Blogmas: Day Five – Currently…

Technically I think it’s supposed to be Vlogmas but I’m doing Blogmas! But in the CRAZEE that is coming over the next few days the idea of trying to film and edit without Jaxon creating havoc just makes me a bit more stressed so writing this in bed or hiding elsewhere in the house seems like a good plan and hopefully I might just keep up!

Blogmas

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.
Currently

Watching…

This weekend I actually managed to watch both episodes of Strictly Come Dancing. Jaxon and I watched the Saturday night show on Sunday after church. He sat down with me for some of it then got onto playing some more.

Chris then sat with me and we played Cluedo while the results show played. When they got down to the final two, I said who I thought would go home out of the two and I was right. Who’s going to win? As much as I would like Claudia or Louise in a sort of girl power kind of way I think Danny is that bit better followed by Ore. We’ll see though, it’s rarer that I actually pick the winner.

Reading…

One of the guys in our community group suggested giving a Fantasy author that he likes a go after I commented that I had started reading the Game of Thrones books a while back but didn’t get through book one. The author’s name is Brandon Sanderson (I think!). I have the sample of The Final Empire. It’s the first book in the MIstborn Trilogy.

Listening…

Now we are properly in December I can actually have Christmas music on. Yesterday afternoon there was Christmas music playing on the radio so I was singing along to one of the Graham Kendrick songs from Dreaming of a Holy Night. When me and The Kiwi sang in the choir at the Dreaming of a Holy Night concert here in Bedford we’d only been in our current house about six weeks. We were still on a prepay meter, we’d had such a busy week that we were in the emergency of our allowance and that ran out. There was snow on the ground and we were all freezing because by the time we’d got home from the concert, the shop was closed and we couldn’t get any money added to the meeting. Oops! 

You can find my Christmas Playlist here on Spotify.

Making…

Between squares for my Temperature Blanket, I’m working on a prop scarf (loosely) based on the Tom Baker Doctor Who scarf. It’s possible we might need it next Christmas so I figured if I started knitting now hopefully it will be long enough and I can also use up some oddments that I have.

Feeling…

Calmer that our crazy weekend is over. Now need to take care of some important business and not sure how some of it will go down so I guess I’m nervous maybe…

Planning…

I did a little bit of planning in my Erin Condren Hourly this weekend. I’m hoping now things are that bit calmer I might be able to sort out bits properly.

I’m hoping that this week I can get my Christmas shopping finished. I have some that are urgent and need to be done this week and others that can possibly wait a little longer so I’m going to prioritise them and make sure I’m on track.

Loving…

It’s Day Five of my Brimbles Box Advent Calendar. So far I’ve had a pencil case, a pen, a roll of washi and some star sticky notes. I’m loving it already and am excited to see what’s in the next packages coming up.

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Blogmas: Day Three

Here’s Blogmas! Technically I think it’s supposed to be Vlogmas but in the CRAZEE that is coming over the next few days the idea of trying to film and edit without Jaxon creating havoc just makes me a bit more stressed so writing this in bed or hiding elsewhere in the house seems like a good plan and hopefully I might just keep up!

With it being the quiz night at church today, the day was always set to be a bit crazy. In the morning in Chris put the finishing touches to the quiz while Jaxon and I played downstairs. While Jaxon was playing I wrapped presents and wrote some Christmas cards. I even had a conversation with Chris’s cousin about addresses and as she’s a teacher whether she was counting down the days to the holiday.

I worked on wrapping Christmas presents while Jaxon played. I also got some Christmas cards written ready to hand out.

At lunchtime I headed to church for the craft club and started what would be a bit of a crazy afternoon.

I helped set up and then got some knitting done. When mum arrived we worked on setting up the tables for the quiz and doing some bits for that before heading back to doing our knitting or crochet. We got to chat to my cousin’s new housemate too which was lovely.

After popping into town for a flying visit, Jaxon, Chris and my sister in law headed back to church and I dashed between packing up craft club and setting up for the quiz. At one point we decided it would be better to take Jaxon home and start the bedtime routine. I also was despatched to order some food to be delivered to church so that Chris, my sister in law and I would have eaten before the quiz. We actually ended up sharing a large pizza between four of us but that’s the kind of thing you do, isn’t it? (Or maybe just us!)


The quiz went really well and rather than worrying whether people would show up I was a bit more worried about whether there would be enough chairs and tables for the teams.

We had 14 tables so about 100 people which was great. The “auction” for prizes went well too and quite a few people said at the end how much they had enjoyed that bit.

We got to the point where we were going to pack away and I was so grateful when lots of people just started packing away chairs, folding tables or collecting rubbish etc. I half expected it to be Chris myself and a few others and that would be it for packing away but quite a few people stayed and helped.

We were invited to an “after party” at our friend’s house which was really lovely of them. We stayed for a little while then came home, by then it was definitely bed time and another day in December was done.

Blogmas: Day Two

Here’s Blogmas! Technically I think it’s supposed to be Vlogmas but in the CRAZEE that is coming over the next few days the idea of trying to film and edit without Jaxon creating havoc just makes me a bit more stressed so writing this in bed or hiding elsewhere in the house seems like a good plan and hopefully I might just keep up!


Between the cold and the tiredness (I eventually got to sleep around 2am!), I did not want to get out of bed this morning. However with preschool on the cards for Jaxon and my appointment at church to help with various bits, getting out of bed was necessary.


I christened my Secret Santa mug while Jaxon ate his breakfast. Then set about making Jaxon’s packed lunch. Each week I debate whether I should make it the night before. I’m sure it would definitely be less stressful on preschool mornings if I was organised enough to do it.

We attempted to get to the bus stop but we missed our usual bus and then the second one we could have caught drove past us as we were trying to get between bus stops. (Two routes run near our house and take us in the direction of preschool. One works better than the other but only runs every 30ish minutes so unless we catch that specific one then we have to keep walking).

Well we got to preschool in the end and Jaxon got settled quickly.  I was able to leave and get to church to help with a project pretty much straight after 9.30 which was good. We had Christmas music playing which we got on with bits. Turns out Louis Armstrong did a cover of “Baby, It’s Cold Outside”. It was good but Tom and Cerys or Him and Her’s versions are my favourites.

I walked as fast as my legs would carry me  to get back to preschool and collect Jaxon.   He had, had a great time but had protested a little bit when it came to decorating his car ramp that he’d made with his key worker.

One of the other mums from Lemon and Ginger was dropping her daughter off and her back was playing up so between us, I carried her little boy in his carry seat back to the car while she held Jaxon hand. Definitely a bit of team effort but hopefully helped her out a bit.

My Dad was on standby to help me with some errands so when Jaxon and I got home I grabbed some lunch and he played. I also opened my little package from my Advent Box by Mrs Brimbles. Today it’s a….pen!

Dad took us to the supermarket to do one of the errands. We went to park in the Parent and Child space so that we had room to get Jaxon out but all the spaces were taken.

However, there was a car quite close to is where the lady was parked in a P&C space but had no children with her. I tapped on her window and politely asked her to move seeing as she had no children currently with her and was stopping people who actually needed the space from using it. She said she was waiting for her children. Now this specific supermarket has a Maths/English tuition place in the same building so it could have been possible she was waiting for her children to come out of a class there. Actually it turned out that it was 3pm so the kids were still in school further up the road and she was killing time until they got out.

She rather rudely and crossly said she would move. It was too late for us as Dad had arwsdu parked the car in another space. As I discovered when I was pregnant, there are different rules depending on where you’re parking. Some places might have given her a ticket for misusing the space.

Do you have an advent calendar? Do you have one with chocolates or do you have a speciality one like this? 

What do you think of P&C spaces? Useful, waste of time, inconvenience? Or something else?

Blogmas: Day One

Technically I think it’s supposed to be Vlogmas but in the CRAZEE that is coming over the next few days the idea of trying to film and edit without Jaxon creating havoc just makes me a bit more stressed so writing this in bed or hiding elsewhere in the house seems like a good plan and hopefully I might just keep up!

Blogmas

While we had our breakfast I opened Day One of my Brimbles Advent Box. It is more than a chocolate calendar but the syns value is a lot lower and it’s a treat.



Today was this pencil case. I didn’t have chance to move bits around but think I will over the next few days so I can start using it.

Today started as most Thursday and we went to Centre 41 at Woodside. The Christmas craft was making crackers but I sat at one end knitting, I wasn’t being antisocial it was just that’s what I wanted to do today. I did make this Christmas tre paper ornament though. It’s just made out of pre-cut circles that you fold along embossed lines and then stick together.


Following Centre 41, we headed home as it was lunchtime. Jaxon was getting more and more grouchy at me. I think he might be the kind of kid who will get hangry so having emergency snacks might be a good plan!

While I had been at group, I had spotted this on Facebook so I had added it to my timeline and started to mentally plan some of the “challenges”.


When I arrived home, two more Christmas presents had arrived along with my Christmas tree earrings from Magpies’ Charm. How stinkin’ cute are they?? And so light! I wore them all evening at the Tweetup and had no issue with them! Yeah! I love the sticker on the Christmas present box so I might have to see if I can rescue it or something once the box is finished with.

Once we’d had some lunch I set about trying to get my invoicing done. It took me a little while between other bits but I got there in the end which was a relieve. It’s obviously one of those important things but I’ve not figured out a way to make my “timesheets” easier to tally – that’s one to figure out over 2017.

After some last minute worrying around the Tweetup this evening I headed to Slimming World with Mum. I managed to lose half a pound this week which I’m sure I have put back on with the food at the Tweetup but I’m going to draw a line and start again tomorrow.


Even now I still get a bit relieved when people do turn up for a Tweetup. I have been to one when because of one thing or another there was just me and one other person at a Tweetup. This time there was 15ish people which was good.

The theme for the Secret Santa was “What is your small business must have?” I received a lovely big mug and two sachets of tea from Q at Nothing but Tea. I would tell you what I gave but that might give away the game. ALthough it’s possible that my person has guessed who gave it to them.

Anyway, I really need to go to bed now. You can read more about the Tweetup on the BedsHour page here.

{Fostering} Us at Five…

Back in October, five years ago, I went to work with three people living in our house and then I came home to four.

Us at Five

Usually the “Us at…” is followed by how many years Chris and I are celebrating along with facts about how life is different now to how it was when we first got married. This time I’ve given it a shake up.

Our Sidekick came to stay with us temporarily and that temporarily turned into more a more permament arrangement.

How did we end up fostering? Did we plan on being foster carers?

Nope. At least when Our Sidekick came to us, fostering (and adoption) was something we’d consider maybe further down the line once we’d had our own kids or if things didn’t work out. Then Our Sidekick came into our lives and kind of didn’t leave!

Then three years ago, around this time we found out that Blueberry (who would be come to know as Jaxon) was coming to join the party.

Now there are four of us.

In a way, it’s our fifth “anniversary” however in a way it’s bittersweet. In a way we want to celebrate Our Sidekick becoming part of our family but that also comes with the pain of not living with his biological family.

Fostering has been a mixed journey. Yes, Our Sidekick has had his rough patches but also he’s had his good times too. There have been occasions when we’ve genuinely considered whether having Our Sidekick with us still is the right option but thankfully that was just a rough patch and once a few things were put straight, it calmed down again and Our Sidekick was a pleasure to be around again.

He’s loved playing the role of big brother. Even when Jaxon was still a bundle of cells the size of a Blueberry he was excited. My 20-week scan happened to fall in February Half Term. So we gave Our Sidekick the choice of whether he wanted to come to the scan. At first, I think he wasn’t sure it was his place to come with us but once he came along to the scan, he was memorised being able to see this little baby on the screen and got to meet his little {foster} brother or sister.

Our Sidekick and Jaxon
Our Sidekick was worried about holding Jaxon for quite along time after Jaxon was born. He was worried he would drop Jaxon or hurt him in some way. I think once Jaxon was less newborn, Our Sidekick realsied that he wasn’t going to hurt Jaxon. And now with Jaxon being nearly two and a half I think he realises that Jaxon is more resilient and doesn’t break at the slightest touch.

I think he’s still nervous about taking Jaxon out further than the shop by himself for example. But I think his confidence grows each time. Jaxon thinks the world of Our Sidekick. I’ve found him standing outside of Our Sidekick’s room banging on the door and shouting his interpretation of Our Sidekick’s name. Some days I think Our Sidekick hates being the favourite big brother but his best friend soon sorts him out. Occasionally they all hang out in the garden and Jaxon has a wail of a time!

To us, Our Sidekick is part of our family and always will be. His social worker is discussing about what’s next after he finishes school and what does he want to do. We just know that there will be space for him here to come back and call home.

Would we choose fostering again? Who knows. Let’s see what God has got planned for us. Would you foster or adopt? 

Currently…21st November

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.
Currently

Watching…

I’m still waiting for Netflix to add some Christmas films to their collection – we’ve had Arthur Christmas twice this last week. I’ve been working my way through various Christmas films that I have been able to find or that I own. I caught up on Scorpion and realised that I’m miles behind on Pretty Little Liars and Once Upon A Time so might start on those (or might just get stuff done so that on Thursday I can watch Gilmore Girls!)

Reading…

I actually picked up a book this week! Chris has been pondering about getting our bedroom decorated over Christmas so I started thinking about which books I have on my bookcase and never actually picked up to read. So I grabbed Mister Monday by Garth Nix off the book case to see why I picked it up and have started reading it. I think when I’ve finished it that one and a bundle from the shelf will be off to the charity shop. As a kid I always wanted a library like Belle in Beauty and the Beast so the idea of getting rid of books is hard but actually – Will I read them and do they bring me joy? (Oh yes I do have Marie Kondo‘s book hiding somewhere). Yes I get it the size house you would need for *that* many books would probaby be impossible on my self employed wage but a girl can dream right?

Listening…

Christmas, Christmas, Christmas. You can find my Christmas Playlist here on Spotify.

Making…

Between squares for my Temperature Blanket, I’m making Baby Jesuses (At least that’s what I’ve decided the plural is!)

Feeling…

Better…last week I felt like I’d been hit my a truck and it had knocked the stuffing out of me. Getting motivated was really hard which means this week I’m on the back foot and it’s only Monday. Need to get organised (and need to go to bed!)

Planning…

I’ve been raiding all my stickers to get my EC decorated. I found birthday themed stickers and got caught up in the moment so actually I’ve added some bits to my birthday and Jaxon’s birthdays already! I could have changed my mind by then and it could be too late but oh well! I’ve got Christmas stickers and Christmas washi decorating December too. I will try to name the shops when I post my spreads – need to keep a record as I go I think. So far this week I have Mrs Brimbles, EllieBethDesigns, The Planner Junkie, Beautiful Planning and home made ones.

This Week's Spread in my EC

Loving..

The rain – okay that’s probably because I got to stay in and avoid getting wet. I’m loving getting excited about Christmas – I think I get on peoples nerves because Christmas for me starts straight after Halloween.

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Currently…14th November

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.
Currently

Watching…

On Saturday, when we got back from Jaxon’s parent consultation we watched Bing. It meant he was distracted while I was having a bit of a wobble about a situation that went down.

When we got in from my friend’s birthday party, I snuggled up on the sofa and watched Strictly Come Dancing. There’s something about it, this series that just isn’t clicking for me and I can’t put my finger on it. In previous years I’ve really excited but this time I’m not so much. I still think they need to include contemporary and some other forms of dance like Dancing with The Stars does. However, I guess it might not appeal so much then.

In the week I had been watching The Crown on Netflix. It sort of fits that Downton Abbey shaped hole in a way! I pretty much binged watched it. When they announce Season 2 I’ll have to go back and watch it again. I really liked Matt Smith at Prince Philip. But I half expected him to run down the corridor shouting “Geronimo” and looking for a blue box! I think it was filmed in such a way that we were supposed to feel sorry for Matt’s character. I don’t think I ever realised quite what Prince Philip gave up when he married the Queen. Not only did he give up his titles, he converted to the Church of England rather than being Greek Orthodox and then gave up his career too. I also caught up on Designated Survivor when really I should have been sleeping.

Reading…

Yep reading didn’t happen this week either. I read to Jaxon on the nights I did bedtime. I don’t think Thomas is really at my reading level.

Listening…

I’ve been out in the car more than normal this week. So I’ve had Pentatonix playing while I drive. I collected Our Sidekick from work with their version of The Waltz of The Sugar Plum Fairy playing and he got in just for the epic high note. It’s actually not that high but it is sung in falsetto so could seem higher than I think it actually is.

Making…

My wool order from Wool Warehouse arrived really quickly following my order last week. I was able to get on with crocheting more squares for my Temperature Blanket and attempt to get back on track with the end of the year being seven weeks away. I think I need to do about 3-5 squares a day to catch up but there completely do-able I think.

Feeling…

My cold has thankfully cleared up. Jaxon and I both had our flu shots on Thursday so I was a bit worried that he’d get a reaction. I had a bit of a sore arm on Friday but by Saturday it was fine again. Saturday was a rollercoaster of feelings with various things going on. I went to my first ceilidh/barn dance in years. The boys wouldn’t really dance with me but Our Sidekick got roped in so he did dance with me for one song.

Chris had to move the car and Jaxon wouldn’t sit with Our Sidekick so I ended up with him on my shoulders while trying to take part in one of the dances. I wish I had had a camera to hand because he was absolutely giggling away when we had to duck under the arms of the pair opposite us then take our arms back over their heads. He was loving it but was just so heavy across my shoulders. I had commented about taking the carrier with us but then had completely forgotten about it and left it at home.

Also, the November Brimbles Box arrived last week. I’m stupidly excited about it because November is the Christmas box! Some bits are going to appear once I write about Christmas but I’m going to get adding stickers to my spreads especially as I plan Christmas shopping bits. You can see my unboxing over on YouTube. (There are still a few available here if you get tempted)

Planning…

So my “new-to-me” EC planner arrived and I was absolutely gobsmacked. The seller must have literally opened it, taken the photos and put it back in the box because it was wrapped in the official tissue paper with the “enjoy” packing sticker, postcard and another sticker.

I got a little bit of planner done during the week but trying to set that Sunday evening I will catch up and plan the next week. I had a lot of dates to add for work now with things being planned into 2017 so that’s very exciting.

Loving..

The crisp colder mornings but not when I had to walk to preschool in the rain! Twice last week I misjudged how long it would take us to get to preschool and we ended up being really early or walking some of it at Jaxon’s pace to kill time.


I love how inquisitive he can be and how much he loves the leaves. We walked to the shop on Saturday for some bread and he pretty much had to explore every pile of leaves, puddle and manhole cover!

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

My Favourite Planner Suppliers: EllieBeth Designs UK

Coming up over the next few weeks, I’m hoping to feature some of my favourite planner suppliers, this includes stickers, ephemera, stamps and other planner/journaling related goodies. Hopefully there will be social media links too so you can head over to find them on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram as well as their websites and/or Etsy stores. You can find all the posts here.

My Favourite Planner Suppliers

Back in the summer, I started to approach some of my favourite planner suppliers and Rachel at EllieBeth Designs UK was one of my first.
Elliebeth Designs UK

We’d chatted online but met properly at Cambs Planner Con 2016. I think I might have been a bit of a fan girl but reined it in before being embarrassing!

At the beginning of October, Rachel and her team launched their new website here. Before I bore you I’m going to hand you over to Rachel for a chat!

Hey, Thanks for joining in. So first up can you introduce yourself?

I’m Rachel – Christian, wife, mother, crazy planner lady and sticker maker!

What inspired you to open an Etsy store? Is it your main job or do you do it as well as a day job?

EllieBeth Designs UK Ltd began with one machine and a MacBook in a corner of our bedroom. Now it’s run from our conservatory and is rapidly outgrowing the space available.

It began because I couldn’t find what I wanted for my planner over here in the UK, so began making my own stickers. During an afternoon of reflection following a challenging few months, the thought came into my mind that maybe a few other people might be interested, and so I opened the shop on February 23rd 2015. I wanted to see a community in the UK focussed around planning, and founded the EllieBeth Design UK Facebook group, as well as connecting with other UK planner and stationery business owners to support and encourage one another through another group.

My focus has always been on people – I love seeing what I’ve created in use, and I love knowing that something I’ve made has helped someone during their day.

In July, I opened a second strand to the business – EllieBeth Supplies UK – initially stocking Illustrated Faith products, designed for scrapbooking and bible journaling. I’m looking forward to developing that further.

With the new website, both of these have come together under one roof, and I’ve been adding other lines as well – such as custom designed notebooks from May Designs.

Notebooks

Now, it’s a full time job, but it is one that fits around our family – and that’s an amazing blessing!

Do you have a favourite product that you sell or something that you enjoy making the most?

A favourite product….eek! So hard to choose! My love of colour means it has to be anything rainbow 🙂 But – I have a soft spot for all the Mystery Kits too.

Rainbow Sampler 1 (ebd1e-33)

(These are my favourites! All those different colours! How exciting!) 

Do you have any favourite Etsy/Online Shops for Planner/Journaling related bits?

My favourite shops – ooh, so many! In particular, I love Mrs Brimbles, Linou’s Pots, My Pretty Week and ChochoAndMimi.

If you were to give one piece of advice to someone who is thinking of opening their own Etsy/Online Shop, what would that be?

One piece of advice – know what you’re getting into. It’s not just about making pretty things – there’s the back office to learn, production methods, accountancy, insurance, customer service and so much more! I think if I’d known everything that was involved, I’d have run a mile – so it’s probably just as well I didn’t!

Do you have any new products and/or offers on at the moment?

I release new listings on #WhatsNewWednesday – usually the first and third Wednesday of the month – and the Mystery Kits go on sale during the third weekend of the month.

Where do we find your shop?

As above in October, EllieBeth Designs UK moved to their own website here.

Can we find you elsewhere? Blog? FB? IG? Other?

 

 

YouTube | Instagram | Pinterest | Facebook | Facebook (friendly group for lots of planner chat!

Thanks Rachel! 

 

Do you have a favourite product from Rachel’s shop?

I think my current favourite has to be these red mugs and Christmas themed stickers – now I just need to figure out which planner system I’m going with for the rest of the year so that I can use them in the right place! 

CHRISTMAS RED MUGS AND PHRASES DECORATIVE PLANNER STICKERS

 

WIPs Wednesday

WIPs Wednesday

On and off since the temperature cooled a bit, I’ve been crocheting and knitting my fingers off. I bought some wool in a closing down sale and decided to knit a project instead of my usual crochet job.

Secret Project

Last week, once Mum had helped me with the above project (it’s a secret one so I can’t show you any more than that!), I managed to get it finished up – it just needs wrapping and then hiding away until I can deliver to the recipient. While nursing a cold last week, I spent the day knitting and finishing up another project. There’s a story behind it too.

Back at the beginning of October, I went to the Knitting and Stitching show at Alexandra Palace with Kathy, Mum and Kathy’s Daughter.

While we were there, Jaxon was hanging out with Chris at home. They discovered Bing and Jaxon loved it. Chris happened to be looking on the internet and found a knitting pattern for Flop (Bing’s Carer). I had some bits to finish up but then started working on Bing.

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One finished Flop – the ears, arms and feet were a bit fiddly and I miscounted my rows on Flop’s foot so I ended up with a slightly longer foot! Oops! If you’d like to start one for yourself, You can find the pattern here.

Flop

I’ve already started to think about what’s next. I wanted to try Mitred Squares. They are a bit of challenge it seems but I get to learn how to use stitch markers now. The stitch markers that I have in my stash of knitting and crochet goodies are from PollyOrange. I can’t find the direct product to link to them as I think they are a couple of years old now.

So these are my WIPs, I’m hoping to keep a sort of update each week of where I am. This will be easier to do when I’m not working on presents for other people!

Photo Cake from Caketoppers

What’s more amusing than watching Jaxon eat chocolate cake? 

Caketoppers

That would have been watching the same toddler get bemused by the fact that his face was on a cake. Then him waving at himself before tentatively eating the cake (or more like tentatively starting the first mouthful before inhaling the rest!)

At the beginning of October, I was set two little cupcakes from Caketoppers. I’ve come across printed pictures on cakes before but have always been put off by the cost and often ended up making my own cake at home or buying a supermarket own cake.

When Sam said that the cakes were coming via Royal Mail I was a bit nervous – what if the postman squashed them or something?

Fortunately enough they are well packed in a sturdy plastic holder then surrounded with bubble wrap. They arrived on the exact day that Sam quoted too which was good. For the two little cakes this was fine but just be aware it is coming up to Christmas and there could be delays with the postage. With larger orders you can pay for courier service which might be a good move as it would be more definite when delivery would be.

Printed Cake from Caketoppers

Close up cake

In our pack of two, we had two different flavours. One was a classic sponge with white icing and the other was chocolate sponge with chocolate icing. They both come in different colour foil cases so without having to pick at them you can figure out which flavour you’re on.

With Chris being Gluten Free, one of the questions that I asked was, did they do Gluten Free cake? at the moment they don’t unfortunately – which meant he did miss out on the cakey fun.

I was pleasantly surprised by how clear the image is as you can see round the edges there are few flecks where it hasn’t printed entirely right but the it certainly didn’t affect the taste of the cake. and you wouldn’t have noticed them really.

Would I personally place an order? I’m not sure as they are quite pricey, however with my three closest friends being at least 30 miles away from me, sending them a cake in the mail for their birthday would be a really cool idea especially now that I know that the cakes travel really well in the post. A single printed cupcake is currently around £6 including postage – I guess it’s a bit pricey if I was buying a cake from the coffee shop to have with my hot chocolate but as part of a birthday present for someone who doesn’t live close to me it would be great idea.

The lovely Sam at Caketoppers has organised a little something for you my readers, if you want to try out Caketoppers for yourself you can use the discount code HAN10 to receive 10% off your order – just type it in at checkout.

You can find more information from Caketoppers on the following links:

Twitter | Facebook |Website 

In exchange for this review, I received two cakes with a picture printed on them as shown in the images from Caketoppers

Currently…7th November

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.
Currently

Watching…

Not so many Christmas films this week. I caught up on a lot of my YouTube subscriptions as I seemed to have ended up quite behind. Also to get back in the swing of things now that the new camera tripod arrived! YAY! (which means new videos on my YouTube channel – yeah!)

Reading…

I’ve been reading knitting patterns – does that count? I seem to have the best intentions of getting out a reading book and getting reading again and then it doesn’t happen! Let’s see if I can achieve it this week!

Listening…

I’ve had Michael Buble on but also had Amy Grant’s Christmas album playing (in face as I write this Breath of Heaven is playing). Mum used to play the Amy Grant one when Christmas was almost here. She’d usually have it playing when she was making the Christmas puddings that would go in the freezer or pantry and then come out when it was Christmas. We’d also roll out the pastry then cut out the circles to make mince pies – it was usually my job to cut them out while Mum would line them up along the work top so they were easier to count.

Making…

Flop

I finished making Flop for Jaxon last week and casted on a new project. I was going to continue on with my Temperature Blanket, however I had ran out of one of the greens and since Beales closed their haberdashery department and I believe Coats have discontinued the specific colour, getting hold of it was proving a challenge. I managed to find it on Wool Warehouse and got some wool ordered so hopefully that will arrive in the next few days and I can get on with catching up. It’s the 7th November and I’m currently on the middle of August – not good!! Decided it would be quite cool if I could take it to church on New Year’s Day to show off to the gang who were at Catalyst and kept asking me about how it’s been going. Either that or complete enough that I can take a photo with me even if I leave the actual blanket at home.

Feeling…

My sore throat turned into a cold and so I spent a chunk of the week feeling sorry for myself – it did mean that I could do lots of knitting though so I guess being sick had it’s benefits in a way!

Planning…

Erin Condren Hourly

Still working on those plans. I was on a certain auction website the other day and it just happened that there was an Erin Condren planner for sale near enough brand new! How very exciting! It’s dated from November 2016 to sometime in 2017 so I’m hoping it’s worth the drooling that has been going on haha!

Loving..

That was bananas. The 31st October still felt quite warm and then the 1st November came and it was like someone flicked a switch – it’s been so much colder for the last week!

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Dear Grandma

Dear Grandma,

Eight years ago you left us so unexpectedly. One day you were here then you were gone. I stood at the Harvest Supper this year at Chapel and tried to remember what we discussed on that last time we saw each other. I don’t remember. I’m sure it was what was happening at the time and probably was small talk rather than deep and meaningful but I’m sure whatever it was, was probably important at the time.

About a fortnight ago, this photo from my graduation pictures came up on Facebook to remind me it was nine years since I graduated. You didn’t want to be in the pictures but we caught you in the background of one of the pictures. It’s kind of fuzzy but it’s the last photo I had taken with you even if not intentional so it’s important.

A couple of days ago I tried to tally up the events that have happened in the last eight years. The fact that four of your six grandchildren are now married and one is engaged. The fact that Uncle J tied the knot in the end and you and Grandad gained two step-grandchildren. (Yep he had fun fitting that all into the family tree!)


Then there’s the fact that you’d be a Great-Grandma. It sort of started by becoming a Foster Great Grandma. I think at that point the idea of having a twelve year old “great-grandchild” would have made you comment how you’re “too young to be a Great Grandma”. Now you’ve got two Great Grandsons and a third Great Grandbaby is on the way. He or she is due early next year and I’d imagine that you’d be knitting like your fingers were on fire making booties and baby cardigans and things like that. I think you’d probably finish one project then be casting on the next even before the “dust settled” so to speak. When we found out Jaxon was on the way I wanted to tell you so badly. You’d have been so excited.


Both Richard and I moved into our own respective houses and only this week asked “how did we end up so grown up?”

I tried to tally up other things but some just made me sad while others got me a bit mad. I imagine if you were still here heads would have been banged together or something like that. Certainly there would have been telling off that’s for sure.

So yeah, eight years have been and gone. It doesn’t seem that long until you realise what’s happened since and you haven’t been here to take part.

We miss you.
Han x

I started this post on Facebook but it was getting too long. You can read two of the posts I wrote at the time here and here.

 

This Week – A Summary…

This week – all sorts happened to with the new name etc. I’m attempting to throw in some new blog post ideas and join in with link ups and all sorts. So having seen this one ping up on Twitter – I’m joining in.

This Week…

  • This week seemed like it was due to be busier than normal. When my sore throat turned into a cold, I started texting and emailing round to reschedule or cancel. Chris says he thinks that Jaxon must have had it last week and then I gained it. Thanks for sharing Jaxon!
  • This week, I finished two knitting projects. And although I should probably work on my temperature blanket more, I cast on another knitting project that might work as a Christmas present. It took about 3 or 4 attempts to even cast it on so I hope it’s worth the effort when I do finish it!
  • This week, Jaxon went to preschool twice. He even made a chocolate covered breadstick with sprinkles on it which was to be a sparkler as it’s Bonfire Night tomorrow. I made sure I got a little bit of relaxing time for, but I also did some work too.
  • This week, a car transporter decided to come along our road. Although there is a 7.5 ton weight limit and two mini roundabouts to navigate.
  • On Thursday, when I was feeling sorry for myself. I got a call about a possible new client – why do people ring when you’re feeling rubbish? I emailed them to confirm information and apologised for sounded rough!
  • Surprisingly, I stood on the scales at Slimming World this week and had lost 0.5lbs which is a small miracle given that I thought I’d made really bad choices all week!
  • My new tripod arrived a day earlier than expected. I didn’t get as far as recording anything but I did take photos of my feet!

Odd Socks

  • On one of the planning groups I’m part of, it was mentioned that one of the supermarkets have stickers in their Christmas catalogue – I might have picked up three copies. Well that’s one for me, one for Jaxon and one for my bestie’s superstar nephew. Just need to get the third set in the mail now.
Mr and Mrs T Plus Three

October’s Brimbles Box

To me, it always feels like October should be calm before the storm that is Christmas.

Not this time round! October feels like it’s been more crazy than September was this year. One of my clients sent two big-ish projects my way both to be completed as soon as possible in October. This meant I spent about two weeks around looking after Jaxon working on these projects. I am grateful they were sent my way but it was great to get them ticked off and completed.

In addition to this, I had “Planner Wunderlust” and couldn’t figure out which planner I wanted to be in. As I write this, my TN is in my rucksack and my Filofax is on the arm of the sofa. But back at the beginning of October I received my Brimbles Box.

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Following the release of the October Brimbles Box, Anna (aka Mrs Brimbles) added these printable Project Life Journaling cards to her Etsy Store. With some technical magic, I shrunk them into these stickers and used them as a countdown to the new Gilmore Girls episodes that come out on Thanksgiving this year (Trailer here). Yes I am just a bit excited and determined to fit “Oy with the Poodles already!” into an actual sentence.

With Jaxon now being 2 and being a bit more interactive, I attempted to write a Autumn Bucket List of things we could go out and do. All the stickers came from the 12×12 sticker sheet that came in the box along with one of the washi tapes. (The black and white in the background is the bag that the goodies came in)

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Using some more of the stickers from the October box along with a few from the September box, I finished up with decorating the front of my current TN insert. Although they were different themes, they still work together in a way. (Oh the random spotty washi tape was from a penpal letter! Oops!)
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Although it wasn’t entirely completed when I snapped this picture I think this is my favourite. I started by adding orange, yellow and red watercolours across the pages to create autumnal colours. Having seen Ali Brown using her Dymo labeller in her journal I invested in one to use in my journal and I love it! (I have a Dymo Junior as that’s what they had in the shop but I’m sure there are different options out there).

Using then stickers and printed out photos, I got arranging my layout to get writing about these couple of days in October. Pen wise I was using my Herlitz My.Pen Style Calligraphy cartridge pen – I think I’ve done something to the nib so I’m not entirely sure how long it will last but we can see.

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I am currently a member of Mrs Brimbles Design Team. As part of this I receive a Brimbles Box each month and then show off what I’ve done with it. You can find more info about the Brimbles Box here and more about the Design Team here and here.

Currently…31st October

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Currently

Watching…

In all honesty, Christmas films. I discovered that there are a lot Hallmark Christmas films are on YouTube, so working my way through them.

Reading…

I’ve been reading lots of articles on my phone but haven’t had chance to get some more reading done. According to Goodreads, I’ve completed 13 out of 25 books in 2016. Need to get a pedal on!

Listening…

Have been listening to Michael Buble but have been skipping the Christmas songs for now – it’s still a bit early even for me!

Making…

I’ve been working on two projects, one is secret, the second is a Flop for Jaxon following the pattern from the CBeebies Grown Ups Blog. It’s actually really easy to follow just need to keep count of which row I’m on because nearly every row is slightly different to the one before it. While knitting it I wasn’t sure it was getting into shape but then as I decreased around the neckline and then increased again into the head it made sense and was clear what it was. Will Jaxon know who it is – I’m not sure but we’ll see. As he starts to get more words he seems to be able to explain more.

In progress Flop

Feeling…

A mixture again, I have a sore throat brewing – I don’t want to give into it but it would be easier just to get it out of the way.

Planning…

Lots of things. With the name change, I wanted to spend time weeding out old posts that aren’t relevant and fixing broken links etc so that my website behaves more but it’s not quite happening the way I wanted it to so have to keep working at it.

 

Loving…
autumn

The change in the weather – it’s actually properly autumn now.

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Halloween or Not?

Growing up Halloween was one of those things that just passed without much notice being given to it. My folks would make a sign to the affect of “you knock and we ignore you” in the hope of deterring Trick or Treaters. (ToTs from now on rather than keep typing it out!)

Maybe it’s just a growing trend but Halloween seems to be more of a “thing” this year. The annoying pregnancy/ovulation test adverts on YouTube have been replaced by a well known supermarket’s Halloween adverts. One particular one is really inappropriate to proceed Thomas and Friends or Fireman Sam. Each time I go into town or to the supermarket there are whole displays. Thankfully, Preschool seems to have skipped any dressing up but had there been Jaxon would have been going as an astronaut, superhero or something else not Halloween based.

I then wondered was it just that this year we weren’t focused on helping with or organising an alternative Halloween gathering like we have when Chris worked for the church.

Like we have for the last couple of years, we ignored the door or turned away any ToTs who do knock on the door. At one point ,Jaxon was playing Guard Toddler, he kept looking out of the letterbox into the street to see what was going on because people kept coming to the door but not into the house. (In the end he actually fell asleep in his high chair).

Beware of the Guard Toddler
In a way this year I was beginning to wonder if we were the odd ones out or something so I started to ask around. Along with the religious responses to not celebrating Halloween another opinion started to pop up.

We spent every day of the rest of the year telling our children not to speak to strangers and now a proportion of us are “encouraging” our children to throw away those ideas and talk to strangers. Now I know with Jaxon and Our Sidekick that life is easier when the rules stay the same. Admittedly I think they get a bent by grandparents and Uncles/Aunties but 99% of the time they are there and they make sense – why would we overcomplicate things?

I am sure there are plenty of posts out there already explaining the religious angle – the one I tend to re-read is this one by Canon J John.

In my case, I’d rather celebrate what is good and right with the world not the dark, twisty and evil.

I reached out to a group of parent bloggers based here in the UK and asked for their opinions.

First up we have for celebrating…

Before having children we didn’t celebrate Halloween at all, and wouldn’t answer the door if anyone knocked, and kept the lights on low with all the curtains and blinds closed. We saw Halloween as quite an American concept. Now we have a toddler we have completely changed our opinions and now love it. We make sure we have sweets/treats for any trick or treaters. We also get a little fancy dress costume for our toddler to wear and we carve pumpkins too and leave them outside our house to show we’re happy for people to knock on the door. It’s definitely lots more fun with a child in tow.

– Laura from Mummy La La

Love it! Even before having kids I’d get a huge bag of candy and set up a Halloween pumpkin outside. I love seeing kids in costumes. You do get the odd annoying candy grabbing older kids but the toddlers and early school years are adorable. We haven’t been trick and treating yet with our daughter, she is just three so still a little young for it. Maybe next year!

– Irina from Wave to Mummy

Before we had children we always used to make sure we had sweets in and loved handing them out. We continued to do this when the boys were young but they would dress up too.

Now they are older (3 and 6), we take them down our road to Trick or Treat as to them it’s a bit of fun and | don’t see the harm in it. I love seeing the young kids dress up, I think it’s really cute!

– Maria from Suburban Mum

I’ve got lots of American family & friends & to them Halloween is an excuse for a great family get-together just like Christmas. They decorate their homes like you’ve never seen & really go to town with great themed food & costumes – which in the most part aren’t scary or gory, just fun! Whole neighbour hoods visit each others homes & it’s done with a really feel good ‘family’ feel….

The vast majority of my American friends have firm, deep rooted Christian beliefs, but celebrating Halloween seems to just be part of their US culture. It’s funny how we see things so differently this side of the pond isn’t it?!

– Jane

(Actually Emily and Tim of Today’s Letters posted their Halloween pictures and they’d been Trick or Treating as Elsa, Anna and Olaf from Frozen!)

I’ve always loved Halloween, and I have fond memories of dressing up and trick-or-treating with my brother and friends when we were kids, so was really looking forward to taking mine out when they were old enough. But what a disappointment! So many people – clearly at home – just wouldn’t answer the door! Instead I usually try to find a fun local Halloweeny activity where I know the kids will have fun and everyone will be in the right spirit (so to speak!)

– Kelly from Adventures in Tea and Cake.

Honestly? I think people that don’t answer the door or celebrate with their children are being a bit of a spoilsport. As someone that was brought up not celebrating anything; no Christmas, no birthdays, no Halloween etc I know how it feels to be the odd one out and not allowed to join in. Ok, so you might hate that it’s commercialised or that the message gets lost or the history behind it or whatever it is, but kids don’t care about that stuff. I think it’s harmless fun and why not open the door and give a few sweets out, let the kids dress up etc?

– Amy from Amy’s Treasure (if you have chance read this one too)

And against…

I have never liked it..I always used to hide when I was younger too & living at home still! My daughter loves getting dressed up, going trick or treating and answering the door to others but I still avoid going to the door with her and send my hubby ? I’m such a baby haha!

– Alison from Being a Mummy with ME  (maybe this was a middle of the road one!)

For me it’s a new exciting thing to celebrate since having my son. I like to do special activities on the run up to halloween such as visiting a pumpkin patch and preparing treats at home. And of course dressing up! If there’s a kid appropriate halloween event we’ll go to that. I don’t like trick or treating, it’s just not something I’m into or would want to take my son on. Which is why if there’s an event based around it I’m more likely to go to that- it feels less like begging. However I do have sweets ready for kids that come to the door, but I’m still not a fan and would prefer it if that part of the celebrations didn’t exist. Total spoil sport! lol.

– Donna from The London Mum (another middle of the road one)

We don’t celebrate it, and I’ve mainly seen it as a nuisance since I came across it. Our door stays firmly shut, and I’m not keen on Halloween alternatives for children. I find the dressing up unappealing and the noise of excited youngsters annoying. And now as a parent living in a country where it’s a main thing, i’m not pleased I’ll have to address it with our children when they’re old enough. I grew up in a different country without it, and I’m glad I did. I don’t like its history and its commercialisation.

– Mo from Adventures of a Novice Mum

I HATE Halloween. To me dressing children up in ghoulish costumes and then getting them to go around threatening people unless they’re given sweets just seems so wrong (I know that’s extreme lol!)
I hate being in on Halloween on my own and have heard some horror stories about eggs or crackers being posted through letterboxes.I tend to pull the curtains and pretend I’m not home.

– Jo at ConFlab Corner

Never really appealed to me that much, my mum told me it was begging so I guess I still have that opinion in my mind and so I don’t take my daughter trick or treating. But we do have fun dressing up, watching films like the corpse bride and having a little party with pumpkin themed food.

Kayleigh at Candy Floss Dreams

I hate Halloween and sit in the back of the house with all curtains shut tight, pretending we’re not in! Now the girls are older I do get them costumes for school events but only cats. I guess I’ll have to take them trick or treating one day but I’m putting it off as long as I can! I hate the teenagers who come round and haven’t even bothered to put on an outfit, and feel really sorry for older people who must be quite scared by them.

– Becky from Pinks Charming

So there’s definitely a split whether celebrating is okay or not and it seems lots of people think it’s harmless fun. Our family will continue to avoid celebrating it, with Our Sidekick being now 17, we expressed our views but left it up to him to make his own decision about what he did. Jaxon will be raised not to celebrate it but again as he gets older, we will express our views and how we would prefer him to treat it but that’s quite a long way in the future yet!

How about you? Is it harmless fun or do we need to be worried about our kids? 

Currently…24th October

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.
Currently

Watching…

I’ve been working my way through Enterprise this last week and had it on in the background to keep me sane! I’ve worked out that I need to watch 4 episodes a day to fit all of Gilmore Girls in before the new episodes come out at the end of November.

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Reading…

I got as far as getting Inferno off the book case but didn’t get any further than that. My brother on the other hand texted me on Wednesday to tell me he had 13 hours remaining on his audiobook and when that was finished he was going to try and listen to the Divine Comedy. Normally I’d expect him to mean the band but on this occasion he does actually mean the epic poem by Dante Alighieri.

Listening…

I’ve still been listening to my Worship playlist on Spotify. Two that get played lots are Faith by London Community Gospel Choir and It is Well by Kristene Dimarco. Jaxon likes bopping around to the gospel music too so we have it on quite loud some afternoons!

Making…

On Wednesday Chris went to the Gitlab World Tour in London. When he got back he’d got me this sticker (it was fabric like a patch but had a sticky back), I adopted the Wok to Walk chopstick wrapper and then Chris gave me his train ticket. I stuck it all in my journal and got the layout below done between blog posts and other bits. There is a story behind the Wok to Walk wrapper. when we were in Amsterdam for our honeymoon we practically lived on Wok to Walk because it was cheap and yummy!
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Gitlab Adventures - Journaled

Feeling…

A whole mixture, on Tuesday I went to bed with a real stomach ache and felt nausea at one point but when I woke up, I was okay but just felt a little worn out. By the weekend I felt better though – just in time for the new Craft Club at church to launch.

Planning…

 

Again my to do list is in overdrive! Ever have one of those weeks where you cross one thing off and another ten arrive on the list?

Loving…

I found this print on Etsy while I was looking for the Gilmore Girls title card. How cute is it! I would love a copy of it to stick on my “inspiration” wall next to the computer. It’s from Rain City Prints. You can find them on Etsy here.

Where you lea, I will follow from Gilmore Girls

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Bright Future

Even before Chris and I were married, he was always interested in doing his bit for the environment. When we moved into a place of our own, Chris did research regarding energy companies. He wanted one that was best for green energy. That was nearly 10 years ago and I think more energy companies are trying to go greener. In the last few years, we’ve changed things around the house that would look after the environment. In turn, they would also help with our heating bills. We had additional loft insulation put in along with external wall insulation on the outside. Our house is now pretty much wrapped up in a big blanket.

Last year, when Chris started his new job, he started to look at cars and if we could get another hybrid or fully electric car that would work for us. This is where Zoe the EV comes in. Admittedly even after a year, I still have mixed opinions of Zoe but she’s growing on me. I even looked at an EV for a second car instead of a petrol car.

These were big things that took some planning to change, but there are little things that we can do on a daily basis to make a difference and give our kids a bright future.

Dirty Shoes

Even before children were being considered, I was of the opinion that I would rather have to do heaps of washing and know my kids were happy. Rather than them to have pristine clothes and be miserable.

Jaxon is a typical boy, he loves being outside and exploring but also likes to be inside and build things (don’t get me wrong girlies can do those things too!). When he’s been out in the garden or been to the park as well as following meal times he can often need a change of clothes because he’s got mucky – at the weekend I had to change his clothes firstly because he ended up with fromage frais down his arm. The second time was because his nappy didn’t keep up! So keeping up with his washing as well as the rest of the washing created by the smelly boys (and sometimes smelly mummy!) means the washing powder has got to keep up with us. Normally we use store own washing liquid. I used the Persil that I received and when I opened the washing machine, I wanted to stick my head in it because it smelt so nice!!

Did you know that according to an article in The Guardian this summer, children spend only half as much time playing outside as we did when we were children? Although the house I lived in used to be on a bus route, I remember playing outside most days in the summer whether it was out in the back garden, playing football in the evenings, using the garage as a goal or as I got older going to the park to hang out with my friends and one particular winter we ended up visiting three different houses to make sure we got the most out of the snow while it was still there!

There are so many reasons why children need to play outside and explore rather than being stuck inside. You can read more here.

To give Jaxon a bright future, when possible I really try to take him to the park or other places he can explore. We spend a lot of time walking places or taking public transport, so some days he only “explores” as far as he can see. We are really fortunate that as his preschool there is an outdoor play area and this is open to him most days (unless it’s raining or too cold), also that we live really close to the park.

Things we try to do to make a bright future for our children.

  • Use fabric, not plastic. We have fabric shopping bags all over the place. We have a set of these trolley bags in the boot of the car that we use for the main shop. I keep at least one fabric shopping bag tucked in the pocket on the buggy. I also had one in my handbag too (need to fix that because it’s not there at the moment!).
  • Cooler washing temperatures. A lot of clothes can be washed at cooler temperatures and still come out clean. We wash on the 40C Eco cycle on our washing machine. I think it takes longer than a normal cycle but some reason it’s Eco!
  • Tumble dry Okay not normally one but listen to this. Our washing machine has four different settings on the washing machine from bone dry to only just wet. We use the “wardrobe dry” setting which is the first dry one. So, with some careful packing of the washing machine, you can get it all completely dry without having to put it on the “bone dry” setting.
  • Internal doors During the winter we try to keep the internal doors closed because this then keeps the occupied rooms that bit warmer. (Although as I write this the door is wide open behind me and I’ve just realised I’m cold!)
  • Hand Me Downs Some Mums I’ve met have been really precious about their children always having new clothes rather than second hand. With Jaxon, I knew he was going to get mucky and so yes he has new clothes but I love adopting a bag of second-hand clothes for him. It’s like a present! We had one bag recently and Jaxon is still working his way through the socks and pajamas. If the clothes still have use, pass them along to another user whether that’s passing onto a friend, reselling or donating to charity.

What do you do in your house to make a difference to the world around you and a better place for the future? 

You can see Unilever’s #BrightFuture video here.

I love the facts and figures used so had to share.

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Unilever Goodies

This post is an entry for BritMums #brightFuture Challenge, sponsored by Unilever. I received the goodie bag above to enter the #brightfuture challenge. Screenshots are taken from the video linked above.

Brimbles Box Unboxing – October

I started this post about two weeks ago before GBBO started but I ended up saving it as a draft and not managing to get back to it! (One of my work clients needed a lot of my time over the last two weeks so I had to pause various bits).

My Brimbles Box for October arrived really promptly (Although I did stalk the postie one day as I thought it might arrive and then it didn’t!). When it did arrive I had a go at filming an unboxing while Jaxon was occupied elsewhere. I gave it a go but there was a bit of a hiccup in the middle (oh and I was using a stack of Mega Bloks as a camera tripod. (You can see it here).

Unboxing Video

 

I’ve been using a lot of the stickers in my journal and will have pages to show you in the next few weeks so keep your eyes peeled for those. I love all the thankful ones. I’ve stuck the bunting onto a piece of pink card that now is stuck on the wall next to my desk along with various other bits and pieces (including the postcard from this month’s box).

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Orange isn’t normally my go to colour for washi but I love this one as it’s all patterned and it’s different patterns. Brimbles Box - Autumn Washi - October How cute are the squirrel and hedgehogs on this one? These are handy for decorating the week view in my planner as they are smaller. The little Pumpkin Latte Cup is handy for coffee dates – now I just need to get one booked! Keep threatening to go to the particular “lady in green” coffee shop at the train station so that I can actually try a Pumpkin Spiced Latte… Maybe it’s one of those Autumn/Fall Bucket List kind of things.

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Useful info for you

Information of the changes I mentioned in this video can be found here.

Whilst stocks last the complete box and / or individual items are available to purchase from Anna’s Website you can also sign up for your subscription there too.

The cost of the box for a subscription is £15 and £18 for a one off purchase (+ P&P). To find out what the shipping is for your Country, just add the product to your cart and it will tell you at the current exchange rate before you have to enter any payment details so you can decide if this is right for you.

A Beautiful Plan can be found here on Etsy.

As part of the Mrs Brimbles Design Team, I receive a Brimbles Box in exchange for various tasks. You can find more information about the Design Team here. The images used above are from Anna’s website.

Currently…17th October

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Currently

Watching…

I may have started on the Christmas films this weekend – I watched Christmas Detour and In-Lawfully Yours (not technically a Christmas film but does have Christmassy bits in it). Chris was busy working on a website so I was on Jaxon duty – we had Thomas playing on the TV but I had a Christmas film playing on my phone while he played. I also carried on working my way through Enterprise.

Reading…

Following making plans to go and see Inferno when it comes out at the cinema, I’ve dusted off my copy to re-read it before seeing the film. My brother is doing the same with the audiobook.

Listening…

Have been mainly listening to the worship playlist some more. When I walk to and from preschool I’ve been trying to listen to worship music and use that time to get closer to God.

Making…

Currently - Temperature Blanket - still in progress

I spent a chunk of Sunday afternoon working on my Temperature Blanket. I realised a few weeks back that I hadn’t done any since August so I’ve been trying to catch up in between other projects. I’ve managed to complete my part in a join project with Mum so she’s working on her bit now for that one.

Currently working on this project between a few others

Feeling…

I’m feeling better than I have been. Having worked near enough everyday for 12 days straight I really needed to make sure that I got some time off – by the end of last week I didn’t have a headache each day but I feel like my brain was doing 100mph even when I was asleep – each morning I was waking up shattered even though I’d had between 5 and 8 hours sleep.

Planning…

Working on a to do list for this week – having been focused on two projects for one client the rest have fallen behind and need to get organised – thankfully one of the projects only happens once a quarter and now I know what it entails I can plan better for it next time round (Although the next time does need to slot in with Christmas too!)

Currently - Journaling while Jaxon eats his dinner. Using stickers from my Brimbles Box

Loving…

I loved the rain yesterday although it would have been nicer if I didn’t have to go out in it. On the other side I loved being able to help my friend and her daughter. There was a huge deluge when church finished yesterday morning so having got Jaxon in the car, I ran up the street after my friend to ask her and her daughter wanted a lift home. They were very grateful – although of course as I pulled up outside their house it had near enough stopped raining and within an hour the sky was almost mostly blue again!

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Bubble Bath Time!

As parents to young children we are often told how routine and structure is important. But sometimes life doesn’t go to plan and we have to be flexible.

We have a structure for mornings between waking up and going out to the groups we do each day. Then around lunch, we have a routine too that works for us most days.

Although they are both important routines to have, the routine we have found to be most important was around bedtime.

Prior to Chris changing his hours, time would be limited where Jaxon would see Chris. This meant that a routine for bedtime was really important. Even Chris now getting in from work earlier, we have tried to keep the same routine for bath time. Our bedtime routing starts with a bath. Although there is usually some crazy time with Daddy first. This is usually chasing one another around or Daddy blowing raspberries on Jaxon’s tummy. (And his stubble sometimes tickling too!). Sitting downstairs working and being able to hear their conversation or Jaxon giggling really loud makes me so happy! I am so blessed to have Chris who is a great Dad to Jaxon. He’s also a great foster carer to Our Sidekick even if we both fail at being “cool”.

Following the “Crazy 5 Minutes”, Jaxon has his nappy taken off and then we’d all end up in the bathroom. We get the bath running around the right temperature and then Jaxon gets in. We love the Bedtime Baby Bath and Shampoo as the Lavender helps to calm us all down!

While Jaxon is in the bath, Chris and I will recap over the day. Sometimes this includes discussing what the plan once Jaxon is in bed (sometimes if not always includes what’s for dinner and who’s making it!), we then either splash about with Jaxon in the bath or let him show us the things in the bath. I think we generally take his lead to see what he wants to do in the bath that particular day.

Smiley Bath Jaxon

Once he’s had some time to play, it’s then time to clean his teeth. We used to try once he was out of the bath but we found that in the bath is better. It means he doesn’t try to escape!

Following that, it’s then time to wash his hair, now that we’ve been doing this same routine pretty much every night, it’s definitely got that bit easier because we all know what’s coming routine wise. He will often get the sponge and try to squeeze the water over his head to get his hair damp ready to wash or his new(ish) trick is to lie down in the bath – he only does this with assistance and has his own sign to explain what he wants to do (of course as I write this I can’t remember what it is at all!!).

We then make sure his hair is dampened enough and then time for the shampoo. Currently we have two bottles on the go so Jaxon picks between the Purple (Bedtime Baby Shampoo) and Green (No More Tangles Baby Shampoo). It tends to be the Purple but I think the Green is getting used by the “adults” in the house too.

Johnson and Johnson Bubble bath and Shampoo

In the last few months he will often put his hand out to have a little bit of shampoo squeezed into his hand so he can try to wash his hair himself. After a few rubs we take over but he enjoys giving it a go.

Once the lathering has finished Jaxon with then either lie down to rinse out the bubbles or will use the sponge again. It often depends on what mood he’s in!

Once bath time is over we then work to calm him down ready for bed. Once his nappy and pyjamas are in place its story time. Jaxon has a bookcase just at his level so he will often pick a couple of books to take into bed with him but we will read just one to him. In the summer he was then able to flick through the other books while he settled in for bed. Now it’s darker earlier, he’s got a small amount of light from a set of fairy lights which means he can still flick through some of the board books. I will often sit downstairs and listen to him talk to himself.

Over on the Johnson’s Baby website there is this three step routine to help with bedtime including a bit of baby massage. We did attempt some baby massage when Jaxon was less mobile but now he’s too much of a wriggle to try it.

You can find out more information about the Johnsons range here as well as other tips and suggestions about bath time and bed time.

In exchange for this sponsored post, I was sent a 300ml bottle of Johnson’s Bedtime Baby Bath and a 500ml bottle of Bedtime Baby Shampoo. Perfect for bath time for little humans and big grown up humans!

Mrs Brimbles Creative Journal and Design Team

Oh I am so excited to share this now! Anna (aka Mrs Brimbles) and I grabbed a coffee last week and chatted about it but I just couldn’t tell anyone! (Actually even Chris and I only just discussed it yesterday evening!)

Mrs Brimbles Design Team

You know when you’re so excited about something you’re not entirely sure which though to put down first. That’s whats happening right now!

I think I discovered Anna’s YouTube channel while making my way through late night feeds with Jaxon or getting used to being at home all day rather than working in an office all day and things like that.

We got to meet in person back in April at Cambs Planner Con last year and she is just as lovely as she appears on her videos. I had a proper fan girl moment at the (icebreaking) meal the night before. I was early and had been sat in the bar bit of the restaurant with my gigantic pint of diet cola. I had my planner on the table so that anyone else arriving could recognise me. It did probably look like when Meg had Pride and Prejudice and a rose in You’ve Got Mail. Mr Brimbles and Anna arrived and waved like crazy lol.

When the opportunity came up to apply for Anna’s Design Team I had no clue whether I’d be good enough. However, I’ve been determined to try stuff on the off chance. Then an email arrived in my inbox – Anna picked me! EEK!

So yeah! Look out for more journalling bits coming your way!

You can see Anna’s announcement post here and the design call here – this tells you all about what the design team do!

You can also read Anna’s tips about applying for a design team here.

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Currently…3rd October

The image below and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.
Currently

Watching…

I’m still working my way through Voyager. It’s often been on in the background while I’ve got on with other things. I’ve been watching Strictly Come Dancing although I’m not so excited about this season – I’m not sure why though because normally I’m really excited about it all. While taking a break from work on Saturday, I found a new Hairy Bikers series on iPlayer so I started watching that too. It’s called The Hairy Bikers – Chicken and Egg.

Reading…

I decided it was about time that I tried to clear my Currently Reading list on Goodreads as I often seem to start books but not finish them. I’ve started with the oldest one on the list which is House and Philosophy: Everybody Lies. I’m about 70 pages through it so about a quarter of the way through. I still have some library books to read through too. Getting to the library can be a bit of a challenge but I think I’m going to try and get there this week while Jaxon is at preschool but we’ll see how the rest of the week is going first.

Listening…

Current playlist:

  • Midnight Train to Georgia by Gladys Knight & The Pips
  • Right Back Where We Started From by Maxine Nightingale
  • 9 to 5 by Dolly Parton
  • You Can’t Always Get What You Want by Band From TV
  • Teardrop by Massive Attack
  • Ain’t No Mountain High Enough by Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell
  • The Onion Song by Marvin Gaye and Tammi Terrell
  • Sir Duke by Stevie Wonder
  • Superstition by Stevie Wonder
  • MacArthur Park by Richard Harris
  • Bat Out of Hell by Meat Loaf
  • Wuthering Heights by Kate Bush
  • Say Geronimo by Say Hey So

Yep, definitely a random mix at the moment and I also ended up with Someone to Watch Over Me stuck in my head after watching this Voyager episode.

Making…

Since getting back from our holiday, I’ve been attempting to catch up on my Temperature Blanket. I spent yesterday afternoon trying to figure out where my dark green wool had gone. I ended up sorting out all my wool and there it was in one of the last bags/boxes I came too – yep far too much wool!

Feeling…

I’m on a mission. There’s quite a few work bits I need to get done. So right now it does feel a bit like my to do list keeps growing rather than shrinking. I have been attempting to use a different method of writing my to do list but then I’m worried I might forget something. Do you write all your tasks down in one place or you write just a few tasks to get done each day?

Planning…

Oh so much right now!! Need to write my to do list so that I can see what needs to be done right now before I have a meltdown in a puddle!

Loving…

The unseasonal sunshine that we had today – it was so nice to be able to not have to wear a coat!

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Blogtober16: Day Two – An Old Photo of Me

Blogtober16

Similarly to previous events like BEDM (Blog Every Day in May). I’m attempting to join in with #Blogtober16. The prompts can be found on Hex Mum’s blog.

Day Two: An Old Photo of You

I’m sure there are heaps more that I could have chosen. However I picked this one of my brother Richard and I. I love this photo because of how much of Jaxon I can see in Richard. Jaxon’s hair is blonder and clearly he’s got a lot of Chris mixed in too. I think this photo was taken when we were away at a CCCF Rally (which funnily enough was where I met Chris many years later!)

Richard and i

I figured comparison might be handy too! So this is Richard and I in a drama sketch we did at Howard Memorial Church, Cardington. Clearly I was off on one but not sure what!

Richard and I 2010

Then the most up to date one of us together – this was snapped at Jaxon’s birthday picnic back in July. Our Sidekick and Chris were at a residential for the Malawi trip. They thought about seeing if they could get out it but with it being the last one before the trip they had to go. I made sure we had stuff to do and even when it looked like it might rain, we stuck it out and actually it was dry for Jaxon’s birthday picnic. My Mum had got a selfie stick so that came in handy to take some pictures!

Richard and I 2016

Blogtober16: Introduction and Day One
Blogtober 2016

Blogtober 2016

Similarly to previous events like BEDM (Blog Every Day in May). I’m attempting to join in with #Blogtober16. These are the prompts and feel free to join in. You can find more information on Hex Mum’s blog

If you do join in, on each day of October, there will be a new linky over on Hex Mum’s blog so that you can add your posts in there.

Blogtober16

Day One – Who Are You?

Hi, I’m Hannah – well I’m guessing if you got this far then you already know that. I’m a thirty something living in Bedford with my boys. I’m married to Chris, we are foster carers to Our Sidekick and we have Jaxon who is the youngest of the bunch.

Our Sidekick - best big foster brother ever!

Jaxon and I. Babywearing in the Boba

I’ve lived in Bedford my whole life although I’ve lived in five different houses/flats. Four of which have been in the last ten years-ish. The house we currently live in isn’t necessarily our forever house but it’s definitely our “for now house”. 

Although I’ve always worked for someone else, once I went on maternity leave and was waiting for Jaxon to arrive I started to think about what was next. Could I cope with being a full time stay at mum non-working Mum? Nope pretty sure I would have gone loopy. So it came up in a conversation about being self-employed and what could I do? 

I’ve had an interest in social media and have been to a number of conferences over the years and given help to various people it seemed like a good idea to try and go with doing social media for my job. But I had 101 questions and thankfully with my Mum being self-employed she’s been able to help me and one of my clients has been really helpful with a bit of mentoring too. I quoted for some work and this particular client basically sent it back and said “Are you sure this is enough? Do you need to reissue it?”

So that’s the day job around being a mum to Jaxon. 

When I’m not being all entrepreneurial, I love to knit and crochet. I’m currently working on the “behemoth” that is my temperature blanket. I’m currently two months behind which isn’t good but I’m hoping once I get the crazy “start of quarter” bits out of the way for work I’ll be able to buckle down and get some more done. 

We really try to gentle/attachment parenting. We love babywearing although Jaxon is now nearly 14kg, I’m not sure how much longer I will be able to carry him. We used to breastfeed but Jaxon decided it was the end of that around 18 months. We did a combination of BLW and spoon-fed. He’s now almost 28 months old and most days loves his food. He’s like me and loves bananas. I discovered that babies develop their taste preferences while still in the womb. When I was pregnant I had a thing about banana flavoured things like bananas milkshake and the fruit. Maybe it explains his love of them now. 

Yeah that’s me. I’m trying to write this at silly o’clock so if you want to ask questions go ahead. 

Currently…26th September

Currently

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

I’m still working my way through Voyager. This weekend while we were away I ended up watching Grand Designs and Red Dwarf. I also watched a documentary about the Ghan Railway in Australia that runs from Adelaide to Darwin via Alice Springs. One of the stops along the way is Quorn, one of my penpals live there so I got a bit excited about that.

Reading…

Having finished the beta reading project I got a bit distracted on Saturday night and read over 100 pages in my reading book and actually ended up finishing it. I was reading The Doris Day Vintage Film Club. It was a nice easy read for while I was on holiday. I’d picked it up in the Oxfam shop too so that was for a good cause. I have a couple of library books still to read so I think I’m going to renew them today and then keep reading them. After that I need to decide what to read next. Think I need to read my other charity shop book purchase – I think it’s a C. J. Samson one which might be a bit heavier to read but we’ll see.

Listening…

Jaxon's Mummy Made JumperBeen working my way through all sorts and have ended up with some really slightly random playlist on Spotify. For example, I had Midnight Train to Georgia by Gladys Knight and The Pips, followed by Right Back Where We Started From by Maxine Nightingale. But then there were a few more twists like Bat Out of Hell by Meat Loaf and Say Geronimo by Say Hey So (which was added after Strictly this weekend).

Making…

I’ve now finished Jaxon’s jumper and have been starting on some new projects. Currently have two baby blankets on the go.

 

Feeling…

Better following being away for the weekend but now need to get on with some more work now that we’re back. Some is easy and some is hard work but I’ll get on with it and all will be well.

Planning…

Managed to get Jaxon’s passport sorted out so that’s all exciting. Having been to the seaside this weekend that’s one adventure done and time to start planning the next one.

Loving…

The time we got to spend together this weekend.

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Haven Holiday 2016: Day Three

Our Haven Holiday 2016

Today was mainly about getting on the road and heading home. Travelling in Zoe was going to take most of the day between charges.

While Chris and Jaxon finished up breakfast and played, I worked on getting everything packed away and ready to go home. I worked my way from the master bedroom back towards the living room and kitchen. That way I could close off each room as I went and knew they were then done.

Haven - The Dining and Kitchen Area

For three adults and a toddler this was plenty of space. We worked out that you could probably sleep 6 people, if not 8 (Chris said he thought the sofa in the living room turned into a double bed too). We used the sheet across one of the stalls for Jaxon and with the static caravan having a laminate/lino floor it was easy to clean when Jaxon dropped food on the floor.

Haven - The living room

As you can see out of the living room window, we were really close to some of the on site facilities. We used the shop and the swimming pool but didn’t have chance to explore the restaurant/bar opposite the caravan. Haven - Jaxon's Room

This is the room that Jaxon had to himself. I think Our Sidekick found that the single bed in his room was really too small for him whereas Jaxon looked tiny in the bed! We’d brought the brown blanket and his Thomas sheet from so he had those familiar things with him but he also used the duvet that was supplied.

When it came to eating breakfast, I nearly ended up having a cheese and ham sandwich rather than pack it but in the end, I decided to have cereal instead.

Once everyone was finished on breakfast and drinks the washing up got done and then it was beginning to look like we were ready to set off.

Our first stop on the journey we stopped at the McDonalds at Blofield to use the charger for the car. It might just be a fluke but every member of staff we’ve come in contact with there were so lovely and friendly. Once we had some more charge in the car we headed for Norwich Train Station where we could plug the car in for a longer charge while we explored the city.

Daddy babywearing win!

With three adults and one toddler fitting in our car there isn’t the space for the buggy. After managing our holiday last Summer with just the carrier, we’d packed it again this time. We didn’t really leave the site this weekend and the one time we did Jaxon did some walking too. During our holiday last year, Jaxon wasn’t walking so that helped to contain him a bit! We were tag teaming when it came to carrying Jaxon or holding his hand. Chris took the first “shift” which involved climbing up to the Castle Mall – what a superstar!

We had a potter round the shops and went to find a shop called Brambles. When we came to Norwich with Auntie K a while back, we went in the shop and I loved it. We found the shop unit but unfortunately Brambles has closed and another shop has now opened in it’s place. We did have a brief look round to see what it was like. However, there was no-one else in the shop and I was a nervous we were going to break something fragile!

We stopped for a quick break in the shopping centre in the food court. Unless Chris wanted a main meal, there was very little gluten free choice for him. When we went back outside, I snapped this picture – he wasn’t so convinced about having his photo taken (Again!) but at least he wasn’t looking crossly at the camera!

The journey home was a lot smoother than the journey to holiday. It was good to get home and be able to sleep in my own bed. I am pleased that I made it home in time to catch up on Strictly.

I spotted this on the way back to the car so of course had to snap a picture. I will have to make sure I stick it in my journal.

Would we go back to a Haven site?

Yes I think we would – there were a few minor hiccups but had there have been major ones I’m sure the on site team would have done their best to help us out.

Not a sponsored post. Just talking about our adventures to Haven’s Wild Duck Holiday Park in Belton nr Great Yarmouth. 

Haven Holiday 2016: Day Two


We had a false start to our day when Our Sidekick got up for the loo at 4.30 yesterday morning. Chris heard the door go and though Jaxon was up and wandering round so he jumped out of bed and dashed for the door. As he opened our bedroom door I think he scared the living daylights out of Our Sidekick who wasn’t expecting anyone else to be up at that time. Chris came back to bed and we went back to sleep until about 7am ish when Jaxon woke up. I was still half asleep so I’m glad that Chris was up and sorted Jaxon out.

Jaxon ended up parked in the middle of us watching Thomas on the iPad while I squeezed in a little more sleep. Chris was on the other side of Jaxon playing on his phone.

Started the day with breakfast. We could have booked a high chair if needed but Jaxon is in an in between phase. Some days he wants to use a high chair and other times he doesn’t . We had come prepared for this and grabbed the spare duvet cover that we had brought with us to work as a chair cover. Thankfully the caravan had Lino/laminate flooring so if anything went on the floor it was easy to clear up.

The View from the Caravan
Once we’d had breakfast, Chris took the car to the charging point (I think he had 4 or 5 attempts at different ones in the end because of faulty ones). Jaxon and I played and watched TV or what we could find. I got on with some knitting while he played. I think he was feeling the late night and ended up pretty much playing while lying on the floor.

Having looked at Google Maps, Chris took the bus back to the camp site rather than walking back. One of the local bus services drops off right outside the park so if you were coming to Haven by public transport you could get from Great Yarmouth on the bus. We discussed how easy it would be to get from Bedford to the park on the train or bus. It would involve possibly getting a lift to Cambridge to start with but wouldn’t be impossible.

Once Chris got back to the site we went swimming in the on site pool. It was quite busy and nearly all the lockers were in use (minus one that didn’t have a working lock). It did need a £1 coin to use it and fortunately Chris had brought his wallet with him as I’d left mine in the caravan. It’s been quite a while since Jaxon has been swimming so at first he wasn’t convinced about getting in the pool. We started in the small pool which mean Jaxon could actually walk around in the water. After a little while we went to get into the big pool, Chris and I took it in turns to hold Jaxon while the other one tried to entertain him. A lot of older girls and boys were jumping in the pool, so I would jump up and down in the water and then Chris would lift Jaxon up and splash him into the water like he’d jumped in. Jaxon did calm down and settle into being in the water. Towards the end we went back to the smaller pool, Jaxon had got out and walked from Chris to me round the edge then slipped over and hit his forehead on the floor. The lifeguards were so good! Before I’d even got out of the pool and got to Jaxon, Chris and the lifeguard were there checking on Jaxon. The lifeguard checked the nearest first aid kit for an ice pack but there wasn’t one so he then got another lifeguard to grab a second kit while stay with Jaxon, Chris and I. The second lifeguard came back really promptly with the second kit and the first lifeguard got the ice pack while Chris and I wrestled Jaxon between us to try and keep the ice pack on his head. I was then asked to fill in the first aid report – fine no problem but I didn’t have my glasses on so had to keep squinting at the form! Just hope it’s readable if anyone needs to re-read it in the future.

Following swimming we went back to the caravan. Jaxon was getting hungry but it was still a bit early for lunch so we gave him one of the Mamia pouches I’d been given as part of #MamiaDaysOut. Definitely better than popping to the shop for a bag of chocolate buttons!

When the pouches and other goodies had arrived, they came in this basket. 


As space in the car was at a premium I had to pack it down. Minus the fruit juice I managed to fit them into this box. 


Chris headed off to check the car and it turned out that although the app for the post he was using said it was charging the actual Renault app said that Zoe wasn’t charging.

While Chris was out it was lunchtime so Jaxon and I headed to the site shop to get the bits to make sandwiches. We also got iced doughnuts to share between us and Our Sidekick. After lunch, Chris returned to the campsite with Zoe the EV, he’d found a charger that would work and had enough charge for us to go to and from Great Yarmouth and then get as far as a McDonalds at Blofield that had a charging point to get us into Norwich to use another point while we explore. (The staff at the McDonald’s near Blofield are just so lovely! Although just a bit bemused as you have to pull through the drive through to be able to use the electric car charging point – oh and the particular point has a name like an Eddie Stobart lorry!).

Once Chris got back to the caravan park we headed into Great Yarmouth for a bit of a wander. We walked from the car park at South Quay down to the sea front. It was quite windy but didn’t deter us. Jaxon wasn’t keen on the stones in the sand but got used to it and was happy pottering along the beach holding Daddy’s hand.

Jaxon, Chris and I went for a paddle in the sea. Our Sidekick was quite happy wandering along a patch of beach where there was more sand than stones.


I was stood just at the edge of the waves as they were coming in and some of the stones gave way under my foot and nearly fell over. Thankfully I just ended up with wet trousers and didn’t fall over.

After this we headed back up the beach to the promenade. We then wandered along the sea front towards the pier and then to see some of the attractions along the sea front. A lot of them have either been closed as they didn’t open over the summer or have closed now that the season is almost over.

In one of the Arcades, Chris and Jaxon went on a rollercoaster simulator. Jaxon was a bit bemused and I’m not sure he entirely got what was happening but I think he enjoyed being on the ride with Daddy.

Before turning back to the car we got ice creams. Chris had Ferraro Rocher flavour, I had Jaffa cake and Our Sidekick had Oreo. The Jaffa cake one was yummy but it was almost like vanilla ice cream with chopped up Jaffa cakes in it. It was yummy anyway.

Once we got back to the car we end to get some dinner. We ended up at Pizza Hut. It was quite busy as it was a Saturday evening and because of this when it came to ordering and receiving our food there was a mixed level of customer service.  However the staff were really helpful.

When we got back to the caravan we put Jaxon to bed, then we watched Grand Designs then I watched Red Dwarf XI. Had to resist singing along to the titles out loud.

Not a sponsored post for Haven. Just talking about our adventures to Haven’s Wild Duck Holiday Park in Belton nr Great Yarmouth.

This post is an entry for BritMums #MamiaDaysOut Linky Challenge, sponsored by Aldi Mamia

Haven Holiday 2016: Day One – First Impressions

First Impressions of the Haven Site

Having an electric vehicle is really handy sometimes. There’s a whole list of benefits that make them worthwhile but the range can still be a real challenge. This weekend we’re staying at the Wild Duck Holiday Park (part of Haven) near Great Yarmouth. In order to get there we had to stop a couple of times to top up the charge on our Renault Zoe. We eventually arrived about 10:30pm last night. We’d spent the last hour of the journey trying to get from one charging point in the next hoping that we would have enough charge to get to the site. In the end we had to chance it and get to the site. I think the plan is to chat to the Haven team and see if there happens to be a charging point on site, if not then to call out the recovery team to take Chris and the car to the nearest available charging point so that he can get it charged up – we think it could be McDonalds, in which case he could probably time it with elevenses and nurse a cup of coffee until the car is fully (or at least half) charged.

Renault Zoe

After reception closes, you can check in with the security guard at the main gate. The gentleman who looked after us on arrival was lovely and friendly. He double checked that we had the right caravan key and also gave us the welcome pack that had various bits of information in it along with our passes for a lot of the facilities.

He gave us really clear instructions of how to find our caravan. It was really easy to find and actually we’re directly opposite a couple of the main buildings – it means there is some background noise from people leaving the pub/restaurant but it’s not too bad and I’m sure once they kick out it will quiet down properly.

We got all our stuff unloaded into the caravan while Chris worked on getting Jaxon into bed. We have a three bedroom caravan which was really handy as I’m sure Our Sidekick wouldn’t want to have to share with Jaxon! The master bedroom has a double bed then the other two have twin beds. One of the twin rooms had both the beds made up whereas the other room had neither beds made up which did mean we had to move some of the bedding from the furthest room into the middle room so that Jaxon is next door to us. It was great that the beds were already made up but it would have been possibly better if we could have made up the twin room ourselves maybe. We’d brought the duvet cover and blanket from Jaxon’s bed at home so he was lovely and snug in his temporary bed.

While Chris continued with bedtime I sorted out putting things like the cereal in the kitchen cupboards and got the kettle on. We were all a bit tense and needed to calm down a bit. I found a home for Jaxon’s bowl and plate only to realise that I didn’t bring any of his toddler cutlery – if we’re out and about I might purchase another set – it doesn’t always use it but it’s good to encourage him.
(It’s actually now 23:40 as I write this and the noise from the people outside has now died down so actually it’s nice and quiet – just me typing on the laptop and the buzz of the fridge).

Once Chris had got Jaxon settled he figured out how to put the heating on. It wasn’t necessarily needed but as the windows had been left open it was kind of nippy in the caravan and would be better for us all not to be freezing!

I sat reading the information and having a look to see what groups were available for us. For Jaxon the only group seems to be the Sing and Sign group in the morning but I’m not entirely sure he will sit still long enough for that especially as he normally gets really grumpy during the song bit at PlayPeople but we’ll see what happenes. There’s a football academy thing at lunchtime but Our Sidekick is too old for it (it’s up to 16 years and he’s now 17). At 17 he definitely seems to be in a bit of a limbo when it comes to the available activities. However it does turn out that we are close enough to one of the restaurants that we might be able to get an Internet connection – I did try it last night but it just kept dropping out. It’s showing as full signal but I think we might be sort of on the edge of the signal range and so that’s why it’s not working very well.

So, so far the first impressions are good, it’s a nice clean and tidy caravan, hopefully once the heating has been on a bit longer it will warm up and we’ll be a little happier and less stressed after a good nights rest.

Not a sponsored post. Just talking about our adventures to Haven’s Wild Duck Holiday Park in Belton nr Great Yarmouth. 

Awesome Ladies Project – What’s in Your Bag?

This week’s prompt is…

What’s in your bag? No matter what kind of bag you carry around, whether it be a purse, a tote bag, a diaper bag, a backpack etc – the things that you keep inside are a part of your story. Maybe you have a ton of book in your bag. Maybe you have lots of papers or candy or makeup. Maybe you’re a minimalist and only carry around the essentials. Whatever you choose to tote around with you tells a great story of who you are right now.

ALP Creative Team

This week involved a bit of planning, how was I going to show everyone what was in my handbag. Well, that started while Jaxon was eating his tea. What you can’t see from this picture is him sat in his chair over my right shoulder. He’s a bit bemused because I’m kneeling on the floor with a pile of bits from my bag. Then I’m lining them up all neatly to make sure I can get them all in one photo.

My friend always joked when I was at school that I was going to be a great Mum because of the random things I had in my school bag. You need a snack I probably had something. You needed a tissue – it could have been loo roll but I would have had it. Now I’m actually a Mum and my bag still resembles that level of preparation some days. Now Jaxon has his separate changing bag I don’t have to carry all the bits for him in my handbag too!

I do still carry three little toys with me as emergencies along with a snack because you never know when lunch might be running late – especially now we take the bus or walk places most days.

Sorting out my handbag for the picture has it’s benefits. It meant I could get rid of all the crumbs and debris that had been gathering in my bag. I am really liking this bag as it has two big pockets inside which means I can kind of divide up my stuff between the two and it’s less to try and dig through when I’m trying to find something!

Do you have a particular favourite handbag? What do you carry in your handbag?

Us @ 9 (well 11ish)

I realised that on our wedding anniversary, I forgot to post about us. I think life was getting crazy busy and it didn’t happen. So I’m posting today. It’s the 11th anniversary of you proposing to me.

Our Family
Will we do anything to celebrate? I don’t think so but I thought I’d share some bits that crossed my mind.

  • We’ve lived in four different flats or houses. Along with a week or two where we lived in separate placed. Mine involved me sleeping on the floor of my parent’s dining room.
  • We have gone from just us to having a family. Our Sidekick kind of crept up on us and then got stuck. When he needed us we stepped in and did what we could to help. I’m not sure he realises how much we do for him some days but I know that I only realise now (well in these 11 years) how much My Mum and Dad did for me when I was a teen and how thankful I should have been when I wasn’t. We also have Jaxon our little ball of crazy toddler energy. It’s not always been easy but we do what we can to make sure we stick it all together.
  • You’ve done crazy adventures all over the place but I’ve only been involved in a couple. I usually end up being support crew in some method. Jaxon was part fo the support crew too but note to us, next time we have 12ish week old let’s not go for a field trip to the other end of the country!
  • You looked after me heaps after I had a caesarian section – well Jaxon decided to be awkward didn’t he! (His birth story)
  • We had our second longest time apart (since getting married). The first was when you went to India. That was over our first Wedding Anniversary. I had expected not to speak to you while you were away. On our anniversary, you borrowed a phone and rang me at work. My colleague answered the phone and at first, I didn’t believe them! This year it was Malawi and Zambia.
  • It was the longest time that it’s been just me and Jaxon too. The worst bit was when Jaxon was sick because I really needed an extra set of hands and I didn’t have them. Then I was ill with the bug he had, thankfully I got over it quicker than him. It really crossed my mind to ring you to get you to come home. (In the end, I texted my Mum and then gave myself a good talking too!)
  • Jaxon started preschool and it just happened that because of when you got back from Malawi, you were able to be present on his first day. We got out the car, he took your hand and pretty much dragged you into the building.
  • You’ve been dreaming about mad adventures and I’ve applied for Jaxon’s first passport. First off we have a trip to the seaside. Hopefully, the weather is nice. Something makes me think it’s Jaxon’s first trip to the seaside but I’m not sure if that’s right or not.

Life has had it’s ups and it’s downs. There have been occasions when calling it quits and walking away might have crossed our minds but it was never acted upon. Here’s to the next lot of crazy adventures.

You, Me, Us

 

Currently…12th September

Currently

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

I finished Deep Space 9 and it really crossed my mind to watch something else. Then Voyager sucked me in. I saw a post on Facebook that said the new episodes of Gilmore Girls come out in 76 days. Thats about 2 episodes a day if I was to watch from the beginning again. However, I have already done that in the last few months so starting for the second time might be a bit bananas.

Reading…

I finished The Holiday Home by Fern Britton, it was a good read and fairly light hearted so was a nice easy read when I needed something to relax with. I wasn’t a fan of the way the story went but it still overall works in a way.

Listening…

I’ve still been on the cheesy pop. I think I’ve just needed something energetic to keep me going for now!

Making…

Jaxon’s Jumper is still in progress. All work stalled this morning at Lemon and Ginger because I had left the pattern at home on the kitchen table when I was getting a little stressed about leaving the house.

Feeling…

Frazzled? We did the Tweetup this evening which was great and so much fun but I have lots of work bits to be doing too so having to focus on them now when in all honesty I should be asleep! 5-6 hours and Jaxon will be up – tomorrow could be sponsored by caffeine! (And maybe cake given that I think I’m going to have bad results on the scales anyway!)

Planning…

Working on the adventures – got to get Jaxon’s Passport pictures taken this week – thankfully Our Sidekick is coming to help me to try and get it done – hopefully one of us can hold Jaxon or something while the other keeps him occupied! Hopefully Jaxon will cooperate!

Loving…

The warm weather that seems to have crept up on us after all the rain we had at the weekend.

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Planner Love: Meadowgate Traveler’s Notebook

I have a bit of a growing collection of planners now. However, I do find that I keep coming back to the traveler’s notebook set up. It definitely seems to work better for me especially as I can combine it with Bullet Journalling. I like that I can swap out each insert and come up with a setup that works just for me.

The Traveler’s Notebooks I Have Already

I’ve had a blue Midori for a while and purchased a wide size camera print Lyradori. I’ve also drooled over the choices at Chic Sparrow but never quite justified the cost of shipping from the US to the UK. (I kept looking at an American Deluxe or a Mr. Darcy having seen them on Ali’s YouTube Channel)

The regular size is great for fitting in my handbag or tucking into my laptop bag when I head to 44 Harpur Street or a coffee shop to work while Jaxon is at Preschool. I tend to use it for journalling but once I figure out what diary layout I want I might put my diary back in it. I happened to find my old Midori diary inserts that I had purchased towards the end of last year so I got out the diary for July to December and the one that I had started 2017 in. It took a bit of time to get them in an order that would work for me but I think I am settled for now. Just need to keep playing and see what works.

I’ve been looking at the A5 but it’s close to £60 so I think I need to wait for a sale or ask for it for Christmas.

Meadowgate Traveler’s Notebook

This colour is the Deep Violet on the website. Depending on the light it seems to come up different in each picture. It’s a very red purple and almost a wine colour.

Deep Violet Snowbell Deluxe from MeadowgateWhat I like about this TN over the Midori is that it has these pockets in the front. I can imagine having my business cards tucked in there for taking to networking meetings. With the Tweetup, next week, I might have to make sure my business cards are in the front ready and waiting if I need to hand them out.

Currently, I have four inserts in here. I did use the extra bands that I had to try and see if I could fit in more inserts. It was possible to get the inserts into the cover. However when I tried to then reopen it after closing it the inserts where moving and would eventually probably wiggle themselves out. Also, it was really hard to write in the first and last inserts because of the rest in the middle. I do like the “crammed” planner look but with rings, they heavy if out have too much in it. I have an A5 Filofax that has a week to a view set up but it’s columns split into Morning/Afternoon/Evening for the days rather than horizontal rows for the day which I definitely do prefer as I used to always struggle to find a diary that had a big enough space on a Sunday for all the church bits I used to try and fit in.

Inside the front cover of my Meadowgate Traveler's Notebook.In the back of this one, there is also this pocket. I currently have some pictures tucked in that back pocket as I work on my journal. Since taking this picture I’ve actually changed the setup. Originally I had this yellow insert in the front, this is my current journal. Behind it, I then had my Reading Log and a blank Traveler’s Times insert. Behind that, I had another journal that I’m working on. This back one is made up from the various journals I kept when I was pregnant with Jaxon. As I write up each entry I’m able to add photos that I hadn’t thought of adding before. I’m hoping to redo the scrapbook I made when Chris and I went to Amsterdam. It’s currently a large sketchbook but it’s a bit big for storing whereas a journal this side would be easier to look after.

Inside the back cover of my Meadowgate Traveler's Notebook

I received my Meadowgate by swapping a different planner with someone on a group on FB. Having had a look at the price it would have been, I would have definitely considered saving up for one. (Part of why I’m drooling over the A5 ones!).

If you’re looking for a leather traveler’s notebook from a UK Etsy Seller rather than a US one. Take a look at Meadowgate’s store – you won’t be disappointed I’m sure!

You can find Mike’s website here along with his shop here.

This isn’t a sponsored post – I just wanted to share my love of my new TN. 

Awesome Ladies Project – What is Your Job? 

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What’s your job? Do you have an outside the house job? Do you have more than one outside the house job? Do you have inside the house jobs? What is work for you? Maybe it’s a place you go everyday? Maybe it’s a project you work on? Maybe it’s taking care of outhouse people, old people or sick people at home or at their home. When you think of the work they you have to do on a day to day basis, what does that look like for you?

My main job is being a full time mummy to Jaxon. I then have my business which is called Daisy Media. I work as social media consultant/manager working with other small (and not so small) businesses to manage their social media accounts. This last week I’ve tweeted about compost, a food festival, a car offer, weddings and football matches. Definitely a mixed bag that’s for sure! I work mainly at home caring for Jaxon but when he started preschool I’ve been able to work outside of our home which I think I had helped me not to be such s hermit!

Then there’s my harder but most rewarding job. Being a mummy. I’m a foster carer to Our Sidekick who is 17 and 6 foot tall now! Then I’m Mummy to my 2 year old ball of energy. In fact without Jaxon coming along I don’t think I would have taken the leap to be my own boss. I would have probably stayed in my temp job as long as they needed me or would have moved onto something more permanent by now.

August in Review (August 2016)

With it being the school holidays and the boys being away, Jaxon and I had lots of extra adventures in August.

  • The boys had their adventure to the Southern Hemisphere. They spent a fortnight at Home of Hope Orphanage in Malawi. They got to meet so many new people and make new friends.
  • Jaxon had a stomach bug which he kindly shared with me. Fortunately enough I literally threw up twice, slept for 11 hours and then just had a back ache to content with (which I think was my kidneys telling me I really dehydrated and needed to get some fluids in me).
  • I’ve always had respect for solo parents who take care go their kids by themselves but when Jaxon was throwing up and I was dealing with it my respect went even higher. I was so grateful that normally I would be able to tag team with Chris to get Jaxon sorted out. (Actually I think if it called for it Our Sidekick would also step in).
  • Food shopping with a toddler is interesting especially when he wants to look at every packet before you put it in the basket. Thankfully we got there in the end.
  • I have a great bunch of friends. Quite a few said I needed anything while the boys were away I just needed to shout.
  • My mum came to my rescue the day Jaxon pretty much slept and occasionally watched TV. He hadn’t been sick so I considered taking him for a walk in the buggy so I could at least get some essentials but then thought better of it. Mum was going to the supermarket anyway so she got some bits for me too. Yay for Mummies!
  • Coffee dates with church friends and other friends.
  • Walks around the park in the sunshine with friends too.
  • Play dates that I could only get to as I had the car.
  • Holiday club at Cardington. Less numbers but actually it worked better in a way.
  • (Not so good) Managed to ding the car after less than 3 days of Chris trusting me with it.
  • Managed to organise the insurance company and getting the car to and from the garage to get it fixed. The garage also organised a courtesy car with 5 doors so we could get Jaxon in and out when normally it would have been a 3 door basic as anything kind of car.
  • IKEA date with Chris when the boys got home. Jaxon and I went to collect Chris on his second day back at work and ended up at IKEA for tea.
  • Bank holiday visit to the In Laws.
  • Coffee and cake with Mum and her best friend while they were on their lunch break at a sewing course.
  • Coffee with a friend from school who I haven’t seen in about a decade!

I’m sure there must be other things so I think I’ll be back with updates.

To come in September:

  • What we did on our Bank Holiday Monday.
  • Family adventure to the seaside.
  • Review of where we’re staying for that adventure.
  • BedsHour Tweetup
  • Finished knitting project for Jaxon.
  • Update on temperature blanket.
  • More entries for Awesome Ladies Project.

What have you got planned for September? 

Currently…5th September

Currently

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

I’ve been watching more Star Trek: Deep Space 9. I know, I know I’m a bit addicted to it! I’m sure I’ll be finished by next week! The Great British Bake Off started on the 24th August so I watched Week 2 – they were making gingerbread models and all sorts. Strictly Come Dancing started this weekend so I tuned in for the Launch Show. I get the point behind the Launch Show but it’s a lot of stalling that would take half the time without the chatter. I guess it’s trying to make a feature of the pairing up but to be honest it’s a bit boring. On the other hand, it did mean I got a lot of knitting done!

Reading…

I’ve been still working my way through the Beta Reading Project. I even started writing a blog post in notes so that when I can talk about it, I have the post almost ready to go. I’m also still reading my library book which is The Holiday Home by Fern Britton.

Listening…

I’ve been carrying on the cheese-fest. I had Steps playing while I did chores on Saturday morning and then when I was briefly out in the garden I switched to Fleetwood Mac as I thought my neighbours might appreciate it a bit better.

Making…

For now, I’ve stopped on my temperature blanket while working on a knitted jumper for Jaxon. I’ve been working on the ribbing as part of the sleeves. I finished the back on Saturday and was impressed that it match up to the front and also that it looked like the back of a jumper.

Feeling…

Yesterday morning I was feeling rubbish. I woke up with a headache and even when I took painkillers they seemed to take forever to kick in. I spent most of the worship time sat on the floor with my eyes closed and my hands over my eyes to try and calm down the banging that was going on. It sort of worked but then Jaxon kept trying to take my glasses off my head and catching my hair. Chris took Jaxon home in the car and I walked home. It meant that my head was clearer.

Planning…

We are working more on our adventures. Attempted to sort out Jaxon’s passport last week but didn’t have all the information I needed about his grandparents so had to do some detetctive work. Also when I saw the price I had to check with Chris – how can such a small person cos so much in paperwork lol.

Loving…

I was syncing my FitBit yesterday and realised that there’s a new feature on there called FitBit Adventures. They only have three on there at the moment but it does look like fun. Might try out the shortest one today. If I’m organised we can walk to knitting group instead of getting the bus.

What have you been up to currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Currently…29th August

Currently

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

I’ve been watching more Star Trek: Deep Space 9 and have got to Season 3 now. I’m sure Dad and I must have seen these episodes when they aired on TV. However some of them I really don’t remember.

Reading…

I’ve been still working my way through the Beta Reading Project – I am really loving it so once I can talk more about it I’ll be sharing for sure! I’m also still reading my library book which is The Holiday Home by Fern Britton.

Listening…

With Chris being back and him having the car rather than me, I’ve not been listening to much music on the go. On Friday I worked at 44 Harpur Street, while there I had my headphones in so I could focus on work. I listened to McFly on my way in and then just general pop music while working and then on the way back including Steps, S Club 7, Shania Twain and at one point KT Tunstall appeared on the list too.

Making…

I was working on getting my temperature blanket completely up to date but I’ve run out of dark green wool. I thought I’d got another ball but right now I can’t find it which is frustrating. I’ve been working on a different project over the weekend and then during the week I’ll make a field trip into town and try and get another ball.

Feeling…

I started the week feeling a bit frazzled but by the end of the week I managed to sort myself out. Chris and Jaxon went on an adventure to see Jaxon’s Auntie on Saturday so I had a bit of time to myself which was lovely. I got on with updating my journal while watching Deep Space 9. I did spend a large chuck of the afternoon crocheting too while Jaxon played. All in all it was very chilled.

Planning…

We are working more on our adventures. Chris has been looking at flight prices and times.

Loving…

I am loving the house being noisy again. With Chris and Our Sidekick away, once Jaxon was in bed the houses really quiet.

What have you been upto currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Currently…22nd August

Currently

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

I’ve been watching Star Trek: Deep Space 9 along with the Olympics and occasional episodes of The West Wing. I did realise that I’m quite along way behind on #westwingbinge16 so need to work up catching up I think.

Reading…

I finished reading Found by Elle Field this weekend. Just as good as her other novels. Jaxon and I went to the library last week so I have some other books to be reading too. I  received my second Beta Reading project so I’m reading that at the moment as well as a book by Fern Britton.

Listening…

I’ve been adding Kids Worship songs to my Spotify playlist so when Jaxon and I have been out in the car we’ve been flicking between my choices and kids worship songs.

Making…

I caught up on my Temperature Blanket over the weekend. I’ve been currently working on July but was able to snap a picture of the first six months yesterday when the sun was shining.

Feeling…

A mixed bag. The boys arrived home from their Malawi trip on Tuesday. There’s been a lot of chatter about what they got up to and things like that but also about planning new adventures as a family.

Planning…

Those new adventures are being planned. Dublin, Amsterdam, Kenya and Malawi are all on the cards. Lots of advnetures!

Loving…

I’ve been loving having the boys back but I did like having the bed to myself!

What have you been upto currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

Currently – 15th August

Currently

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

I finished Star Trek: The Next Generation last week. This does mean once again I’ve watched far too much TV! I guess it didn’t help with the boys being away – saves me going bananas talking to myself I guess!

Reading…

I’ve carried on with the Kathy Reichs book but have also been pretty much going straight to bed or journalling once I’m in bed rather than reading in bed. I did read a couple of times at lunchtime but Jaxon would often want me to talk to him rather than read. I decided to return that particular one back to the library for now. Normally I get on with reading books by Kathy Reichs but this time I was struggling. which is a bit strange to me.

Listening…

We had McFly on for a couple of car trips – it’s cheesy but their songs are generally quite upbeat and cheery to sing along to in the car.

Making…

This week while the Boys weren’t around to interrupt. I tried to learn how to make the Ripple Blanket by Attic24 but when I got onto the return row, I couldn’t get the increases and decreases to line up. I ended up undoing the trebles of Row 2 and going back to the chain row to try and make a granny stripe blanket instead. The idea is that I can use up some of the odd balls of wool that I have and work through some of my stash.

Feeling…

I’m excited as the boys return in the next couple of days. Chris has a day off in the middle before going back to work. Hopefully this means we can have a good catch up. It also means that he will have the day off when it’s Jaxon’s first “official” day at Preschool. I’m not sure how Jaxon will feel about Daddy dropping him off but I’m hoping that he will get involved and focus like he does when I drop him off by myself.

Planning…

I’m trying to make sure that the house is in some kind of order before the boys get back. I’m sure it’s easier said that done with Jaxon running around but I’m giving it a good go. I had spend some of the first week working on getting Our Sidekick’s room straightened. I changed his bedding and vacuumed the floor. The idea being that when he gets home he has a tidier/cleaner room than when he left. While on their travels, I’ve tried to get all the washing done. Hopefully then I will just have the boys stuff to contend with when they arrive home. Who knows if it’ll be that simple but I’ll sure give it a good go!

Loving…

The weather – it’s actually not been too hot or too cold for the last couple of days. It’s been quite comfortable to sit in a vest top and shorts during the day. Although sometimes in the evenings I’ve needed to grab a cardigan. There’s rumours that it’s going to get warm again this week!

What have you been upto currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?

This Weekend I…


Before I fall head first back into work stuff tomorrow evening. I figured I’d get some blogging done as I seem to be slacking a bit recently!

I have the Olympics Coverage playing on the TV. I am excited as the Team GB Boys are about to compete for the medals (Come on boys! You’ve got this!)

Yesterday morning we started the weekend with ParkRun. Normally Chris looks after Jaxon while I do ParkRun but with him being away, I had to do it with him in the buggy. I bought a Mountain Buggy from eBay about two weeks ago and it’s so much easier to use when we’re out and about. However this particular version is fractionally too long to fit in the boot of the Zoe. I’ve been using the Hauck buggy when we’re been out in the car and then the Mountain Buggy when we’ve been out in Mum’s car or left from home. (I have this one in black but I can’t find a picture of it!). There’s a newer model that Mountain Buggy have launched now but this one works for us while Jaxon is still in a buggy and the amount of miles we cover on a normal week when we don’t have the car.

Mountain Buggy All Terrain

I really thought I was going slower than normal but actually when I did get my time through I was less than a minute slower than my PB for 2016 so actually I wasn’t that much slower pushing Jaxon than when I run without him. I am hoping that now that he is happy in this “new” buggy I might be able to get out and try and do more running during the week – if I take him out just before tea he might settle better when it comes to bedtimes – I guess it’s all a case of trying it out once Chris is back.

Following ParkRun we pretty much spend the whole day at home just playing in the living room. I think Jaxon would have rather gone out and done stuff but I was just shattered. I tried to figure out when I last did ParkRun and I think it was the beginning of June, I’m hoping that things will settle down and I’ll be able to get back to doing ParkRun weekly now.

I spent the evening working on getting the Macbook up and running again so that I can use this when I go to “hot desk” at 44 Harpur Street. I’ve been taking the Windows Laptop that Chris and I jointly purchased for work-y bits but I spend most of the time trying to remember where things are on the Windows OS rather than actually doing any work, so a slightly slower MacBook over my slowing up skills is a bit better! It didn’t quite work as well as it should have and in the end I had to leave it to charge and come back to it this evening.

The FitBit app was updated on my phone yesterday and one of the new settings is to set a reminder to tell you to get ready for bed, but you can work it backwards so you start with your alarm in the morning along with how much sleep you need in the night then what time you need to go to bed. Along with that it gives you a reminder around half an hour before that “go to sleep” time. I used it for the first time last night and I felt so much better when I woke this morning. In order to wake at 7:15am and get 6hrs 30 sleep (yes I know I probably need more but we’re starting here!) I have to go to sleep at 00:25. Well I was cleaning my teeth when my half an hour warning went off so I was actually ahead of schedule which meant I had time to read B-Side by Elle Field and get that finished so that I can then start Found by Elle Field today. (You can read her blog here).

We started Sunday morning in usual fashion, Jaxon and I sat in bed watching YouTube Kids videos before getting up to get breakfast. While Jaxon ate his breakfast I worked on packing some of the bits for the church picnic. I had meant to go shopping on Friday or Saturday, but it just didn’t work in the end. We headed for church in the car, as we turned left into the road that church is on, my Aunt was out for a run and crossed the road right in front of our car, I’m not 100% sure she actually stopped to check to see if there were any cars coming so I made sure that I stopped and let her keep going! When we got to the church people we found some seats, I chatted to a couple of our friends before the service and got to see our friend’s little girl who is like 3/4 weeks old now – so squishy and cute!

Jason went to creche and I stayed in for the service, Martin was speaking about The Parable of the Vineyard Workers (The podcast isn’t up yet but it will be here). He had a lovely time, he does so well at creche, I drop him off and even before I’ve registered him with whoever is leading, he’s off playing with the toys and often when I say goodbye to him he’ll then look up at me, wave and then go back to what he’s doing. He’s so good!

Following church we nipped to the supermarket to get picnic bits and bits that we needed for the rest of the day – I’ll pop tomorrow and get some bits to cover us for this week before Chris takes over on food duty at the weekend (actually I think I am going to get to the middle of the week and then let him take over even if I do the shopping for his food plan – I guess we’ll see). I wasn’t sure how much would be shared so I took stuff to share too and then when we got there it was definitely more of a case of you eat your own food rather than share but that’s okay – I still shared with the people I was sat with and they shared with Jaxon and I too so that was cool – it meant we had sandwiches and picnic nibbles again for tea. Probably full of syns and not so good for me but hopefully if I can fit some more walking in this week I will see that fixed on the scales come Thursday.

One of the girls absolutely adores Jaxon so for a bit she kept following Jaxon round and keeping him out of trouble. There were heaps of church people and other children about so as long as I could see Jaxon I wasn’t too fussed about him pottering around in the area we were sat in. I got to chat to some of the other mums who I don’t necessarily see during the week as they work. I talked to one of the other Mums who have kids on the Malawi Trip that Chris and Our Sidekick are on at the moment, we talked about how Our Sidekick came to live with us and would we foster again and things like that. We spoke about how Jaxon and I had coped okay while the boys have been away but that when Jaxon was sick at the beginning of the first week I was really struggling. Thankfully I gave myself a talking to and got things sorted out. I am so grateful for the friends that I could call on for prayer and coffee dates once Jaxon was better. I had visions of us becoming hermits and not leaving the house unless it was essential so I got a couple of coffee dates in the diary so that I had to go out and do stuff lol.

Following the picnic we came home as Richard needed to pop by and borrow some bits from us. He also adopted the spare papers from Our Sidekick’s paper round – he makes like paper blocks to use in his log fire and they help to start the fire or something like that – he also took the packaging from two packages that had arrived today and added that to the pile he’s got at home too.

Jason and I watched Home which is like this favourite film at the moment, while I worked on tidying the kitchen and doing some bits he watched some of The Good Dinosaur – I’ve not actually sat through the whole thing yet – I’m not convinced it’s one of Disney’s best films – it doesn’t grab you like other ones do – or is it just me?

I’ve spent this evening sorting out the computer and watching the Olympics – Team GB have done amazing on the medal fronts today. I’m currently watching the Cycling pursuit while discussing it with my friend Hannah via text message!

Now I’m going to wrap this up here and I think I’m going to go and get into bed, watch DS9 and crochet… that sounds good.

Night Night

Awesome Ladies Project – What’s Your Relationship with Sports?

ALP Creative Team

ALP -Sport

What’s your relationship with sports? Are you an athelete? Were you one in grade school or high school? Do you like watching sports? Either in person or on the telvision? Maybe you don’t really care that much about professional sports, but you get super excited for the olympics, or your favorite youth soccer team?

This week’s prompt was all about sport. Funnily enough when I was writing this I was still figuring out what was the best way to watch the Rio Olympics. Because of the time difference nearly everything is on in the evening and into the night rather than during the day like we might get with a Europe/Asia based Olympics.

I am definitely a spectator when it comes to sports. I’ve started doing ParkRun but that’s about it when it comes to sports – I guess as Jaxon gets older I might have to try and be more interested in the sports he’s interested in but for now I am most definitely a spectator.

Growing up my Mum would often have Wimbledon on during the Summer and would stay up really late for finals of the Snooker matches – specifically I remember ones at The Crucible which always would go past 10pm (usually when I was supposed to be in bed!)

When it comes to the sports that I like to watch, I love the Winter Olympics because there are sports like Figure Skating and Bobsleigh but I also like the Summer Olympics because there is Athletics and Gymnastics. (To me this always seemed strange because Gymnastics and Dance were considered Winter PE lessons at school because they were inside). Since Our Sidekick came to live with us Athletics and the Men’s Distance Running has often been something we’ve watched together – when it was the London 2012 Olympics we went to our local athletics stadium to watch Usain run on the big screen, we then lined up at the start line to race the 100m after Our Sidekick said that he could match Usain’s time – funnily enough he couldn’t and I was dying by the time I crossed the 100m line but we did have a good time.

I’ll be cheering on Team GB this week and hope they bring home some medals (Well done to Adam Peaty who brough home a Gold and a Silver at the Rio Games).

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Jaxon’s Second Birthday

With Our Sidekick and Chris being away on a residential trip this weekend, it was up to me to hold the fort and make sure Jaxon’s second birthday was celebrated well. It was almost like a warm-up for when the boys are away for nearly two weeks!

As normal Jaxon waited for the alarm music and then came in. He stood next to the bed and smiled at me as usual then looked across the bed for Chris and sort of pulled this face like “Well even when Daddy isn’t home at bedtime he’s normally there in the morning”. We had a cuddle then got settled down for some serious YouTube Kids viewing. Well, Jaxon watched Thomas and Friends amongst other things and I watched Gilmore Girls on Netflix. I had it on really quietly along with subtitles! (Yep Thomas and Friends dialogue with Gilmore Girls visuals – definitely takes some skills to complete!

After just chilling for a bit we opened presents. He really wasn’t a fan of smiling for photos today when I was taking them. We started with the presents from his Great Aunts. They are both so good at “present choosing”. He received clothes, a Very Hungry Caterpillar plate and cup set and some other bits. Following breakfast, I dressed him in one of the t-shirts and the shorts following breakfast but he managed to get something down the new shirt before we had even left the house so I had to change him again (and all clothes from today have gone in the wash ready for Birthday Gathering Part 2). Next up, it was time for presents from Nanny and Grandad, three Thomas DVDs, a shape sorter toy and a hobby horse – it plays hoof noises and then the horse neighing – I don’t think Jaxon has seen real life horses up close so I think he was a bit puzzled! Grandma (Chris’s Grandma) had got Jaxon a Thomas and Friends plate.

We were having a pretty chilled morning so had time to play with the building blocks and hang out. I packed our contributions to the birthday picnic and then we popped to the supermarket to get a small bottle of milk so that Mum could have a cup of tea with her lunch if she wanted. We ran an errand to drop some bits off to Our Sidekick and Chris, in the end Our Sidekick came out to the car and having got the bits I was dropping off from me, he was about to head back in when he then went to the back door of the car and lent across the back seat to kiss Jaxon on the forehead and wish him a happy birthday (big heart explody moment!)

We got to the park a little early and as I pulled up it started to rain. Having prayed that it would stop so we could still have park time, I was about to enact the wet weather plan when it stopped raining! (Thank you Jesus!!).

Jaxon and I played in the little park but I realised that the equipment more suited to him was a bit further along, so I got Jaxon back into the car, texted Mum, Dad and Rich that we were changing park and Jaxon burst into tears (and they were proper angry tears!). As much as him crying was stressing me out, by the time we’d got round to the next park, he was perfectly happy again. I think he’d panicked and thought that was the end of park time.

Mum and Dad were next to arrive and Jaxon face just lit up completely. Dad and Jaxon explored the park while Mum and I chatted. Rich arrived pretty much soon after and chatted to Mum and I. Dad took Jaxon on the smaller slide then Jaxon decided he wanted to the bigger slide which meant it was a bit of a team effort. Dad, Jaxon and I headed up the hill, I climbed up onto the platform, then Dad lifted Jaxon up onto the platform. Jaxon then headed for the top of the slide – I was already to ride down with him on my lap but he’d pushed off and was going down as I was getting settled behind him. I decided then it would probably be easier for me to go down the slide than it would be for me to get back up again and climb down the ladder.

Much to the amusement of Richard and Mum who were stood at the bottom with the camera, I got about half a metre down the slide and either my jeans weren’t agreeing with the slide material or my bottom was just too wide but I wasn’t going very fast, I wiggled my way down and in the end, Dad climbed back up part of the hill with Jaxon in his arms and pulled me down the rest of the slide by the leg of my jeans!

We decided it was time to find a sport for our picnic and it was decided we’d sit the other side of some bushes so that Jaxon wouldn’t be distracted by the play park.

Chocolate Cake! Yummy!

Having played with a selfie stick at my birthday party in April, Mum had decided to purchase one so had a play with it and this time I had got the technique a bit better! 

When the picnic had finished, I figured that as I had the car, we’d head over to the toy shop at the Retail Park but Jaxon had other ideas and before we’d even got to the Bypass he was gone. I ended up turning round and coming home, sitting in the front of the car watching TV on my phone having nipped in the house for my crochet project.

Clearly birthdays are exhausting!

On the Sunday which was like Birthday: Part Deux, Jaxon and I started the day by going to church, he went to crèche during the preach and I stayed in the service. The preach was the final part in a series about Psalm 23. Following church, Jaxon and I were going to collect Daddy and Our Sidekick to go to lunch but they were still busy so we went to the park and had a go on the climbing frame. I ended up climbing one of them to help Jaxon up and then ended up helping a little girl down as it was time for her to go home but she couldn’t get down herself.

We collected the gang and  we went out for Pizza as it’s one of Jaxon’s favourites.


All in all it was a great birthday with lots of fun times.

Happy Second Birthday Jaxon!!

Happy Second Birthday Jaxon!

Dear Little One,

Happy birthday my special precious. Today you turn two and it seems like the last two years have flown by. I spent the evening with a friend from our New Church yesterday and talked through your birth story – it seems strange that it happened two years ago and yet some of the memories are crystal clear like they happened this week.

Dear Jaxon...

From our first few days at home up to today we’ve had adventures here there and everywhere. When you were about two weeks old, it was the River Festival and the weather was crazy humid – you spent most of the weekend in your nappy and a muslin because of how warm it was.

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At about six weeks old, daddy and I took you for your first theme park trip. You didn’t go on any rides and with too much going on trying to get you to feed was an adventure! Blackpool

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You love going on the swings and down the slides now but you would rather run round the park when we go. (In fact when I started writing this you were running around the park. I had to keep checking where you are because you’d rather do a little of each bit than just stay on one bit of the park).

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You’re a cheeky chappy with a great sense of humour. You love it when Daddy is silly and makes you laugh, yesterday evening before Daddy had to go to the Malawi Trip Residential, he was chasing you round the house like something crazy, you kept squealing and laughing. When you came upstairs with Daddy to find me, you ran into our bedroom and you pointed at me with a massive grin on your face and then squealed when you realised that Daddy was coming the stairs too. You’re very ticklish and will giggle really loud when we tickle you under your arms or on your tummy and seeing as you would happily spend all day running around in just your nappy it gives us plenty of opportunity to blow raspberries on your tummy and make you laugh really loud. You often take the opportunity to return the raspberries by blowing them on my arms.
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You’ve got a heart for exploring. You love the outdoors and could spend all day in the garden and be happy although you are desperate to be allowed to play on the green opposite our house – especially when you can see the older kids playing.

When we went camping in May you loved being able to come and go from the tent (and play with the toys outside the social tent). Hopefully as you get older you’ll keep this exploring passion and will want to explore further a field like Daddy. (and I’m sure you’ll be dragging me off on the adventures too!)

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You love bath time and story time. Daddy discovered a few weeks ago that you love the running tap. You love to put your hands in the stream as it runs. You love splashing too. You love your rubber ducks and the sponge in the bath – you even tried feeding me one of the rubber ducks when I was upset one day during bath time. You often grab them sponge and squeeze the water over your head as if you’re trying to wash your own hair.

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You love having a story before bed. You point out all the people, animals and objects in the picture and want to know what they are all called. Your favourites are Hugless Douglas, How to Bath Your Little Dinosaur and Thomas and The Ten Balloons.

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We’ve been on trains to and from London as well as getting the train back from Milton Keynes in the last few weeks. You love being able to potter around and explore the train while we head to our destination.

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On one of our London trips I took you on the Emirates Airline and you absolutely loved it.

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You love putting your shoes on and stomping through the puddles but it doesn’t mean that when they are muddy puddles your shoes can end up like this. We had been to the park for a play date. You and one of the other boys kept jumping in the same puddle even though both me and the other mummy told you not to.

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You love sitting on our shoulders when we’re out having adventures and you still love being carried in the Boba when you have the chance. It means you can see better than in the buggy and when we were in London you loved being close and safe to me (even if I was exhausted by carrying you and the buggy!)

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You are one amazing little boy who fills my heart with so much joy. I love that in the morning you come into our room and give me a big squishy cuddle before we get ourselves organised for the day.

I hope you enjoy your birthday plans this weekend. With Daddy and Our Sidekick being away for this weekend you’re heading towards three birthday celebrations. Today we have a picnic planned with Grandma,Grandpa and Uncle Rich as well as time in the park but it’s all dependant on the weather.

Love you beautiful boy. Happy Birthday.

Love you Mummy xx

Currently – 4th July

Watching

With Netflix adding Gilmore Girls to their playlist on Friday, it was a bit addictive and by Friday evening I’d some how already made it to episode 6 (Admittedly I had purchased episode 1 on about Wednesday from iTunes as I was getting a little impatient!)

Reading

This week I’ve been reading Kirsten’s eBook Email Lists Made Easy for Writers and Bloggers, to start one or not to start one, they have their uses but do I need one – hopefully the book will inspire me.

Listening

Music wise I’ve pretty much been wearing a hole in my copy of Ali Brown’s new EP called True Food. (iTunes) I keep playing “I’ve Got A River of Life” rather loud – sometimes including some level of dancing. One day it involved being parked at the traffic lights outside the local university campus and dancing like mad until the lights changed.

Making 

Still working on my secret project – I’ve resorted to carrying it round in a large carrier bag rather than the normal fabric bag just because it’s easier. I need to get a pedal on – think I might have to go mad and crochet all the little shapes and then hand them over to my Mum and get her to sew them together while I keep crocheting some more.

Feeling

It’s been a mixed week, there was a bit of last week that made me cry – and like ugly cry in the middle of Jaxon’s bathtime! Poor boy just didn’t understand, so after looking at me really puzzled he reached his dripping hand over my head and put one of his rubber ducks on my head then when I looked up he attempted to feed the rubber duck to me. I’m sure I should be worried that I was upset and he was feeding me… Following Community Group and then catching up with another friend on Friday I felt heaps better – then we were off to go out for dinner for my brother’s birthday in Saturday so it was all a big crazy!

Planning 

Having debated it for a while I’m working on a redesign of my blog and taking it in a new direction – I’m not quite sure when it’s going to go down but it’s going to happen soon.

 

Loving 

The weather! On Friday the sun actually shone. Jaxon and I spent some time in the park and he didn’t want to come home – I prefer the park closer to our house because he can get on and play while doing bits and not worry that he’s out of my sight line but at Russell Park it’s a bigger park area and the gates don’t bolt closed like the ones at the park closer to our house.

Oh and by the way to my US friends – Happy Independence Day everyone!!

What have you been upto currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?


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Currently – 27th June

I love these Currently prompts. They are used for Project Life and other scrapbooking projects but I think they work well for summarising my week.

Currently Prompts by RUKristin

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

In the last few weeks, I’ve started and finished watching Chuck – once again the Netflix binge-watch strikes again. After finishing Chuck, I went back to Orphan Black. I finished watching it while taking part in RUKristin‘s Scrapbook Sleepover. I want to start Gilmore Girls but I haven’t found it on Netflix or NowTV.

Reading…

Having taken Jaxon to the library about two weeks ago I made another trip to the library while we were in town last week to get some of the books renewed and others returned. Jaxon wanted to spend more time there and play with all the books but it was lunchtime and he was just going to get more stroppy if I didn’t take him home for lunch so I picked a bunch of books that looked interesting.

Listening…

Usually been listening to my Spotify playlist again – I keep adding songs but haven’t figured out how to delete certain ones that I just keep skipping rather than actually listening to them.

Making…

My lovely friend got some fabulous news recently so I’ve been working on a special project. This has meant that everything else has been put on hold. That does meant that my temperature blanket is falling behind again. However, thankfully because of the mass catch up while at Catalyst means that I’m not as far behind as I could have been!

Feeling…

I bit frazzled – Jaxon has been hitting the terribles twos this last week and some days it’s been bad.

On Monday night I think he had a nightmare or something because he had a bit of a cry then got up and ran across his bedroom to the door. He then stopped in the corner near the door. It was almost like he’d ran to our room for help/comfort then froze outside the door because he thought he’d get in trouble. If he comes in, before the alarm goes off in the morning he’s encouraged back to bed. Thankfully I’d heard him get up so got up myself and found him. I gave him a massive cuddle and he snuggled into my shoulder. I sat on the end of the bed while he settled again but when I got up to leave the room he got upset again.

Planning…

This last week I went a bit bananas. My TN is definitely one of my favourites and I have been using it as a diary. However, once I have a few stickers in there I can’t get enough in each day. I went off to do some research to see if I could get something that resembled Erin Condren pages but without the price tag (and ridiculous custom charges!). I found ChasingPlannerPeace‘s A5 Printable EC Compatible layouts. They could be printed out, punched and added to my A5 Filofax. and punched. I dug out a bunch of my stickers that haven’t worked in my TN and got planning. Before I knew it, I was heading towards a fuller looking week. I realised how little I did have planned across the week once it was broken into the Morning/Afternoon/Evening slots.

This Week in My Planner

I think I will try and take the pictures before I put the ink in but I need to figure out how to future plan if I then “stickerate” week by week. Also maybe need to think about theming depending on the background colours – this week is blue so I have been trying to use blue or green stickers but that hasn’t always worked because I’ve been trying to use what I have rather than purchase more right now.

Currently…Loving

That we got to see Chris’s Auntie and her housemate this weekend. We last saw them earlier in the year (it could have even been Christmas but that doesn’t seem right….). It was good to catch up and I’ll be elaborating what we got up to in another post I think.

What have you been upto currently? Have you been watching or reading anything in particular?


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Crochet Bible – Part One (and WIPs)

My Crochet Project Bible

Back at the end of May, I received a lovely copy of My Crochet Project Bible from Stationery Geek. I had seen it on one of the groups that I am part of and decided that I would take a look. I was sent a copy of My Crochet Project Bible for a blog post and review.

I’m the worst for starting multiple projects at one. As I write this post I have at least four projects on the go even though I told myself at the beginning of the year I wouldn’t start new projects until I cleared the backlog!

I hope to post a picture of my well loved copied in a few weeks or a few months so that it can be seen how it works.

I posted an unboxing video to my YouTube channel to start the ball rolling – I got a bit excited and Jaxon was trying to assist me!

Positives

Every scribble is in the same place – rather than on scraps of paper or post its tucked into my planner.

Conversion charts between US and UK terms – this is a life saver! I tend to be a bit picky about my patterns and even if I really love a pattern if it’s in US terms it puts me off. With the chart there in the first few pages it’s easier to translate the pattern and and get started.

Negatives

The grid seems to be a 3mm or 4mm grid rather than a 5mm like standard grid paper – if I could change it I would make this 5mm because it might be easier to plan out projects that way. You then know that one square on your plan should be 5cm for example on your actual pattern maybe?

Filmsy cover – a harder cover might work better when you’re trying to juggle crochet and the book but it works fine with the cardboard cover that it has.

You can purchase your own here, they also do other planning goodies. You can follow Stationery Geek on Facebook here and Twitter here. They are also on Instagram here.

Works in Progress

Temperature Blanket
Having spent a large chuck of time at Catalyst catching up (And then writing this post) I have actually started to fall behind again with this one due to getting caught up in other projects. Not good but it’s a year long project so will hopefully be able to work some more in it before the end of June.

Elmer Blanket
This one is for The 100 Days Project, I started this with my friend Jo and at the time it seemed like a great idea but we’re heading towards day 60 and funnily enough I’m behind on it! I am around day 25 I think so a lot to catch up on!

Secret Project
This one is a secret one, I’m not sure if the receiver will read this post but just in case they should stumble across it I will be vague. So I started making lots of the shape that I am doing to piece together into the final project. Each shape has multiple stages so I am trying to figure out whether it’s better to make a lots at stage one then move onto stage two or just make them one at a time. This means that I have a selection of half completed shapes. I think I need to focus on one version of the plan and then see how that works.

Currently – 15th June

Currently Prompts from RUKristin

The image above and the Currently prompts from RUKristin.

Watching…

I finished Grey’s Anatomy amongst other shows so ended up starting Chuck from the very beginning on Netflix. I think I’ve just finished Season 3 – this is not good! Netflix has this way of making you watch whole seasons without even really realising it! I think I probably need therapy or something like that! I have also been catching up on NCIS.

Reading…

I’ve been good at reading this last week or so. A couple of weekends ago we ended up in the library so I got a new card and got Jaxon’s library card issued as he didn’t have one. I’d been told in the past that I would need to take his birth certificate with me and I think having to carry that around with me made me a little nervous. I went into the library and they explained that as I had a library card, I would count as his proof of address or something like that so we didn’t need the proof of Jaxon’s ID. I’ve finished According to Yes by Dawn French and started Boys Don’t Knit by Tom Easton. I’m also reading B-Side by Elle Field.

Listening…

My Spotify playlist again – so currently on Rend Collective but have had Philippa Hanna amongst others earlier this evening.

Making…

Lots of things. I have quite a few WIPs in progress. You can read about them here.

Feeling…

Right now tired! Rather than working most evenings this week. I took two evenings off to work on a crochet project and relax a little bit. Although today I feel like I’m working extra hard to catch up. Today was hard work as it was Our Sidekick’s LAC Review. I had to go with my defense ready, thankfully it wasn’t as bad as it could have been. I know Our Sidekick is currently counting down until he no longer has to have them.

Planning…

I love to plan adventures. Tomorrow I’m off on a field trip with my Mum. I am then thinking of taking Jaxon on the coach to MK. I really hope that they can stow the buggy in the luggage compartment. Finding the information was a challenge, so might come up with a new plan.

Loving

The thunderstorms we’ve had. I love watching Thunderstorms. I would have liked to have had the opportunity to sit and watch them but was too busy.

Mud Mud Glorious Mud!


Earlier in the week I read an article about how kids are getting more allergies and are often sicker because they are spending less time outside playing. When we were kids I used to spend whole mornings or afternoons out in the garden with my Dad. I’m not sure I was ever good at the gardening but it was a good time. Jaxon is 23 months now and is already such an outdoor body. He loves being out in the garden or running round the park. When we were camping this year he loved being able just to potter round and play outside. We discovered in the last couple of weeks that he loves splashing in puddles. 

On Wednesday we ended up at the park with a friend and her son, Jaxon was having a wail of a time and found a couple of puddles that he decided to splash in. By the time we got back to the car I had to strip off his jogging bottoms and shoes because they were both so damp and muddy. He had thrown a little tantrum when I said it was time to go home but he’d had a great time and was happy that he’d been out to play. 

I posted the above picture on Instagram with the caption: 

When this is the result from a trip to the park it’s got to be good. Happy boy but muddy clothes equals happy mummy. I can fix mucky clothes and shoes lol. 

Making him happy or fixing the world so he can be happy isn’t something I can do easily but if stomping in a muddy puddle is what makes him happy then I will do all the washing in the world. Sometimes the washing machine isn’t going to keep up and might not always get the mud out but if Jaxon is happy that’s the main thing. 

Bring on more stomping in puddles!! 

Hey There…

Blogging

A long time a go in a galaxy not so far away, I started a blog.

Why I started a blog, I’m not 100% sure I wanted to learn web design and I had started with one of those cheesy free sites that had adverts round the outside and you could add cheesy glittery GIFs (before they were uncool and then came back again lol).

Chris wouldn’t let me make one of these sites when blogging on WordPress was within my reach for no charge. I started my first blog with all the crazy that, that entailed – I would write and write and write and hardly anyone I knew was reading it. I had some comments but not many – did that matter though? Nope probably not.

My blog has brought me various opportunities along the way which I have loved. We’ve played with a remote control helicopter, been to Butlins and been to a film screening, all because of my blog.

But over the years I think I have got caught up in what my blog should be rather than what I want it to be. I think like a lot of things it was something I felt had to be a set way to be taken seriously or be acknowledged. Was I ever going to be a famous blogger? Who knows – as I put it to someone the other day “I think I am a big fish in my little pond” or something like that. My little pond is probably the size of a puddle and doesn’t really account for anything but it’s a starting point. I’ve tried to come up with mad projects like the Julie/Julia Project (The original blog got taken down but some of the posts are copied verbatim into the Julie and Julia book by Julie Powell), having seen the film. I came home and cooked scrambled eggs even though it was like 9:30pm and I hated cooked. Similarly I came home having seen Eat Pray Love and wanted to pack my suitcase and escape to Italy for a few weeks (never did, Italy is still on the Wanderlust List).

So why am I writing this… in all truthfulness, I think trying to conform to something I’m not as far as blog was causing me a deal of stress. I’d get like writer’s guilt from not blogging, then write a sucky post that wasn’t me or was like a carbon copy of last week’s month’s post near enough word for word.

I’m therefore going to try to blog what I want to blog, in whatever version that comes. Maybe it’s wrong maybe it’s right, let’s see.

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Journal with Me {One}

I often watch Journal with Me videos (usually as a break from Thomas and sometimes because I just want to be inspired) – I love seeing what other people do in their journals and what techniques that they use. My favourites are Ali Brown, Mrs Brimbles and Geraldine Jayne.

Having figured out how to film POV videos I decided to give it a go and go for it properly once Jaxon was in bed one evening last week. Our Sidekick was super lovely while I was filming – he kept creeping around and quietly whispering to me, I said that I was going to speed it up and add music etc so it was okay to talk and yet he was still being super quiet in the background. At one point he brings me a drink and very very carefully tip toes his way around the room and leaves the drink for me when I’m finished – what a super star!

Take a look and let me know what you think.

Catalyst Festival 2016 – Day 4

CatalystI started this post when we we’re away. It was too gloomy in our tent to crochet, read or journal so I used my phone to get some thoughts down. We’ve back a month not and I’ve finally finished it!

Tuesday

This morning started with “Daddy Crazy Time”. It’s generally better when that happens in the morning rather than just before bed when I’m getting Jaxon calmed down. I got out far enought to get Jaxon but pretty much wiggled across the floor like a giant worm lol. Jaxon had been wearing my big wellie socks to keep his feet warm at night.

Daddy Crazy Time!! Jaxon's Fab Socks

With the forecast set to turn really wet, we started packing down before breakfast then while we finished a couple of the team got the side of the marquee up so tht it would give more shelter when it did rain. We went to the morning service andhad planned to take Jaxon to The Snug again but the disrupted sleep and things like that meant that he was really tired. He gave up right omn the floor in front of me and fell asleep which is virtually unheard of. I moved him so he was in my arms and all snuggled up. He was wearing his Grandma knitted cardigan and I think that helped to keep him snuggled. It was getting towards the end of the service so I got Jaxon into my arms to carry him back to the tent but as we got outside he had woken up! Really? I should have taken the carrier with me – he might have been more snuggled in then and might have stayed asleep.

Because of packing our tent away in the morning while it was still dry we didn’t have anywhere to do nappy changes etc but one of the other Mums let us use her tent which was cool. We got as much as we could packed down and packed one of the storage boxes as sort of a standby box for us.

We stayed around for the evening meeting and following the worship when we would have taken Jaxon back to the tent to put him to bed we headed to the car to head home. We had been sitting in the very back row along the back of the hall each evening and it turned out that this evening we ended up next to the same lady that we had sat next to the last couple of evenings. I said to her that I hoped she had a safe journey home, at which point she grabbed me and gave me a word of prophesy which was a little crazy and sort of played on my mind on the way home.

What is a Temperature Blanket? 

While away this last weekend I think I answered like 5 or maybe 10 times about what I was making, was it crochet or knitting and what was I going to do with it. 
I thought while all the answers are freshly in my mind I would scribble some thoughts down and share them.

So currently having completed my latest two baby blankets, I now have two big projects on the go. One is my Elmer blanket which started as part of The 100 Days Project and then didn’t get out of week one. I’ll be back with that on another post (the challenge is now to pretty much crochet two squares a day to get that one completed on time so will put my energy into crocheting that one and blog about it later!

So the temperature blanket of craziness. This is one of those ones that could yet become a Pinterest Fail.

I kept seeing pictures of these amazing blankets and temperature scales with different wool next to them and decided I could do that for 2016. I decided I would do squares and because ultimately I didn’t want to spend a fortune on wool when I have a lot of unused wool I would try and keep the colours to a minimum. I drew up my scale, bought the wool and got started. This is my scale.


I decided to do squares rather than rows. I’m not sure what happens with my rows but I can’t always get the ends to meet up properly so they end up wonky in places and not straight.

When we left for Catalyst, I was up to the middle of April. Almost a month and a half (42 squares ish) behind and four days of sitting in a field around seminars and meetings mean that I could probably catch up. There is mobile access (so basic internet) and it turned out a power source for charging but other than that Internet and aren’t readily available lol.

So each square corresponds to a date so far in 2016. Each month is split into two rows. There’s however many days in the month plus “blank” squares to make it up to 32. This makes the blanket 24 rows by 16 columns, measurement wise this is about 240x160cm. This is about the size of a double bed. (if I have the sanity remaining at the end I might do borders to make it up to an actual double bed size). I use the historical data on Wunderground. This comes from the weather station at Cranfield. It was suggested while I was away that I find the local station to the campsite and add that in instead. I do like the idea but I don’t think it’s enough of a visible difference. I might check though just in case there is a difference at all.

I worked out that one square takes me about 15 minutes if I focus in on it and get it done. This isn’t always so easy with Jaxon running around as I have to check on him but in the evenings when he’s in bed I can get a bunch done. This means that hopefully I can catch up some more before I fall even further behind!

I completed 3 squares yesterday evening following the main meeting and as I’m running out of blank pages in my TN I think I’ll focus on crocheting today rather than journaling.

I sat down in the social tent following the morning meeting today and counted out the squares that I had made and found that I’d actually made a couple extra that I didn’t need so far. It means I’m about half way through May now which is good and just need to get crocheting the squares together when I’m back in Bedford.

During Eurovision two weeks ago, I worked on sewing in lots of ends rather than making more squares. Glad I did it now and not right at the end!

Catalyst Festival 2016 – Day 3

CatalystI started this post when we we’re away. It was too gloomy in our tent to crochet, read or journal so I used my phone to get some thoughts down. We’ve back a month not and I’ve finally finished it!

Monday

At about 3.20am, I had to make a mad toilet dash, why is it you need to go at the most inconvenient times of the night. It actually felt warmer at 3.20am than it did feel at 10pm. I checked my phone when I got back into the tent and it was 11 degrees according to the phone although it had been 13 at 10pm so how did that work> Unless it was because I’d been sat still at 10pm for a while whereas I’d made a dash for the toilet and then noticed how warm it felt.

In the morning service while Chris took Jaxon to The Snug. The service was all about Catalyst Network reaching the nations. Our Sidekick and Chris are looking forward to the Malawi trip so it would have been good for them to have heard the guy speaking about church planting in Malawi. He joked that if someone was travelling more than a specific time to get to church then another church was needed closer to their home – so he would just keep planting as God calls him to.

While waiting for lunch to be ready, I settled down with my journalling bits and got some more journalling done. You can’t see in the picture but the colour of the water in my paper cup was the most amazing shade of blue it was great!

Being creative

Lunch was really spicy and I had to have a huge dollop of yoghurt in it to make it managable! Jaxon really couldn’t eat it so ended up with a Mug Shot that we’d brought with us as a standby – he was happy to see that bowl of pasta that’s for sure!

Chris was on Jaxon duty and I went to a creative workshop in the afternoon. I got there for 2pm only to be told it wasn’t starting until 2:30pm so went for a wander then to the loo – when I came out of the loo it turned out it had already started at 2pm! I stayed until 3 but for a creative workshop there was very little creative-ness going on – it was more talking than being creative which was a real shame. I made an excuse about having to leave and then went back to the tent – I could spend my tim ethere journalling or crocheting rather than sitting there listening to the guy leading the workshop talk about being creative. Maybe I had misunderstood the concept of the session.

Afternoon Creative

Dinner was a variation on Carbonara and oh my goodness it was good! Carbonara is one of those ones that I love to eat so kind of made up for lunch in a way! After dinner we took Jaxon to the main evening meeting we figured if he stayed for the first bit of the service he might be more tired and would in turn sleep better. I’m not sure if the bunting and balloons had been up during the other services but I spotted them in the evening.

Look at the pretty lights

Evening meeting

During the evening meeting, worship was led by Sam and Becki Cox. Alan Scott from Coleraine spoke about healing on the streets and how God filled it’s been. He spoke about Josh Martin – who had got healed at Coleraine. I’d heard about the healing on the streets without even realising it as we used to listen to Juls Martin (Josh’s uncle) on the radio and he talked about it.

Spot the Marquee

On the way back from the toilet before bed I snapped a picture of what our nbit looked like at night. Our food tent was so bright and visible! I sent the picture to my friend who thought it was really cool. There was an office block opposite our marquee and it was lit up with flood nights most evenings and through the night.

Catalyst Festival 2016 – Day 2

CatalystI started this post when we we’re away. It was too gloomy in our tent to crochet, read or journal so I used my phone to get some thoughts down. We’ve back a month not and I’ve finally finished it!

Sunday

Jaxon woke at 6am, this was an hour earlier than normal but I could forget him due to the fact of how light it was in the tent and actually how cold it was. I dashed across the tent to get him out of his travel cot and compartment then got back into our side of the tent. I think I managed to doze a little with Jaxon sat in between Chris and I. Thomas and Friends on my phone may have assisted (6am and camping after not going to bed until about midnight means that Thomas and Friends is allowed.

It was very cold (as I already said) so when it came to the first nappy change of the day I had to be really quick. By the end of the weekend we’d got a knack to how to do nappy changes quickly when it’s cold but at this point Jaxon just had to struggle through it. Something along the lines of only stripping him as much as was required to get the nappy off him and put on a clean one – there’s kind of science to it I think! Having been up and shivering I had to make a crazy dash across the campsite and surprisingly by that point there were more people up than expected. I believe there was an early morning bible study session running so that sort of assisted with people being up earlier.

Following breakfast and a debate about whether the cereal was Gluten Free enough for Chris to eat it, we got ready for the morning meeting. Jaxon and I stayed for the worship in the morning meeting then headed to The Snug for the equivalent of creche.

Time to go to The Snug

My geography skills got muddled and so we ended up walking the long way from the main meeting to The Snug, even though there were various other Mummies taking their children to The Snug and I could have followed them! Also because we walked the wrong way we had to walk round like three sides of the building instead of just one side!

There was a car ramp toy that Jaxon seemed to like and it was a bit like a marble run. He also loved the rolldercoaster ride thing that they had. It was like a slide but the kids ahd to sit on a scooter/skateboard thing and then go down the slide.

We spent the afternoon hanging around the social tent with the Woodside gag. At one point we went for a walk to move the car. Chris had discovered that the on site farm shop had an electric car charger and he’d sorted a deal with them so we could use it rather than have to go off site and find a charger.

Jaxon exploring

Jaxon loved going for the walk and exploring some more. Apart from when there were cars and we needed to hold hands he loved having the freedom to explore. Somewhere along the line he started stomping on the drain covers and water covers.

Following our little exploration we walked back to the Social Tent. Chris did some puzzles and Jaxon played with the toys. I got on with crocheting more squares for my temperature blanket.

Crocheting

It was Chris’s turn for the evening meeting but he decided that as I hadn’t officially been the night before it was going to be my go again. In addition to that Amy Orr-Ewing was speaking and she was one of the few lady speakers in the full meetings (as opposed to seminars) so Chris thought I might like to go hear her speak. She told a testimony about going to Afganistan back in the early 90s and talking about bibles with officials who really could have probbaly had had her and her team arrested! Crazy times (You can read it here).

When I got back from the evening meeting it was tag team time with Chris so that he could go and hang out in the social tent. Chris went to get his share of hot chocolate and brought some over to the tent for me. It was then about 10pm and it felt like it was freezing so I got ready for bed and got into my sleeping bag and worked on getting some notes down for a blog post.

Catalyst Festival 2016 – Day 1

CatalystI started this post when we we’re away. It was too gloomy in our tent to crochet, read or journal so I used my phone to get some thoughts down. We’ve back a month not and I’ve finally finished it! 

The weather app on my phone tells me it’s 13C outside. Well oh my word you’re kidding me. I am currently in my sleeping bag with thick winter socks on, my pyjamas, a t-shirt, a hoodie and Chris’s sleeping bag unzipped over the top of me and still feel chilly lol.

So I figured while I’m on Jaxon-duty back at our tent I’d get writing. I’ve been journaling and crocheting during the day while Jaxon plays so decided I would get a blog post written and do some reading while I try to warm up a bit. (Did you know when shivering you burn around 100 calories in 25 minutes? Think I need to lose some layers and sit here shivering for a bit – too much good food going on right now!)

Day One – Saturday

Having looked up how quick Waze thought we’d get to Stoneleigh we knew we needed to leave around 8/8:30 to get to the site when the gates opened at 10. Chris and I spent Friday evening packing the bags etc and then packing the car. At one point I was sat on the kitchen floor surrounded by Jaxon’s clothes making sure he had enough outfits and enough combinations of layers to keep him warm if needed. What I didn’t exactly plan for was the glorious sunshine we were blessed with. Somehow I had packed a single pair of shorts and one of his pyjama tops was lightweight enough that he could wear that.

Anyway back to the beginning. So we popped into Mum’s on the way to collect the travel cot for Jaxon. Although he could probably cope with a proper air mattress now or some kind of mat, having the travel cot gave him a bit of restriction which helped us to make sure he was warm enough.

We headed off and Jaxon watched Thomas for a bit of the journey. My iPad Mini case is dying a death so Jaxon kept taking the iPad out of the case so in the end I had to call time and he had to watch the scenery instead. We stopped at Watford Gap Services to charge up Zoe (Our Electric Vehicle). We did have enough charge to get to the site but the nearest charging point from Chris’s research was about 10 miles away so we needed to make sure we had enough of a cushion to get ourselves to the charging point. While at the service station we took a walk over the bridge that links the two sides of the services.


Jaxon absolutely loved looking through the fence at the cars and lorries as they went under the bridge. We then got on the way and did the rest of the journey. From Watford Gap it’s about half an hour so was a fairly quick second leg.

We arrived on site and were given sort of vague directions to where Red 1 was. We knew we were looking for a marquee that was our church’s social/food tent but it seems like every church has their own variation of it. We headed towards one marquee but it wasn’t ours so we were about to turn round and go back to the steward who directed us when I suggested going down one road that was 90 degrees to where we were. It turned out to be a good idea as we spotted one of the guys from our Community Group followed by another member of our group so then we knew we were definitely in the right place. We tracked down our “Site Co-Ordinator” and she was able to direct us to where we could put our tent. We were actually fairly early so could choose where we were going. We decided to go close enough to the marquee that it wasn’t too far to dash back for bits if needed but also far enough away that in theory Jaxon wouldn’t be disturbed by any noise coming from the social tent.

Once we got our tent up and wriggled it about to make sure we were obeying the fire regulations, we set about setting up beds and chairs etc. Jaxon’s was really easy to do and took the least amount of time. Thanks to the team from church who were sorting the food, they’d also brought some toys which was great because we’d only packed a tiny selection of Jaxon’s toys. We did a bit of organising like getting out the bedding then I took Jaxon to play with the toys. Although I could see the sun was shining and we’d had a whole conversation about sun cream, I was a bad Mummy and misjudged the sun cream situation and I was too late. (He was a little pink when it got to bedtime!)

Jaxon loved standing next to the table football and spinning the handles even though he couldn’t see what else was going on. (By the end of the week, the older kids had got him being like a ball boy, he’d grab the ball from the goal and then chuck it back into the top ready for the older kids to keep playing)

Dinner on the first evening was a hog roast of sorts. The pork joints had been done in the oven and we had bread rolls and salad to accompany it.  I was very bad and had thirds but lunch had consisted of various snacks we had packed with us so I was very hungry by that point!

The intention had been that Chris was staying back at the tent with Jaxon and I would go to the main meeting. Unfortunately while washing up the plates from dinner I realised that I had actually forgotten my toothbrush. I had two options, risk the bad breathe or skip the meeting and go shopping. I went to information to find out where the nearest supermarket was and bumped into one of the lads who used to be in Chris’s youth group! He was able to give me the postcode to the local supermarket (8 mile round trip. Not too bad!) and off I set. Found the car in the car park and then got my sat nav all sorted.

I got to the supermarket and found the toothbrush and toothpaste bit okay. I then set tried to find the “Free From” section to get Chris a packet of Macaroons as they are yummy (and a good peace offering seeing as we had been being grumpy with one another before I left), but it was really hard – I then asked a customer service person and she was like “Yeah it’s behind you” but she could see the funny side when I explained that I’d looked round the store like three times and couldn’t find them and clearly just needed to open my eyes!

I ended up back at the tent rather than going in for the last half an hour of the meeting. Chris was then annoyed at me that I was in his space. He had been doing sudoku puzzles and I was sat right where he’d been laying on the air bed. Oops!

Following the evening meeting I went into the social tent to hang out with everyone, we drank hot chocolate – I may have had seconds of that too! It was keeping my insides warm as it was getting cold by that point.

I went to bed around 11 feeling very grateful for my new toothbrush and a snuggly bed – once I’d figured out what I was going to sleep in!

 

Currently…23rd May

Currently Prompts from RUKristin

Watching

A lot of catching up really. Some how I’d ended up a few episodes behind on a couple of shows so had a mass catch up. Jaxon still loves Thomas so we’re working our way through episodes on YouTube. We’re both a bit excited for The Great Race when it comes out later this year. (Hold up according to Cineworld it came out on Thursday. Question is would Jaxon sit through it or would he just cause disruption to everyone else?)

Reading

A couple of exciting emails about collaborations with different people. Also carried on with reading Run Yourself Fit while recovering from a rubbish cold.

Listening

Making

I finished making this blanket last week for Lucy from Mrs Bishop’s Bakes and Banter as she’s expecting her second baby any day soon. I’ve been wanting to share it but couldn’t without risking the surprise.

Baby Blanket for Lucy's Little Girl
The package was wrapped up in brown paper and then pink and yellow string. It was actually Chris’s idea. Lucy is a musicals nut (which I don’t think Chris knew) but he was like “Why don’t you do it like this?” and I commented about the line is The Sound of Music about “brown paper packages tied up with string” and he said “yes like that!”

I’m now working between catching up on my temperature blanket and the Elmer blanket. Lots of crocheting happening around here.

Feeling

Better. I got a cold at the beginning of last week and spent most of the week on cold relief. By Wednesday I was coughing and it wasn’t pretty. I got in from the Tweetup on Thursday and Chris said he thought I was coughing worse (especially when I had to charge for bathroom because I thought I was going to throw up from coughing so hard). On Friday I was “confined to barracks” and  was told to take it easy. Chris also said I wasn’t allowed to do ParkRun on Saturday.

Planning

Adventures! There’s lots happening this week and so need to get organised and sorted out. Need to look at bus or train times on Friday to meet Chris in MK. Going to be a crazy day. Am tempted to get over there a little earlier and potter round the shops before meeting Chris.

Loving

The weather, although it’s been a bit changable. It has overall been warm enough for Jaxon to explore the garden which has meant he’s not going stir crazy in the house. He’s such an outside person now. He loves exploring.

I got to go to the BedsHour Tweetup on Thursday and you can read more about that here then on Friday I went to dinner with two friends at Venue 360 in Luton. So was loving hanging out with people and catching up.

#Bedshour Stickers that I made

#The100DaysProject: Day Thirty-Five

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The beginning of #The100DaysProject didn’t go smoothly. It took three or four attempts to get the first square done in a way that I liked and even then this week I frogged and re-crocheted because I wasn’t happy. 

Today I have six squares completed and should have 35 done. Yep not going well. 

I had stopped a couple of weeks ago to work on a baby blanket for Lucy (aka Mrs Bishop). 

So for now I’m splitting my crocheting time between the two projects trying to catch up. I’ve been doing “join as you go” for this blanket so I’ve been trying to learn a new technique too. 

Are you taking part in #the100daysproject? What are you completing? 

Awesome Ladies Project – What do You Do Outside? 

ALP Creative Team

What does Hannah do Outside?

When Chris and I got married I wasn’t really adventurous. The idea of a holiday climbing mountain or hiking miles was really not my idea of fun. When it came to him doing Land’s End to John O’Groats, I would be the support crew in the warm dry car rather than out on a bike keeping him company. 

Somewhere along the line I did get adventurous, one of my goals was to climb Snowdon by the time I was thirty. I’m not entirely where that goal came from and it didn’t happen but I climbed a smaller mountain which is always a good start before the big ones! 

Last Summer we were on holiday in the Yorkshire Dales and decided to climb the local little mountain. It was fractionally over the line between a hill and a mountain so it wasn’t that scary! It was exhausting and I was shattered by the time we got back but I was proud at what I had achieved too. 

Jaxon takes after his dad and loves the outdoors even now he loves exploring. Last week, we went to the park. There’s a big fenced off area and a smaller fenced off area. I sat in the smaller one journalling while Jaxon explored. He absolutely loved it. He had that bit of the park to himself for a little while and he charged around. He loves pottering round the garden at home and will often wander in and out of the back door into the garden and then come back in again. He is a little indecisive that way but he seems to enjoy himself. 


Also last week the weather turned and we were stuck inside. Jaxon was getting antsy and just wanted to go outside. So I put his coat and shoes on and despatched him out for a bit. He loved splashing in the puddles but did decide to sit in one (which is why he has no trousers on in the pictures!). He wasn’t bothered and off he went, time to explore. 

Part of me thinks I need to start saving up  for a second car so that him and I can go on adventures while Daddy is at work. Maybe we can go exploring the Greensand Ridge or the Dunstable Downs. It might even be possible for us to start an adventure and then for Daddy to join us after work but we will have to see when Jaxon is older. I don’t think I could camp by myself and wrestle a toddler! 

You can find more info about the Awesome Ladies Project here

Do you like hanging outside or are you more of an inside person? Have you had any memorable adventures? Do you have any adventure you would like to achieve like climb a mountain? 

#BedsHour – Tweetup (May 2016)

I’m sure I have other things that I *possibly* should be doing at 11.15pm on a Thursday night but instead I’m sat here in bed with Thriller playing on Spotify (Thank you Throwback Thursday again. Some of the tunes today are a little questionable but others are okay). 

Anyway back to the topic in hand. So today was BedsHour Tweetup. I think the organisational team this time were Paul from White Label Development and James from Cooluxart both here in Bedford. 

During the afternoon while tweeting about the Tweetup and generally tweetin other BedsHour regulars, I attempted to make some little stickers. I tweeted about the stickers and Julia from Julia V Design replied asking for a peek so me being me had to go the further stage and get some made to take with me. I’m not sure how copyright works for something the Twitter logo so that could be interesting if I ever branched into selling my made stickers but that’s another bridge to cross one day. Too many things to be doing st once at the moment anyway. 

Having printed the stickers and dashed off to Slimming World to get weighed in, I dashed home again and somewhere between showering, changing my clothes and speaking to the boys, I managed to get one sheet of stickers completely cut before I needed to leave the house in a bit of a flap. (the second sheet didn’t entirely cut so if you’re a BedsHour person who didn’t get a sticker let me know). 

I decided to wear my “smart” trainers which are no good for running in so when I dashed across the park as I was running late they were making my feet hurt. Not a good start to the evening at all. I arrived and people were still arrivn g so I wasn’t as late as I actually though I was. 

I abandoned my handbag and other bits on one of the chairs while I got myself unflustered as Lucy from Mrs Bishop’s Bake and Banter arrived and we had a good natter catching up. We were joined by Holly who does Social Media for D’Parys and got talking about all sorts of things. I also delivered a present to Lucy and another to Paul. (Paul’s present was his Secret Santa, well I guess May is better than never!) 

At the moment in The Pavilion they have these banners from Lose The Label on display. Lose the Label is about: 

Educating and updating social attitudes helping society adopt a new language and more positive terms of references for people with Down’s Syndrome. 

I think my favourite is this one of Amos and his Mummy Emma. Love babywearing – think I will be sad when Jaxon no longer wants to be carried or when I can no longer carry him. I love when he snuggles into me and know he can nap or just hang out safely. I’m so pleased I found babywearing. 

We were each given a name badge that had our Twitter handle and our names on the front along with various other pieces of information including icebreaker questions and a little Angry Bird to identify which “group” we were with to start with when it came to seating. 

Lucy, Holly and I all had the little Red Angry Bird. We were joined by Cat from Cat Lane Photography, Claire from Austism Beds and Ann from Pink Spaghetti PA Services. Some of us had met for the first time whereas others have spent time working together but I don’t think you would have been able to tell we were all chatting away like a bunch of old friends. 

We had pizza for our main course as we were the mainly vegetarian table we ended up with two goats cheese and caramelised onion pizza which normally wouldn’t have been something I would have picked for myself but the sweetne s of the caramelised onions was really yummy. We then got a ham pizza too so us meat eaters could catch up! The pizza and cheesecake theme had actually come out of a Beds Hour conversation. I think it was started when I tweeted about Chris making a Slimming World cheesecake for me and I had a bowl of the cheesecake in front of me while joining in with BedsHour that particular week! 

Following dinner we had an introductions session so people took turns to stand up and give a quick elevator pitch about themselves/their business. James from Cooluxart went first followed by Paul. They were both talking about the benefits of BedsHour and how both their businesses have developed out of meeting people through it. I decided to take my turn and get up and speak about Daisy Media. My heart was banging somewhere around my tonsils as I spoke and then got all shy when I talked about my homemade stickers but I did it. I know if I’d stayed in my chair I’d be kicking myself for not taking the opportunity when it was there on a plate. I just need to practice my elevator pitch for next time.

So here’s to BedsHour and our latest TweetUp. Lucy talked about how lucky we are to have such a good network of people in Bedford. BedsHour is this great group of small businesses and even when the people are coming from bigger businesses they still try and help people out which is great. I look forward to collaborating with more of the BedsHour guys. Just need to figure out how! 

Do you join in with a social networking hour for your local area? What do you think of it? 

Bonus questions from my badge: What crazy activities do you dream of trying? How do you like to spend a rainy day? 

Cover Reveal – Found by Elle Field

You know how some books finish and they make you want to throw the book across the room or snuggle down in bed and stay there until you can read the next one, that was kind of the end of Book 2. So when Elle asked for bloggers to help with her cover launch, I was there!

I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again if you like books like Confessions of A Shopholic by Sophie Kinsella or the From Notting Hill series by Ali McNamara you’ll love this series. (Book 1 is here if you haven’t read it) 

Found (Arielle Lockley series book 3) 
Out August 9th; available to pre-order now:

One death. Two weddings. Three months in New York City.
Who knew one flight could change everything? When Arielle Lockley stepped on the plane at Heathrow, she never realised how different her life would be when she touched down in New York. Now she’s dealing with that aftermath, as well as trying to find common ground with Etta, her new and unwanted business partner.
But, trying to sort out her shop in London whilst Piers is stuck in New York is starting to take its toll on their relationship, and Arielle isn’t the only one with an important decision to make… Can Arielle and Etta continue Felicity’s legacy without destroying it, and will Arielle and Piers manage to make it down the aisle to say “I do”?

Find out what happens in the final part of the warm and wonderful Arielle Lockley series – out this August.

You can find it here on Goodreads and here on Amazon UK. (or Amazon US if you prefer).

Currently…9th and 16th May 

Currently

Prompts are from RUKristin.

I got as far as starting a post for last week but it got lost in the ether and don’t get finished. So here we go double currently…(there are kind of spoilers so be warned!!)

Currently…Watching

9th: With the weather being so much better this last week I’ve been trying to watch less TV. Where possible we’ve been out for walks or out playing in the garden. In the evenings I have been watching some bits.

Scandal – I really want David and Susan to be happy but I know that it’s all going to get “dark and twisty” because that’s what Shonda does haha. You see a happy ending on the horizon and then she shakes it all up again by throwing a curve ball.

Grey’s Anatomy – well I’m pleased that April and Jackson bonded over the baby kicking I’m not sure the happiness is going to last. Also, Callie is going to get a nasty shock when she finds out about Arizona fighting for custody of their daughter (oh what’s her name?? I’ve completely blanked on that one!)

16th: Well Scandal got better only to get worse again. Genuinely thought Susan was going to get a proper happy ending. Shonda you did it again!!

Scorpion – ooh all sorts going on. Had a proper catch up as I had got about three episodes behind. Yes more binge watching!

Currently…Reading

Last week I started and finished Bear Grylls’ autobiography. It was very interesting. There’s all about his SAS training and the crazy challenges they had to do. One bit was that they had to carry their rucksacks and run miles and miles but if your pack was found to be too light you would have extra weight to carry. I joked they this would be like carrying Jaxon in a rucksack on my back and doing ParkRun. I could wear him in the carrier on my back and walk Parkrun but I wouldn’t be able to run it.

I’ve had a copy of The Miracle Morning since Planner Con when one of the lovely ladies sent it on to me. I’ve started it but stalled a little bit. I will get back into it.

My friend Jenny who has just ran the London Marathon (oh yes super proud here!) gave me a book called Run Yourself Fit. I’ve found since doing ParkRun more regularly and intentionally trying to do more exercise each week, I’ve been either putting on weight or maintaining when I go to Slimming World to weigh in. Now it’s possible that it’s because I’m measuring muscle rather than fat and I think I have lost inches even if not pounds. I’m hoping that it will sort of balances it’s way out as I am beginning to like running at ParkRun. I even volunteered this weekend.

Currently…Listening

I have this growing love for #ThrowbackThursday playlist on Spotify – sometimes the adverts are a bit annoying and you can’t skip more than four or five songs but it beats the usual mix I listen to. As I write this post I’m listening to Moulin Rouge for the first time in ages. I love Complainte de la Butte by Rufus Wainwright – brings back memories of Chris getting me to climb the steps up to the Sacre Coeur in Paris. He made me climb the steps rather than take the hillside railway even though I had a chest infection! So mean lol. Okay so I went to find the post to link to it – we went to Paris, six years ago!! That’s crazy! Then again Amsterdam was 9 years ago.

The Steps to Sacre Coeur

Currently…Making
I am on the verge of completing a project for a new baby/Lucy of Mrs Bishop’s Bakes and Banter. Baby is due imminently I believe so need to get a pedal on just in case baby decides that it would really like to be a May baby and come a little early. I really hope it’s liked.

(EDIT: present delivered but forgot to take a picture of the final product and when it was wrapped up. It was wrapped in brown paper tied up with string – hopefully, Lucy gets the reference – Chris came up with that one. What a clever man!)

I’ve been working on “reworking” an old journal and adding in pictures and maps where I can. Hopefully, now my journal is a little more compact I’ll be able to take it with me and write straight into it rather than saving things until I get home. I’ve been adding in lots of photos that I took on my phone but hadn’t printed.

Currently…Feeling

Feeling. All sorts of muddle-ness. I feel on a bit of high from finishing ParkRun with a slightly faster time than normal (and in fact it was my faster time of 2016) but also I’m gaining a cold which is rubbish.

(EDIT: I’m actually having to skip ParkRun this weekend coming. My cough nearly made me throw up and Chris told me off and that I needed to take it easier).

Currently…Planning

More ideas for stickers. Could it be a new string to Daisy Media’s bow? I’m not sure but we’ll see. I’ll stick with my own little collection and sending out to my pen pals for now.

Currently…Loving

The weather. It’s been a little changeable but it has been dry which has meant we’ve still been able to go out and joy be trapped inside.

Currently…Celebrating

Yep that’s a special one for this week. Chris and I are celebrating nine years of marriage this week. We went to Beefeater at Priory Marina for dinner then for a bit of a walk. We spotted some bats which was very cool. There was also this beautiful view across the lake.


What have you been up to Currently? 

Tomorrow is My Birthday

Around this time a few years ago I finally got round to writing a bucket list. Things I wanted to achieve by the time I was thirty. Well some were a bit daring and crazy so when I found out that I was expecting Jaxon in October 2014 (18 months ish before the finish line) some of the choices had to be changed, some of which were easy to change out and others weren’t so easy.

It’s my birthday tomorrow. A couple of presents have arrived and there are a couple of birthday cards waiting to be opened too.

So here is the list of completed goals:

  1. One thing that scares me – DONE
  2. One thing that I’ve always wanted to do – DONE
  3. Become a Mum – DONE
  4. Get a new job……or vocation – DONE
  5. Trust God to provide me with something bigger than I’ve ever trusted him before (money, house, etc) – DONE (but still ongoing!)

Yes all that time and that’s what I have to show for it!

But other things have happened in that time too. I left my 9 to 5 to have a baby and then rather than going back to work I became my own boss. Yup kind of scary but I did it. I regularly do networking as part of that, some of which is face to face, which also isn’t exactly in my comfort zone – it’s easier to network from behind my computer at home in my pyjamas (Well sometimes!). I join in with BedsHour nearly every week and made some good friendships with people that I’ve met through there. At the beginning of the year, we started the motions to move to a new church. We’re now semi-settled in our “new” church having finished up various rotas and duties at the “old” church. We popped by the old church for the AGM last weekend and were despatched off to our new adventure! We’ll still keep in contact with our lovely friends from the old church though.

Getting to my target weight had been on my bucket list or at least to be the healthy bracket – I think at the last check I’m still about a stone overweight before reaching the normal bracket (I’m back over 11st as of today’s weigh in. That puts me at 1st 9lbs lost). I seemed to stall a month or two ago and sort of loose all motivation for it. Yes, I wanted to the lose the weight but my will power to fight cake and biscuits was too little. So that’s one for pre-31. One stone, one year – that’s more than achievable. I need to do more research into low syn/syn free snacks – fruit is obviously a good choice but some days it just doesn’t cut it. At the beginning of March I ended up working at home all day on the Saturday, Chris had cut up lots of fruit and vegetables so that I had a selection plate of sorts – in the end, I didn’t finish all of it. We’re still going to Slimming World but because of how it clashes with Jaxon’s tea time and bed time we’re not able to stay for Image Therapy – maybe this is why I am unmotivated – who knows. I’ve been trying to get out more and exercise more and so far it seems to be working. Two of my friends and I are having a bit of a crazy moment and in September are walking a marathon. You can find more info here. Since Chris moved job back in October, he ended up taking the car 99% of the time so when the weather is on my side I walk lots, actually sometimes when the weather isn’t on my side I’ve ended up walking home – one time Jaxon was all snug wrapped up in his buggy and I think he dozed off while I fought a down pour to get us home. I think the furthest I’ve walked in one day is around the 10 mile mark so need to get working on it. Tomorrow we have a rest walk to figure out how quick we can cover a mile.

So tomorrow I turn 30 and I want to start on my next list. Let’s do this thing…

Mini Planner Con

I’m a Planner Nerd!

Yes, there I said it.

This time last year I went to Sherlocked and this weekend a friend of mine is at StorybrookeUK. I went hopped over the county line into Cambridgeshire for Cambs Mini Planner Con. I guess it technically started on Friday with the pre-Con Dinner. Some of the ladies who were travelling from further afield were staying in a local hotel overnight so there was a gathering organised – as it wasn’t too far from my house I decided to go along for the dinner. Our Sidekick was on babysitting duty as Chris was also out Friday evening. After dropping Chris off rather than coming home again to kill time I headed to the pub where we were all meeting. I grabbed a diet cola and sat with my crochet and my planner – figured that would identify me as someone friendly! I sat there writing in my planner and playing on my phone when Anna and Jon (Mrs Brimbles and her lovely husband) arrived. I waved at them – realised a bit later that it was probably more of a fangirl wave than a “Hello nice to meet you” kind of wave. It’s really funny – Kelly also said about how it felt like were all being a bit fangirl and Anna thinks we are all completely bananas for being like lol.

I snapped this picture while I was at church. There was a table top sale there and we stopped by to drop off some cakes that I had baked for the sale and to check in Vicky who was organising the whole event.

After running a couple of errands with Chris and Jaxon, I dropped them both off at the church ready for the prep stuff Chris needed to do for the concert in the evening – he was using his skills to do the lighting for the concert.

The drive was nice and straight forward – out of Bedford to Black Cat and up the A1 – Simples!

I arrived at the venue and it was easy enough to find a parking space and get to the venue. I’d expected that I might have had to park further away and then walk to the venue but as it happened it was easy to find a space. I found my way into the building and first person I met was Anna – well that was good – I knew I was then in the right place. I sort of abandoned my stuff and tried to figure out what to do next. I knew that Becca was due to arrive at any moment so I tried to figure where we could sit together and make sure there was space for her sister too so she wasn’t on her own.

I handed in my washi samples and started handing out letters that I had written to people who were attending. My intention had been to write a little note to every person but I ran out of time and so could only do about a quarter. I did actually end up coming home with some of the letters as I wasn’t able to identify everyone. I think I’ll have to go on the FB group and see if I can track them down.

I was hovering near the door and Becca arrived. I did squeal a little as she came through the door – something along the lines of “BECCA IS HERE!!!”. Anna was stood right near me so turned round and said “I guess you two know each other!”. Yup well just a bit, I actually know that our first Twitter conversation was November 18, 2009 when I went to 140Conf (Post One, Post Two). That’s how long we’ve known each other! Crazy times!

After a bit of socialising, Anna called order and got everyone to settle down. She did a quick introduction to what the plan was for the day and emergency information like in the event of a fire where we needed to go and things like that.

We started with a meditation exercise of sorts. We were all so excited and nervous, Anna kicked off with the exercise to calm us all down. It was a good idea and certainly made me feel calm – instead of pinging off the walls in excitement!

Geraldine (From GeraldineJayne) spoke first about creative journaling and how it had helped her to achieve goals but also her dreams. In fact speaking in public like at the conference was one her dreams and here she was achieving it with us! YAY! It got me all excited about getting home and getting out my paints and felt pens and getting on with being creative and journalling. She also talked about making sure that you make time for yourself. She recommended The Miracle Morning book. The idea of trying to get up before Jaxon seems a little crazy but I’m willing to give it a go – I just have to get myself organised and into bed earlier. I am so rubbish about going to bed early.

Geraldine talked about taking more risks and ditching perfectionism. Sometimes we see these beautiful journals and planners on IG or FB and can get bogged down in never being perfect enough. But sometimes it’s about allowing yourself to make errors, not striving for perfectionism.

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Next, up we were back to Anna who was speaking about SMART goals. (S – Specific, M – Measurable, A – Achievable/Attainable, R – Relevant, T – Timely). So breaking that down:

S – be specific with your target. Goals and aspirations are different things. An aspiration would be “To lose weight” whereas a goal would be “to lose 10lbs”.

M – Measurable – how are you going to measure your goals? Make sure they are quantifiable – Lose 10lbs, run a 8 minute mile etc.

A – Achievable/Attainable – How achievable is your goal – do you need more time or a smaller goal?

R – Relevant/Realistic – if it’s not relevant – why are you doing it? If you have a goal or an aspiration that is no longer relevant due to your circumstances – can you remove from your list even though it’s not complete.

T – Trackable/Tangible – What’s the main goal?

Life can get in the way of your goals but make sure you’re not continually postponing what needs to be done. Sometimes doing the jobs that you don’t want to do first then you can spend more tie on the things you enjoy. I’m hoping to apply this a bit more. I’ve been breaking down my crochet projects into the individual squares so that I can see what I need to do and cross them off as I go – some days it can be a little overwhelming given how many are there but it means that I can get my head round it. I’m also hoping to apply it to work goals because some days I feel like a duck – I’m calm above the water but my legs are going like crazy under the water.

I’m hoping to apply this a bit more. With Jaxon running around now and not taking naps (unless he dozes off on the bus), planning out my day is even more important. What can I achieve when he’s awake vs What do I have to do when he’s asleep or looked after by someone else. I’ve started by applying this to my crochet projects into the individual squares so that I can see what I need to do and cross them off as I go – some days it can be a little overwhelming given how many are there but it means that I can get my head round it. I’m also hoping to apply it to work goals because some days I feel like a duck – I’m calm above the water but my legs are going like crazy under the water.

Lunch was a buffet which was great. There was a good choice and they’d been able to organise Vegan food for the vegans and vegetarians. These were the lovely ladies I was sat with. There’s (clockwise round the table from the empty seat) Gemma (YouTube/IG), Debbie, Loretta, Kate, Susan, Ashley-Janne (She popped over for a chat during the workshop bit – Etsy/IG/Facebook), Sam and Becca. This was a lovely table and I felt so welcomed. During the workshop I got onto decorating my week view – I got a few bits done but I am thinking about keeping my A5 as a desk diary of sorts and then using my personal in the changing bag when we’re out and about. It does mean that currently I’m keeping two paper diaries along with the digital diary on my phone. I’m starting this way but going to tweak the system and see what works. img_0230Following the workshop, Becca, Sam and I went for a trip to the Cath Kidston Outlet Store. It was funny because we arrived and another car of Planner Con People arrived and as we were leaving a second car arrived. We went round the corner to the local Costa to grab a drink and have a proper catch-up. Becca stood in the queue for us so I was able to chat to Sam for a little bit which was lovely – I talk to Becca at least once a week whereas I last chatted to Sam when I last saw Becca. All in all I had a lovely day and really enjoyed myself, I really hope that Anna goes ahead and organises another one (I’ll volunteer if she needs a team next time).

#The100DaysProject: Day One

When will I learn that sometimes no is probably the better answer…

Yesterday morning a post appeared on a FB group that I’m part of discussing #the100daysproject. My “crochet by FB” buddy Jo tagged me in a comment about doing a granny square a day. Well that’s not a challenge. I can do that. That is until you see my to do list for crochet projects and then you see that maybe it’s not so easy but that’s another thing to come back to another day!

Anyway, so on my way to Lemon and Ginger this conversation is going backwards and forwards and we formulate a plan.

Hannah and Jo’s 100 Day Challenge is to crochet an Elmer blanket (a bit like this one by Lucy at Attic24) but not just one pattern of crocheted granny squares we are using the book 200 Crochet Blocks for Blankets, Throws and Afghans as we both have our own copies.

Oh and the sneaky thing is that technically there is 108 squares in the Elmer blanket that we’re following.

So here we go, Day One…let’s do this thing!

Are you joining in? Have you come up with a plan? 

Currently: 18th April

Currently - 18th April

This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

Watching: Still working my way through Doctor Who but have caught up on Scandal and Madam Secretary this week as well as watching Pixels.

Reading: I’ve been attempting to finish the books I’ve already started before starting something new but again that’s not happening. This last week I started and finished reading The AssassinEdit by Laura Teagan. This is the first book in the Cassie Morgan Series. There is a sequel in the pipeline I believe so am waiting for that one. I’m now heading back to my Currently Reading list on Goodreads to try and clear some before starting new ones.

Listening: When I’ve been working at the computer I’ve been alternating between last week’s Throwback Thursday playlist on Spotify and my own playlist. Last week I added Polaris by Emily and The Moon to the playlist. She’s currently taking part in CBC’s Searchlight competition – if you like the song please vote for her here.

Making: I finished one project on Monday and have started planning another while making a third. This is another thing I’m trying to finish before starting new projects. Not sure it’s entirely going to work out that way but I’ll keep trying. 

Feeling: Better than last week. The sore throat went away eventually. I’m also super excited about the next two weeks. I’m off to Cambridgeshire for a Mini Planner Con meet. I get to catch up with Becca too. 

Planning: Another crochet project. Need to finish current ones though. Also planning packing and stuff like that for the weekend. It’s not far away but you can guarantee I’ll forget something! 

ALP: Your Ideal Day

ALP Creative Team
Some weeks the prompts for ALP Creative Team are really simple and straightforward. Other weeks I am totally floored and up to the wire because I just don’t know what to do.

I headed to our little chat thing where we can discuss the prompts and things like that and mentioned that I had been to London with the boys at the weekend and that I’d been writing in my journal about it. I was a bit nervous about it not being right but having shown a taster page in the group they were all really positive about it so I’ve gone ahead with it.

I’d stuck in the train tickets, a section of the shopping map from Cabot Circus at Canary Wharf and bits of map (printed from Google and cut down and tweaked to fit in).

So although some moments were stressful and less than ideal, the day was about spending time with Jaxon and Chris and doing fun stuff even if the bits between the fun things were stressing me a little bit!

You can read about the trip to London along with more photographs here.

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Creative Bedfordshire Conference 2016

I’ve been trying to write this post since the conference and it’s not really been happening.

On the 4th March, my Dad was on Jaxon duty while Mum and I went to the Creative Bedfordshire Conference. It was in the Gateway Building at the University of Bedfordshire’s Polhill Campus here in Bedford.

When I was at DMU Bedford (that became UOB in 2006), the Gateway building didn’t exist and the Chaplaincy building stood in it’s place.

The morning didn’t exactly start on the right foot. Jaxon decided he wanted to play with his toys rather than get ready to go see Grandpa. This meant getting him dressed took twice as long and even then the dungarees I was going to put him in were then too small and I had to find him different trousers to wear. Then just as we were almost ready to leave the house I remembered that I hadn’t got the travel cot out from the Summerhouse. So I dashed down the garden and then we headed off. After all the panic I arrived at Mum’s with 10/15 minutes to spare.

One very stuffed buggy

Between what I needed for the day and what Dad needed for looking after Jaxon it looks like the buggy might collapse or tip over with the slightest misjudgement. Also Jaxon looked like he was moving in for a week not just a day!






Both myself and my Mum had a lovely time. I think in both cases we came away with things to think about with regards to our own businesses. 

Were you there? Did you enjoy it? 

Currently: 4th April

Currently - 4th April

Watching: After chatting to the ALP Creative Ladies I’ve been watching Jane The Virgin on Netflix. I think if you like Ugly Betty you’d like it. It also had a real telenovella vibe! I’ve also been binge-watching Doctor Who episodes. I’ve just got up to Peter Capaldi taking over from Matt Smith – although it was a little unexpected because the regeneration is part of a special rather than the normal episodes so Netflix has got them listed in the wrong order.

Reading: For Christmas or my Birthday I was given the books in The Chronicles of Brothers series. I had started book one (The Fall of Lucifer) but never actually got further than the first few pages, with my birthday coming I thought I really ought to make sure that I’d cleared some more of my TBR pile – it was a little late to leave it though!

Listening: I’ve been listening to lots of For King and Country and often whatever is playing on UCB when we have the radio on. In the car I often have Spotify playing so I just look up whatever I fancy and put that on.

Making: I have been plotting and planning a blanket for Jaxon but it’s still not happening so I made a spewed where to figure out what I needd to do.  

Feeling: excited but worried. Jaxon sleeps in his toddler bed tonight for the first time. Got to go toddler bedding shopping. Hopefully it’s easier than it was shopping online last night. 

Planning: things I need to get done this week. Feels like a storm is brewing and I need to get focused to stay in control. 

Loving: The Crave album by For King and Country. 

 

The Day We Went to London…

On Saturday morning, Chris woke up and decided that a field trip to London was on the cards. With it being the Easter holidays we had ended up spending a lot of time at home rather than going out to various groups like we normally do, so to get out of the house and out of Bedford of the day, it was a great idea.

While Chris pottered off to do what he’s got planned. Jaxon and I could work our way around various places that I’ve been wanting to go to. We also talked about taking Jaxon on the Emirates Airline and seeing what he thought, seeing as he already seems to want to be a stunt man.

The three of us on the train

We got our tickets and headed through the barriers ready to get the next train into London. We caught the 9.18am from Bedford to St. Pancras although because of an issue on board it was running a little late. I think when it did get to us they’d actually switched out the trains so we were on a different one. When we got on the train it was busy so because of the number of people on the train we ended up sat in one of the end bits right next to the door. It was good because Jaxon could stand at the door and look out of the window but it did mean that around Luton Parkway he decided I would be his human climbing frame while Daddy held onto the buggy. Jaxon also loved playing with the buttons but thankfully they are centrally locked while the train is in motion so he could keep pressing them but nothing happened. Chris kept saying how we were going on a train “like Thomas” so this turned into which train on Thomas and Friends was really like the train we were on. (I actually tweeted East Midlands Trains to see if they could tell me the type of train we were on – it was either an Intercity or a Meridian Train so we figured probably closest is Stafford but it’s still not quite right).

Jaxon and I said goodbye to Chris so he could catch the tube and we headed outside to catch the bus towards Bow Church so we could get the DLR. On the way to the bus stop, a random tourist stopped me and told me in whatever language he was speaking that Jaxon needed his hood up or something like that. He kept pointing to his own hat and then to Jaxon, in the end, put Jaxon’s hood up and headed off.

Jaxon riding on a London Bus

We caught the 205 bus from King’s Cross to Bow Church to swap for the DLR. It’s crazy seeing London from a different view. There were a lot of new buildings being worked on. At 250 City Road, there were lots of cranes – I think if Jaxon could have seen out the window a bit better he would have been excited about them. Like there are audio announcements on the Underground there are audio announcements on the bus so every stop had a particular name it was referred to – they were nearly all road names but the one for Moorfields Eye Hospital was actually announced as that rather than the road name.

Pretty mural on a building from the bus

When we reached Shoreditch 10.35am around 10:40am there was a really long queue along Commercial Road – part of me wanted to shout out of the door when we stopped at the bus stop and find out what they were all queueing for. We were on the bus for nearly an hour so I took lots of photos and wrote some notes for this blog post – it did mean that my battery was getting eaten and it wasn’t even lunch time yet.

King's Cross to Bow Church

We got off the bus at Bow Church and crossed the road between some roadworks so that we could then get on the DLR from Bow Church station. As you can see from the map above (thank you Google!) it was actually a straight forward route although it was covering quite a distance. From Bow Church, we caught the next DLR train to Canary Wharf. I got a bit excited when we got to Poplar and I recognised the DLR station and the section of road on the other side from when Chris and I went to Sherlocked and the London Marathon last year.

At Canary Wharf, we were heading to the Moleskine shop. Yes, I could probably spend all my pocket money in this shop! I love the stamps that they have in the shop that you can use in your notebooks. I know if you look close enough you can see it’s a Leuchtturm1917 A6 in Orange and I was in the Moleskine store. Well Moleskine is my preference it turns out but before I buy a new one I have a couple of other books that I need to work my way through. I have my eye on a particular Paperchase one that I’ve had in my stash for a while, I removed some of the used pages from the front so I’m not sure how well it will survive now but we’ll see.

Moleskine Stamps

Back to the story, we arrived at Cabot Circus at Canary Wharf and I found the lift to get from the platform to the shopping centre. There was a lady queuing for the lift too, I was all prepared to wait for the next lift as she had a buggy with her but she was deteremined that we could all fit in the lift. She squished us all in and then was so chatty and kept talking to Jaxon which was really lovely. She had the most beautiful tight corkscrew curls. When she pushed the button and realised that Jaxon had wanted to do it, she apologised loads.

Once we’d been to Moleskine (and drooled over the Colour-A-Month diary that was reduced) we were heading to the Underground station at Canary Wharf to get the Jubilee line to North Greenwich for the Emirates Airline. As we were heading outstide I realised that it was lunchtime and that toilet stops for Jaxon and I would be a good idea. As it happens there is a really big Waitrose department store at Canary Wharf so we were able to tick all the boxes while we were there before getting on the underground.

We found a bench to sit on and eat our lunch. Jaxon’s sandwich was egg mayo and salad so I sat there and picked out the lettuce and tomato because I knew if I left him to do it, the lettuce would have ended up all over the floor! We headed from the shopping centre down to the Canary Wharf Underground station. We got to the ticket hall at the bottom of the escalators and I couldn’t find the lift. I thought I was going to have to get Jaxon into his carrier and take him down on the escalator. I went and found a TFL/London Underground person who was able to point me in the right direction to be able to get on the Tube.

 We caught the tube to North Greenwich, after leaving the station we walked towards the O2 and then we turned towards the river and to the Emirates Airline. I bought my ticket at the machine and headed up in the lift, we joined the queue and waited to get on. There seemed to be a technical issue so I half expected them to close it or something like that but it was still running.


We moved to the front of the queue and I expected to get on with the Dad and his son who were in front of us but instead, the guy directing, put Jaxon and I onto the next empty “capsule” we were then joined by three German lads (one of which nearly cracked open a bottle of beer that he had in his bag. Then realised either that he was on the “ride” with a toddler or that alcohol isn’t allowed).

Jaxon absolutely loved the ride. He had his face smooshed against the glass to the point that he was trying to push his way through the glass. It kept rocking and that was making me nervous. I was gripping onto Jaxon with one hand and the chair with the other hand.
When we got to the other side we walked to Royal Victoria DLR station to catch the DLR to Tower Gateway. When we got to the platform a fellow Mummy helped me with the buggy – I realised after taking a set of four steps that there was a ramp like 10 paces away. On the platform the fellow mummy was talking to her partner about how the airline operators should have stopped it because someone was having a panic attack. I’m not sure what was happening but sounded serious. The Dad and the son who had been in the queue in front of me had also got off and made a complaint. When we got to Tower Gateway, we walked the short distance to Tower Hill to catch the Circle Line to Victoria.

At the station, I had to get Jaxon into the carrier so that I could take the buggy down as there wasn’t a lift and you’re not supposed to take buggies on the escalator.

I managed to find HEMA shop but it was upstairs in Victoria Train station and I couldn’t find the lift so had to take the escalator. I was at the bottom trying to juggle Jaxon (having got off the tube and put him back in the buggy!) and the bags, I was about to put him in the carrier when a very lovely lady was like “let me help you” and she picked up the buggy and carried it up the escalator while I took the bags and Jaxon.

HEMA is a very cool shop – it’s like Paperchase and IKEA had a love child lol.

We went to catch the bus to Trafalgar Square to meet Chris but when we got to the bus stop there was a diversion or something like that (the sign wasn’t entirely clear) so there wasn’t a Route 24 bus stopping there. I had a text conversation with Chris about whether he would come and meet me or if I would still go to him. I decided as the next shop I wanted to visit was closer to Trafalgar Square, I would brave the underground with the buggy again. 

Chris texted back and said that he would meet me at the exit barrier at Embankment station. We got to Embankment and I was struggling with the buggy and the stairs. I was really tired and just wanted to go home lol. 

At the tube I got Jaxon into his carrier and then sorted the bags and buggy so that I could manage everything.

As we went to head up the stairs at Embankment I felt the buggy get lighter all of a sudden and began to freak out that I’d lost my handbag. I turned round and a gentleman behind me had picked up the other end of the buggy to help me. Chris was there waiting right next to the barrier which made my day so much better. 

We wander from Leicester Square to Covent Garden. On our way through we went into Muji it was quite busy so Chris waited near the door with Jaxon. 

While in Covent Garden I went into Kikki K and Paperchase, after going in the first Kikki K we walked round the corner towards Paperchase and Chris saw the window for the second Kikki K store and said “Do you want to look in there? It kinda looks like your kind of shop.” I don’t think he’d realised that I had already been into Kikki K. 

Kikki K is lovely. It was busy though so couldn’t really stop for a proper look. I have a Kikki K planner already but love looking! 

After a bit more of a wander round we headed towards the tube to come home again. 

We grabbed some food before getting on the train to come home. Jaxon, Chris and I shared two seats between us and Jaxon had some food to eat as well as drink. 

It was a lovely day out although I don’t think I can do London by myself without better planning ahead. 

Where did March Go?

This post was going to start with how it felt like this week just flew by and didn’t achieve half of what I had meant to do. Then I realised, I think the whole of March was a bit like that.

So what have I done with my month? Well I applied for EllieBethDesigns UK‘s team as well as the creative team for Awesome Ladies Project. I didn’t get accepted for the first one but I got in with the latter.

ALP Creative Team

My first post for ALP went live on Friday which was really exciting. The prompt was “What Makes You Laugh?”. This was actually kind of hard and I had to make a mental note of things that I laughed at. Things like the Four Candles Sketch by The Two Ronnies and The Church of England bit by Eddie Izzard (also known as Cake or Death) came to mind later in the week once I’d done my layout. Four Candles came to mind on Thursday when the news broke about Ronnie Corbett passing away. Ronnie was one of those comedians who could get a laugh without being crass like a lot of comedians can be now.

Challenge 12: What Makes You Laugh

I included The Good Life which is one of my favourite TV sitcoms. Even though it’s about 40 years old (in fact on the 4th April it’ll be 41 years since the first episode aired). There’s a bit in the first episode when Tom tells Barbara his plan and she goes out into the garden to think. This is so me, when Chris was discussing The Fountain I would often sit in the garden weeding while thinking through everything. Dad and I would often watch this and Red Dwarf.

The Good Life

About two weeks before Easter, Chris had been building and painting the tomb for the Passion Play that would be taking place in Bedford. The weekend before Easter was the dress rehearsal so Dad and Chris ended up walking the tomb from our house to the park where the rehearsal was because it was too wide to fit into the car. Jaxon and I followed with the bits that they couldn’t carry.

Last Weekend was Easter so we had lots of bits on. It started on Friday morning with the Good Friday service at Woodside. There were craft activities for the kids so Chris helped Jaxon make me an Easter card which was lovely. (The photo is the right way up. Jaxon was being creative so we had “Hoppy Easter” upside down).

We then headed straight into town for the Open Air Witness in Harpur Square. My Mum asked me to take photos so I spent a lot  of the service squeezing through the crowd to take pictures. This was a babywearing win, I ended up wearing Jaxon on my back while taking photos. We then had lunch at The Maypole. It was an okay meal but could have been heaps better. (The BBQ sauce on my hunters chicken may as well have been chilli sauce it was that spicy. The peas were a bit shrivelled like they’d been micro-zapped. A bit of a disappointment after all the good stuff we’d heard).

On Saturday it was the “big” day, so we spent most of the day in town doing bits for the Bedford Passion Play. Chris left early with my Dad to do all sorts of prep bits. I briefly saw Dad around 10am when he delivered chain mail to one of the guys playing a roman soldier. Then I spent most of the play charging around, taking pictures and posting updates to the Hope Bedfordshire FB page.

Once the play had finished Jaxon and I headed home and ended up chilling at home for the rest of the day while Chris went to help his sister move house as she’d been let down by some of the people helping her.

On Tuesday, after Mum and I went to weigh in at SW, Jaxon, Dad and I went out for Lunch as it was Dad’s birthday. It was lovely to catch up and hang out for a bit.

And then before we knew it, it was the end of March and April was here.


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Currently…21st March

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This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

Watching
After hanging out at Mum’s last weekend I realised that I was behind on Bones, so while Dad took Jaxon for a walk around the block, Mum and I caught up on Bones and I watched the episodes I’d missed this week. I’ve gone off House of Cards at the moment but I’m sure I’ll go to back and try and keep up again – I guess I need to get a move on though because I think Season Four just started on Netflix. I’ve been binge watching Continuum – my Mum said she didn’t enjoy it so much because of the flipping backwards and forwards between 2076(?) and the present day and then the various alternate realities that sort of kick in along the way. I worked my way through a bunch of films this weekend too. I finished In Her Shoes, 50 First Dates and Blended. Then during unplanned “Household Time” on Friday we ended up watching Spooks: The Greater Good. (“Household Time” is normally Sunday evening but because of all the crazy this weekend it accidentally moved to Friday.

Reading
Since the beginning of 2016, I had been trying to clear my Currently Reading list on Goodreads rather than starting new books but so far it’s not really been happening. I decided again to start a new book rather than continue with one I’d already started so I’m now reading Saving Bletchley Park by Dr Sue Black with Stevyn Colgan. I then discovered this piece by Tabitha Mary – if and when I have my own office/study other I think I might have to have the print of it on my wall. For now it’s been put on my computer desktop while I work.

Tabitha Mary - Bletchley Park
Listening
I’ve been listening to For King and Country and Rend Collective a lot recently, I decided that I was going to try and listen to Worship Music or Contemporary Christian Music. My current favourites are My Lighthouse by Rend Collective and Shoulders or The Proof of Your Love by For King and Country. I texted my brother about the video for Shoulders because the guy who’s an angel or something like that reminded me of the guy from Assassin’s Creed of all things!

Making
On Thursday, Jaxon and I went to our first Cornerstone meeting at Woodside and got to meet a bunch of new people. With it being Easter this weekend coming we were making Easter Bonnets, Jaxon refused to wear the one I made so I might have to wear it in the Bonnet Parade this week. I’ve caught up with my temperature blanket which is exciting, I spent a large chunk of the weekend getting up to date and it was beginning to stress me out a little bit. I had crocheted it all together the other week and found that my squares were bunching up because it was too tight. I ended up taking  the whole lot apart and starting again – it was a bit depressing but at least it wasn’t September and I was having to take it all apart otherwise I think I would have been crying my way through it! I’ve started a couple of other projects that I need to get on with. I have scribbled patterns of sorts in my Bullet Journal so I can keep track of where I am and what I’m trying to do. Hopefully, the finished products will come out lovely.

Feeling
Excited but also a bit of a muddle. I applied for two Creative Teams, I heard back from Kristin at ALP last week and then the Creative Team list for the second one went live today. I knew I hadn’t been chosen for the second one as there are better people out there for the job but I’m sort of disappointed that I wasn’t picked. There is other stuff going on though around here that is very exciting so it all sort of balances out in the end. Jaxon and I are going along to Cornerstone at Woodside which is cool – I’m doing a couple of weeks before deciding whether I join the team or not. Chris had a meeting earlier this evening and the guys he was meeting with left around 10:30pm and we’re all a bit excited about what’s been discussed (which is why I’m writing this at almost midnight!)

Planning
Firstly, I’m collecting RSVPs for my birthday. It’s been near enough a yes/no split equally down the middle so far which is interesting. Then I am starting to think about decoration and things like that. I borrow some bunting from Chris’s cousin who had amazing bunting at her wedding – so we’re reusing it which is very lovely of her to lend it to me. It’s been in Mum’s spare bedroom since Christmas as it was easier for her to get it back to her Mum who then gave it to Chris’s Mum who gave it to Chris’s Dad who delivered it to me. I am really excited for my birthday especially as one of the first celebrations of birthday-ness kicks off in the next week or so (ooh I need to buy a birthday present! Better not forget that!)

 

How’s your week been? What have you been up to?

Tired Mummy and The Hospital Trip

It crossed my mind to snap a picture as Jaxon was hooked up to the heart monitor in my living room last night. But my phone was in the other room in charge in case we were going to hospital. 

I’d been sat watching In Her Shoes and crocheting. I am so close to being up to date with my Temperature Blanket. 

Around 10:30, I thought I heard Jaxon cry and then there was a thud from upstairs. I thought that was Chris getting out of bed for Jaxon so I went back to the film. Then I heard Jaxon again so I charged up the stairs. He was in bed crying but also coughing.

It wasn’t a normal cough. He kept making a funny noise while coughing, it was like a whooping/barking noise. He was struggling to catch his breathe between coughs and I was really worried. I grabbed his inhalers and gave them to Chris with Jaxon then ran downstairs to get the house phone to ring 111. It connected and we were placed in the queue but we both decided that Jaxon might need to go to hospital so we needed an ambulance. (Under 2 plus breathing difficulties I think that equals an ambulance). 

Ringing 999 at the best of times is a challenge. Ringing when you have a coughing crying toddler in your arms is even more of a challenge. While I was on the phone Jaxon started to calm down and curled up next to me on the bed. At one point he’d even put his head on my leg as if he was going back to sleep. I answered a bunch of questions and repeated the address. The 999 operator gave me a bunch of things to do like make sure the door was unlocked, make sure someone was ready to meet the ambulance and keep an eye on Jaxon in case he got worse. We took it in turns to keep an eye on Jaxon and organise our stuff because we thought if we did have to go to hospital there would be a wait. It’s Saturday night after all. 

The paramedics arrived within 10 minutes of the call. Jaxon had been pottering round the living room and in that way that children do. They make you worry and then when you ask for help or seek medical advice then they instantly get better. 

Before you tell me off about someone else might have needed the ambulance more urgently, in that moment when your child is there coughing and unable to catch their breathe you do it. You don’t think about it. I’m the kind of person who debates whether or not we need an ambulance or car trip. 

The paramedics arrived and we explained what had happened and how Jaxon had been since the 999 call. The guy paramedic put the little heart monitor tags on Jaxon along with a O2 Level monitor on Jaxon’s toe while the lady paramedic listened to Jaxon’s chest. The paramedics turned the monitor round so that he could see all the lights, then they printed off a read out. I think Hannah at Little Golden Daffodil calls if Heart Art. 

The lady paramedic listened to Jaxon’s chest and said that she thought she could hear something at the top of Jaxon’s chest so the guy paramedic had a listen too (I think the lady paramedic was a technician rather than a “full” paramedic). 

They said that they didn’t need to take him in by ambulance but if we wanted to get his chest checked out then we could either go in the ambulance or in the car. We decided that given he seems happy enough we’d keep an eye on him for 10/15 minutes and then go in the car it needed.  

We decided that we would go and headed for the hospital. 

Tired Mummy sat in the paediatrics bit of A&E

I took my crochet with me to work on a specific project but I can’t remember whether I need 4 or 5 coloured rounds and then how many white rounds after that on my granny squares so I’ve paused on that one and started on another side project I’ve been working on.

We got to the hospital around 11:15-30ish. We saw a paediatric nurse who gave Jaxon some croup medicine then we waited a bit longer and saw a doctor who said that Jaxon’s chest was now clear and he couldn’t hear anything so we were discharged. By 2am I was shattered and wanted to go to bed. 

We arrived home around 3am and we all went straight to sleep pretty much straight away. Jaxon woke up around 8am which is late for him but he’s in a grump and looks pale this morning. I think that’s just because like me he’s tired. 

Everyone has mixed opinions about the NHS, waiting times and Junior Doctors but once again we’ve received amazing care from the doctors, nurses and paramedics who have looked after us. 

Saving Bletchley Park 

When I was younger, my Dad would tell me about Bletchley Park and I think I would pretend to listen but really my brain was off elsewhere but the thing is I think something must have sunken in and got stuck.

Bletchley Park Gate

Dad, Our Sidekick and I went for a trip to Bletchley Park on the 3rd November 2012. It wasn’t Dad’s first trip there as he did a bunch of his BT training in the main building there but for Our Sidekick and I it was our first trips. (I was all excited but Our Sidekick was doing his “I’m too cool for this” attitude). (Edit: I knew it was either BT or ROC but guessed instead of asking)

Bletchley Park Quilt

Trust me to find a quilt – I had to take a picture of it to show Mum when we got home.

The Turing Bombe

Three years prior to that I met Dr Sue Black – in fact our first conversation was me shouting a question across the room to her when she was on a panel about education at a conference. We talked/debated/vented about education and IT curriculum. 

Last year, she along with Stevyn Colgan wrote this book about the journey they took along with a whole bunch of other people to save Bletchley Park, the CEO said that it was “teetering on a knife edge” financially (this appears in the introduction of the book).

Saving Bletchley Park

Bletchley Park was falling into disrepaired (with some googling you can find pictures of what it looked like, like here). Some of the ground at Bletchley Park is now a new housing estate but it was so important to save what was there, so that future generations would remember what happened at Bletchley Park. During their service and even after the war the women and men who worked there couldn’t talk about what they did. They couldn’t take the praise for what thy had achieved. A lot of them have passed away now from old age or from other circumstances so now we have to remember them. 

I have had the book on my bookcase for a couple of weeks now, I’ve been meaning to read it but have been desperately trying to finish the ones that I have in progress before moving onto the next one but I decided enough was enough, it needed to be read and the others can be put on hold for now.
So without further ado, this is the press release for the book – rather than me rewriting in my words what’s already been written here,

The story of how social media and a tireless campaigner saved the birthplace of modern computing

Imagine a Britain where the most important sites of historical significance are replaced with housing estates and supermarkets. Imagine a Britain without Bletchley Park, where Alan Turing and a team of code-breakers changed the course of World War II and where thousands of women inspired future generations with their work in the fields of computing and technology.
Now imagine a group of extraordinary people, who – 70 years after the birth of the modern computer at Bletchley Park – used technology to spark a social media campaign that helped secure its future and transform it into the world-class heritage and education centre it deserves to be.
This is the story of how hundreds of people dedicated 20 years of hard work and determination to saving Bletchley Park. It is also the story of the thousands of remarkable men and women who worked tirelessly and in secret throughout WWII to save the UK from invasion.

Social Media can be given a bad rap – because we often only hear when it’s caused bad things to happen rather than the good, rather than the serendipitous, rather than the great. Saving Bletchley Park is one of those good, great and serendipitous events. Please take the time to read it, if you can. I’ll be back with some more feedback once I get through it – if you want to chat to Sue herself, drop her a tweet she’s @dr_black – I promise she’s super lovely and doesn’t bite! Oh and she has awesome hair!

So you know, I purchased my copy of Saving Bletchley Park from UnBound as part of the crowdfunding that Sue went through. 

I wanted to share about it because it’s part of our local history as well our national history and we need to remember those who fought for us. Not just in the trenches using physical strength but those using their mental skills to fight the war too. 

ALP Creative Team

ALP Creative TeamOccasionally you get those emails in your inbox and you think “That’s really exciting but I seriously do not stand a chance”. Well I had an email and a group update like that last week and decided that I was going to step out and do it. Just go for it and see what happened. So I gathered my bullet journal, pens and craft materials and got started.

It sounds a little silly but this quote from Nadiya who won GBBO keeps coming back to me. I think I often quit or don’t take part for the fear of not succeeding rather than taking the risk and doing it (if that makes sense). So I did it, I took the risk and applied to two teams.

I’m never gonna put boundaries on myself ever again. I’m never gonna say I can’t do it. I’m never gonna say ‘maybe’. I’m never gonna say, ‘I don’t think I can.’ I can and I will.

Well, it did happen and it’s super exciting! I got an email over the weekend letting me know that I was picked and as of earlier today I can actually talk about it, I was picked along with some other amazing lovely ladies to be part of the Awesome Ladies Project Creative Team. It’s all headed up by Kristin from RUKristin. (If you read regularly you will know that I use prompts inspired by her on my usual Monday posts.)

I told Chris yesterday evening just by sending him a screenshot of the email and a message about a second team I applied for and he responded with “You can’t get picked if you don’t enter!” Followed by “So you have > 0% chance because you did.” (Followed by a bunch of emojis lol).

You can check out my other team mates here. There’s AlisonCarolineCelenaDanicaEmily, JennKatieMarinaMelodyNullsOdessa and Patricia in this creative team! I’m really excited to get started and will be sharing my work here too.

What exciting things have happened to you this weekend? 

Currently…7th March

Currently...7th March

This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

Currently…Watching
I’ve been watching ShadowHunters on Netflix. It’s based on the Mortal Instruments books by Cassandra Clare. I also started watching House of Cards and continued watching Doctor Who. (Ooh might have to start Torchwood again once I catch up with all of Doctor Who – I’m currently on Asylum of the Daleks so not sure quite how many episodes I have to watch).

Doctor Who

Currently…Reading
I’ve been trying to work on The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying by Marie Kondo. I got to the bit about making sure your socks have room to breathe.

The socks and tights stored in your drawer are essentially on holiday. They take a brutal beating in their daily work, trapped between your foot and your shoe, enduring pressure and friction to protect your precious feet. The time they spend in your drawer is their only chance to rest. But if they are folded over, balled up or tied, they are always in a state of tension, their fabric stretched and their elastic pulled. They roll about and bump into each other each time the drawer is opened and closed.

Marie Kondo, The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying

Currently…Listening
Well it’s a mixture – had UCB playing in the kitchen and have had WWRY or Les Miserables playing while working. Chris had, had a playlist playing on Saturday while we all got ready for our adventures. Jaxon and I had a boogy round the kitchen to this one by Jess Glynne. Don’t think he was too impressed with my dancing skills but it was good fun for me.

Currently…Feeling
Good, last week was a bit busy but Jaxon and I had some good times too. We went to Lemon and Ginger on Monday and then I was at the Creative Bedfordshire Conference on Friday while he hung out with Grandpa. On Saturday I went to a coffee morning to raise funds for Oasis House (Did you know that Dementia UK have these lovely people called Admiral Nurses but Bedfordshire doesn’t have even one!) and then in the evening I went to a Quiz Night with Mum, Dad, my cousin and my Aunt and Uncle. Between us we were a good team – normally we play board games at Christmas and beat each other rather than being on the same team.

Creative Bedfordshire Conference

Currently…Planning
I christened my Kikki K this week at the Conference – was good for taking notes. I started a new Volume for my Bullet Journal – I got the wrong size Leuchtturm so need to see how long it lasts me. I keep looking at the lovely notebooks and fountain pens on Goulet Pens (Although they are US based so will need to check postage before ordering from them)

Currently…29th February

4-7This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

Currently…Watching
I’ve been watching various shows this week. Have ended up watching lots of Disney films with Jaxon. We watched Up again this week. I do love Up but some bits of it are just so sad. Even though I know what happens one time I’d just like Ellie and Carl to get their happily ever after. 

Chris and I watched the next available episode of Elementary while Our Sidekick was out. It’s become a bit of a weekly occurrence for us to hang out and watch the next episode. I commented last week about Dr Charles Percy appearing in Scandal well this week the actress who plays Ellis Grey and Sally Langston in Scandal then showed by in this weekMs episode of Elementary. Chris wouldn’t have had a clue about who I was talking about so I didn’t mention it but her character was so different to both Sally and Ellis that at first I wasn’t sure it was her. I spent like 10 minutes of the episode on IMDb. 

I watched Call The Midwife while I finished sorting out the mess I made in the living room. I “shouted” quietly (if there’s such a thing!) that the husband needed to stop watching the storm and get help because his wife was proper poorly (and once again I diagnosed it!)

Currently…Reading
Still working on Marie Kondo’s book. I want to go back to reading fiction I often prefer it to non-fiction. The house tidying is still going ahead at some crazy pace (separate post might be needed!). Some days it’s tough and I can feel like Chris is getting on my case but other days it’s really good to see what’s been cleared and tidied. 

Currently…Listening

I’m currently listening to Ben Howard which is playing on my iPad in the nursery. Jaxon hasn’t been 100% this week and so it’s been comforting him I think. He used to have it on a lot more when he was maybe six months younger. I think he now wants it while he’s poorly. I’ve been listening to For King and Country and Rend Collective a lot while working and things like that. I was going to listen to them on the way to church yesterday morning but my phone wasn’t entirely agreeing with me and I was running late so I put on my running album so that I would focus on walking to church. 

Currently…Feeling
I’m tired. I’ve been really rubbish about bed times so been trying to run on less than six hours of sleep a night. Must try harder!

Currently…Planning
I shared a blog post all about my Bullet Journal last week which was quite exciting – just need to figure out what to write about next time.

 
We also managed to get a short break booked which is really exciting. 

Granny Hexagons


I recently joined a group on Facebook and we we were discussing what to do for a project. I shared that I am working on a project made of hexagons that are made up a bit like a granny square.

Granny Hexagon Blanket

In the conversation I offered to share how I make mine. It’s possible I read the pattern somewhere but these are the instructions I use to make my hexagons. 

I use a 4mm crochet hook along with double knit wool. I’m sure it will still work with finer or bulkier wool along with the correct size hook for the wool. 

Foundation

Chain 4 and join with a SS to form a circle. 

Round One

Chain 3 (counts as tr), tr1 into centre, chain 2, *tr2 ch2* repeat * section x 4. Ch2 and join to top stitch in first chain. 

Round Two 

Ch3 (counts as tr), tr1 (into space at base of chain – shown by purple safety pin in below image). Tr2 into next ch2 space, ch2 tr2 (to form corner). Repeat in each ch2 space. In final space tr2 and ch2. Join with SS to top of ch3 from beginning of round. 

Round Three

Ch3 (counts as tr), tr1 (into space at base of chain. Same as previous round), tr3 into gap between the two tr2 clusters in previous round. Tr2 ch2 tr2 into ch2 space to create corner. After final corner ch2 and join with SS.

For my project I’ve been doing three rounds so I’ve finished here if you do want to go bigger I suggest changing the tr3 into a tr2 and keep the rest of the round the same.

This is the first time I’ve written out the pattern for this so if it doesn’t make sense please ask. 

Thanks.  

How I Use My Bullet Journal – Part 1

I actually came across Bullet Journaling a while ago but at first I couldn’t see the benefit. I think when I was in a full-time job and it was just Chris and I it didn’t make much sense. Now I’m self-employed, trying to keep up with Jaxon and Our Sidekick it’s helpful to have a “catch-all” notebook that I can scribble stuff in.  How I Use My Bullet Journal - Part One

I have settled into using a Moleskine hardback notebook with grid pages. I did have a Leuchturm in turquoise but I’m not sure what happened to it. Although I haven’t entirely followed the Bullet Journal method completely I used my existing books before Christmas to try and get into the swing of things before buying a new notebook. I decided that I would start 2016 in a red Moleskine. so here we go, this is my bullet journal system. Lovely bullet journals
I’m about two thirds of the way through my red Moleskine so I ordered a new notebook last week. I had meant to order the A5 Leuchturm in Orange but when it arrived I had ordered the A6. I’m not letting this deter me though. I found my old Kindle case and it happens to be just the right size for my A6 notebook, it also fits my iPhone and at least one pen so it might be possible to go out with a smaller handbag when I’m not on Jaxon duty.

I’d seen pretty planners like this one above by Geraldine Jayne but wasn’t sure how to get from that to decorating my Bullet Journal. I then saw posts by Kara at Boho Berry and joined a couple of groups on Facebook and the thing about Bullet Journalling is that you can make your own. If you don’t like your set up, tweak it until you do.

I decided to give in and purchase some stickers. I do have a bunch already but they are decorative ones rather than ones that work with weekly spreads (if that makes sense!). I figured I would start with weekend banners so found some on Oh So Simple Designs. These arrived earlier this week and I got started on decorating.

I think the little red and white ones with hearts on were a bonus little sampler. I decided to draw out my pages for March so I could stick the stickers in. Just have to hope they are in the right place otherwise I’ll have February notes after my March “weekly” pages.

Everyone has their own method but that’s the great thing about the Bullet Journal system. Whether you’ve got a scruffy £1 notebook or a Leuchtturm or a Moleskine (or even something super lovely like a Roterfaden Taschenbegleiter notebook system!) you can draw and redraw your pages until they work for you and that’s the great thing about it. Unlike a set printed and bound planner that you can’t adapt.

Do you use a bullet journal? Do you have a favourite brand or size of notebooks? 

40 Acts (Part 3 – Day 6)

40Acts - Doing Lent Generously
I decided that this year would also be the one when I actively tried to take part in 40acts. I get the emails sent to me each Lent but often for one reason or another I don’t manage to do it. While Jaxon eats his breakfast in the morning I get reading the email so I can figure out how we can fit our day around the tasks for the day.

Day 6

Green

Start simple: gather together a few bags of stuff to take to your local charity shop. And not just the scraps, people – let’s give some good stuff away too!

Amber

Go back to your circles – who might need what you’ve got? This may take a little more thought and effort (e.g. sorting out bundles of kids’ clothes, digging out old tools, fixing an old bike ready for giving away, or wiping a laptop). Be intentional about what you give and to whom.

I didn’t do this challenge today. Not because it wasn’t achievable or because I didn’t want to but because we have already in a way been doing this.

If you read my blog regularly you will have seen that we’ve been reading The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying by Marie Kondo, Chris started reading it and got very excited. I’ve been trying to catch up. I think in the first few days we had already cleared out five or six bags of clothes or other items that we no longer needed.

Following The Konmari Method of tidying, is about tidying and clearing out in a specific way and order. Rather than tidying room by room, for example, you get out everything in one category and start with that. (For example, watch this video from Ali Brown)

So we started with clothes about a week and a bit ago, filling about 6-8 bin bags between us. That sounds sort of crazy but there are jumpers but that although I kept because I might wear them one day, I hadn’t honestly worn in over two years.

Having sorted the clothes we’ve realised that we don’t need as much storage as we do have so with some repacking I think we’re going to get rid of one of the chest of drawers but we need to unpack and repack everything but for nowwe’re working through the categories listed in the book.

I sorted some of Jaxon’s clothes at the weekend so they are going to go to some of our friends who have little boys fractionally younger than Jaxon. So that’s good we can pass on hand me downs.

Chris has moved onto paperwork which is after clothes and books. He’s been shredding older paperwork like bills and bank statements. I think some he found were pre-marriage so really weren’t needed any more.

These two bin bags arrived in the hall way last night after his latest mission moment for tidying.

I need to work on reading the book and figure out how I’m going to do the next steps, I think Chris is including my penpal letters, writing materials and craft stuff under paperwork, so I need to gather all my stuff together in one place and get it sorted now that could really be a challenge!

How did you do on yesterday’s challenge? 

40 Acts (Part 2 – Day 5)

40Acts - Doing Lent Generously

Day Five: Quiche?

I decided that this year would also be the one when I actively tried to take part in 40acts. I get the emails sent to me each Lent but often for one reason or another I don’t manage to do it. While Jaxon eats his breakfast in the morning I get reading the email so I can figure out how we can fit our day around the tasks for the day. 

Today’s Green Challenge

Cook for your friends or family tonight, and try to make sure everyone sits together to eat at the same time. Don’t rush the meal – enjoy each other’s company.

We try to eat together anyway when we can so Monday was already sort of in the diary as an “eat together” meal. It turned into a bit of a movie session too. On Sunday we had had family/household time and watched Gone in 60 Seconds (not really my cup of tea but I got on with crocheting in the corner). Following Monday’s dinner of Slimming World Turkey Burgers with Quinoa (or in my case left over rice from Sunday’s Chicken Tikka Skewers and rice) the boys put on The Fast and The Furious 7 (Again not my cup of tea but I was working and then crocheting so again it didn’t bother me so much!)I got to knitting yesterday with the best of intentions. I had a plan. Then it all went to pot. We walked a different route from town to the park and when I got to the park, I couldn’t find my phone. Those of you who know me, know that my phone is my right hand because of the amount of work I do on it (right now I’m writing this blog post while Jaxon plays but I know if I moved to the computer he’d be there trying to help me!).

So in a way I did complete the task but I had worked on a bonus so to speak. I got to knitting yesterday with the best of intentions. I had a plan. Then it all went to pot. We walked a different route from town to the park and when I got to the park, I couldn’t find my phone. Those of you who know me, know that my phone is my right hand because of the amount of work I do on it (right now I’m writing this blog post while Jaxon plays but I know if I moved to the computer he’d be there trying to help me!).

On a Monday morning, Jaxon and I catch the bus to Bedford Park and head for the Pavilion for Lemon and Ginger. This is a knitting group which has sort of expanding into a “if it’s something you can sensibly bring with you and do then bring it” group. I had a plan, there’s a lady there who is so welcoming and so kinda and caring, she’ll often chat to Jaxon and keep an eye on him when I got to get a drink or go to the toilet etc. I was going to buy her coffee for her. But I wanted to get there before her and pay for it so that it would be a surprise. But my plan didn’t work out. We walked a different route from town to the park as I thought it might be a nice change. When I got to the park I said to Jaxon that he could get out of the buggy and walk from where we were to the Pavilion, we didn’t really have the time as it was nearly 10:05 anyway but I tried to be calm, he was about to have to sit in a high chair for an hour or so, so burning off a bit of energy first would be a good idea. He was pottering along the path with me and I tried to find my phone to snap a picture of him to send ot the Grandparents, but my phone wasn’t there. Those of you know me, know that my phone is my right hand because of the work I do on it (As it happens the draft idea of this post was typed out on it while Jaxon was playing because I know if I move to the computer he’d be there trying to help me and it would frustrate me a whole heap!)

I check my coat, my jumper and the bags on the buggy. No sign of it anywhere. I’m panicking by this point. I’m trying to keep one eye on Jaxon while systematically check through my sewing bag, my handbag, my coat, my hoodie and things like that. I grab Jaxon and put him back in the buggy but in the crazy I caught his foot in the straps so not only was I now panicking about my phone. Jaxon is crying and I’m desperately trying to assess if I need to get him to medical assistance because I’ve done something bad (clearly I wouldn’t do this on purpose!) as well as trying to figure out, do I keep going to the Pavilion and get someone to ring my phone in case it’s still on the buggy or do I retrace my steps?

Well I decide to retrace my steps first. I had had it fairly recently so it wasn’t going to be far away, I sent up a prayer that God would help me find it – I’m sure he had some more important prayers to answer at that moment, but sometimes it’s those little ones that he answers.

Well we turned round and walked about 15-20 paces back around the park and there on the ground was my phone. OH MY WORD THANK YOU JESUS!

Now to sort Jaxon, I decide to head to the Pavilion, there would be enough Mums and Grandmas around the table that if I needed a second opinion before ringing my own mum in a flap there would be at least one or two to pick from. We got there and Jaxon and I were both in a state and sorting out the coffee just flew out of my mind.

The two ladies I was sat with were just amazing. Jaxon and I got settled in and had a cuddle. While I was sat there one of the ladies asked me would I like a drink, I explained where my purse was and she got me a drink even though I know walking and standing can be a challenge and there was a little queue at that point in time. Jaxon sat for 30-45 minutes having a cuddle on my lap which is completely crazy, he used to do it when he was younger but he normally has a quick cuddle and runs away again to do something else.

So yeah after all that I did sort of achieve the challenge when I got home but I had had intentions to do it in the morning before my sanity exited my body!

 

Did you achieve this challenge? What did you do?

Currently…15th February

I love these Currently prompts. They are used for Project Life and other scrapbooking projects but I think they work well for summarising my week.


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This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

Currently…Watching

I’ve been binge watching Doctor Who and Scandal. Scandal was about catching up. Shonda Rhimes has a thing about using actors across her different stories. The guy who plays Dr Charles Percy in Grey’s Anatomy then makes an appearance in Scandal. That’s not to mention all the others that pop up here and there.

Currently… Reading

We’re both started reading The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying by Marie Kondo. Chris has proper jumped in with both feet. This has meant he’s made several trips to the clothing bank collection near his work. He went to the recycling centre this weekend to drop off recycling. He’s then planning to spend most of the evenings this week working on shredding alot of old paperwork that he’s had for years and not needed.

Currently…Listening

I’ve had the radio on at home but not really been listening to music unless it’s been on the radio while I’ve been in the kitchen.

Currently…Feeling

I’m doing okay. There’s been some stuff going on around these parts. I don’t know if I’m just being silly and overreacting or if there is actually something that needs dealing with. Also feel kind of down because my friend Emma’s dog past away. Unexpectedly he passed away yesterday. I am sad that he’s gone and I’m sad that Emma and her husband are heartbroken. Until we had our Guinea Pigs and one of them passed away I genuinely didn’t get the link between people and pets. Isaac was a working dog rather than a pet so to speak but he was still part of the family and he will be really missed. You can read Emma’s blog post here.

Currently…Planning

I’m still working on my Bullet Journal – this is a Moleskine. I’m part of a group on Facebook about bullet journaling so just as I think I’ve got an idea of what I’m doing with it I decide to work on it in a different way but that’s the good thing about Bullet Journalling is that you can change it up and adapt it as you like until you find a way that works for you.

Bullet Journal 1

 

The postcard on the left hand side was sent to me by one of my penpals. The sticker is actually a book sticker from Rogan’s Books. The cartoon on the right hand came as part of the 2015 calendar from Simply Crochet. I’ve been cutting up the calendar and using the pictures although the calendar didn’t really work for me. Currently and TV Tracker

On the left hand page there is notes I made for my Currently post on the 25th January. On the other page, I have my TV tracker – it seemed like a good idea to write in all the seasons. Actually it probably would have made more sense to just to the current one. As you can see Grey’s Anatomy had a takeover bid on this page. I did this quick flick through all the other pages.

40Acts – Doing Lent Generously

40Acts - Doing Lent Generously

I decided that this year would also be the one when I actively tried to take part in 40acts. I get the emails sent to me each Lent but often for one reason or another I don’t manage to do it. While Jaxon eats his breakfast in the morning I get reading the email so I can figure out how we can fit our day around the tasks for the day. 

Lent 2016 kicked off on Wednesday after Shrove Tuesday. Chris was on top form and made Overnight Oats so that I could have Slimming World friendly pancakes, while he had gluten free ones and I think Our Sidekick had normal ones. We didn’t have any plain Mullerlight yoghurt (or equivalent) so I ended up with banana and custard flavoured Overnight Oats before putting any topping onto my pancakes. I spent some syns on chocolate spread as a couple of my pancakes did end up a little burnt. I added banana too so I had free food as well – all in all it was a good meal and we might have to have pancakes more often with a bit of planning.

I have been meaning to cut out Diet Cola and it’s not been working so I decided that I would pull my finger out and get on with it when Lent started. This didn’t start out quite right as I messed up on the first day (and then again at Community Group on Thursday) but on both days I did drink less than I usually have been doing so it was almost like a phase out rather than a cold turkey moment (it’s now almost midday on Saturday and I haven’t had any Diet Cola today even though there is a bottle in the kitchen right now).

I decided that this year would also be the one when I tried to take part in 40acts. I get the emails sent to me each Lent but often for one reason or another I don’t manage to do it. While Jaxon eats his breakfast in the morning I get reading the email so I can figure out how we can fit our day around the tasks for the day.

Day One (Wednesday 10th February)

Find a notepad and pen – sketch out your social circles: friends, family, colleagues, sports teams, church. Notice how they might overlap, or be completely disconnected. Stretch yourself – include the circles of people that you *could* plug into a little better, with more effort. Stick your doodle up somewhere in your house, as a reminder for the next 40days of the people God has placed into your life. They’re your opportunity to practise generosity

I started this one on Wednesday but even this was a bit of a challenge. I started but was struggling, not because I didn’t know the circles I’m part of but actually because there seems to be so many! It’s certainly something I probably need to sit down and work on some more – especially as, at the moment it’s still a sheet of rough scribbles.

Day Two (Thursday 11th February)

Grab some rubber gloves and a bin bag, and hit the streets for a community clean-up. If you want to get really fancy, you could even use separate bags for plastics and paper, and drop them off at your local recycling point when you’re done.

This one I actually did on Friday as Jaxon and I spent most of Thursday at home. On the way between our house and my Dad’s house (the route I walk is less than an a mile) before we both walked to Grandad’s house, I’d managed to fill a carrier bag nearly 3/4s full of rubbish. I collected a few more items on the way to Grandad’s house and then a few more on the way home again. In the end, my carrier bag was full. 

There were empty lager cans, energy drink cans, plastic bottles, cigarette boxes and some other bits of rubbish. In the past, I’ve witnessed people drop rubbish outside my house or post it into the bushes that people have along the front of their gardens and I have told people to come back and pick up their rubbish or have ran down the street after them and given their rubbish back to them. I would honestly prefer that they come up my driveway to put the rubbish in my household bin rather than them drop it on the pavement outside my house or post it into the conifers that are at the front of my garden. It upsets me how little respect people have for the world around them sometimes,

Day Three (Friday 12th February)

 Find an excuse to make a local connection today. Take a quick detour to a small local shop or, if the local supermarket is more your thing, take extra time at the checkout to connect with the person who serves you. Learn their name, ask them how they are, or simply thank them for their help. Try to remember their face for next time. In other words, plant a tiny seed of community today.

Where possible we try to use the loca corner shop rather than the two larger supermarkets near our house. 

I went into the shop on my way home from my Grandad’s but even though I’d skim read the task above I forgot to ask. I chatted to the lady in the shop and she spoke to Jaxon too but I forgot to ask her l, her name. So this one I will do again in the week coming.

Day Four (Saturday 13th February)
The task arrived in my inbox and while Jaxon ate his breakfast and the boys started on their respective missions for the day I sat and read the challenge. I wasn’t sure what to do so I settled on the Amber challenge. 

40acts is a community of over 75,000 people, and all of us have individual needs. Build community online today – find a fellow 40activist and see if they have a need you could meet.

I got chatting to a couple of people between Facebook and Twitter about their current needs. Today I’ve even praying for a lady who is doing the preach at her church tomorrow, I chatted to a lady from Swindon about homemade jam and marmalade and then to a young lady who was excited they her step (or could have been half brother) was joining in. 

The boys and I spent time sorting this out, tidying the house or hanging with Jaxon so I’m pretty sure that kind of counts as the green goal but I did complete the Amber one by my earlier conversations. 

This evening a friend of mine invited me to join a group that she’d made of people they are doing 40acts which is really cool. I think is coming together is a good thing and means we can encourage each other on. Yay!

Are you taking part in the 40acts challenge? What’s been your favourite so far? Did you have a least favourite? 

Jeans…

Jeans

Jeans from image above: (clockwise from top left)

High Waist Enhancer Boot Cut JeansBlue Vintage Straight JeansLift, Slim And Shape Boot Cut JeansRetro Blue Smithy Bootcut Jeans and Lift, Slim And Shape Boot Cut Jeans (Dark blue/Inky)

Before I was pregnant with Jaxon, I was still a size 16, I’d lost about half a stone having done Slimming World when I found out I was pregnant. By the Christmas rolled around, my size 16s were getting snug around the middle where my bump was growing but I was nowhere near needing maternity trousers yet.

Once Jaxon was born I stayed wearing my maternity trousers until I really had to give up, at which point I went back to my size 16s until I really needed to move down to size 14s. For a long time, I was at the point where I needed a size 15 because I couldn’t fit. I moved down to size 14 and the other weeks ago but have found that they are too big now. I’ve tried looking for a size 12 and that I like but they all seem to be ridiculously too long in the leg. I tweet to Tesco’s to find out why they are so long. The personal refers both to then we directed me to the petty sizes do you to the fact I am 5 ft 3 inches. However when I have looked at petite jeans in the past, they have usually been too short in the leg and have looked like I’m actually wearing cropped trousers instead of normal jeans.

Today while I was in town when I looked on various charity shops to see if I can find any that fit. The first pair that I found size 12 trousers that I liked the look of wouldn’t even do up. The second pair of jeans I tried on would do up but we’re far too long in the leg.

By yesterday, I was getting a bit desperate, I currently have three pairs of jeans. My usual pair is getting so grubby and so shredded at the bottom that they needed to be replaced. I switched to one of my other pairs to put my “favourite” pair in the wash, but they are so big that they keep falling down. I really need a pair of braces for them.  My favourites are from Next (via the Charity Shop) but are getting to the point that I’m going to have to cut off four inches of shredded denim from the bottoms because I’m too short for Next regular jeans. (They have a leg length of 32 inches according to their size guide – my legs are 27 inches). I had a second pair of size 14 jeans that I got from the charity shop a while ago but they are actually so big around the waist now that I need a pair of braces to hold them up! On my way home from town I popped into the supermarket, I figured I would try on a pair of jeggings because if needed I could wear long tops and do that until I’m into the next size properly. Although they were comfortable around the waist, they were so tight in the calves/ankles that I would have had to wear them with my boots instead of my trainers. Now I near enough live in my trainers so my jeans need to go with my footwear rather than my footwear going with my jeans.

I had previously seen a blog spot about the inconsistencies between different brands that one size across the different brands can come up so differently. (That particular post was by Iona St. Joseph you can find her website here).

I certainly agreed with her with regards to Primark clothes coming up small. I’ve had to buy 18/20 T-shirts because a 14/16 doesn’t fit. When I was pregnant I bought some Size 18 T-Shirts from Primark and they had enough extra fabric in them to cover my bump rather than me spend out extra on maternity shirts. I bought a jumper in Tesco once, it was a Size 18 and I thought it would be baggy, it actually came up so tight that it kept riding up.

This post started about my clothes but as I’ve been writing it I’ve noticed that even Jaxon’s clothes aren’t really matching up size wise. He’s now almost 19 months and today he’s gone for a nap in a 2-3-year-old shirt and has a pair of 4-5-year-old pyjamas that although they are long in the leg the shirt is snug. He’s not overweight, he’s not particualry tall for his age (or at least I don’t think he is) and yet his clothes can be different depending on which shop I purchased them from. 

Then you’ve got Our Sidekick who is very tall and skinny. He has trouble finding clothes that are thin enough round the waist not to fall down bit long enough in the leg so he doesn’t look like he’s wearing shorts. 

Why can’t there be a universal sizing chart or something like that? Don’t even get me started on the differences in styles between girls and boys either! 

Currently…8th February

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This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

Currently…Watching
The thing with Netflix is that it’s a rabbit hole, I’ve been crocheting a lot this week and so had the TV in the background. I finished Glee and I’m up to date on a couple of shows so I went back to working my way through Doctor Who. I got an email this week to say that How I Met Your Mother Season 9 was now on Netflix which opened up another series to start from the beginning again. I realised yesterday evening that I’m behind on Scandal. I thought I was only a couple of episodes but actually it’s a bunch. Thankfully they seem to have toned down Season 4, so it’s a 15 rating rather than an 18 which makes it a little easier to watch once Jaxon is in bed but Our Sidekick is still pottering around.

Currently… Reading
I’ve finished 11 Doctors, 11 Stories. They were enjoyable and good. I struggled with the anachronisms like what is supposed to be William Hartnell’s Doctor talking about the Internet or one of the other Doctors referring to Twitter (that could have been after Christopher Eccleston so it’s not so much of an anachronism).

We’re now starting The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying by Marie Kondo. I bought it a while ago after hearing Ali Brown talk about it on her YouTube channel. I hadn’t got as far as reading it as I had got distracted by other bits. Yesterday evening, Chris read the sample and decided that he was going to buy the book. I explained I already had it and signed him into my Kindle account. He’s now attempting to read up to the bit about cleaning out your clothes – we have washing to go away but we can’t really start it until he’s figured out what order we need to do it in.

Currently…Listening
Not so much music this week. I’ve had radio on a couple of times but that’s been background noise a lot of the time.

Currently…Feeling
I’m doing okay. We’ve had a couple of short disagreements this week but they’ve been where we haven’t communicated or understood what’s been happening and if we’d have just slowed down a bit or phrased it better wouldn’t have fallen out.

Currently…Planning
I am absolutely loving my Lyradori. I have some spare elastic so going to attempt to steal my red Moleskine in temporarily. I’m trying to decide on what to do next when my book runs out. I can either get another one in this size and continue to use it in my Lyradori or I need to find someone who does thick inserts that would work in it’s place. Complicated isn’t it! However I am sticking with Bullet journalling for sure. I did see a nice diary that would work as an insert so I am tempted to get it today while I’m in town if it’s still there.

How do you keep track of your appointments and things like that? Do you have a Filofax? 

Currently…1st February

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This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

Currently…Watching
Too much TV! I’m sure it can’t be that good for me! It’s seriously not good! Part of me keeps saying that once the weather is warmer, we’ll spend more time outside and therefore it won’t be so bad! So I finished watching Season 5 of The Good Wife just in time for Season 6 to start on More4. Glee had been added to NowTV so I worked my way through what I hadn’t seen of that (I’m down to the last twenty minutes ish of the last episode of the last season!). I’ve been watching Madam Secretary too and Season Two has just started so I’m all up to date on that one as well!

Currently… Reading
I’ve got a bit further with 11 Doctors, 11 Stories. I’m up to The Eighth Doctor now – I think he causes upset with some Whovians because he doesn’t entirely fit in the canon of the Doctors. Paul McGann played the Eighth Doctor and he’s the only film Doctor all the others only appeared on TV. 

Currently…Listening
Mainly worship music – I did listen to Les Miserables on my Solo Date on Tuesday. I had On Parole/The Bishop playing fairly loud as I drove down the bypass. 

Currently…Feeling
Better, at the beginning of the week I was feeling a bit tense, in Tuesday I had a last minute Solo Date. It was only an hour or so out of the house but it was good not to have Jaxon glued to my side for a little while. 

Currently…Planning
I bought a Lyradori at the beginning of last week. I sort of hadn’t plan to and then did. It would normally have inserts like my Midori but I’ve started using it as a sort of notebook cover for my Bullet Journal which is in a hardback Moleskine. I had an idea of how to strap it in temporarily but I need to sit down and try it to see if it works. 

Currently…25th January 

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This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. Have a good week!

It’s the last Monday in January already!! Where did this month go? Already one twelfth through the year! 

Currently…Watching
I finished the Harry Potter series. There was something quite poignant while watching those last Snape scenes. I love how Maggie Smith as Professor McGonagal doesn’t take any rubbish from anyone in the Battle for Hogwarts bit. She’s like “if I’m going down then I’m going down fighting” and just kicks butt. While filming Harry Potter and The Half Blood Prince she continued to film even though she was going through treatment for Breast Cancer. 
Between Pretty Little Liars, The Good Wife and Call The Midwife, I’m well stocked for TV at the moment to watch, although I do spend chunks of the week watching Thomas and Friends. I’m beginning to think that it has to be my specialist subject on Mastermind! 


Currently… Reading

I’ve been working on 11 Doctors, 11 Stories but it’s still in progress. I also received a couple more books from NetGalley so I need to get on with the reading and stop getting distracted reading comments on FB about Bullet Journalling and general Planner Addiction. 

Currently…Listening
I’ve been sort of attempting to experiment in a way. I love music. I love all sorts. I love operatic pieces like O Mio Babbino Caro (Bambino and Babbino are not the same lol. Bambino is baby and Babbino is father – where Papa is like Dad) and O Sole Mio. My favourite has to be Nessun Dorma, it’s those last notes that whoever is singing has to hit. Although having said that for a long time I really liked The March of The Hebrew Slaves from Nabucco by Verdi. I think we sung it in choir or something like that and it just stuck with me. Anyway back to the thing I’m trialling. So I decided to try and focus on the idea that I would listen to worship music as much as I could rather than putting on whatever I fancied from the rest of the stuff I listen to. 

Currently…Feeling
Excited! My lovely friend Ashley of Hello Nature has announced she’s going to be a Mummy. Yay!! There’s also lots going on, on the church front which has mixed emotions tied to it but that’s all something for another day as some bits are still being sorted. 

Currently…Planning
I think I might have a system of sorts coming together. I’m sticking with my bullet journal in a red Moleskine for now. I have a sort of Plan B that I might bring in soon but it’s just a pipeline idea. 

  

2016 Goals: Stashbusting Blanket & OneLittleWord

There’s a lot going on around these parts at the moment.

Christmas has finished and is almost (!) packed away (the tree got missed when Chris was in the loft so it ended up living on the landing for now).

Mum and I (with help from Dad) got my birthday invites made this weekend, even though Mum and I have been discussing them for weeks already! With help from Mum and Chris they are being distributed. Mum took the ones for my Uncle and Aunt and my Grandparents as she was visiting them or seeing them at church this weekend. Chris took a handful to church on Sunday and I’ll take the remainders next weekend as I’m on creche.  It is really early to be distributing invites as my birthday isn’t until the end of April but with the party being on the Bank Holiday weekend, we figured it would be good to invite people in case they were planning other things for the long weekend.

There’s a bunch going on with church  bits and pieces – some good, some not so good. And I guess with all this comes to the stash busting blanket.

The preaches at one church we have visited recently have been from the Elders and where they feel their patch is with God, but also the overall Vision for the church in 2016 from the Lead Elder.

One of these preaches the title was “Simplify”.

I’ve been wondering about a word for the year for about three or four weeks now – people keep discussing about the One Word thing and I just keep pondering over what mine would be, for ages I had just about settled on Thrive or Thriving because by the end of last year I really felt like I was just surviving through bunch of things rather than thriving. But actually I think I’ve found my word for this year. I think it’s Simplify.

  
I guess in a way it had actually started before Christmas when Chris and I had a massive claret and sent off, gave away and sold books and DVDs. We even sold the shelves that held my DVDs. I did a pre-Christmas clear out of Jaxon’s toys although I might have to do more of a clean out now.

So…this is where the stash busing blanket comes in properly. I’ve been knitting and crocheting for ages, I can go to Hobbycraft or Tudor Rose and buy a ball of wool even if I don’t really need it, to the point that I have at least 2 if not 3 storage boxes full of wool. Technically this is the second stash busting blanket I’ve got on the go but they both have the same purpose so for now we’ll stick on this one.

  
I started crocheting my way through a bunch of odd balls and started to form them into squares like this. I hadn’t sewn them together and still was debating what to do with them. So I decided enough was enough and I’d start sewing them together. If you look closely you’ll see that some are surrounded with cream and some are white – this was because I ran out of cream but even though I could have gone and bought some I rearranged the squares so that the ones right in the middle will have cream round the outside and the rest will have white – it might look like it’s wrong but given the purpose of the blanket I think it will pass!

This blanket is going to go on our bed upstairs instead of the fleece blankets we currently have on the bed – Chris will probably complain that we have an extra layer on the bed but I think he’ll also see the benefit of not having so much wool in the house! Bring on the crochet!

Currently…18th January

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This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. You can get all sorts of You can find that here. Have a good week!

Currently… Watching
The Post-Christmas Harry Potter revision continued this week with watching more of the films. I’ve now finished up to The Deathly Hallows Part 1. I started Part 2 yesterday afternoon while Jaxon was napping and then had to switch it off once he was up again because there’s a lot of dramatic bits in that last one so I thought I’d wait until his nap today (although I don’t think I’ll get there right now as I really need to focus on a couple of tasks like this post and a guest post for another website).

Currently… Reading
I’ve been reading Harry Potter and The Philosopher’s Stone but I am also working on clearing my Currently Reading list on Goodreads. This means rather than starting As Always, Julia or Saving Bletchley Park, I’m reading Doctor Who: 11 Doctors, 11 Stories. I managed to read the whole of The Fourth Doctor story yesterday and hoping to get through The Fifth Doctor by the end of the week.

Currently…Listening
Following the news of David Bowie passing away at the beginning of last week I had Life on Mars and Let’s Dance on repeat running through my head so I didn’t really need music playing. I did play them a couple of times too. One of my favourite version of Life on Mars was the cover that G4 did but has to be said I also like this one by Patrick from Fall Out Boy. When I was listening to other music it tended to be worship music either on my iPhone or UCB Media playing on the radio.

Currently… Feeling
All sort of jumbled really. This last week was such a jumble of emotions that it seems to have flown by and I really feel like I didn’t achieve what I needed to get done along the way.

Currently… Planning
My systems are just not working. When I wrote the notes for this post I had one plan but now I’m on another. I’m using my fire engine red Moleskine as a Bullet Journal including daily bits. Then I’ve got my Midori for a journal of sorts then I’ve got a smaller ZLYC Passport Size Midori style notebook that I’m now setting up. I thought about using it as a day to day diary and notebook to carry with me but I’m still not 100% sure that will work and if I’m overcomplicating life instead of simplifying it.

Daily Post: Learning Style

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Today I’m joining in with The Daily Post from WordPress.

You can see other posts written on today’s topic here.

What’s your learning style? Do you prefer learning in a group and in an interactive setting? Or one-on-one? Do you retain information best through lectures, or visuals, or simply by reading books?

When Chris was doing his youth work degree, he studied a lot about learning styles. He would then come home and try to analyse me. One of the styles he looked at involved Concrete, Abstract, Random and Sequential learning styles. He decided he was a concrete learner while he thought I was an Abstract learner.  We came to the conclusion that although I’m probably an abstract random learner rather than a Concrete Sequential learner. I love lists so try to do things sequentially. For example, you load the dishwasher first. Then you’re only hand washing the things that can’t go in the dishwasher.

I think I’m a doer when it comes to learning things. If there was a problem with the car and gave me a Haynes manual, I would try to fix the car. But I would want to be hands on rather than reading about it. When it comes to knitting and crochet, I want to give it a go at the same time as learning how to do it. I think it sticks better that way. I can read something and think I can do it in theory but the practice can be a whole other thing. I can trampoline, I know I can bounce up and down and do some routines but I can’t do a back somersault – although I do know the theory of “How To Do a Back Somersault”. I think I prefer learning in a group setting because you can share information. I’ve been to craft workshops in the past and they have worked that the Tutor has shown you at the front what the task is then as you get on with it they walk around the room and help you on a one to one basis.

I love reading books, both fiction and non-fiction. I love baking cakes and recipes from books – I tend to get a bit pedantic about the recipe needing specific ingredients whereas Chris who tends to be more Concrete just passes me an alternative and tells me to get on with it!

When it comes to preaches at church I often prefer ones with PowerPoints because I keep track of where we are up to. I also like preaches that have stories of real world applications or stories that are relevant to the message being given. One of the guys who speaks at church nearly always using a clip from a film or TV show in his preach. He’s used Star Wars and Lord of The Rings (and they are just the ones I can remember off the top of my head!). We did a series years ago in Kids Work that used Star Wars clips in it. There was the idea that like Anakin had to pick between the Dark Side and being a Jedi we have to choose between following Jesus and not.

Currently…11th January

Curretnly - 11th JanuaryThis post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. You can get all sorts of You can find that here. Have a good week!

Currently… Watching
After Jaxon loving The Sound of Music the other week I figured we’d try out some old musicals too and NowTV must have been on the same path because they’ve got a playlist of musicals at the moment. Some aren’t necessarily Jaxon appropriate but we did try The King and I. I’d forgotten how random it is in places.

Currently… Reading I finished Code by Kathy and Brendan Reichs this week. It was very good although one aspect of the story was bugging me although it’s possible that’s resolved in the next book which I need to add to my WishList. I still have As Always, Julia and Saving Bletchley Park to read at some point. I’ve also started Harry Potter and The Philosopher’s Stone (although for some reason the version I have is the American one so technically it’s Sorcerer’s Stone instead. Just have to remember to ignore the “typos” lol).

Books

Currently…Listening I’ve been trying to listen to more worship music when I can. There’s a lot going on at the moment with regards to church and things like that. Since the beginning of December I’ve been trying to read my bible more and get more bedded down into God’s word. In the last few days I’ve thinking more about how my Social Media accounts and my blog need to be going for God just as much as I am trying to do. So right now I am listening to Ali Brown talk about her Spiritual TN Setup. She’s a lovely Christian lady living in the US and her and her hubby (nicknamed Bathtub Man!) serving God which is super cool.

Currently… Feeling
Today was horrible. This morning was great with the knitting group then I came home via town and I missed the bus so then I had to wait for the next one which was getting closer and closer to when I needed to go out again. Jaxon and I then went to a funeral, I helped out at the wake while my Dad looked after Jaxon. I got home and I was exhausted. I got Jaxon fed and then into bed and then I just flopped. I sat in front of the TV and then decided that I just had to get into bed and snuggle down. There’s a prayer meeting later this week and Chris has organised babysitting etc so that I can go. Well for a long time I’d avoid prayer meetings – sometimes not intentional and other times I just wouldn’t write them in my diary (I know how rubbish!). I’m a little nervous about going but I think it’ll be okay and I should just do it.

Currently… Planning
Oh this is driving me crazy, I just thought I was settled into the Moleskine only to then get itchy feet again so to speak. so I have no clue what I’m doing. I think I moving to my TN and staying there for now. I just need to get sorted and stop faffing about lol.

Wild Nights By Phoebe Smith

Wild Nights by Phoebe Smith

I won this book in a Twitter competition towards the end of last year. This post has been sat in my drafts as I always meant to complete it but in between everything it didn’t happen.

I was determined not to read it while I finished another book that I was reading but then while I was sorting Jaxon for bed and giving him his bedtime feed I picked it up and started reading. What a silly thing to do!

It’s not until we push ourselves past our perceived limits, till we feel so cold and so tired that we feel we can’t go on any further, that we discover what we are truly capable of…

Britain’s most famous wild camper and best-selling author of Extreme Sleeps, Phoebe Smith, is back. After bivvying under boulders and camping in caves on her last tent-bound adventure, she’s decided to hit the UK’s wild places once again but this time take it further. Determined to discover what defines a truly ‘extreme’ night out, and see if she has the guts to do it, she heads to the extremities of the country.

Battling whiteouts in Wales, facing monster waves in Suffolk and attempting to make camp in gale-force winds on Britain’s highest mountain, Phoebe takes us on a series of inspirational expeditions into the wilderness as she quests to find the ultimate pitch.

Now I grew up caravanning, I used to sleep in the bunk inside the caravan until I was a teenager and then I started sleeping in the tent outside the caravan that was part of the awning. Since being married to Chris, we’ve been going camping more frequently. We’ve done hotel/B&B holidays and although they are lovely there is something about camping that I do love. 

We’ve camped all over the place, before we were married we went camping in Corcieux in France. At the same altitude in the German side of the mountain we were in, there was snow on the ground even though it was May/June. I even dreamt that I woke up one morning to inches of snow on the ground (in my dream the tent was lovely and warm and we didn’t even notice that the temperature has dropped that far outside. 

When Chris did Land’s End to Kohn O’Groats we camped in some really cool places. Our first proper night on the road, our campsite was in part of Bodmin Moor. Then a couple of days later we were camping near Glastonbury Tor. In fact we went out for dinner rather than having camping food at the tent. When we got back it was getting dark, the Tor against the night sky and the way it looked over the campsite was like something out or Lord of the Rings or The Hobbit. 

We most recently took both boys camping in the Yorkshire Dales. We were staying on a working farm that had a small “paddock” assigned to being a campsite. Our tent was really close to the wall of the paddock so we often heard the sheep and the horse that lived in the field next door. On one occasion we had a visit from the farm’s sheepdog. Our Sidekick loved that. Jaxon is like his daddy and loves being outside so when he had the freedom to roam in and out of the tent he did. Don’t panic one of us were with him while he was roaming. 

Wild Camping would be a little bit of challenge for us because of having Jaxon along with us but just getting out and camping normally is an adventure and I love it (more than I hate it lol). 

You can find Wild Nights on Amazon Here

Do you love or hate camping? Are you a hotel holiday maker? Have you had any crazy/fun/different experiences while camping? 

Currently – 4th January

Currently - 4th January This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. You can get all sorts of You can find that here. Have a good week!

Currently… Watching Mainly spent the last two weeks ish working my way through as many Christmas films as I could manage. Well there’s only a limited window of opportunity for Christmas films so need to get them squished in as quick as possible. I discovered today that NowTV have a featured list of Musicals so I watched Mamma Mia today while curled up not the sofa crocheting as I wasn’t feeling great. I then watched Harry Potter and The Philosopher’s Stone. We played Harry Potter Trivial Pursuit with my cousin at Christmas and I realised how rusty I was so thought if I start revising now hopefully by my birthday we’ll be ready for a rematch!

Currently… Reading I signed into my Goodreads account about a week before Christmas and realised that I was less than half way through my GoodReads Challenge for 2015. So when the sign up opened for 2016 I decided that I would start a fresh and get on with it. I meant to finish the books that I had already started but when I was given books for Christmas it didn’t happen that way. At the moment I am working through Code by Kathy and Brendan Reichs. I then have As Always, Julia and Saving Bletchley Park to read.

Currently…Listening Chris has got Made in Dagenham playing on the TV. I was taking part in a Twitter Chat so weren’t really paying attention to it but am listening to it now. I love Bob Hoskin’s character in the way that he’s all for girl power!

Rita O’Grady: What I don’t get is why it’s so important to you. Albert Passingham: I got brought up by my mum. Me and me brothers. She worked all her life. And she paid my aunt Lil to take care of us during the day. And it was hard, especially as she was getting less than half than what the blokes at the factory was getting, for doing the same work. And there was never any question that it could be any different. Not for her. Someone has got stop these exploiting b***ards getting away with what they’ve been doing for years. And you can, you can, Rita, believe me.

Currently… Making The secret granny squares are all completed now so I’m back on my own projects. I discovered a pattern that works for hexagons so I got started and have made something like 40 hexagons since Christmas. I’ve had this wool in my stash in various different colours since going on maternity leave with Jaxon, so now I’ve found a pattern I like I’m doing my best to churn out the hexagons and create something with them. Hopefully it’ll work.

New year and continuing a new project. #hexagons #crochet #hannahmakesthings

A photo posted by Hannah J (@hannahjblogs) on

Currently… Feeling I was feeling better but then in the last couple of days I’ve gone down with a cold-flu bug thing. Hoping to kick it sooner rather than later so that I can get 2016 started properly. I’ve been avoiding writing a resolution list but I think I am going to write a goals list of things I want to achieve by my birthday in April as well as what I want to achieve by the end of the year. I can do this so I guess as well as feeling ill I am feeling determined to get stuff done.

Currently… Planning I’ve moved back to a Moleskine notebook properly now. I got my A5 Filofax back off the shelf while I work my way through Kirsten’s Epic Free Blog Planner. Yes Free! Indeedy! Take a look here. But it’s printed out slightly smaller than A5 so I might be able to cut the page down and stick it into my Moleskine as I work my way through it – after all my Bullet Journal is MINE. It doesn’t need to conform to rules. Take a look at Miss Zoot’s Bullet Journal Joy Blog and Bullet Journal, if you want more information.

The epic goals guide and annual review

Happy New Year, Let’s Start Here

Happy New Year

In November I had attempted to do NaBloPoMo but between one thing and another, procrastination and other more urgent things took priority. I’ve decided that I’m going to attempt to get something out there into “the wild” at least once a week even if it’s some random rambles or a pre-made format like the Currently posts on a Monday. 

So for now Happy New Year! How are you doing? 

New Year’s Eve was always going to be a quiet one at home. Jaxon didn’t nap properly during the afternoon so when dinner happened to finish early we tried to get him to bed a little earlier too. We got our new lovely shiny car and so did lots of errands and visiting family members. This worked well in theory but there were some very loud fireworks being set off near us that also woke Jaxon up and each time it happened he wasn’t settling. At one point I was lying on our bed with him curled up with his head on my chest or tummy and him snuggled in as tight as possible. I ended up watching a documentary with my headphone in one ear and it turned down on the lowest brightness setting so that it wouldn’t disturb Jaxon. He eventually properly went to sleep around 1am and was out for the rest of the night. 

I ended up wishing Chris and Our Sidekick Happy New Year from the landing when Jaxon had woken up again and I tried to move him to his cot. 

New Year’s Day was spent with the boys in the morning then in the afternoon, there was a family gathering at Mum’s house. Grandma didn’t come in the end as she’s got a cold and was feeling rotten but there was still a full house. My mum does a buffet style tea so we grab what we’d like and then find a chair or a patch of carpet to get comfy on. Chris was on Jaxon duty so I ended up sat in the other room with my cousins. 

Following tea we had fireworks in the garden then we put Jaxon to bed in his travel cot. We borrowed my Mum’s iPad which played one of the Thomas and Friends movies so that even if Jaxon wasn’t properly asleep he was at least resting and might doze off. He seemed to settle pretty quickly so I think once he’d got comfy and watched the movie he dozed off. 

We played a board game called Tension which I really liked. It was a bit like Family Fortunes in the sense you were given a category and you had to name things in that category but you only got points if they appeared on the card. My brother’s team got “Doctor Who Actors” well my brother managed to name all of the ones listed but also ones that weren’t listed like John Hurt and Paul McGann. We had some tough ones like “Shakespeare Plays” I think we got 8 out of the 10 and then we had Kings and Queens – again I think we were on 7 or 8 but there’s such a wide range to pick from that you end up with a bunch of wrong answers for one or two correct ones. 

After that game we played Harry Potter Trivial Pursuit. It was very hard, some questions were a real test of what you may or may not know from the stories but not only that they were specific to the film versions rather than the book versions so a question that might apply to both is fine but sometimes you’d had something that happened in the film but wasn’t in the books. I said to my cousin that I need to watch the films and read the books again before my birthday in April where we’ll have a rematch. 

We’re now home having had a lovely time and I really need to be heading to bed. 

How did you celebrate your New Year’s Eve? Did you spend with friends, family or a mix of both? Did you stay home, go to a party or have a crazy adventure? 

Christmas is Coming…and Friends are Coming Home.

Christmas

It’s coming on Christmas, they’re cutting down trees. Do you know that Joni Mitchell song? “I wish I had a river I could skate away on?” It’s such a sad song, and not really about Christmas at all, but I was thinking about it tonight as I was decorating my Christmas tree and unwrapping funky ornaments made of Popsicle sticks, and missing my mother so much I almost couldn’t breathe.

Kathleen Kelly, You’ve Got Mail

There’s certain films that link to certain feelings. Mum and I will often watch The American President while doing craft stuff around her dining room table. I imagine come March next year we’ll be watching it while making my birthday party invites. One of the Twilight films was the first one that Our Sidekick and I saw at the cinema together and although it’s not one I’d sit down and just watch because I wanted a movie to see it still has that place in my heart so to speak. The opening speech to Love Actually always comes back to me around September 11, it makes me think of the fact that no matter what has happened those people at the arrivals gate are so pleased so see their loved ones and that those messages left on voicemails all over the place were messages of love not hate. Then there’s Christmas and although I love Christmas movies and could watch ones like It’s A Wonderful Life, over and over again until I can quote them the one that comes to me around this time is You’ve Got Mail.

One of my besties is currently in New York working at Columbia University and I am soo unbelievably proud of all that she’s achieved since we left school. She lives near Riverside Gardens which appears at the end of the film and we talk that when I end up in New York she’s taking me for coffee at the cafe that Joe and Kathleen are supposed to meet in but don’t in a way – if you haven’t seen it you have to see it and then it will all make sense. But each time it’s nearly time for her to come home for Christmas I end up watching You’ve Got Mail (or if I’ve been rubbish I watch it the night before we’re due for our catch up!). She’s due to get her flight in less than 24 hours and so I’m just a bit excited to see her.

Anyway, I’m sat here listening to Christmas music and doing work and thinking about what else is happening in the next week or so until Christmas and then I got thinking about past Christmases. I got thinking about Grandma. Each Christmas as we grew up Grandad and her would come and see Richard and I in the Sunday School Nativity. They’d squeeze in to what was nearly always a packed chapel and they’d sit there beaming – the proud grandparents.   We’d finish the service and we’d get the tightest proudest hugs ever.

As we got older and were no longer part of the Sunday School they would still come to the carol service but our roles all changed. Richard would help with sound or the words as was needed. I’d be out in the kitchen making cups of tea and serving mince pies.

Grandma would come and help me in the kitchen with the crazy amount of washing up that there would be. We would put the world to rights while stood there doing what we needed to.

In 2008 she had a stroke and passed away the same day. It was about 2 or 3 weeks after the Harvest Supper at Chapel and we’d stood in the kitchen at Chapel and had done our usual update. I can’t remember what we talked about but I’m guessing it was how work was going and how Chris was and those kind of things. She’d tell me stories about Dad when he was younger and usually they made me laugh heartily. Then she was gone, unexpectedly just like that.

But why am I reminiscing? Why the quote from You’ve Got Mail? Because yes I think about her everyday, some days it’s so hard. Two Christmases ago we would have talked about expecting Jaxon and how he’d be her first Great Grandchild, she’d probably have got out her knitting needles and would have had the first project completed by my next scan in February. I imagine she’d have been bursting with pride and telling anyone and everyone that she was going to be a great grandparent (and they’d probably comment how she didn’t seem old enough to be a g-g-parent). I imagine that when we’d have seen each other she’d have talked to the bump even if it was the middle of the street and there were people watching – she wouldn’t have cared. I imagine that she’d have been round for cuddles that first week I was home from hospital and she’d pop in for a cuppa every week or two for her latest Jaxon update. I imagine that she’d be sat in her favourite comfortable chair with her knitting pattern next to her and now she has two great grandsons she would be knitting like a crazy lady knocking out the latest Great Grandma creation for Christmas presents or just because she felt like it. It was Jaxon this and Baby TT that, she’d just be so proud and so excited.

At silly as it might seem I wanted to type this out. I think I’ve got bogged down in what’s good enough to post – so each week there are less and less posts because I’m not sure they are good enough. But I decided to go back to my roots so to speak. Open a browser or a word document and beat it out. Let’s do it, let’s spread what’s going on in my heart and my brain.

Currently – 7th December

Currently Colours

This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. You can get all sorts of You can find that here. Have a good week!

Currently… Watching
Grey’s Anatomy – I’ve watched almost from the beginning all the way up to Cristina leaving. So I have one more season and about five days to watch it before the new episodes start this week on TV.

SuperGirl – Love it! Funny that Chyler Leigh plays SuperGirl’s foster (adopted?) sister – oh and Dean Cain who played Superman in The New Adventures of Superman plays Superman and SuperGirl’s “foster” Dad.

Scorpion – Season Two is currently airing – Sly and Meghan are super cute but I’ve got the feeling that it’s not going to end happily. Walter and Paige are also very sweet together but just need to stop skirting round the subject lol.

On YouTube I’ve been watching Mrs Brimbles and Ali Brown. Loving all the planning videos – unfortunately I’m so indecisive that I still don’t know what I’m doing.

Currently… Reading
I’ve been rubbish at reading books recently. According to Goodreads, I’ve read 13 out of 25 this year which means I’m ten behind schedule for the Goodreads Reading Challenge this year. I have ten partly read on my currently reading list. So I have that eternal debate: Do I start a new book or try and complete ones that I have outstanding”. (Two of the outstanding are over 500 pages each so will really need to get a pedal on to complete those).

Currently…Listening
Currently as I write this in draft form Chris is making dinner and the radio is playing Write Your Story by Francesca Battistelli.

My life, I know it’s never really been mine
So do with it whatever you like
I don’t know what your plan is
But I know it’s good.

Other than that I’ve been listening to the dialogue on Thomas and Friends while doing chores around the kitchen. I’ve been trying to get a chores list together to get the house ready for Christmas before we put the decorations up. Some is easier than others lol.  (I kept singing the theme song from Blue Mountain Mystery too which amused Jaxon lol. It vaguely sounds like Status Quo which is probably why it’s stuck in my head!).

Currently… Making
I’ve been working on more granny squares for the secret project as well as knitting a scarf with the wool that I received from Cosywool. This is the video that I posted on YouTube.

Currently… Feeling
Mixed really. I’ve had a sore throat which has meant that some mornings I’ve woken up with absolutely no voice and it’s taken a big glass of water or a coughing fit to get my voice started. I’m also trying to get organised for Christmas, I was feeling a bit stressed that there were a couple of less days and I’d made no progress. Last year I got so worked up about making sure that Christmas was right that I sat in my Mum’s dining room and burst into tears because I just wasn’t coping so well (Looking back I did wonder if this was some variation of PND – I’m not 100% but I’m feeling better now). I think now I’ve sorted the kitchen and Jaxon’s toys I feel a little more in control Next up is getting the toys to good homes. I’m probably going to take them to the charity shop but I did send a message round some mummy friends of mine to see if they’d like them. So far a couple of items have been adopted.

Currently… Planning
After discovering Midori Traveler’s Notebooks in the summer I was hooked. I mean absolutely hooked! But before that there was the Bullet Journal. I’m not quite sure how it’s happened but I’m back into the Bullet Journal method of planning and although it can be done in the Midori Notebook something about it just works better in a Moleskine (like this or this). I was clearing out under the bed and found that I’d got three of these notebooks on the go so have decided at least for now that I’m going to do day to day to do lists etc in the Moleskine and keep my Traveler’s Notebook for journalling. (Add to this that I bought an A5 Filofax for Work/Christmas Planning in the mix too and I really don’t know which works for me best. A5 is heavy but Personal would be another one to debate with). So I think I have a plan for now. I have an insert from Stilo Papers arriving in about two or three weeks. I won it in a competition but the shipping to the UK was getting on for nearly $10 so I asked nicely if they would ship to Brains who is currently working in NY and would be coming home for Christmas so that’s sort of exciting (although seeing Brains is twice as exciting!)

Dot Grid Notebooks by Stilo Papers

Wreath Making Workshop with Forever Flowers 

Adventures
Bedford seems to be blessed with a couple of lovely helpful florists. One of my favourites has to be Karen and Liam at Forever Flowers in Chiltern Avenue. Back in about May, Mum and I went to see Karen about balloons for Jaxon’s birthday and then on results day I popped by their “old” shop for a bunch of flowers for my “Little Sister” (who blew her exams out of the water!), each time I’ve been to see them Karen and Liam have always been really helpful and friendly.

About a week or so ago, Mum asked me if I wanted to do a wreath making workshop with Karen at Forever Flowers. Now this probably falls in the same realm as one of those things that I’ve always wanted to do but never knew that I wanted to do it but also fallen in that realm as flower arranging in that I’ve wanted to do it but not necessarily had the opportunity to. Had Mum not suggested it, this would have probably been a normal Saturday and I would have just hung out with the boys. Instead Mum and I headed to the shop and were both very excited about what the afternoon held.

First up we had to cover our metal frame in moss. This works as the base to attach all your branches into. It is a messy job and it certainly messes up your hands and your nails but it is good fun! The green twine holds it all in place while you do the next bits.  You have to make sure it’s nice and tight. At each stage Karen kept round to check that it was tight enough or that we’d got the bits in the right place. On this particular stage she would also point out where we needed moss, where it needed to be tighter and things like that.

There were three different lengths of branches to use depending on which bit of the wreath we were doing. The biggest bits lie across the front of the wreath, with the smaller bits going in the middle and then the middle sized pieces going around the outside if needed. We also covered the back with this plastic tape that would stop the wreath scratching the door or wall when it’s hung up.

After pinning the tape into position, we then added the branches. We started with then bigger ones on the front of the wreath, followed by ones on the inside and outside. Before adding the branches, Karen taught us how to wire them and then how to attach them to the rest of the wreath.
My Wreath and I

Of course we had to have our photos taken with our completed wreaths. I loved the silver finishes. We had a lovely time and were made to feel so welcome.

Caught in the act!

Oops! Caught in the act! I was snapping pictures and posting them on Instagram and Facebook as we went along. As you do!

You can see Forever Flower’s website here and their Facebook Page here

Currently – 23rd November
Blog Every Day in November

Blog Every Day in November is a blogging challenge for you to write and publish a blog post every day for the entire month of November. It’s as simple as that. The prompts were set by Elizabeth.

Blog Every Day in November
Currently Colours

This post was originally started using the Currently prompt from RUKristin. You can get all sorts of You can find that here. Have a good week!

Currently… Watching
I’ve almost finished watching Grey’s Anatomy just in time for Season 12 to start in December (According to GeekTown). I’d been looking for Christmas films on Netflix and NowTV and ended up finding a new TV Series called Scorpion. It’s like Abby from NCIS, meets Mission Impossible, meets Spooks. It’s a bit addictive as I’m about half way through Season 1. Turns out Season 2 is currently airing on ITV so need to get a move on and catch up with the ones that I’ve not seen yet before the Season 2 ones start coming down off ITV.

Currently… Reading
For the first time in ages, I got my bible out and read out of choice rather than reading because of being at church or at Connect Group. I’m following the plans and bits that Women Living Well (the particular series on there is called Good Morning Girls) are posting over on their website – I’m currently reading Numbers which is one of those books that I normally tend to skip. A lot of it is about how everyone had their specific roles in looking after the temple and things like that. It’s along those lines that we all have our parts in the church and God’s family.

Currently… Making
I managed to complete the squares for my friend and went back to the projects I’ve been working on for a few days. I received some wool and a pattern from Little Lamb Wools back in the Summer and had started doing it but however I’d worked it out meant that it wouldn’t sit flat. I decided to frog it and restart with a slightly different pattern. It’s like an over sized granny square but it’s not the normal granny square pattern that I automatically go to so it’s a bit exciting. Also a couple of weeks ago I received this gorgeous wool from Cosywool. There’s a proper post all about that to come soon. (Btw they are running a competition on their Instagram – check out this post and get entering!)

Currently… Eating
Chris has been amazing and each week for the last couple has been writing a food plan at the beginning of the week – some weeks it works – other weeks it doesn’t but it’s good to know what’s on the plan rather than standing in front of the freezer each day figuring out what to do. I think it also means that we’re being wiser about what we spend on food and also cutting down what we waste. When there’s a spare portion it goes in the fridge and often works for lunch on the next day for me or Jaxon. Also when we use bigger tins of beans etc for Jaxon rather than the kids smaller tins, we can refrigerate the half we don’t use and use that the next day for Jaxon. (Yay for plastic tupperware style tubs!)

Works in Progress
Blog Every Day in November

Blog Every Day in November is a blogging challenge for you to write and publish a blog post every day for the entire month of November. It’s as simple as that. You can find the prompts here.

Blog Every Day in November

Works in Progress

The last couple of years I’ve made things for Christmas presents. Usually a scarf or something along those lines!

I’m in the process of helping my friend finish up a project so I’ve been crocheting like crazy.

Can’t really talk about that one just in case for now but let’s just say I’m excited to see the finished product when it gets there.

I started following a pattern for this project a while back but for some reason, the pattern (or what I was doing) doesn’t quite match up and it won’t lie flat. It would have probably been fine and could have been blocked when it’s finished and that might have solved it but I decided to undo it and start again. I’d been playing with some different wool to make granny squares but not the standard ones that I made as default so I frogged the whole of this blanket yesterday and got started on a remake.

  
Because it’s all in the round it’s the kind of project that I can come back to and just pick up when I’ve got some time to work on it.

What projects are you working on at the moment? 

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Blog Every Day in November

Blog Every Day in November is a blogging challenge for you to write and publish a blog post every day for the entire month of November. It’s as simple as that. You can find the prompts here.

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Today, I left Jaxon with Chris for the day and headed off to London for an adventure. I caught the 8:20am ish train out of Bedford station for St. Pancras. The station was fairly busy as lots of people were heading for days  it’s. The family at the table next to me were discussion where they  were heading. The older couple near me we’re debating who was supposed to have got the newspaper. Husband said that wife was getting it, wife said that she was getting the tickets while he got the papers. Listening to the conversations around me was fairly interesting especially as I’d only got one song on my iPhone and none on my iPad.

My train arrived into St. Pancras fractionally before 9am. This was okay but I was feeling a little flustered as I hoped to be a little earlier than that. (I had laid awake debating whether to pick Jaxon up for a cuddle after watching the news of the Paris attacks come in via Twitter. Which in turned then meant getting up was harder amongst other things).

I hadn’t had time for breakfast so I grabbed a sandwich from the supermarket opposite and headed into the conference.

I found James (@JamesPrescott77) and we had a catch up – was good to see a friendly face! As we were chatting, the doors were opened for the main auditorium. As we were walking upstairs, someone recognised James from his profile picture. While we waited for the session to start I inhaled my sandwich – clearly I’m used to eating breakfast when I feed Jaxon in the morning.

There was an introduction by Andy Walton from the Centre for Theology and Community. Followed by the opening address by Krish Kandiah, he’s President of the London School of Theology and Founder/Director of Home for Good.

Krish started his bit with a prayer and couple of silent moments to pray about what has happened in Paris during the last couple of days.

The keynote speech was then given by Miriam Swaffield from Fusion, it was entitled “Created to Create” and was to do with how God created us so that we could worship him by creating ourselves.


Before lunch I went to two breakout sessions the first was “Create a Space for Creativity” with Micah Purcell then after the coffee break I went to the “Create with Raspberry Pi” with Paul Johnston. The Raspberry Pi session was really good. It was a hands on workshop so I got to play with an actual Raspberry Pi which was really cool. Chris has been talking about how he’d like one for Christmas so when this session came up on the list I thought I’d give it a go so that I have a fraction of a clue of what he’s talking about when he gets super excited! Paul asked for a volunteer and at first no one would offer. He asked a couple of questions about what people and heard of and things like that and then asked again – I stuck my hand up and got to have a go. I know that Bex took my picture and a bit of video from over my shoulder but I didn’t realise that there was an actual camera person in the room too. This photo was taken by Jez.

The task I was given was to plug in a number of cables and resistors along with two red LEDs, the code on the computer then tells the LEDs which order to light up in – I couldn’t do that bit as I’m not used to using Linux but Paul was able to help with that bit. At first it didn’t work right but I took out some of the cables and LEDs and then put them back in again and that seemed to fix it – I don’t think I’d got them in far enough.

Look at that concentration - working on a Raspberry Pi

At lunchtime I decided to take a walk rather than get lunch and just hang around. The local coffee shops were closed even though it was a Saturday and I ended up walking to Liverpool Street station which was actually fairly close. I realised that taking both my A5 Filofax and my Midori Traveler’s Notebook meant that my bag was getting heavy and was starting to make my back ache.

I made in back in time for the after keynote – rather than one specific talk there were four shorter ones all started with Create in the title. There was a really good session that my brother would have liked which was Create Another World. This was taking a look at how video games can affect spiritual dynamics along with the opportunities and dangers that can accompany alternate realities. It was presented by Andy Robinson.

Up next was the third breakout session. I headed for the Create with Pinterest session. I guess from the blurb I thought it was going to be aimed at people already using Pinterest but it was actually more of a beginner session. It did mean that I sat there and dusted of my Pinterest account which has been sat dormant for a while.

After the next coffee break it was the final breakout session and I went to hear Bex Lewis talk a hour engagement. It was resells interesting and probably draws with the Raspberry Pi session for my favourite of the day.

Following this there were another two talks but I was feeling a bit overwhelmed and wanted to explore for a bit before catching the train home so I decided to head off. I caught the tube to Tottenham Court Road for the flagship Paperchase store however they didn’t have what I was looking for and I had some stuff on my mind so decided by that point that I’d have a quick look round but head homewards.

I caught the train home from London, we were just outside Luton at which point the train was held due to a security alert at Luton station. Thankfully we were held too long and gone on the move again.

When I got home, Jaxon was really worked up, Chris had tried putting him to bed but he wouldn’t settle. He left Jaxon with Our Sidekick and came to get me. I think it was one of those situations where only mummy will do, so Chris came to get me from the station. When I got home Jaxon and I had a big cuddle and he had some mummy milk and that was it. I put him down to sleep and it was out pretty much straight away. Leaving him all day when it ends like that is really hard but I wouldn’t have been able to take him with me. Last year when he was four months old he might have been happy in his buggy or playing on a blanket but this year he would have just got bored and not coped all day at the conference.

BEDN: A Grateful Heart

Blog Every Day in November

Blog Every Day in November is a blogging challenge for you to write and publish a blog post every day for the entire month of November. It’s as simple as that. You can find the prompts here.

Gratitude

I’ve spent the last few weeks struggling to get motivated to blog, I’ve created a couple of YouTube videos that you can find here.

Jaxon
Two years ago around this time, I found out that we were going to be parents. I had one of those memory posts pop up on Facebook and it’s dated the 24th October 2013 I comment how I’d been feeling rubbish and not 100% and little did I know that within two days I’d know we were pregnant. How exciting! Today is Children in Need and when I went to volunteer at Radio 2 in 2013, I stood on the platform at Bedford Train Station reading an app that told me he was the size of a blueberry.

Healthcare
Dad hasn’t been very well recently and spent last weekend in the hospital. Again we commented how long it took to discharge him but on the other hand the speed at which he got from the doctor’s to A&E and on to nebulisers and oxygen was pretty quick.

I also had to go for a blood test and thankfully the queue wasn’t too bad! (Oh and the coffee date that followed it helped too!)

Prayers
We had a social worker visit a couple of weeks ago and I was in a bit of a flap as we’d had a ridiculous short amount of notice so I sent out a prayer request to a group of my friends and while I tidied like a mad lady they send up some prayers. As silly as it might sound it calmed my inners! Sometimes you just need to know that people are on your side helping you. When Dad was taken to hospital on Friday I sent a message out again and asked my friends to get on it. Dad was discharged on Monday.

Friends
Last Friday while Mum and Dad were waiting for the next step, Mum’s best friend who was in to visit her Mum, delivered lunch to Mum. I think Mum commented that it was the best lunch ever! What she’d thought could just be a flying visit to the Doctors had turned into a full blown hospital visit that she wasn’t ready for.

On that day the social worker came at short notice, one of the ladies from church replied saying she’d pray but also was there anything she could do to help. She’s the same lady who took a load of washing when our machine broke down about a week after Jaxon was born. I think she enjoyed washing the baby clothes and getting mushy over how cute they are!

We are so blessed and cared for by our friends.

Grateful Heart w/ Ember Grey