does it run along side the normal story or does it bridge the seasons and contains spoilers that we need to know for Episode 1 to make sense?)

NaBloPoMo: November 4

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Who is your favourite character of all time?

Like a lot of girls my age – I grew up on Disney films. My brother and I would often get a video at Christmas or for our birthday’s. I think my favourite would be Belle from Beauty and The Beast as she loves books and has a kind and caring heart. In the story, she’d give up her life to save her father’s, even when the Beast is mean to her, she still cares for him (after he rescues her from the wolves when she tries to run away).

My second favourite would be Boo from Monsters Inc. or Agnes from Despicable Me. They are both just so darn cute!!

NaBloPoMo: November 1

NaBloPoMo 2013

If you found one million dollars pounds in the morning and had to spend it by nightfall, what would you do with the money?

Now that would be really tough – if I found it tomorrow morning, I have work all day and even then I don’t think I could possibly spend one million pounds in one day! I’d spend a bit on filling up the petrol tank in the car and Our Sidekick and I could go shopping in MK after work. Okay so I’d rather than give some of it away or invest in important things rather than spend on things that are worthless. I’d probably give a donation to The Fountain because I know it is needed. I think I’d pay off our mortgage – we would probably have to pay some kind of early termination cost but it would probably be a tiny percentage of the million pounds! I would help my brother get on the housing ladder if he wanted to. I’d also put money into some form of trust fund so that Our Sidekick could go to university if he wanted to. As a child under Social Services I think he gets some kind of support but at the same time I’d try and help him out rather than him have to worry about where the money is coming from. If he wants the education then I’d help him. (Does that count as spending it if I’m investing it in his future?)

Having said that about spending it on “worthless things”, I would replace my MacBook – it’s over 5 years old and it’s not running so well any more.

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Geli Voyante's Hot or Not Book Tour

I am so excited to be able to host Elle on her book tour for the release of her second book Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not. I have been able to

1. How long have you been writing?
Ever since I can remember I’ve scribbled down tales of magical adventures and damsels in distress. When I got a bit older, I moved on to the adult equivalent of these. I guess the answer is that I have been writing all of my life, though I’ve only been writing chick lit for the past seven years.

2. What inspired you to start writing?
What inspired me to start writing chick lit was life! The months leading up to my twenty-first birthday had been pretty rough, and I found it to be quite cathartic to make things turn out well for some fictional characters. It was definitely much more fun than working on my dissertation which was what I was supposed to be writing that summer!

3. Are you inspired by any specific authors?
That summer when I first started writing chick lit instead of my dissertation, I read Maggie Alderson’s Cents and Sensibility which I absolutely adored. On the surface the book comes across as fluffy; dig deeper and you’ll find it’s clever and captivating writing – that’s the type of book I knew I wanted to write, so I did!

Sophie Kinsella, Lauren Weisberger, Meg Cabot, Dorothy Koomson, Adele Parks and Helen Fielding are big-name authors who I love and who inspire me, but seeing the huge success of my fellow talented indie authors inspires me too.

Geli Voyante's Hot or Not

4. Do you have a favourite book? And what do you love about it?
I have far too many favourite books – it would be impossible for me to pick out just one! There are so many things that make can make a particular book a favourite of mine – there are the obvious traits such as an amazing plot or characters I end up rooting for like I would my friends – but quite often a book becomes a favourite of mine because I read it at a particular place or time in my life and it struck a chord with me.

5. If there was a movie adaptation of Kept or Geli who would you like to take the lead?
I think Henry Cavill would certainly have to play Piers in Kept! As for Arielle, I could see Emily Blunt playing her.

6. If you now could give your younger self advice about writing what would it be?
Try not to procrastinate as much because you will have so many great book ideas and one day you will be published and kicking yourself that you don’t have a bigger back catalogue to release! You might lose your way a bit with your writing, but that’s OK – like anything, it will make you stronger when you do get back on track and know where you want to go. Finally, keep believing – you’re going to make it one day kid!

About the Author
Elle Field is a twenty-something chick lit author who lives in South London with her boyfriend. She enjoys exploring and photographing Blighty’s capital, seeing far too many musicals, and eating her way around London’s culinary delights.

Elle Field

Her debut novel Kept was released earlier this year, and her next novel Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not will be published on October 17th in Kindle and paperback formats. Watch out in 2014 for the release of Kept’s sequel, as well as The Dirtification of Tabitha-Rose.

• You can read Elle’s literary, London and life adventures on her blog.
• Follow her on Twitter @Facebook.
• Connect with her on Goodreads.

Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not blurb:

‘I think I will always be known as the Hot or Not girl, defined by it for the rest of my career. Even my tombstone will read: Angelica “Geli” Voyante, beloved trendsetter. Death? Not Hot.

Yet, it doesn’t sound right. Why won’t anyone realise that there is more to me than this fickle persona I have inadvertently become?’

Geli Voyante is bored of being the Hot or Not girl, even if it has the perk of sitting next to Theo, the newspaper’s very Hot political columnist. She’s also getting a little lonely being single.

When her arch-nemesis Tiggy Boodles gets engaged, and other loved ones start to settle down, it’s time for Geli to convince Theo that she’s not as shallow as her column suggests and, more importantly, she’s the one for him. Geli should remember though that there are always two sides to every story, and that applies to people too…

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brushes and paint

About two weeks ago I went to The Knitting and Stitching show at Alexandra Palace. I was blessed to be given complimentary tickets by my friend Kathy who had a stand at the show (have you seen her work?!?! This lady is super talented!). I had meant to write about it but following the show, I’ve felt really tired and not completely with it. I’ve been having fun doing stuff that doesn’t involve me sitting in front of my computer for too long – I think the concentration was too much through the thick head of a cold. I managed to squeeze out a few posts along the way and write one that’s going up tomorrow but that was about it. I have plans to try and get myself in gear and ordered again. I work out that I have 8 weeks to Christmas and that means the next things on my list include lots of Christmas presents. The biggest one of them is the blanket I’m making for Our Sidekick. I made another for a friend of mine and he asked could he have one too. When I was about 14 we re-decorated my bedroom and my Mum made me a quilt with dolphins on it, to go with the theme of my bedroom. When Chris and I celebrated our first married Christmas, my Mum had made as a quilt in whites and creams. I can’t quilt like my Mum but I can crochet until my hands fall off, I love the idea of being able to make something for Our Sidekick that can remind him of the times he’s had with us even if he moves on from ours.

While at the show I got really inspired. I mean like REALLY inspired add that to the stencilling workshop we had at Scone Roses and I was ready to give something a try! For as long as I can remember I’ve loved painting and colouring but I’m not that good at drawing and so have always stuck to stuff I know I can do. I used to really enjoy making art journals but the journals that I make were always different to those that I was sent as part of swaps through Swap-Bot or saw on the internet.

I was about ready to give up and just go back to stuff that I can do but then spotted this quote written in my journal.

Don’t think about making art, just get it done. Let everyone else decide if it’s good or bad whether they love or hate it. While they are deciding make even more art.

Andy Warhol

So that was that, I got out my markers, I bought some new felt pens and some watercolours and got going, If it’s not perfect so what, if the colours clash by mistake, get over it! I have two ribbons which I tie round the book to keep it shut when it’s put away but other than that I’m filling the pages. There are two packets from tea bags, there is my shirt number from Race for Life. Some pages work and some don’t, some are taking a bit more work and others are coming together really easily. My white on the watercolours is currently a pale blue as I cross mixed the colours by mistake. I also have to thank a couple of my penpals, there’s Adrienne in Germany who talks about painting with watercolours and telling me off when I say I can’t do it, to Bobberdilly in Kansas, who is just a great inspiration, each letter I receive has a watercolour or felt pen designed drawing on the front of it. The envelopes are just as important to hold on to. I think I need a scrapbook just for the envelopes that are designed. I wanted to experiment, and started with a gradient sign that I’d seen on my way back from the Opticians after going on a little explore (“I wonder what’s down this road…..”). Even I’m now painting in my pen pal letters, this was just a little one….

Working on a penpal letter now. Drew this picture of #paulmccartney's piano having watched #thegrahamnortonshow earlier added the colours in watercolours. #watercolours #penpal #snailmail

I even found a French newspaper that I’d bought when Chris and I went to France a few years ago, I chopped it up and stuck it all over the page to create something interesting. However I got a bit heavy handed with the watercolours over the top and now it’s not looking so good but it’s a learning curve.

Found an old #french newspaper.....what to do with this page now? #artjournals

lately…….

Blog bits

Reading
Crochet and Knitting patterns mainly outside of work, inside of work it’s emails and spreadsheets. I’ve been reading penpal letters and replying to them too. Other than that I’ve not really been reading, I want to read some more and attempt to catch up with my goal for 2013 but for now it’s not working. I’ve also been reading news articles about knitting jumpers for penguins in New Zealand.

Watching
Have found the latest series of Rizzoli and Isles on iTunes so have watched the available episodes and am now waiting for the next ones. I’ve been watching Monarch of the Glen on YouTube, random person thank you for uploading them. I also had borrowed the DVDs of Downton Abbey from my Mum. I got to the beginning of Season 2 and Chris got all excited about it so started watching with me. We finished it on Tuesday and now I need to buy or borrow Season 3, might see if it’s in CEX.

Listening
A couple of new songs have been added to my playlist. After receiving an inspired email from Judit last week I’ve been singing “I Have Confidence” from The Sound of Music on and off and in the end I downloaded it to listen to on my way to and from work. I’ve also added “Heart Skips A Beat” by Olly Murs and The Rizzle Kicks, “Misery Business” and “Still Into You” by Paramore.

Planning
Christmas presents, Christmas celebrations at home and with family, and some friends.

Crafting
Finished a couple of hats for the Innocent Drinks Big Knit. Working on the next square for Our Sidekick’s blanket. Attempted a wooly hat from the kit I bought from Toft at The Knitting and Stitching Show but I’m struggling with working the circular needles. Might need to speak to Judit at Monster Yarns, she’s like my knitting helpline!

this weekend i…


 

Joining with Sar from [Life of Love]
and Syndal from Synfully Delicious
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This Weekend I… had written a to do list to try and be super focused. Then Chris had Saturday of work which seemed to throw me completely. I spent a chunk of Saturday morning knitting. One of the presents I’m making has taken me about 6 attempts to cast on and keep all my stitches where they should be!!

This Weekend I… went to the Community Fair at Church Lane Community Centre. I’m not sure what I expected it to be but it was a bit of a let down. A friend of a friend had a stall there, her company is called Sewing for Utange. She makes all sorts of things out of old pairs of jeans and other bits and pieces. There was a very cool handbag there that I nearly did buy but I am trying to be good and not buy a new one until I need one rather than buying because I’d like one lol. Anyway here are some fab keyrings that Caroline makes. (Ruby would love these!!)

Owl Keyrings made from fabric and denim

This Weekend I… well Chris and I went to have lunch together. We went to the Harvester, I was a bit annoyed that they have discontinued my favourite dish (I probably mentioned this before!! I used to order Simply Pasta with a grilled chicken breast – my syns were then a treat of garlic bread – yummy!). So instead I had a grilled chicken burger (didn’t eat the bun) and had baby potatoes (they were smothered in butter *sad face*). I had expected to get some vegetables as in the past when I’ve had that same meal it has had vegetables, when it arrived I was a bit like “Where are my veggies????” but the waitress had disappeared so grabbed one of the waiters (he happened to be someone I went to school with so it was a relative sensible conversation!). I don’t know whether he was supposed to but he nipped out to the kitchen and got me a bowl of peas to have with my dinner. (Got to love excellent customer service haven’t you?)

This Weekend I… following dinner we came home as Our Sidekick was due back from contact. When he got in we got started on his English homework that had been set on Friday and he’d forgotten to do it. It was all about the role of women in the same time that Of Mice and Men by John Steinbeck is set. He needed to revise it so that he could join in the conversation in class. I think I might have been aiming for a slightly early section of history but I’m sure most of it was carried over so hopefully it gave him enough information to start his research. About the same time my SIL arrived to work her way through applying for some jobs. We spent the first hour or so going through her CV and making sure that it was all okay and organised for sending out to possible employers. We also signed up to a couple of jobs websites so her CV is out there being viewed by businesses.

This Weekend I… watched Strictly while attempting to blog – which didn’t really happen (Again back to the To Do list that failed!). I know he might not be the No 1 there but I love how much Dave (From Hairy Bikers) is enjoying himself while doing it. I loved Sophie’s Charleston and Deborah’s Latin (I can’t remember was it Salsa or Cha Cha…..). I know it’s already happened but I did expect the golfing chap to go home first.

This Weekend I… headed for church, first up we needed to pick up my SIL to take her with us to church. Although she didn’t pick up when I called her to let her know we were on the way she was outside the front of her place ready to go. Church was a bit of a challenge for her especially as she didn’t really know anyone and was really wound up at us all for various different things.

This Weekend I… encouraged my SIL to hand out her CV in town to see if we could get her a job here in Bedford. We did visit quite a few shops who were happy to take a CV although they weren’t necessarily recruited at this exact point in time. It was a little frustrating in some places – especially in a particular department store who were really short with my SIL and basically said if you don’t want an x contract don’t bother applying.

This Weekend I… watched two and a bit episodes of Downton Abbey. I missed it when it first started, I think it clashed with something else on the recordings and things like that. I’m up to about Episode 3 of Season 1. My Mum has lent me Season 1 and 2 on DVD. I’ve also found Monarch of The Glen on YouTube so I’m well and truly occupied for quite a while. I can work on watching them all while knitting and crocheting Christmas presents.

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 Geli Voyante's Hot or Not Elle Field cover

My beautiful friend Elle is about to release her second book and I’m so excited and blessed to have been asked by her to join in the cover launch today. Having read Kept back in April when it was released, I can’t wait for Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not to be released in four weeks time.

From Elle Field, the author of Kept, Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not will be released on October 17th in Kindle and paperback formats. You can add it to your Goodreads shelf today!

‘I think I will always be known as the Hot or Not girl, defined by it for the rest of my career. Even my tombstone will read: Angelica “Geli” Voyante, beloved trendsetter. Death? Not Hot.

Yet, it doesn’t sound right. Why won’t anyone realise that there is more to me than this fickle persona I have inadvertently become?’

Geli Voyante is bored of being the Hot or Not girl, even if it has the perk of sitting next to Theo, the newspaper’s very Hot political columnist. She’s also getting a little lonely being single.

When her arch-nemesis Tiggy Boodles gets engaged, and other loved ones start to settle down, it’s time for Geli to convince Theo that she’s not as shallow as her column suggests and, more importantly, she’s the one for him. Geli should remember though that there are always two sides to every story, and that applies to people too…

this week…

This Week

On about Tuesday of last week I realised that I hadn’t really been blogging. I seem to have either ran out of time or the idea of sitting down and writing something has driven me up the wall. I have been busy finishing a Christmas present and working on the giant blanket we’re making for to raise money for the Macmillan Coffee Morning on the 27th September. (I’m wondering about bribing the Scone Roses ladies with cake and see if they will assist with sewing it together – I’m allowed to do that right………well maybe I’m not lol).

Saturday

With a 7:45 wake up call and not a lot to do, I decided that I’d attempt #adayinthelife. It’s always a bit of challenge to remember what you’re supposed to do and at what time – especially when you’re busy doing something rather than clock watching!

08:16am Let's try this. Good Morning. So having a nutso week still hasn't given me a lay in. @thecgbj has gone on an adventure. I'm in bed working out what i need to do today. #todolist #todo #dayinthelife

It started with this rather half asleep selfie. It’s funny how dark it looks but actually it was really light in our room! Chris had decided to go to the Men’s Breakfast at church, I’m not sure if he woke me up to tell me or if I was already awake but after he told me I was completely awake – no chance of sleeping now! Throughout the day I snapped pictures and posted them to Instagram (didn’t post to FB unless I really wanted to other wise it could have been a bit spammy!!). One particular picture had an interesting effect. This was the picture…

Oops I'm late!! 4pm hanging with my gorgeous #grandma. She's so amazing and such an encouragement. Love her to pieces!!! #renholdchapel #renhold

This is my Grandma, she’s one of the most inspiring, encouraging people in my whole life. She’s gorgeous, amazing and so lovely. We’d been chatting about what’s happening in life in general and the random people that appear in my life at the moment. She also asked about how Our Sidekick was doing and things like that. I had lots of comments coming in on the picture on Instagram and FB but was having trouble getting them because of the signal.

My parents and grandparents church was celebrating it’s 140th Anniversary this weekend so I had been up to take photos and be there as a “alumni” member of sorts lol. I even got a badge which was really exciting in a kind of nerdy way!

In the evening my Macmillan Blanket sewing buddy came to hang out with us, we worked out way through all the random TV we had recorded and sewed to our hearts content – to the extent that we didn’t realise it was after midnight when she went home – oops!

Sunday

I had a bit of manic morning as I was attempting to be in two places at once! A couple of our youth leave for university this week so I was organising goodie bags with things like emergency chocolate and biscuits, as well as notebooks and pens for them to take with them to university. I dropped them off at church and then jumped in the car to go up to Renhold for the family service to celebrate the anniversary. I then jumped back in the car to go to back to church for the end of the service. I made it back to RP and stood in the foyer chatting to my friend’s Dad who was on the welcome team.

For lunch we ended up going out as a group – it was lovely to hang out but I really needed to flop in a heap somewhere quiet! Following lunch we went into town as Our Sidekick wanted to get a new phone case, I also got some new ink cartridges while we were there – I had bought a pack when we were on holiday but I’m guessing in all the packing and unpacking that they got sorted somewhere and now I can’t remember where to!

Monday
Monday morning was really bad, I was having a fight with my jeans and generally not getting on with Monday. I arrived at work about 2 minutes after 9 which wasn’t so good. I apologised to the Duty Manager and got on with my work. We even had a joke about clearly I’m not very good at Mondays and that I was very sorry.

About 10:30/11ish the fire alarm went off, we’re clearly still not that good at fire evacuations because we all sat there looking at each other questioning whether it was a drill and we’d got our days muddled of if there was actually a fire. Well after that 30 seconds looking at each other, we got ourselves moving, I grabbed my jumper on my way to the door (don’t panic! I have to walk past the coat rack to get to the door – it wasn’t like I had doubled back on myself or anything like that, and as I’d just hung it up I knew exactly where it was to grab it and swing it round onto my shoulders (actually I might have worn it like a superhero cape on my way down the stairs as it was easier than trying to put my arms in the holes lol!)

Following that we were sent back in, it later turned out to be a false alarm and all was well with the world again. Following work I popped to Interchange to look at new jeans, I still ended up at the supermarket for a new pair (which would fit fine in the store but when I put them on this morning they then were too tight!!). While in the supermarket I picked up some others bits and  bumped into JD and Mr JD (her lovely new-ish boyfriend!) . We chatted for about half an hour then decided we really should get a move on and finish our respective shopping! I came home and did tea for Our Sidekick and I. It was then time to assume the position in front of the TV and carry on with the sewing.

Tuesday
This evening I’ve been working some more on the Macmillan blanket. Our Sidekick and I were watching The Great British Bake Off while I sewed some crocheted squares together. Chris had to pop out so while he was out I was on dinner duty making sure nothing burnt or boiled over and things like that. We ended up eating dinner without Chris as he was running late. Having watched the first bit of The Great British Bake Off on Saturday I was all excited about making an Apple Pie, of course in our house in order to make sure the majority of mouths can eat it, I had to make sure that the pastry was gluten free. I kept meaning to look for a recipe but hadn’t got round to it. I posted it as a status to see if I could crowd source a recipe and that lovely crowd came to my rescue.

Unfortunately the gluten free ingredients in our cupboard didn’t fit the bill, so will a little puzzling I decided on Eve’s Pudding as it’s basically apples with sponge on top. I found a recipe here on The English Kitchen and used that as a starting point for the pudding. I ended up doubling the mixture as our dish was bigger than the recipe asked for and by that point I was on about 2lbs of apples as per my apple pie recipe! Oops! (The English Kitchen says for 100g of apples! Then again our cooking apples are quite big so might not have worked so well).

#evespudding. Yay!!! #glutenfree

I had the idea of pudding some cinnamon on top of the apples before pudding the pastry on top so figured I’d try the same just before pudding the sponge mix on. I think as you need to smooth it out before pudding it in the oven it would make more sense to put the cinnamon on the apples while laying out the layers rather than sprinkling on top as the sponge mix then picks it up and you end up with clumps.

Having munched our share of Gluten Free Eve’s Pudding, I’m now sat at the kitchen table writing this, hopefully burning some calories while typing seeing how I’m pretty sure that Eve’s Pudding wasn’t as friendly to my waist line as it is to Chris’s intestines!

Perfecto!! #glutenfree #evespudding

30 days of lists: day thirteen

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Day Thirteen: Bad Habits

  • Cracking my knuckles…..I had stopped – then I started again!
  • Eating too much sugar – usually in cakes or chocolate.
  • Shouting the answers out to the questions on quiz shows!  (I get it from my Mum!)
  • Talking with my hands

30 days of lists: day twelve

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Day Twelve: Favourite Things About This Month

“Don’t you just love New York in the fall? It makes me want to buy school supplies. I would send you a bunch of newly sharpened pencils if I knew your name and address, on the other hand this not knowing has it’s charms.”

Joe Fox, You’ve Got Mail

  • Stationery shopping!!!
  • Falling leaves
  • Conker hunting
  • Apple pie!! Eve’s Pudding!! Apple Crumble – BRING IT ON!!

30 days of lists: day eleven

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Day Eleven: Things my Family Taught Me

  • “If you can’t say anything nice don’t say it at all” – Mum
  • “Always trust in God” – Grandma
  • Grandad taught me things like how to tile a bathroom, how to fit double glazed windows, how to change a car tire and although it was via the phone he talked my Mum and I through how to fit a door – we’d started but couldn’t work out what the problem was – we described it to him and he knew exactly what was up and how to fix it.
  • Dad taught me things like the difference between a weed and a plant, when certain veggies and fruit are ready to pick – there’s a cherry tree in my parent’s garden – every year we’d be out there picking them.
  • Mum taught me to sew by hand and by machine, knit, crochet, embroider and cross stitch. I’m sure it was her who taught me how to bake cakes and make biscuits. Each Christmas she’d make homemade mince pies and I’d often help her roll out the pastry and assemble the pies – we’d often make a mini jam tart at the very end with the left over pastry.

30 days of lists: day ten

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Day Ten: Meaningful Gifts given and/or received
At Christmas last year I made a scarf for my Mum, We went shopping about 4 or 5 weeks before Christmas and she was trying on scarves in one of the department stores in MK. She made a comment about not really liking cowls and specifically the style that you wrap around your neck multiple times – well I was having a bit of a freak out as that was exactly what I was making for her. I think in the end the fact that I’d made it out weighed the dislike of the style (or maybe it grew on her I’m not sure!)
For my birthday I was given some gift vouchers for Monster Yarns. It’s now pretty much my first stop for yarn, Judit is super helpful and doesn’t mind when I email her with stupid questions that are probably really easy or something like that! I think we trade tips – social media for knitting tips lol.

30 days of lists: day nine

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Day Nine: Weird Stuff That Makes Me Cry
That bit at the end of My Girl when Anna Chlumsky‘s character runs into Macaulay Culkin‘s character’s funeral and she says about how he can’t see without his glasses…..EVERY TIME it makes me cry!!
The end of films based on Nicholas Sparks’ Novels (like The Notebook and Nights in Rodanthe – what is it with sad endings)
There’s an advert on the TV at the moment about a percentage of the cost of a box of cereal going to Breakfast Clubs in schools to make sure that kids get breakfast before school. I have no idea why but the other day it made me cry!

30 days of lists: day eight

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Day Eight: My Childhood Chores
Tidy my room (which I was pretty rubbish at!)
Take my school clothes downstairs on a Friday ready to go in the wash.
Put my clothes away when they have come out of the wash.
Tidy up after myself

30 days of lists: day seven

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Day Seven: Today I Saw…
(Seeing as this is an EPIC catch up I’m actually writing this on about the 28th!)
Lots of NCIS episodes
A documentary about Scottish Islands (Specifically about Foula and Fair Isle)
My friend JD
Our Sidekick and Chris for different periods of time
13 Going on 30 – I love this movie!
Strictly Come Dancing

30 days of lists: day five

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Day Five: Things I Tend To Worry About
What’s for lunch/dinner
(and does it fit in Slimming World syn-free/low syn categories)
Sleep (am I getting enough – why didn’t I get more etc)

not a #30daysoflists post…….

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It’s doesn’t technically fit in with #30DaysofLists as it’s not one of the official prompts but while we’re making lists I wanted to share some of my favourite tunes at the moment.

First up I have a Medley from Danni’s new album called A Little Redemption. I used to be at school with Danni and loved listening to her sing then – now I can be really biased and listen to her album (erm lots!). I really like Hey There, Sunshine – it’s upbeat and friendly and I can imagine singing along really loud on a road trip or something like that.

Next up we have To The Broken and The Shattered by my friend Marc. He’s a really cool worship leader who happens to look like Dave Grohl of the Foo Fighters. There’s actually more of a story to that comment – the youth were encouraged to come to the members meeting before we voted in Marc as our new youth leader at RP. One of the lads was sat behind me and it was the first time I had met Marc, I turned round to the lad and said “Oh I get it now – he really does look like Dave Grohl!!”. Anyway, this song was written by Marc and Carl Tuttle, my gorgeous friend Esther and her amazing sister Eunice sing backing vocals.

This one has been on my hard drive for a while but not made it onto my phone. Josh Garrells was reccomended over on Today’s Letters. It’s got something quite country about it but with a sprinkling of Jack Johnson or something like that. As quoted on his Bandcamp page ” I wanted new music to listen to- something Godly that wasn’t cheesy. Here it is. Uplifting, sobbingly beautiful, inspiring. I am so grateful. Favorite track: Rise.” My favourite is Beyond The Blue.

Somehow I stumbled across Chantilly’s blog a while back and when she released her EP, I had a listen and fell in love. I love all the songs and can quite happily have her album on repeat! What You Do To Me and Just The Way You Are, are two of my favourites. (If I could get the chord charts I’d love to play them at Open Mic)

Are there any you can recommend to me?

30 days of lists: day three

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Day Three: Things Younger Me Would Like About Me
That I went to University
That I passed with a 2.2
That I got married (to my best friend!)
That I have a job (that I enjoy)
That I’m still in a Church
That I’m a foster mum
That I have lost weight and feel happier for it.

this post started a different way…

Writing

I have a friend called Charlotte and she’s an English teacher, we’ve been friends on and off since we were in our teens and went to BYP – it was the smaller not so well know youth theatre group. Anyway, she was challenging her housemates/friends to do one of her assessments – I guess to make sure it was okay and all that jazz. Well I accepted the challenge and had meant to write it every night this week since about Wednesday and have still not done it – so here it goes (I’m supposed to be doing chores, and clearing the piles of magazine pages from my bed! I know blogging = procrastination!)

So the challenge is……”700 words or 2 hours writing a feature article explaining why you feel so strongly about a celebrity.”

I’m going to be incredibly boring. Growing up, my friends often had posters of their favourite bands blu-tacked or sellotaped to their bedroom walls. I had one friend who had magazine pages taped together to the extent that I don’t think I actually knew the colour of her bedroom walls. I had the odd few articles and things like that but there were that many.

I had a pink very girlie room until I was about 14, when it was redecorated and painted blue. Following the redecoration I had a few posters up but not that many. The biggest poster I had on my walls was of Elijah Wood as Frodo in Lord of The Rings, well it was that or Ian McKellen as Gandalf!

I did have a few smaller posters and pictures in an A3 picture frame on one wall which I tended to change round depending on who was my favourite band at the time. Even now there’s not one particular celebrity that I really like.

Occasionally I read the covers of the gossip magazines in the supermarket or flick through a copy of OK! or Hello while having my hair done at the hairdressers but I’d rather spend my money on books or craft magazines (especially when they come free with yarn, crochet or knitting kits, crochet hooks or knitting needles!)

I’m guessing that historically throughout time there’s always been a form of celebrity – I guess a local celebrity would have been someone that the whole village or town knew of, more than likely for bad reasons rather than good reasons. In Victorian times I’m guessing there were celebrities who you heard about in the newspapers or maybe went to see at the theatre for example but I think with the invention of television, cinema and later the internet and social media, the idea of celebrity has become more accessible and also quicker. If a celebrity is spotted in a particular restaurant, someone can tweet that they’ve seen them and before you know it the world knows that Brad Pitt had a Caesar Salad for lunch or something like that.

But with the growth of blogging and the internet, have we developed a new form of celebrity, not in like a Hollywood Movie Star level of celebrity but on a smaller scale (in a way – stick with me it makes sense in a minute!), for example, you write a blog and you walk around your local town – someone recognises you for that blog (this has happened only once or twice in Bedford but it happens lol). But how about on a bigger scale for example VickyGala Darling, Elycia, Elsie or Miss Zoot. Okay so some of these names might not be known or might be celebrities in a way in a reduced section of society but to that section there is some form of common interest.

Then again these bloggers and those celebrities in the wider idea of what a celebrity is, are still human beings, I’ve met a handful of celebrities over the last few years and what surprises me each time is how 98% of them are so lovely and down to earth (Even when I’m getting tongue tied and a bit star struck! I’ve met one celebrity twice in the last few years and both times I’ve just about said hello and then not know what to talk about!) there is the percentage of celebrities who I’ve met and when I have met them they’ve been grumpy but it could be that they are having a bad day or something like that.

So do I have a favourite celebrity, no I don’t, there are ones I admire, there are bands and solo artists I’d happily go and see in concert in the blink of an eye, but I personally do think that the way the media treats celebrities and famous people is disgusting. If they put on some weight they comment, if they are having a tough time they comment or if they lose lots of weight they comment. I know I’m not innocent as I do read the covers of the magazines sometimes with more interest then I probably should have but at the same time I don’t tend to buy them.

There we go, that’s the word count stated – hopefully it works 🙂

 

Blog Hop: 30 Days of Lists – September 2014

I have heaps to still write about my brother’s wedding at the weekend. I’ve taken a bunch of photos on my phone but will wait for the ones from my Mum and Dad before I add them to the post – I was armed with Mum’s camera for part of the day.

he next round of 30 Days of Lists starting. It kicks off on Sunday which is the 1st September.

Some of the prompts this time round are really cool and quite exciting. There is still time to join and it’s really easy so there’s no excuses!! You do your lists your way, if crazy funky scrapbook pages aren’t your thing, write the list on your phone and then take a screenshot, if that’s not your thing, write your list on post its and take a giant picture. It’s completely up to you! Mine this year was just going to be handwritten in a notebook but my tub of melon exploded in my bag the other day and my 30 Days of Lists notebook was in there too and I had to bin it – will start with a new notebook by Sunday.

So far, there is almost 600 listers registered to join in and they are from across the world!! There are a couple from the UK and I’m hoping to get to know them and maybe feature their lists if they will let me!

BUT! That’s not it! If we get to 600 registered Listers, then there will be a giveaway to win a $100 gift certificate for Studio Calico!! One of those first 600 Listers will be selected to win! How cool will that be?!

All you have to do to be entered is to register for September’s 30 Days of Lists.

Today we’re doing a blog hop, showing off our favourite prompts from the March 2011 30 Lists challenge. All the prompts for that challenge are still available for free – so if you want to give them a go in your own time you can find them here.

If you still want more list prompts, you can grab any one of the previous challenges as a self-paced download. Choose each set of lists one-at-a-time or get all 4 of them together.
That’s a total of 120 listing prompts!

For today’s list highlight, I chose Day 28 – this prompt was “Vacations to Take…..” Between making the list and now, Our Sidekick has been living with us, there are various factors that mean that taking him with us abroad is a bit complicated so for now we’re exploring the UK all that more, about like when I was a kid. Last year it was Bristol and the surrounding area, this year we covered a bit more of a patch but had a great time around Blackpool, Liverpool and Manchester.

30 Days of Lists: Day 28

The other lovelies involved with the blog hop are here, go take a look!!

Kristin from rukristin papercrafts
Allie from Alexandra Rae Design
Kam of Campfire Chic
Elizabeth of Handmade Modern
Kristin from My Life as a Teacup
Megan from The Nerd Nest
Amy from Lemon and Raspberry
Vanessa from Vanessa’s Fancy
Ffion from Mindflight

I’m scheduling this as we will be in the road tomorrow. Should I have missed something important please let me know and I’ll try and fix it from my phone……. If I don’t go to sleep soon Chris will get upset at me!

our BIG adventure 2013: Day 8

In the summer of 2013, our BIG adventure as a family was to Blackpool and the surrounding area. Here’s the story of our travels…

Blackpool Tower at Night
As requested by Our Sidekick we started the day off back at the dunes – more of an adventure for him than for us but it’s what you do as a family. Our Sidekick loves the area as he can practice stunts and things like that. We tried a couple of gym lifts that I could remember – I was the base in most of them so that Chris could help Our Sidekick, he also did a really cool trick where he did a front somersault over Chris who was laying on the floor with his phone recording the flip – it was really good and I hope it’s a good video when Chris had had chance to edit it all together.

When we got out the car at the dunes, I reached in my bag and realised a bunch of stuff as wet. Turned out the juice in my fruit pot thingy had leaked EVERYWHERE!!! As you can see my crime novel then looked like a crime scene of its own!

My fruit tub thing leaked in my bag. Now my crime novel looks like a crime scene! #tessgerritsen #theapprentice
We got lunch in Blackpool, again having another really good Customer Service Experience. We were in a certain golden arched takeaway venue, because of Chris being gluten free and me being on Slimming World there was a lot of changes we made to our order. Within our order we asked to have a Big Mac without a bun and a side salad instead of chips. The trainee who served us was lovely, polite and even when she asked for assistance she excused herself before turning to her colleague or manager to ask for help.

It was quite busy in the store, we had found a seat downstairs but was asked by Patricia if we could move upstairs as we didn’t have a pushchair or a reason that meant we couldn’t take the stairs to the first floor. Our Foster Son and I went upstairs to the first floor to find a table for us to sit at. We got upstairs but there wasn’t any spare tables we returned back downstairs as my husband left the counter and we decided about staying or going to see outside or even back onto the Promenade.

Patricia overheard this and said that it would probably be okay to sit at the table anyway. As Chris went to put down the tray, one of the drinks fell off the tray and went all over the floor. While he went to tell someone, I grabbed some serviettes from our tray and a neighbouring table handed me some more so that I could try and clear up some of the spillage while we waited for mop. Chris came back and told me that Patricia had gone to get him another drink and would then go get the mop. A few minutes later she reappeared with the mop and also asked if we wanted any ice in the drink as she’d just got the drink. We explained that it was okay and just having a replacement drink was absolutely fine.

We ate our meal and overall it was okay. My side salad was a bit wilt-y but was okay to eat. The Big Mac without a bun wasn’t as good as we have had in the past from other McDonald branches but given the level of confusion that seemed to go on between the ladies on the till and the young man in the kitchen it was okay and filled a hole.

As we went to leave Patricia said goodbye to us and wished us a good day. She was super lovely and so helpful.

Following lunch we went to the Blackpool Dungeon. Back in 2007, when Chris and I went to Amsterdam we went to the Dungeon there as well. I think both times I found it interesting and things like that and scary in like a suspense way rather than actually all out scary. At the Amsterdam Dungeon they have a rollercoaster of sorts. At Blackpool it’s a drop ride, so you go in and take your seats, the carriage thing goes up and you watch a video that’s projected on the wall then at a certain point in the dialogue the ride drops. Now I’m not a fan of rollercoasters or any ride like that, but I think as the dialogue on the video was a little predictable I was more relaxed about it and could chill (and then laugh at how dumb I looked in the photos).

On the way through the shop and then around the building to the bit to go up to the Blackpool Tower and the SkyWalk, Chris and I were discussing bits about it – you know when you watch too many medical programs and things like that when you turn round and say “You see the problem with the Doctor and the Plague bit was that they didn’t start using the Y Incision until later in history.” I said it, then questioned myself and still questioning myself!! It’s the kind of question that Dr Maura Isles from Rizzoli and Isles would be able to answer in the blink of an eye.

We headed up the tower and I’d decided that I was going to stand on the SkyWalk even if I freaked – then again when the guy pointed out that the glass was reinforced and was 5 centimetres thick it really reassured me. I decided also that I was going to lie down across the glass because it would be really funny.

Just lying around - adventure to Blackpool

I can't see the car but I can see where we parked it!
That's the #pepsimaxbigone at the #pleasurebeach in the distance from the top of the #blackpooltower

Following our trip up the tower we pottered around the shops and the arcades then headed for dinner. While at dinner, we noticed lots of people going in and out of a shop opposite and I could see what looked like hooved legs wearing crocheted granny squares – well of course I had to go for a closer inspection. It turned out to the opening party of a store called Charabanc.

Found a very cool shop in #blackpool. Complete with #crocheted #reindeer, a cat and a dog!
I didn’t stop for long as we were still in the middle of our dinner but I did go back after dinner and bought a couple of badges including one that says “Keep Calm and Carry Yarn” I thought I had taken a picture but it’s downstairs after I rescued it from the washing!

our BIG adventure 2013: Day 7

Blackpool Tower at Night

We started the day by heading to Manchester, Our Sidekick wasn’t aware of where we were actually going. We realised we were early so we went for a potter around the Trafford Centre (They have free parking! Why don’t we get that in MK or Bedford?). Around the shopping centre, there are these painted elephants.

Here we go lots of #elephants. #eletour #elephantparade

Elephant Parade has travelled the world, its vibrantly decorated statues raising awareness of and funds for the conservation of the Asian Elephant. Money raised from the sale of the tour elephants will be donated by sponsor intu to international charity, The Asian Elephant Foundation.

The boys grabbed lunch in Nando’s. I would have had some but it was just stressing me out a bit trying to work out what I can and can’t eat while being on Slimming World (The app is okay but isn’t specific enough).

While the boys ate I sat writing down what we’d done so far and tweaking some other bits to write blog posts. I’d been taking notes on serviettes while we’d been out – especially as a rule we have is to ban phones/tablets at the dinner table unless special permission has been given.

When gadgets are banned at the dinner table...

We arrived at Old Trafford and started snapping pictures from there. We were still a little early for our tour so went to the Red Cafe to get a drink. We then headed to the meeting point for the tour. Our tour guide was called Ethan and he was so lovely. When people had questions he nearly always knew the answer or knew where the information could be found. There was a lot of walking for the tour as we went pitch side, press areas, the dugouts, various stands, the memorial clock and various other places. We also went to the dressing room and sat with all the footie shirts.

We all went into the Megastore at the end, Our Sidekick bought a plaque thing that was made of grass from the old pitch as it’s been relaid recently. It was really informative and for Chris and Me who aren’t really football fans, we still found it really really interesting especially when it came to all the history of the club.

Having fun at #manchesterunited

our BIG adventure 2013: Day 6

In the summer of 2013, our BIG adventure as a family was to Blackpool and the surrounding area. Here’s the story of our travels…

Blackpool Tower at Night

Today started with an early morning wake up call. At 3:30am Chris woke me up to find out where the paracetamol was. His wisdom teeth were having a party and decided to do a fidget. I fell back asleep almost straight away – I promise I was a bit more sympathetic. Then again all mine have ruptured and one was removed by extraction back in October so I don’t really have trouble with them any more.

I woke up again at sometime around 9ish I think but it was a lazy start to the day. We drove up the road to see how much of the Camelot Theme Park was still there. Unfortunately it’s all fenced off and there’s CCTV so we couldn’t really explore properly. We were able to go to one of the car parks which is near the top of a hill and we could see the top of the rollercoaster and we were able to take some pictures from there.

That's the top of the rollercoaster at Camelot Theme Park. So sad that its closed and the rollercoaster is derelict.

We went on a bit more of a random explore and ended up in Southport. Chris wanted to go for a proper explore but I think both Our Sidekick and I were just pleased for a “day off”. We’ve done quite a lot of walking this week and so a day when we do very little was quite welcomed.

We had a brief look at the pier at Southport which is the second longest in the UK after Southend-on-Sea.

We took a coastal route towards Liverpool to go to the cinema later in the day. We ended up going past Crosby beach. I had seen all these figures on the beach but there were so many people on there anyway I didn’t really question it. I’d seen the signs for “Anthony Gormley’s Another Place” and knew the name as he also designed the Angel of The North.

We turned round and found somewhere to park. While Chris was driving I had a look on the internet for further information. Its 100 metal figures looking out to sea spread across about two miles of beach. There’s something quite Doctor Who about it especially from the road as they just look like figures on the beach.

Chris was on a mission to make something fan. #latergram #beach

While we were on the beach we had a play with the sand and ended up spending about two hours on the beach in the end. We made a sand minion while Our Sidekick wrote messages in the sand and made towers to kick over again.

Beach Minion

Following our beach fun we got back in the car and headed for the cinema at Liverpool. As it was a Wednesday it worked out that we only had to pay for one ticket (I have an Unlimited card and with EE Wednesdays or whatever its called now it definitely cuts down the price). Our Sidekick had chosen to go see Grown Ups 2. Because of the show times we were too late for the 6:20 but too early for the 8:50 showing. Knowing how busy the Wednesday showings get at Bedford sometimes I said to Chris that we’d go buy the tickets then go find some food rather than trying to get the tickets just before the showing and risk not getting tickets given how far we’d travelled to get to the cinema.

The lad who served me definitely wasn’t Liverpudlian. I’m pretty sure he was American or Canadian. I’d expected that Chris would be my freebie and then I’d pay for a child’s ticket but NO! Our Sidekick was my freebie and I had to pay for an adult ticket but on the other had it still worked out at like £3 a ticket or something lol.

For dinner we found a local Crown Carvery (same company as our “local” The Bowling Green). It was busier than The Bowling Green. I think I definitely preferred The Bowling Green. During dinner we sat writing a list about good things and bad things about The Halfway House in comparison to The Bowling Green. Basically we preferred The Bowling Green! They were tonnes more helpful, the lady serving on the  CCarvery was cheerful and friendly and super helpful but The Halfway House wasn’t like that at all and the food wasn’t as good. I’ve kept the list and am going to email Customer Service – not to make a complaint as such but to almost point out that there isn’t brand continuity and things like that. 

We went to see Grown Ups 2 at the cinema, it was very funny and we all enjoyed it. Often Chris and me have very different tastes when it comes to films but it was good that we both enjoyed this. We also saw a trailer for About Time – Chris quite liked the look of it even though I am pretty sure it’s more of a chick flick lol. (What’s with Rachel McAdam’s and time-travelling lovers?!?)

All in all the film was good but I think Adam Sandler has lost his edge a little bit now – maybe I’m wrong – what do you think?

our BIG adventure 2013: Day 5

Blackpool Tower at Night

Today was going to be a tough day. I’m not a fan of a roller coasters whereas Chris is a MASSIVE fan and Our Sidekick is a fan to a certain point. I’d been prepared that it would be a Chris kind of day, so I took my iPad with me to keep reading my book while the boys did their bits. I decided that I’d go on one roller coaster just to make sure I still didn’t like them. I’d already decided that I wasn’t doing The Big One especially given the stress it had caused me the night before.

We arrived at the park and there as a massive queue to get in, thankfully the staff were well aware of the fact and had it in hand, they had like 10 tills open with two people redirecting people to the tills that were vacant. We were seen quite quickly although it was so busy. We got our passes and headed through the gate towards our first ride. On the way through the gate there was a bag search, one lady was really strict but the guy we got was really relaxed and let us through. The guy in fronts of us, had been to the strict lady and had to leave a bunch of his stuff at the gate (kind of eat it or lose it I think). Chris had already said that if they did take his gluten free stuff off him, he was going to argue that as they couldn’t confirm that they serve gluten free food on site then he’d have to take his food with him, but as we went to the guy instead we had no problems. The boys decided it was my choice first given that it would be something really tame…..and it was lol.

Got our wristbands. Here we go........queueing for Flying Machines. Apparently its my choice first then we're going for something scarier.....

I chose the Flying Machines which was along the lines of a chair swing but you seat about 8 people to a on aeroplane shaped car that swings round a centre point.

The boys are about to get very wet! #pleasurebeach

Following my choice it was time for the boys first choice, given the layout of the park this was Valhalla. I’d already decided that given how wet people we expected to get, I would sit out that one and hold onto everyone’s stuff. I found a bench near the ride and while the boys were in the queue, I ate my lunch and read my book on my iPad (still reading Naked Heat (Nikki Heat Book 2) by Richard Castle). Our Sidekick and Chris came off the ride, Chris was quite excited about the whole thing and telling me all about the ride. Our Sidekick on the other hand was soaked through and was very cold and a little upset.

Our Sidekick changed into his spare clothes that he’d brought with him. We then queued up for the next ride we were going on. I was pretty sure that going on the ride was going to upset me but I figured that I’d prove the point and do it anyway. The boys went in the seat in front of me which made it all that bit worse as I had to tell myself that it would be okay while the other part of me was seriously freaking out, I was doing okay until we shot down the first drop as I slammed back into the seat and caught my ribs on the lap bar and think I got a bit winded which upset me more. Our Sidekick turned round to check on me and I think I saw him poke Chris to tell him that I wasn’t doing okay. We got off and I walked as fast as I could to get out of the ride and find somewhere to sit. I felt so silly bawling my eyes out but at the same time I had told both the boys that I didn’t like roller coasters and I really didn’t want to do go on some of the rides. I’m glad I did it because it means I can cross off another goal on my bucket list but I’m still a little wobbly about going to Alton Towers in the Autumn.

Following the ride, we went to get the boys some food, we also watched the dancing fountains. The fountains bit was good but the music was a bit of a dodgy edit. It was music from Chicago but the edit would cut in the middle of a phrase which was slightly annoying.

I went to find a table to sit at while the boys got their food. While I was sat waiting for them to come back, a lady in front of me turned round and had a go at a couple sat at the table in front of me. I caught a chunk of the conversation but really didn’t know what to do, I’m pretty sure that the lady made some racist comments and generally had a to at the couple, how then got up and walked away. The lady and her family and friends then spread across two tables. She also took a chair from the table at I was sat at, she asked if the chair was free but didn’t wait for a reply before removing the chair.

Queuing for the #wallaceandgromit ride.

Following lunch we headed for the Wallace and Gromit ride. There was quite a queue for it but the good thing about it was that there were the actual animations and behind the scene bits being shown on TVs in the queuing area. The cars on the ride are like giant slippers. There’s a bit of a roller coaster but I was so busy focusing on which scene was recreated next on the ride that I didn’t really think about where the car was going. My favourite bit was the mice from A Grand Day Out, I really wanted to get one of the hoodies from the shop but they were a little on the expensive side but given that I’m pretty sure that they only sell them at the park I was willing to pay a little more.

We then headed to Nickelodeon Land, the boys went onto Streak but it took ages to get on there as one of the carriage’s was taken off the roller coaster and wasn’t in use. I found somewhere to sit and then stayed there and read. I moved once so that I was right in front of the track to try and snap some pictures, I do wish that I’d brought my DSLR with me but sometimes my phone does just as well as a camera and can just be chucked in my pocket and taken with me. (I am finding though that the battery is dying while we’re still out. I’m tempted to buy a spare battery but don’t know whether I should be going a different route).

We got a drink as Chris was getting a headache, then headed back into the main park. The boys went on Avalanche, it looked really cool but I knew that I wouldn’t be able to hack it so found a seat on the floor near the start of the ride and got writing on a blog post then read for a bit. The roller coaster is pretty cool as it climbs and then somehow releases off the track and the rolls itself the rest of the way along a “tunnel” like on a luge.

Chris decided at that point he was going to go on The Pepsi Max Big One and then we were going to call it a day. It took quite a while for him to queue and get on the ride. I had his phone as my phone battery and iPad battery died by the time he finally got to the front of the queue! I attempted to take the picture but I missed the button and then when he got to the bit that goes right above the path/bridge it finally did take the picture but the lens cover thing on Chris’s case flicked back across the lens as the picture took! Seriously are you kidding me! He got off and said that if he didn’t have the headache he would go on again but he really couldn’t hack it.

We left the park and on the way to the tram stop I power walked to a local shop to get Chris some painkillers and another drink for his headache. Chris normally fights his way through it or just crashes for a nap if he has a headache but given he’d asked for painkillers I knew he wasn’t feeling right. So……. I power walked off and then returned. We got back to the tram stop and Chris virtually downed his bottle of water with his painkillers. I could tell he was feeling better because we got on the tram and he was like “Shall we go to the end of the line and see what happens there?” So we did it I screwed up because I couldn’t find the tram ticket when we got to the other end to come back again. Eventually I did find it, I was wound up and stressing out as I was tired and needed some food. (The problem with virtually living on food out away from the hotel means I’m really struggling to make sure I’m eating enough and a balanced meal).

I drove us home, there was a massive queue on the M6 which was frustrating me, I had Chris telling me one thing, Our Sidekick commenting about other things, motorised cutting in front of me or getting irritated at me, in the end I kept lane hopping which I hate doing. The thing that didn’t really make sense to me is that the two left hand lanes were closed (at least the gantries said that) and we were down to two lanes but people kept using all four lanes…….I tried to stick in Lane 3 so I could get out the way as soon as the lanes reopened again but at one point I ended up between two lorries and really had to move out of the way.

As the restaurant we were headed to stopped serving food at 9:30 we ended up at Frankie and Benny’s instead. I was probably miles off plan but I needed food, I attempted to go for healthy things but I have no idea how bad I was. I had BBQ Pulled Pork Potato Skins and Veggie Gnocchi Bake (without chilli).

our BIG adventure 2013: Day 4

In the summer of 2013, our BIG adventure as a family was to Blackpool and the surrounding area. Here’s the story of our travels…

Blackpool Tower at Night

On Monday we went to Liverpool, Chris asked me where we were going so I said “To The Moon” oh dear this was a bad comment to make. Chris looked up on his iPad to find the moon. In the end he found a house or something like that, that registered on Apple Maps as The Moon, as I was driving I didn’t know this until the Splat Nav confirmed that we had arrived at our destination.

Following the magical mystery tour (actually I guess it was the first Magical Mystery Tour of the day but that will come later!) we headed for a local train station, when it came to the cost of parking near where we were going it made more sense for us to park a bit further out and catch a train into the city itself. We caught the train at Kirkdale and headed into the city – it was about 4 or 5 stops and probably took about 30 minutes ish. I think Chris said it was about £7 for all 3 of us on the train and that was a return ticket (I think a 1-6 Zone card in London is £6.50ish each!)

By the time we’d arrived in the centre it was almost lunchtime, I’d remembered to boil the water and fill up my flask for my pasta pot but it was only when I opened my bag did I realise that I hadn’t picked up the pasta pot. Eek! What was I going to have for lunch?? So I made a decision, it would involve spending syns which I was trying to save up for dinner and gave in to a chicken and mushroom Pot Noodle (I think it’s like 8 syns or something like that – it was bad but so good!! lol).

On the way to The Beatles Story we popped into Waterstones so that I could look at books and possibly spend my voucher I won at work last week. I bought The Apprentice by Tess Gerritsen (Book Two in the Rizzoli and Isles series that the TV show is based on) and a book by Kathy Reichs (it was one of the Tempe Brennan books but I can’t remember which one off the top of my head). I also bought a new Keri Smith book which I was stood at the till. I still haven’t finished my “Wreck This Journal” book but bought this new one…..seriously need to get my creative on! lol.

The #yellowsubmarine next to the #titanic. #albertdock
We then walked down to Albert Docks to go to The Beatle Story museum. For as long as I can remember I’ve liked The Beatles, in fact I’m convinced that I agree with James from Sliding Doors (played by John Hannah)……

Everybody’s born knowing all the Beatles lyrics instinctively. They’re passed into the fetus subconsciously along with all the amniotic stuff. Fact, they should be called “The Fetals”.

I always knew that they’d grown up in Liverpool and played lots of gigs at The Cavern Club but I learnt so much more, like The Beatles were originally called The Quarrymen and their fourth member wasn’t originally Ringo. Also that the other three had been at school together but George was like 3 years younger than the rest of them.

We had a bit of a family falling out on our way round to the second exhibition a bit further along the docks. At one point we nearly lost Our Sidekick as he was in a strop and wasn’t walking with us. We’d turned a corner and he’d thought we’d gone the other way – thankfully it wasn’t too much of a separation and we found each other within about five minutes.

The second display was a selection of photographs taken on tour and behind the scenes of The Beatles then a 4D movie including a bunch of Beatles songs and in the next gallery there was an exhibition and audio tour about Elvis and the affected had on The Beatles and the songs they wrote and played. The bit about Elvis was quite interesting but I think had it just been that bit I wouldn’t have necessarily gone to see that bit.

Dinner time! Took like 20 mins to order even though its quite empty......... #loveyoursummer
We had dinner at Pizza Express. I had a Grand Chicken Caesar Salad, I gave Our Sidekick the dough sticks minus a tiny bite that I had. Unfortunately, I found that it wasn’t filling enough. I ended up having the pasta pot that I hadn’t had for lunch when I got home which was a bit better.

our BIG adventure 2013: Day 3

Blackpool Tower at Night

This morning started with a similar amount of laziness. Chris and I grabbed showers before we headed out for the day. I drove us to Blackpool. We parked the car near the dunes outside of St Annes. Our Sidekick loved hanging out there as he was able to practice stunts into the sand and it didn’t hurt. I climbed up the dune after Chris and Our Sidekick. At the top of the dune, the wind was really strong to the extent that as I got to the top of the dune the sand was hitting me in the face! I ended up wearing my waterproof jacket to try and keep the sand off me.

Dunes

We headed over the dunes onto the beach itself, I took up residence towards the back of the beach. Our Sidekick carried on doing stunts behind me while Chris got out his kite and had a play with it, the wind was that strong that the kite took off at quite some speed. While I was sat on the beach I did some Sudoku puzzles and watched the wake boarders in the shallows.

I made it to the top!!

As we walked back over dunes, the boys kept challenging me to walk down the steep bit of the dune rather than taking the easier bit. Well I did manage it then to prove the point I walked up the steep bit to then turn round and come back down again. I think my biggest concern was that I wasn’t going to be able to catch my footing and go head first or something like that. When I was sat at the top trying to assess which route to go down and whether to sit down and then walk my feet down or just go for it, Our Sidekick and Chris kept digging the sand out from underneath my feet and my bottom so that I had to move down whether I liked it or not.

#blackpooltower

We headed into Blackpool itself, Chris drove along the Promenade and then we found somewhere to park (Tip: if you’re happy to walk a little bit (like 5-10 mins back to the sea front) Banks Street car park is £2 for 12 hours. I think this goes up to £4/£6 for 24 hours and you can park up to 96 hours should you need it). We had a potter round the shops and along the sea front. The boys had fish and chips for lunch, I stole one of Chris’s chips so I didn’t feel left out, while I waited for my pasta pot thing to do its stuff. I’m glad it’s syn free but with all the walking we have been doing I really needed something bigger for lunch and maybe the pasta pot for tea instead. We spent the rest of the afternoon pottering round. We each had £1 to have a go on the arcade machines. Our Sidekick and I played air hockey (he won 6-2) then I played on one of the dance mat machines, the one I wanted to play on that had songs I knew was out of order so I played on a different one, I wasn’t that good – I think I’m just out of practice!

For dinner we went to Bella Italia (Chris had been really organised and organised various different vouchers and deals for us to use during the week. He’s the Voucher King!!) I chose Tagliatelle Pomodoro, I figured given that it was basically pasta with tomato sauce although it might not be syn free it might at least be low syn. I “spent” my syns on a doughnut (don’t panic it was a small square one about the size of a debit card and about 3cm thick. I figured given the walking and unused syns through the day it would be okay).

Dinner..... #slimmingworld #bellaitalia #tagliatelle

After dinner we crossed over the road to The Winter Gardens to see why there had been lots of people in sparkly outfits wearing numbers on their backs like audition numbers. It turned out it was the World Dance Masters competition and people were wearing numbers so that they could be identified by the judges. We weren’t allowed in to watch properly (you had to pay quite a lot for a ticket and things like that!). I briefly watched a couple of people walking through their routine in the foyer, then we turned to leave. As we walked back through the foyer I said to Chris it looked a bit like something out of a Busby Berkeley film, I think he agreed with me even though he didn’t necessarily know who I was talking about (he used to direct the big dance numbers in Fred Astaire and Ginger Rogers films).

Guess where I am.........

We then headed up to the Tower Ballroom as each evening through the summer they have a Family Fun Night. Now that I had food in my tummy and energy to do stuff I kept being really silly, I tried swinging Chris round then kept walking into him to try and put him off and things like that. We entered the Blackpool Tower main entrance and spoke to a young lady about where to go and things like that. We’d gone in the wrong side for the Ballroom so walked through the arcade and some other bits to get to the main staircase and elevator. I took the elevator up as we weren’t sure how far it was from the ground floor to the ballroom level. We hung out in the corridor to start with as we had been told we wouldn’t be allowed into the ballroom itself until it opened at 7. After a little explore it turned out that it was already open. We wandered in and found somewhere to sit. I was impressed at how big it was but did remark to Chris that having seen it on Strictly Come Dancing quite a few times it always seemed bigger on the television.

During the kid’s dance competition up the front they were doing the Cha Cha Slide, originally I’d tried to get Our Sidekick to come dance with me but in the end Chris did – I’m guessing that means I could say that I’ve danced at The Tower Ballroom also could say that I’ve danced on the same dance floor as Anton Du Beck, Brendan Cole and Erin Boag amongst others! Also had to teach Chris how to do the cha cha step in the Cha Cha Slide and the how to do the Highland Jig bit of The Music Man. (He needs more practice lol).

We stayed to watch the kid’s magician, the UV performance and then the first couple of tricks from the Illusionist who was performing later in the evening. The first magician chap was okay but really not my cup of tea. The UV Puppet show was good and kind of entertaining but the technique wasn’t amazing. At a puppet workshop I’ve been to in the past, we were told how when your puppet talks or sings it should keep its head still and the jaw does all the work (try talking by keeping your lower jaw still and moving your upper jaw to do all the work – it’s really hard right?!)

The illusionist again was okay if that’s your kind of thing, he did one trick where he had a giant present and at first it was light then he did a little dance and presented to the audience then he went back to try it again and it was heavy, he then opened it and there was his assistant. The next trick involved making his assistant disappear. He presented the box that he was going to put her in and how the mechanism worked and that sort of thing. Then he put her in and set to work. I thought I had some idea of how it was done because of the way he presented it the second time but I’m still not side. Maybe I’m just a skeptic of something but I really don’t like magic/illusion shows. I spent most of the evening writing notes for this blog post. I might make a list of notes but I don’t tend to write my post out in full while still having the adventure because I’m likely to miss something otherwise.

While we had been waiting to go in I had noticed an amazing tiled area outside of the Blackpool Tower. It has lots of writing across it and I wanted to go and explore it some more. The biggest quote that dominates it (and can be seen from the windows outside the ballroom) is “Nice to see you, to see you, Nice!” On our way back to the car, we (well I while forcing the boys) stopped to have a closer look. Some I recognised instantly and others took a little more concentrating. Some made me laugh out loud (really loud! Oops!).

My favourite was the lyrics to Bring Me Sunshine by Eric and Ernie. Hence the picture, I think only fans will get what I’m trying to do a video in daylight might work better! (Might have to do that when we go to the Tower or Pleasure Beach later in the week).

Bring Me Sunshine

In the car on the way back I thought about how come I love the “older” comedy like The Goons, Month Python, Morecambe and Wise and The Two Ronnies, but don’t necessarily like newer comedy. Now I’m not saying that’s all comedy after all I’ve been to see Dave Gorman and The Hairy Bikers live (in fact both were at Cambridge Corn Exchange) but comedy isn’t the same any more and I can’t really put my finger on it. I wondered if it was the comedy now is ruder or contains more swearing or something like that but then I’m sure there were comedians back then that were pushing boundaries and things like that. Now I know that Monty Python is a little rude in places and so probably doesn’t fit the equation, I’m guessing they were pushing the boundaries a bit (just look at the news stories around the release of The Life of Brian!).

our BIG adventure 2013: Day 1 and 2

In the summer of 2013, our BIG adventure as a family was to Blackpool and the surrounding area. Here’s the story of our travels…

Blackpool Tower at Night

Friday was always set to be completely crazy, even at the beginning of the week I knew I was going to need to be super organised by the end of the week to make sure I did everything I needed to before the end of the week arrived. I packed my clothes before bed on Thursday, I had the washing machine and dryer running to make sure we were almost up to date on the laundry. I made sure that everything was ready and I just had to come home between work and Holiday Club to wash up my lunch box. I finished work at 5 as normal. Then went to Holiday Club, which wasn’t sane either as it was the last night so the parents came to see what we had been up to. Following that we jumped in the car and dashed to a friend’s leaving do. Apparently, he arrived home to the surprise and when everyone shouted “Surprise” he panicked and ran off up the street – it would have been good to be a fly on the wall for that! When we arrived after 9pm we walked through the door and Our Sidekick and I got a massive bear hug from our friend. During the party, we all gathered in the living room to pray and speak words of encouragement over our friend. He also said that it was the first time someone had organised a surprise party for him and he was super grateful.

We had to leave the party early to head off on holiday. We popped home to do some last minute bits that couldn’t be done earlier. Then we jumped into the car and headed northwards and onto holiday. We arrived at the hotel just after 3am. Funnily enough, the chap on reception looked wide awake! We hit the bed and next thing I knew it was 9:30 – why couldn’t my body make me sleep just a little longer?!?!

#minionadventures it be breakfast time. Oh its 8 to 12......oops that's what you get when you mess with a body clock!

I sat and read/played on my phone until the boys woke up. After we’d pulled ourselves together and had some breakfast we popped over to the service station to see what restaurants there were and how expensive they would be. After that, we headed to Wigan for an explore around the town. In one of the main shopping areas, there was a big stage with a band playing. When we arrived there the band was playing some crazy heavy metal tunes, when we walked through a bit later the band were playing “The Rock Show” by Blink182. I don’t think the boys appreciated me singing it for most of the rest of the afternoon. We popped to M&S and I had my first excellent customer service experience of the day.

After exploring for a bit we headed back to the hotel – after the nuts week I had my body caught up and I was exhausted even from the little explore we did. We all chilled out at the hotel for a bit and then in the evening we went to a local carvery called The Bowling Green Inn which is in one of the villages near where we are staying. While we were there we had our second excellent customer service experience.

How cool and quirky is this roof..... #bowlinggreen #crowncarveries

We headed home and we watched Mission Impossible and Knight and Day as they were both on television last night (actually there were quite a few films on last night actually, Harry Potter and the Order of The Phoenix was on one of the other channels about the same time. Following the movies we all headed to bed ready for the next day of adventuring.

slightly floored…

Since I was 16, I’ve worked in various customer service roles, I’ve been a cashier in a supermarket, been a waitress for a catering company, been a advisor for a safe manufacturer, even my current role involves some customer service along the way. I’ve always been some what aware of good customer service and bad customer service. One time I was in the supermarket I used to work for and someone mistook me for being an employee, I explained that I didn’t work there but could still answer their question, I had a similar experience in a store that know for selling car accessories and parts – I’d been in the queue at the parts desk waiting to ask if they had particular part for my Fiat Seicento (I used to drive a sunshine yellow one!) while I was in the queue the lady either behind me or in front of me commented how she just needed one part and it was ridiculous having to wait this long given the number of staff on the shop floor. I’d happen to already seen the part and offered to point her in the right direction.

Why am I talking about this, well today Chris and I had two really amazing experiences of good customer service.

The first one was while we were out for the day. We popped into the M&S in Wigan for me to get my bra remeasured (I know TMI but it does make sense if you just bear with). I’m one of those girls who leaves it too long between being measured and is often wearing the wrong size (unless I’ve just been measured!). I left the boys downstairs in the Food Hall and headed up to the Ladies department, I found the current size and style that I’m wearing and went to the changing room, I got there but there was no-one attending, I spotted a customer service person who was putting stock back on the racks, so I asked her politely if there was someone around doing measuring. She said yes and then took me back towards the changing rooms. When I’ve been in the past to the Bedford or Milton Keynes store I always feel like I’m a nuisance and causing issues but this lady was so lovely and so helpful. She measured me and said that although I was measuring at a smaller size it might be worth trying on my current and the smaller size. I think in the end I tried on like 4 different bras in two different sizes but she was so helpful. I tried on the second one and she pointed out that although it was an okay bra it didn’t really have the support, how about I try a different one. She popped off while I changed and came back with a particular one to try. She also came back with another one, she said “I don’t know if you’re kind of thing but thought I’d bring it anyway” – it was a really lacy one, I pointed out that the problem with those ones is that you end up with a pattern to your t-short even when you don’t mean too lol.

I’m telling you all this because she genuinely did want to help me, she didn’t make me feel like a nuisance and she went above and beyond, she must have been back to the shelf like 3 or 4 times and the particular ones I was trying on were the furthest from the changing room! She brought me that lacy one, which she didn’t have to do but she chose to, it made me feel cared for in a way.

For dinner we went to a pub/restaurant called The Bowling Green (it’s part of a chain called Crown Carveries). It’s local to where we are staying. As I’m on Slimming World having all the bits I would normally have wasn’t going to work, I had resigned to just giving in, eating what I liked and then dealing with the consequences tomorrow. Chris on the other hand wouldn’t take that defeatist attitude and created a list of what I could have. Actually once we plated it, it wasn’t that bad and I was full up. Our Sidekick and Chris went up to get their food while I guarded our stuff. I was a little disappointed as it wasn’t clear about whether we had to wait to be seated or park ourselves. Chris reappeared with his food and was really excited. At the counter the first thing they asked was “Would you like a Yorkshire pudding?” Well Chris can’t have them as he’s gluten free, he said no and explained why to the lovely lady serving, she turned round and asked Chris if he’d like her to tell him what he can and can’t have to avoid the gluten. One of the things on the can’t have list was cauliflower cheese because of the gluten in the sauce, she explained this then explained that the chef was just making some more so she’d try and catch the cauliflower before it got the cheese sauce on it if Chris would like some. He’s a dustbin when it comes to food so he said yes please, he came back to the table with a plate full of Carvery and a separate bowl that contained the cauliflower without cheese.

All in all it was a good day, it had started off quite lazy given how late we actually arrived at the hotel, actually having a sort of lazy day was really good. Between all the crazy this last week I really needed just to chill and not charge around like a headless chook!

friendship

friendship

Often when I pose questions about friendship or write about it, it can sometimes be quite negative which can be kind of mean. Now that Holiday Club has finished and I’ve got chance to get some thoughts down I thought I’d go ahead and scribble, well tap them down, this time it’s more positive and general wonderings.

Someone made a comment to me about investing in friendships and growing a particular friendship. Then I got thinking about how do you grow a friendship because clearly it’s not like growing a plant (which I’m not very good at!). It’s not like you can take the friendship outside and feed it plant food, replant it in a bigger pot which with rich compost and make sure you water it each day. Oh and make sure it has enough sunshine but not too much.

(It’s kind of dawned on me that it might come out like I’m begging for sympathy which isn’t the case at all. I’m putting these thoughts out there to see what you guys think and if you’ve got advice and all that kind of thing)

Yeah so, I’ve got a bunch of friends who’d I’d class as my best friends but minus the leaving party this evening for a mutual friend I hadn’t really seen any of them for a while unless it’s been at church things and then you tend to be talking about the church thing or listening to the preach/singing your socks off in the worship.

In that academical (is that a word?) kind of way I went off to look at the dictionary definition of a friendship…..

Friendship is a relationship of mutual affection between two or more people. Friendship is a stronger form of interpersonal bond than an association

So how do you make a friendship? I thought about the situation where you approach another child in the playground and sheepishly ask them “will you be my friend?” Well that works when your 6 and want someone to play with but what about when you’re an adult? Could I approach an adult and ask the same question? I’m not really sure I could. What do you think?

Once you get past that initial awkwardness how do you develop that friendship? Again back to the plant analogy, what’s the compost that feeds a friendship, what’s the sunshine in that friendship and what’s that plant food? I guess you then get into the realm of “If I text you to see how you’re doing is once a day too much or should it be closer to a few times a week?”

It’s possible that I’m overanalysing this and that it’s actually much simpler than I’m making it out to be, but maybe it is complicated. Is it possible to be love with the idea of the perfect best friend but not necessarily be able find one? (Or two?)

Then I get thinking about what qualities would you look for in a friend? I’d look for someone I could have a laugh with, could trust with my secrets and thoughts but also someone who was going to encourage me to step out my comfort zone once in a while and challenge me in my faith (not in bad ways but in like a “so what would God say about that……?” and challenge me to be a better Christian).

Right given the time I am going to head off for a sleep now. Hope you are all doing okay.

getting healthy pt 3

Blog bits

With a wedding and holiday club between this week’s weigh in and last week I knew it wasn’t going to be a pretty picture. I was hoping that running around like a headless chook for most of the week would help to make a difference but in the end it didn’t. Between finishing work at 5 and then doing holiday club until 9 I ended up eating really late (one night it was 11pm) the problem with eating that late is that your body doesn’t have time to burn the energy off that you’ve just put it in it.

I went to my weigh in yesterday and it wasn’t very good. I had only lost half a pound, in comparison to the week before it was a small loss but I’m told it could be that its a small loss this week and then a big one could come next week maybe (well the week after as I can’t make it).

My ongoing favourite optimised food is jacket potato and beans – on Slimming World they are both free foods. Yummy!

getting healthy pt 2

Blog bits
I think its actually part 3 of getting healthy posts if you include my letter to Chris. This is a high speed post as I walk to work so hopefully it makes sense. Those of you who follow me on Twitter and Facebook will know that yesterday didn’t exactly go to plan. I think I might have to stop planning life and just go with the flow. Either way it meant I didn’t really have chance to write a proper post.

Yesterday I moved group – it turned out a friend of mine had signed up the same week as me so it made sense to go to the same group and encourage each other along.

I had my first proper weigh in yesterday I thought I was going to be closer to 5 pounds lost but it was 4 in the end. Which isn’t a problem. It means I’m 3 pounds off my half stone which I’m aiming for next week. That sticker will be mine lol.

How are you all doing on your goals to lose weight or just get healthy? Let me know maybe we can encourage each other along.

this weekend i…

Joining with Sar from [Life of Love] and Syndal from Synfully Delicious.
This Weekend I… finished up a bunch of stuff for my Mum. It was either this evening or another evening that my brother and I had a whole conversation about actors swapping TV shows recently. We are both Warehouse 13 fans and there have been so many “cross overs” of actors from other sci-fi shows. For example Anthony Head and James Marsters who appear in Buffy (and possibly Angel) as Giles and Spike respectively appear as brothers in Warehouse 13. Then you have the invasion of the Star Trek cast. Kate Mulgrew (Janeway from Voyager), Brent Spiner (Data from TNG), Jeri Ryan (Seven of Nine from Voyager) and Rene Auberj (Odo from DS9). If that wasn’t confusing enough Alison Scaglietti who plays Claudia then appeared in Bones as a character’s PA. Soon adds up that my brain is completely muddled and confused!

I know I'm my #grandad's granddaughter when I catch myself doing this! #pencil #ears

This Weekend I… well we, as it was our first proper free Saturday in a while we decided to go on a “house” field trip. We ended up at Anglesey Abbey which was really good fun. There’s a tree house that you can climb (at the highest point you can get to its 6.5 metres from the ground!). I’d armed Our Sidekick with my phone so that he could snap away while I snapped away with my DSLR. We have a screensaver that runs on our TV when you leave it paused or on a menu – it’s quite good and I decided we needed some more pictures so that was the idea. I still need to get the pictures off my phone and onto the computer. Our Sidekick snapped this one while we were messing around.

#oursidekick snapped this picture of @thecgbj and me messing around.

This Weekend I… got an amazing message from my friend who had read my post on Saturday about starting Slimming World and she’s started exactly the same evening as me! It was very encouraging and good to know I’m not on my own!

This Weekend I… went to see my Mum, she arrived home from New Zealand around 4pm ish so we popped by to say hello and get lots of hugs. My Mum said she found that the people in New Zealand are really huggy and welcoming so she was used to being hugged by virtual strangers lol. She was a bit spaced because of the jet lag and was a bit confused about what time of day it was, I think I’d worked it out to be about 3/4am in New Zealand when we went to see her and she said because of the flights they’d had about 5 meals but they hadn’t necessarily corresponded with the time she thought it was so often wasn’t hungry – I remember having that on the way back from Turkey and that’s only four hours ahead of the UK – what would I be like on more difference?!?

This Weekend I… finished watching Star Trek. It had been on the TV a couple of nights ago so I had recorded it to watch at some point. We ended up having massive conversations about the history like how the new Kirk is the same Kirk who William Shatner plays in Star Trek TOS. Then how far in the future was TNG from TOS. Also that Leonard Nimoy appears in TOS and the new-ish film (I think Our Sidekick only knows who he is thanks to The Big Bang Theory. I might have to borrow TNG off my brother if he has it – it was part of my teenage nerd education!)

This Weekend I… sang in the worship band at church. While I was at band practice Chris played taxi to collect some of our friends so that they could come to church too. During the service our friend’s little girl who I call Pickle came to sit on my lap. While she was there hse fell asleep in my arms. She was really out for the count especially when I started to fidget. After church Pickle and her Mum came for lunch at our house. Thankfully Chris was onto it because I was feeling rubbish and just needed some kip. I dozed for about an hour – I know that Our Sidekick came in and I’m pretty sure there were elephants tap dancing on the stairs but in the end I did feel better and felt even better when I’d had some food.

My friend's little girl fell asleep on my knee....so cute

This Weekend I… watched Arrietty with Chris. We both grew up on the Mary Norton stories following The Borrowers and when Our Sidekick first moved in with us we would read him the stories (not because he couldn’t read himself but it meant that we could have some bonding time and do that parent kind of thing – I think he loved the fact that we gave up doing whatever we were doing to spent that time just with him). I originally saw Arrietty at the cinema with a friend, actually taking a picture of this and posting on Instagram and commenting on one of her photos spun off a whole conversation about her coming for tea one day and us hanging out and watching Studio Ghibli films.

Watching #arrietty. Last time I saw it was at the cinema with @codenamechii.

This Weekend I…technically it was no longer the weekend but given that it was Chris’s birthday I had taken the day off work. Last year there was a miscommunication amongst other things regarding Chris’s birthday and what we were going to do for the day. So this year I wanted to make sure I did what i could to do something about it. I had left my normal work alarm on so that I could make the most of the day. I was about to get all in the swing of things when we found that we had ingredients missing and we also had equipment missing -like who ate my sieve?!?! It can’t have gone far right?!?! With the help of Apple and Google I was able to find a recipe to make Chris gluten free American Style pancakes – I found they were really stodgy and didn’t spread very well – I’m told they were really nice (either that or he was making it up and saying they were nice when in fact they were disgusting lol).

#glutenfree #pancakes for the birthday boy! Aka @thecgbj

This Weekend I…also made normal pancakes – what was a few more given the explosion that had happened in the kitchen. I threw the ingredients together as per a different recipe and again it was really stodgy. I did try a little bit of Our Sidekick’s pancakes and genuinely (and quite desperately!) wanted to have a whole pancake but I stuck with the bite that Our Sidekick let me have. (I WILL BE GOOD!!)

Desperately resisting the urge to eat this #pancake lol. Made non-glutenfree ones for #oursidekick

dear christopher…

Allow me to wax lyrcial about my husband for a moment – I promise it won’t take long and you can always hit that big red button and close the window if you can’t be done with the romantic pukings for a few moments.

This week has had its ups and downs – come to think of it July had lots of them too by itself!

On Tuesday after I’d been to the cinema with Our Sidekick I came home and Chris and I got the house ready for our Fostering Annual Review that we expected to be on Wednesday before Connect Group. He surprised me with the picnic that I wrote about earlier in the week.

On Monday our friend JD came round for tea and to hang out as we hadn’t really seen her recently. She’s been on a mission and has lost a bunch of weight and got healthier in the process. Chris had mentioned how different she looked and I explained what she’d been up to. So…on Thursday I went to join Slimming World. Now the idea of dieting to me fills me with a bit of dread – am I going to need to watch what I eat for the rest of my life to make sure I don’t put all the weight that I lose back on again? With my friend Dwayne who’s been helping with all the exercise stuff heading back home in a few weeks, am I going to fall back into bad habits?

No chance! Chris is on a mission of his own. When I got in from band on Thursday I hadn’t had any tea – I’d polished off two bananas but that’s not really tea. As a sort of last hurrah I had chicken nuggets from a certain yellow arched fast food takeaway place (mainly because Our Sidekick hadn’t had tea either as Chris had to put his International Rescue uniform on and go rescue a friend while I was at band). 6 chicken nuggets have quite a few syns – they aren’t impossible to fit into the plan but most days I will probably attempt to avoid them! I kept a note of what I had eaten on Thursday (although I think most of it wasn’t on plan!) and so officially on Friday morning I started this slightly mad journey.

#loveis when your husband helps make your meals etc for the following day. (And cooks chicken at 11pm at night for your lunch the next day!!) @thecgbj

Breakfast consisted of Shreddies and milk – the shreddies had to be measured quite precisely to make sure they fit as my Healthy B Choice…the milk also was measured – 250ml on the dot – that’s it for the whole day!

Lunch – Chris had cooked me a piece of chicken that I could have cold with chopped up carrots and then a banana for pudding. I got part way through my chicken and it wasn’t cooked completely so I had to leave it. I was in a bit of a panic as I had 15 minutes left of my lunch break and needed something to fill the lunch sized hole. I grabbed a sandwich from the canteen – it was egg mayo (low fat mayo that is) with two slices of brown or wholemeal bread (I’m told there is a difference but I’ve still not quite figured it out!). I did get a little worked up because I knew that I’d mounted up the syns against me just through lunch.

Dinner – this was a little easier as Chris was here to help me out. He cooked pasta, a better cooked piece of chicken and saw that I could have soy sauce as syn free so it was sprinkled over the top. I also had baby carrots.

Breakfast this morning consisted of two weetabix, a banana and natural yoghurt – the yoghurt is manky, it’s quite sour in taste……… Chris says I can try sweetener in it to make it taste a bit better. Can you use sweetener in cakes? I wonder…..that might take some more research.

#breakfast #slimmingworld it WILL be worth it!

Why am I saying this all this? Well… because Chris is being amazing, okay it’s only officially Day Two and a whole heap could go wrong from here but he’s being great helping me out to make sure I stay on track. Now we’re off on an adventure so I will catch you lot a whole bunch later. TTFN.

adventures and holidays: paris

Back at the beginning of July, I started a series about adventures and holidays, I’m pretty sure that my next holiday will be somewhere in the UK mainland rather than jetting off somewhere far away and sunny. For now, a girl can dream so I’m going to share my adventures (or plans of adventures with you.

This time we’re off to….

Paris

For as long as I can remember I’ve loved France. I’ve been to Dunkirk and stood on the beaches that were once stormed by soldiers, I went to Bayeux and saw the tapestry (it’s really long!), I’ve also been to Strasbourg. But all in all, Paris is my favourite so far.

A few years ago, we were able to go to Paris for a weekend, while we were there I kept a log of where we had been on each day. I’m pretty sure that I did write about the places we had been and the experiences we had had but in case I didn’t here a sort of summary.

In Paris, you can often find that you are less than 500 metres from a Metro Station. We got a two-day pass for the Metro – this was about 30 euros in total for both of us – it’s kind of the equivalent of a Travelcard – I think if you are there longer it’s worth looking at the equivalent of an Oyster card.

We went to look for the Statue of Liberty’s sister on Alles des Cygnes but while we were there the island was closed so we weren’t able to go and see it up close. We visited the Eiffel Tower actually during the day but on our way home from dinner one evening we could see the lights on the Eiffel Tower lighting up the night sky.

I thought I had been to the Shakespeare and Company book shop (37 rue de la Bûcherie, 5e, Quartier Latin.) but having started writing this I’m not entirely sure. Oh well, Shawn who used to run Bedford Book Connections tells me that when I next go to Paris, it needs a proper visit. This is also sort of tied to a film theme (oh man I’m beginning to sound like Scarlett from From Notting Hill with Love… Actually by Ali McNamara).

In the film Julie and Julia, Julia Child (Meryl Streep) goes to the Shakespeare and Company bookshop to try and find a French cooking book in English, unfortunately, they aren’t able to help her. A few years ago when Chris and I went to Paris we went and stood on the Pont Du Alexandre (and took some silly pictures) I then took Chris on a bit of a wild goose chase trying to find the apartment Julia Child once lived in at 81 Rue de L’Université. I think when we were in Paris I had got this wrong and so I stood outside what I thought was the building semi-complaining about how it looked like a really rubbish office block. You can find out other Julia-themed places to visit here.

Pont du Alexandre
When Chris said we were going to Paris I had a heap of places to visit having watched Amelié – what can I say I’m a film nerd who likes to visit places from the movies! Montmartre is the main area featured in the film but it also appears in others. Following a trip to La Grande Defence, we caught the Metro to the Sacre Coeur. When I was in Sixth Form I went on a trip to Paris and I remember looking out the window of the coach at the Parisian skyline and seeing the sunshine reflecting off the building and decided that when I came back to Paris that was where I was going.

Montmatre/Abbesses
There are three main options for getting from the Metro to the top to see the church. The easiest is by the funicular railway which runs straight up the side of the hill. The next is the stairs which run alongside the funicular – most definitely not for the fainthearted! Chris decided that we’d take the stairs, I did two flights of the stairs and was dying (I had a chest infection and was just getting used to my inhalers for Asthma. At one point I had a bottle of water in one hand and my inhaler in the other, I didn’t want it to beat me but it nearly did. By the time we had made it to the top I really didn’t want to see it I wanted to curl up and sleep.

La Sacre Ceour
All in all, I do really love Paris, it really helps if you can make the effort to speak French while you are there. I think most people are often more grateful that you’ve made the effort and then will help you in English anyway. I asked a chap where the nearest supermarket was and he pointed over my shoulder to a Monoprix – the one that we found near the Champs Elyseé has a clothing department on the ground floor level and then you go into the basement for the food section – I’m guessing this probably makes it look a bit more appealing from the street level.

five minute friday

Five Minute Friday
I found out about Five Minute Friday from my friend James’s blog. So it’s not technically Friday any more and I’m not even sat at my own desk. At least I wasn’t at my desk when I started this post. Now I’m finishing it on my phone between bites of my sandwich.

So the rules from Lisa’s Blog go something like this……..

We write for five minutes flat. All on the same prompt that I post here at 1 minute past midnight EST ever Friday. And we connect on Twitter with the hashtag #FiveMinuteFriday

No extreme editing; no worrying about perfect grammar, font, or punctuation.

Unscripted. Unedited. Real.

It started because I’d been thinking about writing and how often our perfectionism gets in the way of our words. And I figured, why not take 5 minutes and see what comes out: not a perfect post, not a profound post, just five minutes of focused writing.

So now on Fridays a group of people who love to throw caution to the wind and just write without worrying if it’s just right gather to share what five minutes buys them. Just five minutes.

Your words. This shared feast.

This week’s word is……Broken.

This week has been tense. Today after work we were due to have our Annual Review for being foster carers, this meant between work, caring for Our Sidekick and the general craziness that ensues around here we really needed to pull the finger out and get on with making sure the house was spotless and presentable. Following going to the cinema with Our Sidekick yesterday I came home and worked on tidying some of the house. Chris and I had had a falling out earlier in the day and so all in all we were hot bothered and tired. I was on my hands and knees sweeping up in the hall way when Chris declared that “we are going to stop tidying – anything else can be done tomorrow” followed by “I’ve got something to show you please come out in the garden.”

Well I put my shoes on and headed down the garden. On the far side of the trampoline, was a blanket, Chris had also made a circle of tea lights in the grass around it. He set about lighting the candles but the lighter was broken.

He came up with a plan and managed to get the candles to light in the end. We had strawberries and mascarpone as well as “posh” fruit juice.

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this weekend i…

Joining with Sar from [Life of Love] and Syndal from Synfully Delicious.

This Weekend I… started by getting up early to take Our Sidekick to church to meet some friends who were going up to Soul Survivor for a day trip. I’m presuming he had fun as he arrived home about midnight and put himself to bed with no requests from me.

This Weekend I… walked into town with Chris, we went for a wander round some of the shops and Chris got to show off a shop that he found that has cheap (but nice) yarn. We then headed along the High Street for the High Street Showcase – it was really good but I think by having some of the stalls along Mill Street they kind of missed out with some of the foot fall that the rest of the High Street got.

This Weekend I/We… wandered back to church from town and happened to bump into our friend, we stopped and had a drink while chatting about anything and everything. I left Chris with our friend and walked back to church for the car as I needed to go to the Oldies Home.

This Weekend I… went to the Oldie’s Home to serve lunch, it was my last Saturday, as I work all week and Chris can sometimes get Saturdays off work it makes sense to try and hang out all together when we can (just like now we’re watching Failure to Launch as a family!).

This Weekend I/We… went to our Next Door Neighbour’s house for a BBQ – it was really lovely, it was mainly family but they’d also invited us, the family on the other side of our house and the family who live next door to them. In fact all the neighbours ended up hanging around the same table which was quite cool, we got to have proper conversations with the people that we normally kind of say hello to in the street or swap parcels when each other are out and things like that.

This Weekend I… went to the cinema with S, we hadn’t seen each other in a while and it was quite good to have a girlie evening. We went to see The World’s End (the new Simon Pegg and Nick Frost film). It was good and enjoyable but I don’t think they were on top form – I think they have done better. What do you think? Following the cinema I came home and tidied up the kitchen and got on with my chores that I should have done earlier in the day.

This Weekend I… went to church, originally Chris was going to play taxi to four people but in the end it was just two so Our Sidekick and I ended up going in the car. It was a really good service and there was lots of pray for parents and for children. When they gave out the request to bring children forward Our Sidekick had disappeared to the loo, I went to find him then half dragged him to the front as he missed what was going on but when we got to the front it did make sense! Following church we went to have dinner with our friends which was good to hang out with them.

This Weekend I… came home following church and worked my way through all the recorded TV that I had (most was repeats!) also watched some movies. In the end I watched CSI, Letters to Juliet, Failure to Launch and The Love Bug. It’s strange how people keep appearing in different shows. Brick from Hart of Dixie appeared in CSI as a baddie – in the same episode one of the squints from Bones appears as a sidekick of the baddie. I was watching 500 Days of Summer the other night and Tom (played by Joseph Gordon Levitt) has two friends – one also plays an assistant in Body of Proof and the other one is in Criminal Minds – soon adds up that my brain is a bit mushie lol.

this weekend i…

Joining with Sar from [Life of Love] and Syndal from Synfully Delicious.
This Weekend I… went to a yarn and fabric sale at Christchurch. Monster Yarns were there (yes, they are my favourite yarn people ever! and so passionate and excited about it rather than making me feel like a complete nuisance when I ask stupid questions!)

This Weekend I… following the news that Our Sidekick’s mum was taken into hospital, in the slot where Our Sidekick normally goes for contact, I took him to the hospital to see her. She was still sedated but it was good that Our Sidekick got to see her for a little while.

This Weekend I…. then dropped Our Sidekick off at his friend’s house for a sleepover. There was a change of plans so they didn’t do part of what was planned but I’m sure he still had fun. I headed back to my Mum’s house to do a bunch of stuff for her while she’s in New Zealand with Kathy.

This Weekend I…. went home and washed my hair and then Chris and I went over to MK to Ikea and then to Red Hot Buffet. While in Ikea I received Call No 1 from my Mum. Thankfully Ikea have joined a lot of other stores and now offer Free Wifi to their customers (this is really good seeing how there’s a signal black spot in the middle of the store!). At Red Hot, I had chicken korma and egg friend rice. I had some sweet and sour pork but decided that a plate and a half was enough for me as it would undo any of the good that I’ve managed to do in the last couple of weeks. Given how crazy the last few days have been I pretty much went straight to bed when I got home.

This Weekend I… got up and collected our friend and her friend on the way to church – I even remembered to take my bible so that I could use that instead of my phone! The idea being I’d listen better…….

This Weekend I… almost went to lunch with my friend as it was his birthday yesterday. That was until it turned out that Our Sidekick hadn’t followed the instructions I’d given him, our friend’s daughter needed to go back to a&e and I ended up playing taxi lots.

This Weekend I… sat in a&e with our friend and her little girl. Worked out that if I held her with her head on my right arm, her left arm tucked under my arm, and then my left arm over her legs and my hand under her back/side then I could rock her and dance around the paediatric cubicle. When we got moved to the children’s ward (don’t get me started on that one!), the dancing carried on and I nattered away about the cartoon character pictures that are hanging from the ceiling. It seemed to keep her calm especially as the doctors took ages to see her.

This Weekend I… went to Dad’s to collect Our Sidekick, I ended up staying and we watched Hook and then a bunch of TV that Mum has on Series Link for me. I love Hook – never realised until my Brother pointed it out but young Wendy is played by Gwyneth Paltrow!

Hook

This Weekend I… had two(!) Skype calls with my mum – the first was intentionally to me, the second was to my Dad and then Our Sidekick and I abducted his laptop to chat to Mum too! On Saturday Mum and Kathy had been to the Gala Night at the Symposium that they are at in New Zealand. I’m loving Kathy’s mask and Mum’s fascinator – you can read Kathy’s post by clicking on the picture below).

Mum and Kathy

This Weekend I…. came home and tried to relax for what remained of the weekend – I’m sure it was pretty much impossible but I tried! Also finished watched Season 3 of Rizzoli and Isles.

100 things that make me happy…

Make Happiness A Habit

This Morning I woke to a tagged post on Facebook from Lucy from Mrs Bishop’s Bakes and Banter.  Over on her blog she posted a list of 100 things that make her happy. So I’ve joined in and written my list….

  1. Sunshine
  2. The smell of freshly cut grass
  3. Hugs from Chris
  4. Hugs from Our Sidekick (As he gets taller the more protective his hugs feel)
  5. Worshipping God
  6. When Our Sidekick accidentally calls me Mum (BTW I’m Mummy 2nd in his mobile phone contacts!)
  7. When my two “adoptees” call me Mum or Mummy Han (even funnier when it’s in public and I answer to it!)
  8. Hanging out with my boys (technically one is my husband but collectively they are my boys! Does that make them Mrs Johnson’s Boys?)
  9. Hanging with my goddaughter and her Mum
  10. Hugs from the kids at church.
  11. The smell of freshly baked bread
  12. Positive people (I get life isn’t always rainbows and butterflies but at least be friendly).
  13. When my spreadsheets work the way they are supposed to! (and my colleagues return my hi-fives!)
  14. When those complicated long equations actually work and don’t return an error.
  15. Playing guitar/music in general
  16. Singing at Open Mic (Although I get a little nervous sometimes!)
  17. Dancing round the kitchen while doing chores (today’s song was Macavity from Cats)
  18. Smell of coffee (it used to make me really sad as it reminded me of Grandma, it still reminds me of her but I try to think happy thoughts instead).
  19. Chats with my colleague around our PC screens about families, adventures, food and life. Today we chatted about Yorkshire Puddings and Toad in The Hole
  20. Dancing on my way to and from work
  21. Complete a piece of knitting or crochet
  22. Presenting that piece to the recipient and seeing their reaction.
  23. Receiving random surprises or acts of kindness.
  24. Delivering surprises or random acts of kindness.
  25. Having a houseful of people (like for connect group or for a meal).
  26. Mum or Dad hugs (they make me feel like I can achieve anything!)
  27. Handwritten penpal letters.
  28. White hot chocolate on a cold winter’s day
  29. Sitting curled up on the sofa in the warm watching the snow fall outside. (usually with my phone in my hand making sure the boys are safe!)
  30. A clean and tidy house (but I suck at chores so sometimes it doesn’t work out right!)
  31. Comfy shoes! (currently my very loved trainers)
  32. Flip flops on hot days
  33. Fresh flowers
  34. Gerberas
  35. Peonies
  36. Learning new skills
  37. Beating high scores
  38. Accepting my geekiness
  39. New Clothes
  40. Baby cuddles
  41. Hanging with friends
  42. Getting messages from my Besties
  43. Pizza
  44. Pasta
  45. Visiting the seaside
  46. Lists (make me feel organised!)
  47. My Filofax  (see! organisation again!)
  48. Bright coloured post it notes!
  49. Bright colours in general
  50. Travelling and exploring.
  51. Just because presents/”I saw this and thought of you”
  52. Attempting to learn/speak foreign languages
  53. Shakespearean Plays
  54. Starting a new crochet/knitting piece.
  55. Old/Second hand books
  56. Chatter of the WI Ladies on a Thursday evening.
  57. Cooking for other people (Rather than just my family)
  58. Raisins on my Malt Wheaties……(Yeah I know really they are Shreddies!)
  59. Iced Tea from The Fountain on a hot day.
  60. Hanging out with Our Sidekick (often watching things like The Big Bang Theory or How I Met Your Mother).
  61. When my MP3 player brings up just the right song on shuffle. (Sometime it’s can really unpredictable and come out with the most random songs!)
  62. The happy chatter and squeaks from the guinea pigs – those boys know when the fridge door opens!
  63. The smell of cherry cake (well unlike the last one I made which was burnt to a crisp!)
  64. Getting into bed when it’s just been changed.
  65. The warm side of the pillow (if I have to wake up I flip it over!)
  66. When Our Sidekick asks me to play XBox with him (I suck at it but the fact that he asked me makes me feel special)
  67. My brother’s singing – sounds silly but I know he’s happy when he’s singing (especially when it’s fun. or Frank Sintra! He also does a rocking Valjean/Javert from Les Mis)
  68. When my day goes almost to plan.
  69. When you do shopping and you get to the till and find the item is cheaper than it says on the tag.
  70. Paddling in the sea.
  71. Swimming underwater (when I manage it without getting in a panic!)
  72. Divebombs into a swimming pool (a lot of pools tell you off so has to be done safely!).
  73. Hanging with my friend and her little boy. He’s super cute and so excited about everything.
  74. Clearing out my inbox so that there are no emails to deal with.
  75. Posting a blog post that I worked hard on.
  76. Making a cake without having to check the recipe 100 times!
  77. Hugs from my Grandma and Grandad’s.
  78. Riding my bike (except when my butt hurts from the saddle! Clearly I need a cushion or something!).
  79. Waking up before my alarm and realising I can have more sleep.
  80. When the goodies win.
  81. Happy Endings to stories.
  82. The first slice from a new cake.
  83. Helping my friends out when they need it.
  84. Clearing a book from my “in progress” list on Goodreads.
  85. Munching on homemade warm popcorn while watching a movie.
  86. The snapping sound when you break a bar of chocolate straight from the fridge.
  87. That noise when you open a new can of fizzy.
  88. Riding my bike in the sunshine.
  89. Watching old war films with my Dad (like The Great Escape, Ice Cold in Alex and The Dambusters).
  90. Crocheting with friends
  91. Teaching crochet and seeing the excitement it causes.
  92. Looking at the totals that I’ve cycled and walked.
  93. Napping on the sofa (the good naps where you wake up feeling refreshed rather than the bad naps when you wake up feeling worse then before.
  94. Stargazing
  95. Planning adventures to far off places.
  96. Being passionate about crocheting and knitting etc.
  97. Looking at the crochet squares in my living room ready for the Macmillan Blanket.
  98. Planning for the future with Chris and Our Sidekick.
  99. Encouraging Our Sidekick to create goals for himself.
  100. Cheering him on as he ticks off those goals.

I will “tag” Mel of Melissa Explains It All, Meetali of Buttercream Magic, Marceline of Asking for Trouble and Kristina of Big Apple Mami. If you’re not tagged by you want to join in feel free – link back here so I can see your list.

this weekend i…

Joining with Sar from [Life of Love] and Syndal from Synfully Delicious.
This Weekend I… was very good and did chores – I even used the crazy jump in heat this weekend to get the washing drying outside instead of tumble drying it all. In fact I’m almost up to date thanks to the weather.

This Weekend I… grabbed breakfast with my friend Judit of Monster Yarns (You can also find her blog here). It should have been really straight forward – get on the bus head towards town get off at the relevant stop. Clearly it wasn’t that easy and I ended up riding half way round Bedford before I got to breakfast. One of my pet hates is being late and so I kept texting Judit to give her an update of where I was and when I would get there! In the end I did make it, we had breakfast at The Cheese Kitchen (always been told about it but never actually eaten there until now!). I had a pain au chocolat and an apple juice – it was good job I had a bottle of water with me because I was super thirty when I got there because of the heat outside!

This Weekend I… headed to the oldies home. Firstly I walked into town with Judit and we chatted about all sorts of things. We pottered round a couple of shops then I headed to the bus station to catch the next bus of my crazy Saturday trip. I got to the oldies home, turned on the hot cupboard and then opened every window in the kitchen and most of the ones in the dining room – we were going to need all the air circulating possible as it was getting hotter as the day went on.

This Weekend I… caught the bus back to my parents house to collect Our Sidekick – normally the turn around between work and him being dropped off is fine but because I was on the bus instead of in the car it caused all sorts of craziness. On the other hand it meant that I could get another hug with my Mum because she left for the airport. She’s in New Zealand for a couple of weeks at a the Taupo Symposium then I think her and her friend are doing some exploring of the islands (jealous? me? Maybe a bit!! She’s up the road from Middle Earth!!)

This Weekend I… cycled to town with Our Sidekick. Well I cycled, Our Sidekick ran most of the way! He was amazing, he stopped for the traffic lights part way and stopped because he had a stitch but other than that he kept going like a trooper! After collecting Chris from The Fountain, we headed to Suzie’s birthday party. Following Suzie’s party we headed home via a friend’s house who was also having a party/BBQ/get together.

This Weekend I… continued with the madness and cycled to church, we all set off together but somewhere along the line Our Sidekick ended up miles in front of us and Chris ended up behind me after I overtook him. Following church, I went to look at a new-to-me bike, I rode it around the block and showed it to Our Sidekick. He was excited as I was so I rode it back to it’s old home and sorted out what was going to happen next.

This Weekend I… worked on cleaning up my MacBook – I worked out that I’d had it for about six years and probably needed some serious TLC. I’m not sure if I’ve done all I can but I’m working on it.

This Weekend I/We… got into mischief, it’s been a joke since Chris got his mohawk that we’d attempt to get my hair to stand up in a mohawk – well easier said that done that’s for sure. Chris spent a chunk of time trying to get it to stand up – in the end he managed it! I grabbed a shower once the photographic evidence had been taken. I sat in bed watching Grey’s Anatomy and New Girl clips while writing messages to friends. I also started watching Rizzoli and Isles Season 3.

100 Word Challenge for Grown Ups #Week97 #wcgu

100 Word Challenge

You can get more information and join in here.
The prompt for this week is

Heat…
I haven’t joined in for a while – hopefully I’ll be back properly but last time I said that I still wasn’t back!

“Hannah can you come here?” He shouted from the kitchen

“Do I have to?” she called from the sofa “I just sat down after running round like a headless chicken, this heat is just zapping me. I swear it’s that hot you could probably fry an egg on my face – then again the pavement outside might be a better choice!”

“Eugh! That’s disgusting!” added their foster son from the other end of the sofa.

“Come on! It’ll only take a few minutes then you can crash out again – I’ll even make you a cold drink.”

“Okay then if I have to…”

this weekend i… #twi

Joining with Sar from [Life of Love] and Syndal from Synfully Delicious.

This Weekend I… was very good and did chores – I even used the crazy jump in heat this weekend to get the washing drying outside instead of tumble drying it all. In fact I’m almost up to date thanks to the weather.

This Weekend I… served fish and chips at the oldies home again. This time they were discussing alcohol and what they like to drink – it was quite funny given that on Thursday or Friday we’d been having a similar conversation at work (I think it was Friday as there was an outing planned).

This Weekend I… gave blood for the 14th time 🙂 My friend came with me again, she intended to give blood but again she couldn’t donate 🙁 Maybe third time lucky when we go later this year.

This Weekend I… spent some time with Our Sidekick, we just watched TV and chatted but that seems to be our thing.

This Weekend I… headed to church, we had a visiting speaker called Darren, he spoke about The Prodigal Son. Part of his talk was a quick sketch to tell the story and it was a one man show as he switched character for pretty much every line. The quote I took away from the talk was “You don’t have to be good enough for God. He will welcome you with open arms”. The summary of the story is that a father has two sons, his youngest son comes to him and demands that he has his share of his father’s money rather than wait to receive his inheritance after his dad dies. The father gives him the money and the son leaves for the big city. The son gains lots of friends and parties hard but eventually the money runs out and the friends stop calling. The son ends up working by taking care of pigs as he can’t get a job as anything else. He finally has an epiphany, even as a servant in his father’s house he’d have a better job, he decides to pack up and head home. He’s all ready to apologise to his Dad but while he’s along way off his Dad is running up the street to welcome him home, he grabs him and gives him a massive big bear hug. He says that his son was lost but now he’s found. Every time I hear the story I imagine that the father goes out every morning and every evening (and probably every lunch time!) to see if his son is coming home that particular day.

This Weekend I… dashed to the Sunday Suitcase Bazaar at the Burnaby Arms here in Bedford. I stopped by for a quick visit before dashing back into town for lunch. I grabbed a banoffee cupcake from the stand ran by Lucy of Mrs Bishop’s Bakes and Banter and Liz from Little Red Welly. Our Sidekick had a Lemon cupcake and K had a chocolate cake. Our Sidekick decided that the icing was too lemony for his liking and so gave me the icing off the top of his cake 🙂 When he realised there was lemon curd at the bottom he got all disappointed as he’d given me the rest of the cake by that point too!

This Weekend I… dashed back to the The Fountain for lunch and then for the kick off session of the latest Alpha course. I did an Alpha course when I was about 13 or 14 so it’s kind of interesting to do it again.

adventures and holidays: amsterdam

It’s now July, I’ve been in my “new” job for almost five weeks. I have my first check up thing in the next couple of weeks to see how I’m doing and how I can improve and things like that. The summer holidays are almost around the corner and booking a holiday is top of the to do list. I guess if I was off somewhere foreign and sunny I could be looking for a new item of swimwear. I can never decide if I want an all in one job, a tankini or something to go with board shorts (because I don’t really like showing off my legs lol). I’d also be looking for lovely maxi dresses and new shorts. I’ll probably be staying in the UK so unless the weather gets warmer I’ll be wearing my jeans and rolling them up when the sun comes out.

I guess for now a girl can dream. I love to travel and explore new places as it happens I have a list of places to go to or to go to again.

Some places I’ve wanted to go for as long as I can remember like Italy or new ones that have been added more recently. I actually joked to my friend that I’m secretly Italian given my love for Italian food and culture.

So where would I go……

Amsterdam
Back in 2007, Chris and I went to Amsterdam for our honeymoon, pretty much since we got back I’ve wanted to go again and the list of places to go to keeps growing. We attempted to go to AnneFrankHuis (Prinsengracht 263-267) while we were in Amsterdam but the queue was so long that we had to choose between standing in the queue and not getting to see other bits or go visit other bits and come back. We tried a further two times but again it was far too busy. So that’s back on the list of places to go “next” time.

Amsterdam 2007

This sculpture was in the Vondelpark when we went to Amsterdam. I would describe the Vondelpark being to Amsterdam as Central Park is to New York. It’s not right in the centre but it’s reachable on the tram system. The Vondelpark was good for wandering round and deciding what we wanted to do next. We also went to the film museum that is in the park. I looked it up but the EYE Museum has now moved to Amsterdam-Noord instead of being in the Vondelpark now. The pavilion is still a lovely building to have a look at if you like architecture like me.

There is also the Van Gogh museum, I can’t remember what put us off going there….maybe have to ask Chris about that one. We went to the American Book Center which was a two storey book shop that sold primary books in English. I bought a copy of The Diary of a Young Girl while I was there (I need to track it down and finish reading it!)

We also visited Madame Tussauds, it was a little disappointing as it’s pretty much the same as London with a sprinkle of Dutch celebrities for good measure. I had my photo taken with Freddie Mercury.

Another fun place we visited was the NEMO museum, it’s pretty much like the Science Museum but it’s more hands on and interesting. We got to play with giant bubbles (you have a hula hoop and try and pull the bubble up around you!)

All in all I’m sure there are other places we visited. Normally on trips I keep a journal of where we have visited and things like that but I hadn’t started doing that until the year after Amsterdam. Clearly we need to go again!