BEDM2015: Share The Blog Love

BEDM 2015: Blog Every Day in May

May has arrived which means today is the first day of BEDM 2015. That is Blog Every Day in May. I’m hoping that I get ahead of the curve and I manage to blog every day in May. Some days I’ll have the prompts from Elizabeth’s blog. Other days I’ll be back on the normal plan.

Share The Blog Love

Share a list of your favourite bloggers.

Hello Nature Blog

First up is Ashley from Hello Nature, she’s one of the bloggers that inspire me and she’s part of two of the blogging groups I’m part of. She lives in Wisconsin in the USA and blogs about living in a small town and running her own business called The Gnarly Whale.

Ginger + Co

Next up is Laura. She’s twenty one and in her final year at college (actually I think she’s finishing imminently like next two weeks imminently!) studying Public Relations and Advertising. She’s in the process of writing her first book, The Assassin, it’s been delayed because of finishing college but hopefully it’ll be out soon – I’m definitely in the queue to read that one when it comes out. (The book is about a twenty year-old FBI Agent, Cassie Dreandry, who has to make a deal with a criminal to further her career and catch a different criminal.)

The Little Golden Daffodil

Now I’m a little biased about this blog because the author is my best friend from university (and I assisted with the blog becoming a reality instead of just an idea). Hannah (the author) writes about her adventures with her family and friends but also what it’s like to live with her dodgy brain (I’m sure she explains her dodgy brain over on her blog if not I’m sure she’ll explain).

Adventurous ShelbyShelby is another blogger I’ve “met” via the two groups I’m part of over on Facebook. Shelby is also a Christian blogger. She lives in California having moved there from Texas via Colorado.

 

BEDM2015: Cinco de Mayo

BEDM 2015: Blog Every Day in May

May has arrived which means today is the first day of BEDM 2015. That is Blog Every Day in May. I’m hoping that I get ahead of the curve and I manage to blog every day in May. Some days I’ll have the prompts from Elizabeth’s blog. Other days I’ll be back on the normal plan.

Cinco de Mayo

So today is Cinco de Mayo and my nerdy history loving self went to Google what it is. Also I went to Google it because although I have heard of it I don’t actually know what it’s all about.

Cinco de Mayo (Spanish for “fifth of May”) is a celebration held on May 5. It is celebrated in the United States and in Mexico, primarily in the state of Puebla, where the holiday is called El Día de la Batalla de Puebla (English: The Day of the Battle of Puebla).
Mexican Americans also often see the day as a source of pride; one way they can honor their ethnicity is to celebrate this day. The date is observed to commemorate the Mexican army’s unlikely victory over French forces at the Battle of Puebla on May 5, 1862, under the leadership of General Ignacio Zaragoza Seguín.
In the United States, Cinco de Mayo is sometimes mistaken to be Mexico’s Independence Day —the most important national holiday in Mexico—which is celebrated on September 16.

Prior to marrying Chris I was pretty unadventurous when it came to food. I think the only time I openly tried something very different was when I was dared to try calamari at a Kids Group Leaders Meal Out. Two of the lads were trying to dare each other to have the wackiest combination from the buffet so I chucked in calamari with my choices given that they wouldn’t go near the calamari. Personally I didn’t like it, it was like rubber bands (I’m told that means it was over cooked!)

Over the years I’ve broaden my horizons a bit. I’ll now eat Korma and other mild curries but also will happily eat Mexican food as long as it’s not too spicy.

Part of this is how Fridays have become “Fajita Friday” in our house. We get a frozen mix bag from the supermarket which has chicken, onion, peppers and some other bits. I then add extra vegetables depending on what’s in our veggie box that week. A couple of times I’ve also attempted Guacamole which was edible but not right at least twice when I’ve made it. We also have cheesy nachos which are soooo yummy. I do cheat with a jar of salsa though…..

Fajitas!

I tend to have a lot of sour cream on mine other wise they can be a little spicy or the other option is that the boys have the fajita mix, I then chuck together some version of fajita mix without the spices.

I have found that it can be a messy affair. How do you stop all the vegetable/meat juice/sour cream combination leaking out and running down your hands??

Either way, enjoy Cinco de Mayo!

BEDM2015: Currently…4th May

BEDM 2015: Blog Every Day in May

Currently...

Each Monday I start with a sum up of what’s currently happening around these parts – especially when some weeks seem to fly by quicker than others!

Watching:
Not so much since the Internet has been out at our house and it’s driving us all a little crazy lol. At first I think it was withdrawal and then it was just annoyance.

Paddington – Mum decided that she was going to rent it through their Sky box. I sort of invaded and tagged along when Chris had to work on Saturday and Jaxon was hanging with his Godfather.

Top Gear and Big Bang Theory – these are the few programmes we’ve been able to find on Freeview that we all actually like.

Reading:
Not so much actually reading books but reading articles for clients and their social media timelines. I did manage to pick up Blue Like Jazz and read a couple more pages before starting to doze and nearly hitting myself in face with my book! Oops!

Wondering:
Not so much wondering happening right now but will keep you posted.

Making:
I bought a pattern at the weekend and have started making Jaxon a jumper. Who knows if it’ll work the way it should but it will be Mummy Made and that’s the main thing.

Eating:
Food wise it’s not going so well. Last week it was my birthday then this week it’s Our Sidekicks and we went to the seaside with friends so we had chips and something for tea. I need to do my best to be back on plan 100% for the rest of this week and make sure I’m drinking enough water too.

Working On:
Working on various projects and blog posts. I feel more like I’m on top of things this week and hopefully that will carry on this week.

BEDM2015: Self-Care Sunday

BEDM 2015: Blog Every Day in May

May has arrived which means it’s BEDM 2015. That is Blog Every Day in May. I’m hoping that I get ahead of the curve and I manage to blog every day in May. Some days I’ll have the prompts from Elizabeth’s blog. Other days I’ll be back on the normal plan.

Self-Care Sunday

When I looked over the prompts, this one sort of confused me. I automatically went to that make-up/outside self care sort of place. But what about the inside, what about the emotional well being side of things. What about taking time for me? 

Taking care of my three boys is tough work. Caring for Jaxon is a 24/7 job. Some days Chris and Our Sidekick might help out so I get some time to myself but some days it isn’t so easy. 

When Jaxon goes down for a nap I’m often busy trying to do work stuff so the time for myself fits somewhere in the evening after Jaxon is in bed. 

So once Jaxon is in bed I do things like painting my nails or grabbing a relaxing bath (rather than a high speed shower). What do you do to relax or having time out? Whatever you do, whenever you do it, make sure you have some time for yourself. Life is too busy and often days can pass without us making time for ourselves. 

Woah. Hold that thought. I’ve got to this point and it suddenly occurred to me. What about time with God? Is that not self care in a way? Caring for your spiritual side is equally important isn’t it? A friend of mine says about taking care of God in your life and the rest of life falls into place. 

Trusting God for the future can be a challenge. Making sure you’re right with God again can be a challenge. In the bible it says about the birds of the sky not worrying about where their food comes from but how often do I stress about what’s next and what’s round the corner. How much energy to I expend on worrying and stressing about things that I should trust God with. After all he can see the blueprint when I can just see the shopping list. “For I knows the plans I have for you” — God’s for it. 

Take time with God. That’s my self care point for today. 

BEDM2015: Adventure

BEDM 2015: Blog Every Day in May

May has arrived which means it’s BEDM 2015. That is Blog Every Day in May. I’m hoping that I get ahead of the curve and I manage to blog every day in May. Some days I’ll have the prompts from Elizabeth’s blog. Other days I’ll be back on the normal plan.

Adventure

The boys have gone out for breakfast so I have the house to myself. I’ve got my chunky cardigan in which sort of doubles as a blanket and I’m snuggled up in bed writing this on my phone. Chris had opened the curtains too so the sun is shining through the window and I can hear the birds singing (when cars don’t drive past!) 

Adventures. I have mixed opinions about adventures. Some days I’m like “let’s do something out of the ordinary and go on an adventure!” Then other days I’m like “let’s stay home”. 

Adventures with Jaxon

Then I got thinking. Adventures don’t need to be big well planned things. They don’t even need to be far from home, what if the adventure was going to a familiar place by a different route or different mode of transport or even both. 

My current “new” adventure is being my own boss. It’s definitely in my blood but do I think I would have ever done it if it hadn’t been for needing something to fit around caring for Jaxon? No probably not. I think the safety of a proper pay cheque might have kept me in a day job. 

BEDM 2015: Introduce Yourself

BEDM 2015: Blog Every Day in May

May has arrived which means today is the first day of BEDM 2015. That is Blog Every Day in May. I’m hoping that I get ahead of the curve and I manage to blog every day in May. Some days I’ll have the prompts from Elizabeth’s blog. Other days I’ll be back on the normal plan.

 

Introduce Yourself

It's Me! It seemed a good place to start when trying to
Chances are if youre a regular around these parts you already have some idea as to who I am and trying to “Introduce Yourself” always makes me question what I should talk about. But here we go…

Hi! I’m Hannah. I’m married to Chris. We’re foster carers to Our Sidekick and Mummy and Daddy to Jaxon.

We live in Bedford which is about half way between Cambridge and Milton Keynes.

I am a born again Christian and attend a church here in Bedford. I’ve been at the current church I attend since 2006, prior to that I’d been to two different churches.

I’ve been blogging for ages(!) and have recently set up my own small business called Daisy Media to earn pennies while being a Stay at Home Mum. Some days it’s seriously hard work to keep all the balls in the air and tears have been shed sometimes recently when they fall out the air and smash all over the floor.

I love knitting and crocheting, I also love reading. Chances are on a rainy day I’m normally found snuggled inside doing one of these things. As the weather has been getting better I’ve been out and about and exploring the town in which I live in on foot. I try to walk from my house into town at least one a week given it’s a couple of miles on a round trip. It gives both Jaxon and I a good dose of fresh air.

I love blogging and spend far too much time glued to my laptop in one way or another. At the moment, I’m sat in my Mum’s spare bedroom which is doubling as a sort of office space while we have no internet at home (the lovely internet company cancelled our connection rather than upgrading us).

Let Your Blog Shine: My Hometown

April Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

My Hometown…

I live in a town called Bedford. It’s about sixty miles North of London and about half way between Cambridge and Milton Keynes. I’ve lived in Bedford my whole life. Up until I was 21 I’d only lived in one house, since then I’ve lived in four different houses/flats – I’ve told Chris that next time we move (well if we move) I am going on holiday and he will need to pack up and move house without me. Then again taking Jaxon away from the craziness of house moving might be a good plan – he might get packed in a box or something by mistake.

I had set out with the best intentions of taking my own pictures but it’s not necessarily happened that way. I reached out to a local group that I’m part of on Facebook and asked if anyone could help with some pictures.

Multicultural

Bedford is very multicultural. Following WW2, the local brick works at Stewartby recruited a lot of workers from Italy, at one point 20,000 Italians had arrived in Bedford. This soon grew with people settling in the local area their families joining them or their families growing. More recently Bedford has grown more with a large Polish population. We have a large Gurdwara Temple in the town along with a crazy number of churches. The New Frontiers group of churches alone has four churches here. That’s excluding all the CofE churches!

Queen's Park Gurdwara

Parks

Bedford has a crazy number of parks, there’s Goldington Green and Priory Marina/Country Park within walking distance of my house. Both are lovely.

The Priory Park is good for spotting nature, whether it’s something big like this heron (can you spot it?) or Mini Beasts on the nature trail. The Country Park is good for walks and adventures. (I can just about do one lap under half an hour if I get a shifty on so it’s good for burning those extra few calories before weighing in!)

Priory and Bedford Parks

The big picture is Bedford Park, the others are taken in Priory Park. The bottom right image was taken by Hazel and the others were by Laura M both from the We Are Bedford group.

The Embankment

The Great Ouse River runs through Bedford on it’s way westward towards the sea (it eventually gets there into The Wash which is between Lincolnshire and Norfolk). The main section of The Embankment in Bedford stretches for about a mile from The Town Bridge at one end to the Aspects Leisure Park and Longholme Bridge at the other end. There’s a couple of pubs along the route for a nice cold pint on a Summer’s evening. On one side there is Russell Park which hosts the Kite Festival and various other fun days during the Summer. It’s a lovely area for a picnic in the Summer and it’s not too far for the swings to take the kids. Every two years we have the River Festival which takes over the best part of the park, The Embankment and the field across the River (and the whole of Bedford gets affected by the extra people in town!). A couple of years ago I was part of a project to yarn bomb a section of the Embankment. These pom poms from one of the trees has to be my favourite bit. (You can see the rowers on the river in the background. Nearly every afternoon and every Saturday there are people out on the river rowing. There are two rowing clubs in Bedford plus all the teams from the private schools).

Yarn Bombing The Embankment

Theatres

Growing up we’d go to see The Marionette’s Pantomime at Christmas, usually with Grandma and Grandad as well as my parents. I think sometimes people from Chapel would join us too but I don’t remember. We used to go to the Civic Theatre for that. Unfortunately the Civic Theatre was closed and the building as been renovated and converted to house the Council’s Customer Service Centre. Another theatre that was in Bedford but unfortunately closed was the Bowen West – myself and Hannah (from Little Golden Daffodil) got to do a couple of performances there and were fortunate enough to be  in the first performance at the new University Theatre on UOB‘s Polhill Campus. Unfortunately the Bowen West is derelict now and has been sat empty since it closed in 2007.

In the next couple of weeks a new theatre opens. It’s called The Quarry at St. Luke’s. The building that it’s in used to be St. Luke’s Church, a band I used to sing in played at the last service before the church closed it’s doors. This is one of the shots from their FB page. I love all the lighting on the top section – so pretty!

Quarry Theatre at St. Lukes

I was trying to think what else there is to do around Bedford. As a resident, you forget about all the tourist-y bits in your own hometown. There are museums to explore including the The Higgins Museum. Lots of places to eat depending on your tastes, where possibly we try to go to local businesses rather than big brands. I went to dinner at The Higgins Pantry last week with my Mum and this week I’m off there with some friends that I used to work with – hopefully the service will be just as good as last week given that it was my suggestion to not go to our usual.

Two Hannahs and Lots of Blog Talk

Hannah is 29

Following dinner on Sunday I was allowed to open my birthday presents as Chris would be very busy in the morning trying to sort out various things before going to catch a train to an important appointment. Our Sidekick also would need to get up for school in the morning.

Mystery Package

I started with the mystery package that had arrived on Friday evening. There was no return address so I had no idea who it was from either.

I opened the card first and nearly sprinkled a whole heap of sparkly star confetti into my lap. I realised after the first five or ten stars landed in my lap so I very carefully opened it the remainder of the way. The actual package was a bag of balls of wool. Some where new and some had been used but the colours are lovely. Three different colours with sparkly bits in them. The mystery package was from Rickie and Tim.

This combined with my present from Judit that I had received on Thursday at knitting group. It was bag of wool and a Katia knitting pattern book.

From my parents, I got two crochet books (which had been on my Wishlist I believe), along with two VW Campervan planters for the garden and a book called Making is Connecting: The Social Meaning of Creativity, from DIY and Knitting to YouTube and Web 2.0 – I think Chris said – it was me in a book title!

I received a “facial in a box” kit from my in laws too – think I need to put Chris on boy duty and look myself in the bathroom for the evening!

Victoria Sponge made by Chris

My Grandparents popped round after church to deliver my present and some flowers for me which were really lovely. The flowers are now on the kitchen table. Chris had been making cakes for work and my Grandsd commented how he’d be round for cake on Monday. Well apparently Chris decided that it wasn’t fair him making all the cakes for work while I didn’t have a cake of my own for my birthday. He mad a Victoria Sponge with buttercream and jam filling. So bad and not on plan but so worth it. Chris made it for me rather than a mass produced supermarket cake. Yummy! 

Monday morning didn’t go to plan. It was supposed to be a sort of relaxing start to the day, or at least relaxing as it can be when a nine and half month old. In the end I had to take Our Sidekick to school via Chris’s work and still make it back to church to meet my friend for the Baby Brasserie. 
I made it with time to spare in fact. I fed Jaxon his breakfast which also didn’t go to plan as one of the jars of fruit based stuff that I’d brought with me had smashed in the lunchbag so Jaxon ended up with Bolognese for breakfast. Not ideal but there we go. I did learn on a documentary that cereal for breakfast is a modern construction and our breakfast previously would have been closer to what we get on a continental breakfast with ham and cheese and things like that. 

Following the group I headed to my Mum’s house to put Jaxon down for a nap and do some work using her internet connection. At this point I was under the impression that Mum and I were going out for lunch once Jaxon had had his nap and possibly his lunch. Shortly after Jaxon woke from his nap Chris arrived on his way home from work. I guess that was strange in a way but given it wasn’t a normal day for him anyway because of the appointment he had to attend I didn’t question it. 

About 2pm we were discussing about feeding Jaxon and what needed to be done and things like that when the doorbell rang. It had been going on and off all the time I had been there between a client dropping by, the postman delivering the normal mail and then the courier delivering packages too. 

I jumped up to get the door, I opened it and said hello but hadn’t entirely clocked who was stood on the doorstep. 

I looked up and saw the balloons and then it registered. 

At this point I had a little cry. I promise they were happy tears (you know like you cry when they reveal the house in Extreme Makeover). 

Balloons

Hannah had driven down from Mansfield to Bedford especially to surprise me. What a superstar! 

We went out for lunch at Brewer’s Fayre. I don’t think we stopped talking the whole time she was here! Jaxon came with us to lunch and Hannah fed him while I sorted our order and got our drinks. 

Jaxon and the best Honarary Auntie in the World

When we got home at about half past four we were expecting the Social Worker round. Having had this surprise I hadn’t actually been able to rearrange it or anything like that. Hannah was so lovely though, so Chris and I could meet with the Social Worker, Hannah took Jaxon in the kitchen and gave him his tea. There was impromptu dancing to the radio too once tea was finished. That’s best friends for you. They muck in and help when needed. 

All in all this was an amazing birthday. I thought I was going to spend all day with my Mum and maybe we’d have takeaway or something like that for tea and then all this happened. Am so feeling the love now! 

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Sherlocked (and London)

3.43am

Yes, I was awake at that time on Sunday morning and it wasn’t because of Jaxon for once. Our smoke alarm decided that we needed a fire drill. I think Chris said something about the battery dying but I was half asleep so wasn’t focused on that – more checking whether there was a fire and getting us all out if there was one.

Anyway, rewind first, Chris arrived to collect me from Mum’s on Saturday and as I was packing bits away and showing him the travel cot that we got at the NCT Nearly New Sale, he announced that we were off to London the next day to go to the Sherlocked Convention at the ExCeL in London. My parents were booked for babysitting Jaxon all day and Chris had made all the arrangements so that Our Sidekick would be picked up and dropped off at different places for contact. He was on it!

Sherlocked Convention

We went home and got everything packed so we were ready to leave in the morning.

We headed to bed early given how early we were going to need to be up but I was struggling to sleep so I finished reading Lost by Elle Field and I researched cosplay outfits for Sherlock and whether it was something I could do with what I had. In the end staying warm and dry given the weather was a higher priority (especially as might end up on the London Marathon route cheering people on).

So having got to sleep the smoke alarm went off at 3:43am, now I’m glad it works but did it have to pick a night when it was going to be short anyway??

The alarm went off at 6am and I was struggling to get my eyes open. Could have really done with extra time in bed but once I was up and moving it was getting easier. Chris checked the weather and it was forecasted to be wet all day. I changed what I was wearing and had to hope I would stay dry enough.

We got the car all loaded up and headed for my parents to drop off the boys. Jaxon was a little puzzled and when we got to Mum’s I realised he’d had no breakfast. Chris was so busy getting us out of the door on time and I was busy ticking all the boxes that I forgot to feed my own son! What a fail! It’s okay though there were plenty of choices packed for other meals so he could have one of those instead for breakfast. I heard on a documentary once that cereal has become a staple of breakfast because it’s what social convention dictates. So if Jaxon has beef hotpot for breakfast then it’s all good!

On the way between the car and the station Chris asked why I was being so quiet. I don’t do mornings at the best of times. From Jaxon waking up and having his first feed of the day to us actually getting out of bed can take a little bit of time – even in a rush it still takes 15-30 minutes for us to wake up properly.

We caught the 7.04am train out of Bedford and there were lots of runners on the train heading to the marathon. One lady had a whole conversation on her phone about where she was meeting her family and the posters that the younger members of her family (or possibly friend’s kids) had made to wave while on the course. Another passenger had his music on so loud that we could hear it too.

We arrived at St. Pancras and grabbed a drink and a snack on our way through (definitely not on plan already!). We then caught the tube. Originally we were heading towards West Ham but with all the changes to cope with the extra footfall because of the London Marathon we ended up going to Moorgate and taking the Northern line to Bank and then changing for the DLR there. Again there were changes on the services there too so we took more diversions including taking the Jubilee line between Canary Wharf and Canning Town

Canary Wharf Underground Station

At Canning Town we had to wait for the second train to arrive as there was a large crowd of people trying to get on the DLR for ExCeL. There were a couple of people in Cosplay including a lad in a long brown trench coat and a deerstalker hat.

The team on the doors were lovely and very efficient at getting us all through the doors.

Sherlock London Bus
Sherlock's Outfit
Sherlock's costume from an upcoming special episode
John and Mary's Outfits
Wedding Outfits from Season 3
Molly Hooper and Le Strade Costumes
Sherlock's Dressing Gown from A Scandal in Belgravia
Sherlock's Flat Floor Plan

Overall, Sherlocked was interesting for the small bits we got to see for our Standard ticket. There were lots of props and costumes to see which were very interesting. There was a special FX stand and we got to hold and feel a fake arm which was amusing as the wrist wobbled!

We caught the DLR back to Poplar as the DLR train we were on was terminating there. We left the DLR station and found a spot along the barrier to cheer on the runners. We could see the top of this traffic light tree from where we were stood. As we were stood there the lead pack of Elite Men ran past. Around midday, Paula Radcliffe ran past us, she was in with some of the elite men and overtaking them! Rock on!

    

In the picture above, this was the front of the Elite Men’s group – The guy in the white vest is Wilson Ipsang – he runs for Kenya. In honour of Our Sidekick we had to cheer extra loud when he ran past. We stayed at this same spot until around 1:30 and then decided to go get some lunch. We headed to the supermarket near Cabot Square as it has a salad bar. A lot of things had mayo on them but where I could I choose SW friendly items. Three boiled eggs, a mound of carrot and sweet corn to start with then various different salad choices including pesto pasta, coleslaw and Mediterranean vegetables and pasta. Also had olives and Cherry pepper stuffed with cream cheese. I also had a snack pack of celery sticks instead of crisps. 

We ate lunch on the steps outside and could see part of the marathon course. We could see runners going by but couldn’t see who they were running for a things like that. 

Following lunch we started to head back to St. Pancras to catch the train back to Bedford. By 5pm we were back in Bedford and went to collect the boys from my parents house. 


Overall 

I definitely felt that we didn’t get our money’s worth at Sherlocked. If you can afford to fork out for the upgrades I think it would be a better day out. The props and costumes were really interesting and nice to see up close. Some of the main stage talks were included in the standard ticket price however I think we probably needed to plan our trip around them otherwise there wouldn’t be enough to occupy yourself while killing time. We went to The Grand Design Show last year and Would I recommend…? – Probably not, for the basic price there were only a handful of bits we actually got to see. There are posters and banners up for Comic Con and I think if I was to do one or the other in the future I would look at Comic Con and what you get for the basic ticket there. 

Currently…Birthday Edition

Currently...

Each Monday I start with a sum up of what’s currently happening around these parts – especially when some weeks seem to fly by quicker than others!

Watching:
Bones – While we ate dinner at Mum’s on Saturday we caught up on the TV recorded on her Sky Box. She had the latest episode of Bones on there so we watched it.
NCIS: Los Angeles – We also watched this – we both really like NCIS.
Ice Road Truckers – Dad was watching this during the day while we were in and out of the house. Various episodes were on including one where they were rushing to get off the ice before it broke up at the end of Winter.

Reading:
In the last two weeks or so I’ve ended up with three new books in my collection. Lost by Elle Field, All I Know Now by Carrie Fletcher and Kids Don’t Come with A Manual by Carole and Nadim Saad. I started on the Kid’s Don’t Come with a Manual book when it arrived but so far I’d found it a bit wordy – maybe it’ll just take some getting into. In the mean time I’ve read nearly three quarters of Lost by Elle Field and I’m loving it. Again if you love the Shopaholic series by Sophie Kinsella I’m sure you will love it – give it a go. All I Know Now is on my Kindle as I had preordered it but for now will be sat unread while I finish the other two.

Wondering:
Wondering if I can complete any more of my pre-30 items in the next few weeks – I have 52 weeks now until I turn 30 – come on I should be able to do some of them even if the others aren’t possible.

Making:
I’ve cleared a bunch of the squares for the current blanket that we’re working on. I’m down to single figure numbers of squares instead of the 15+ I was on before.

Eating:
Well clearly last week worked because I stood on the scales to a 1.5lb lost and got my 2.5 stone (35lbs) award. This week has so far gone down the toilet. With my birthday celebrations sort of starting on Thursday with dinner at The Higgins Pantry followed by cake and Chinese Takeaway on Saturday, I really had to tip the scales in the right direction quickly. I had made sure that I had on plan breakfast on Saturday and Our Sidekick obliged and even brought me breakfast in bed which was really sweet (especially as he’d made notes so he got it right and on plan for me). On Saturday Chris surprised me with tickets to the Sherlocked Convention in London, I made sure that I packed Slimming World friendly cereal bars so I had snacks even if we bought “junky” snacks for Chris while we’re out.

Working On:
A couple of guest posts all over the place. Some are still at inspiration stage though so need to work that one out. I’m helping a couple of newish/restarting bloggers to get themselves sorted out which is really exciting. Also getting May to run a little smoother than April (or the best I can when I’m working at My Mums house because of our internet being out still).

What’s Next by Kayla…

We have our own “only God” kind of story when it comes to how Our Sidekick came to be living with us four years ago. I am blessed to be sharing the “why?” part of Kayla’s story today, she’ll also be back on Saturday with the “what?” part

So, there’s a tiny glimpse into the big story God is writing.It’s a humbling, profound privilege to parent a child or children not born to me, and it’s not something I take lightly.

As we walk into the unknown and trust God that he will form our family in the ways only He can, we go through all of the paperwork and processes to ensure everything is done correctly and ethically.

We have just completed our home study, the giant 500-billion-page document written by a social worker who has poured over every detail of our lives to ensure that we are approved to be an adoptive family.
Adoption, as I’m sure you’ve probably heard, can be costly. Social workers, attorneys, agencies — each are compensated to ensure things are handled the right way. We’re a young family that has been saving for a second adoption since we completed our first. Every Christmas gift, every extra bit, has gone into a special account for “someday.”

And someday is here!

My husband is a pastor who took on an extra job as a high school speech coach this year, and I’m a freelance writer/editor who has taken on extra projects to make this adoption a reality. We are also trying to think of creative ways to tackle the fees.

Here’s where the fun part comes in: We’re hosting a GIANT shop-our-closets sale this coming Monday, April 27 at 7 p.m. (That’s 2am Tuesday if you’re in the UK)

I gathered more than 10 of my most stylish friends of we have around 200 gently-worn items in quality brands (think J. Crew, Banana Republic, Gap, Free People, Anthropologie, Sevenly). 

Basically, my basement looks like an amazing women’s boutique right now. You’re going to want this stuff!

We’re selling it ALL (think 25+ dresses, 75+ tops, skirts, ethically-made jewelry, scarves, heels) in a HUGE Instagram auction-style fundraiser to combat adoption fees.

To join in on the sale: Follow us at @craigsadopt, and get those bidding fingers ready!

Each item will have a fairly low starting bid price, though we hope you have fun and bid generously! The sale will go on for 24 hours.

To bid, you must have a PayPal account. If you don’t, go sign up here!

These shop-my-closet sales have become so popular on Instagram, and I love them! I love scoring thrifted treasures — you can have on-point style on a budget!)

Think of this sale as us doing the dirty work for you — all you have to do is sit back and bid away — knowing that100 percentof all money is going directly to our adoption account. You’ll get some crazy-awesome deals, and you’ll be entering into the work God is doing to provide waiting little ones a permanent, loving family.
We want others to know that adoption is worth it, because at the end of the journey, there’s a child who is going to feel a family’s love and there will be a family whose lives are changed by the love of a child.

Giveaway time: We’re giving away this gorgeous Santa Fe necklace, ethically handmade from women in Haiti through Vi Bella($35 value). Share about the sale on Instagram with the date/time (Monday, April 27 at 7 p.m.) and tag us in the status (@craigsadopt) for an entry, and tag friends for more entries. (We’ll draw a winner Tuesday, April 28 – no purchase necessary, U.S. residents only.)Times are all in CST 7pm is about 2am in rhe UK
Need reminders of the sale? Let’s 
connect on Facebook. Questions? Shoot me a message — I’d love to hear from you! If you feel led to give, you can make a donation to our adoption here

 

Thank you for entering into our story.

 

 

Kayla is full-time journalist turned work-at-home editor. She lives among the Iowa cornfields, where she’s hitched to a shaggy-haired pastor and they’re smitten with two wild + free boys: Joseph (4) and Asher (2). Kayla sips strong coffee, likes pretty things, and believes there’s beauty in the broken. She writes about faith, motherhood, and style at Many Sparrows, encouraging women to find worth and live a story worth sharing.

TIGF: Things I’m Grateful For

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Each Friday I join with Ashley from Hello Nature and Laura from Ginger + Co to share the things I’m grateful for this week.

Chris
Unless Chris has to leave really early or Jaxon is still asleep, he’ll often get Jaxon up for me, change his nappy and bring him to me for a “wake up” feed. When Chris got to him this morning Jaxon was practicing his standing up in the cot and was wide awake – didn’t cry one bit.

Yesterday, Chris had to start work extra early so he was already gone by the time we woke up. This meant that he finished work early, after I’d been to learn about cloth nappies and got back to Mum’s house, Chris was sat in the living room chatting to my Mum, he’d come to surprise me by collecting Jaxon so that I could get work done the rest of the afternoon. It was a lovely thought. 

Mum and Dad
My Mum has been amazing. Our internet is currently out at home and I need it to be able to work. My Mum came and collected Jaxon and I yesterday morning so that I could work at her house. 

Today she made me lunch as well as coming to check on me and ask if I’d like drinks. She brought me back a bottle of Diet Coke from the shop when she went to the Post Office.

My Dad spent a large chunk of today looking after Jaxon so I could get work done which I’m really grateful for. 

Time with Friends
I managed to grab coffee with one friend and her daughter on Monday and then Monday lunch went out with another friend. Two friends Hannah and Becca have both started blogging last/this week so I’ve been able to help them – it seems a silly thing to be grateful for but it’s meant that we can chat for longer periods of time. Today included an actual 10 minute phone call to describe what I meant as a typed message was taking too long! 

Online Friendships
I hate saying “in real life” because it’s all in real life. I’m blessed with a lovely bunch of friends that without blogging or social media I wouldn’t have met. The group from Let Your Blog Shine and our smaller little tribe are amazing, if I have a blogging question I can jump on there spout it out and if it makes sense someone will come back with an answer and if it doesn’t make sense we work on clarifying and then fixing. So blessed! 

Presents 
On Monday, it’s my 29th Birthday. this means firstly presents are arriving and secondly I need to get a shimmy on with my pre-30 list. I think I repost and update is calling. Today this one arrived…. It’s sort of squishy but other than that I have no idea what it is and there’s no return address so for now I don’t know who it is from. My first present was from my lovely friend Judit (from Monster Yarns). I was given it at knitting group last night, there’s like 8-10 balls of baby yarn and a pattern book from Katia. Better pick a project and pronto! (And complete it!)

Birthday Present Number 2


Adoption by Kayla…

We have our own “only God” kind of story when it comes to how Our Sidekick came to be living with us four years ago. I am blessed to be sharing the “why?” part of Kayla’s story today, she’ll also be back on Saturday with the “what?” part


Every morning, I stumble out of bed, grab my Coke-bottle glasses, and shuffle my way across the hardwood floors into the kitchen. Our four-year-old waits patiently for his oatmeal, and his hand always seems to find mine as I make breakfast in the early morning hours. I pour myself coffee as our two-year-old, his bedhead just as wild as his little heart, comes hustin’ out of his room.


 Kayla and her beautiful family 

 

Motherhood, you guys. It’s chaotic and sleep-deprived and sweet and 100 kinds of awesome.

 

became a mom in a fashion that only God could create. I was a young, twenty-something newlywed learning more about the world, and more about its creator, every day. We were stumbly and we weren’t perfect, but we couldn’t help but sense that God was leading us both down a path to parenthood that, in the world’s eyes, was a bit unconventional.

 

My husband and I both started to feel the tug on our hearts for children who didn’t have families. We both grew up in safe and loving two-parent homes, and we couldn’t shake the idea of little ones not growing up without the structure and nurture a family provides. We knew we couldn’t do everything, but we could be open to doing something. We prayed, and asked God to lead.

 

One billion “only-God” stories later, and we were getting off a plane, welcoming our incredible one-year-old son into our arms, forever. Joseph joined our family via adoption from West Africa (you can learn much more about that here), and our lives have been so radically blessed by his presence. We grieve for what he lost with his fist family, but we praise God that he writes beautiful stories from brokenness. 


 Kayla 

 

Fast forward two years, and we welcomed a second son into our lives, this time the old-fashioned way. Asher fits into our family perfectly, and it’s a joy to see my sons grow and learn and play and explore life together.

 

And now, our hearts are open to more. And we continue to believe that God will form our family once again through adoptionThere are children here and abroad waiting for safe and loving homes, and it’s at the core of our heart that we might have the privilege of being a family for another little one (or ones). Due to logistics, this time our process will happen in the U.S. instead of abroad. We’re not quite sure what this adoption will look like, though we know we want to be a family for a waiting child.

 

Over oatmeal and apple juice in sippie cups, we talk about adding a new brother or sister to the mix. “I know, Mommy!” Joseph says, scooping in another mouthful of breakfast. “We’re going to have two sisters! And name them Mommy and Daddy!”

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Kayla is full-time journalist turned work-at-home editor. She lives among the Iowa cornfields, where she’s hitched to a shaggy-haired pastor and they’re smitten with two wild + free boys: Joseph (4) and Asher (2). Kayla sips strong coffee, likes pretty things, and believes there’s beauty in the broken. She writes about faith, motherhood, and style at Many Sparrows, encouraging women to find worth and live a story worth sharing.


Let Your Blog Shine: Five Favourite Quotes

April Blog Prompts

This week’s prompt is all about our five favourite quotes. I’m pretty sure that I could do more than five but we’ll start with those.

The first two aren’t exactly quotes but have stuck between me and Hannah (The Little Golden Daffodil). In our final year at university, Chris and I were also planning our wedding around studying and work.

My Mum had been on it from the beginning. Once Chris had proposed to me she had a list of all the things that we might need to consider, the idea being that we wouldn’t have any stress, we’d start well in advance so there was no stress. This became the little catch phrase that even today is still quoted.

Stress? We dont do stress

Another Hannah one coming up. On a particular occasion we were organising a night out with some of my non-uni friends. I think the question was to do with what to wear and the response was “Just be normal”. It was meant in a “be yourself” kind of way but it sprung this whole “define normal” conversation and ended up in this quote. For years I’d been told how I wasn’t normal and my comeback had become “define normal”.

Define Normal

Actually Hannah has this one on her list too. Not intentional I promise and I did think of changing it but ended up keeping it in the end.

Smile! It confuses people

Then two bible bits to finish with. Jeremiah 29v11 is a bit over quoted but it’s till relevant. God has a plan stopped trying to set your plan in solid rock because God will come with a shed load of TNT and blow it all up.

This Psalm verse was one of the first I learnt by heart and still remember now.

Psalm 124v8  Jeremiah 29v11

Currently…20th April

Currently...

Each Monday I start with a sum up of what’s currently happening around these parts – especially when some weeks seem to fly by quicker than others!

Watching:
Grimm – It’s okay but is a bit dark and twisty to be watching in the evenings.
Orphan Black – this was another random Netflix find. It’s sort of a bit dark and twisty but it’s a BBC production so you know it’s not going to like HBO level dark and twisty lol. It’s also a thriller so you get to the end of the episode and you’re sort of desperate to know what happens next. I’m already on episode 9!
Critical – It’s another medical drama on the list – it’s pretty good, it focuses on the golden hour and pretty much just on that patient rather than on the relationships and things like that around
Once Upon A Time – I guess this is dark and twisty in a way too but at least it’s fairy tale dark and twisty so doesn’t seem to be OTT.

Reading:
I’ve not really got much reading done this week. I’ve been juggling all sorts and by the time I’ve got to bed I’m either so shattered that I just close my eyes and sleep or I’m writing a to do list for the next day to try and stop the list whirring round in my head. When I try and read an actual paperback while feeding Jaxon he gets distracted by me fidgeting to page turn. I think I will have to make sure I have charge in my phone so that I can read Kindle or iBooks. Any ideas other than that to calm down before bed?

Wondering:
Wondering how I get myself organised. I keep writing to do lists but don’t always get through them. I guess I need to be more focused but trying to get stuff done when Jaxon is around isn’t that easy. There’s a creche of sorts ran by one of the local churches on a Friday. I can leave Jaxon there and then work in the coffee shop that’s based in the church foyer for two hours ish. It might be less this week while he gets used to the group.

Making:
More crochet squares for a project that Mum and I are working on.

Eating:
This week I’ve been working hard to eat on plan. Thursday was a mess and Friday was a bit of a mess too but when it came to dinner on Friday evening I was determined to fix it, Friday has become “Friday Fajita Night” in our house. We get the premix frozen stuff from the supermarket and then pimp it by adding more vegetables and fajita wraps. In the past we’ve had cheesy nachos with salsa and an attempt at guacamole but this week I wasn’t able to get to the supermarket for the extra bits. The fajita mix it’s self is like 5 syns for half the bag – well we split it between 3 of us so it was closer to 3 syns. Given how bad Friday had been up to that point I decided to give the majority to the boys and go from there. I chucked on some pasta (instead of the wraps) and a plain chicken breast to have with a tiny amount of the fajita mix to give it flavour. It was a bit annoying that I couldn’t have the full on fajita effect but I felt more like I’d achieved something when I finished my dinner. I tried to stick to plan again this weekend – some of it was easier than other times that’s for sure. We had Subway for lunch on Sunday after we’d been to the Bedfordshire Baby and Toddler Show and ran some errands. I had a salad bowl – it was okay but there was so much lettuce that I was a bit fed up by the end of it. I think I needed to mix it up or shake the bowl before taking the lid off. Our Sidekick then cooked dinner for us tonight and he managed to do a meal full of free food which made a massive difference to usual. We had SW chips, cauliflower and carrots along with a roasted chicken breast with a splodge of tomato puree on top to create a sort of sauce (Although it probably needed more of it).

Working On:
Getting the sort of back log cleared. The house was getting a bit messy but we managed to work on it, we’ve written a new chores plans – it means I spent a chunk of time on a Sunday doing chores but it cuts down what I have to do in the week along with the boys doing more of their share rather than me feeling like I do all the work. It also means we’ll be eating dinner up the table more instead of in front of the television.

Let Your Blog Shine: My Style

April Blog Prompts

I tend to avoid outfit posts on the pure basis that I never can manage to take a decent picture and usually if I do manage to take a picture it’s a really dodgy selfie! I keep joking that I could do with a selfie stick but then I’m in two minds of whether I’d actually use it or not. Anyway, today’s prompt is My Style. My Style

Since having Jaxon I’ve carried on living in my maternity jeans and trousers, mainly because they are comfy but also because I’m in between sizes and while they sort of still fit, it’s pointless going out and buying a new pair of jeans. My favourite jeans are wide flares, the kind that are that big they swallow your feet. When I was at university I had a pair of pink cords that were the best they had a really wide flare.

I’m usually teaming those jeans with a t-shirt of some description. I tend to go with plain shirts rather than ones with slogans but this one in the picture I really do like. I have a couple with silly pictures on them, my favourite was the Star Wars one I bought when I was in Disney. It had a cartoon version of Leia on it. I’ve had a quick look on the Disney Store but I’m pretty sure it can’t be purchased again so I can’t replace it.

Add in a hoodie too. I have a couple in various different colours but my two zip up jumpers that have thumb holes have to be my favourites. They are nice and warm fleece but still trendy. They both have big collars that do up round your face when it’s cold.

Footwear wise I live in trainers until it’s warm enough then I’ll be in flip flops for most of the summer part from when Chris might have me walking miles on holiday in which case back to the trainers in the safer bet! With those trainers I wear odd socks early every day and they are usually some form of whacky patterns, today I have mint green and yellow stripes on one foot and a turquoise green sock on the other foot!

Either way it’s not changed much from when I was a student, I guess I do dress up a bit smarter for meeting with clients or special occasions but that’s about it.

Goals for 2015 – Work

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Back in January I wrote a list of goals for 2015 – you can find the full list here. While Jaxon is asleep and the boys are off doing things around the house I thought I’d work on some blog posts and get an update posted. Here is the list of work goals (or at least as it was in January) along with the additional ones I’ve added now.

Work

  • Create Daisy Media website
  • Done. Well I got as far as creating it but it’s still a work in progress. Actually running my small business seems to take a higher priority than my website at the moment but I am determined to get some blog posts on there eventually! That might have to be a goal for the rest of the year – maybe try and post at least once a week to start with!

  • Keep blog updated 2/3 times a week
  • It definitely seems to fluctuate but apart from one week I have managed to post at least twice a week. Now to continue it for the rest of the year.

  • Complete Website 1
  • Website number 1 is up and running, it still needs caring for every so often and I’m a sort of help desk for the owner so I’m often on it playing with it when needed.

  • Redesign Website 2
  • This one has sort of stalled. It’s definitely on my to do list and I am working on it but it has taken a bit of a back seat. I feel like I need to write a massive to do list and then ask Chris when I need some help to make sure I can get it sorted. A friend of mine is helping with the photography for it so at least that side of it is in hand. I think a lot of photos were taken this weekend.

    New Goals to add to the list:

    • Set up planner as Bullet Journal or similar system along with all the tasks I need to do.
    • Attempt to get the next week’s to do list written on a Friday evening or a Sunday afternoon so that it’s ready to hit the ground running on a Monday morning.
    • Make sure I take enough time away from my computer and enough time to hang out with the boys

Books: Lost by Elle Field

Lost book cover Elle Field

“I’m starting to realise that age is just a number, but Tabitha pointed out I’m only saying that because I’m twenty-five, engaged, and have my life together. (Touch wood things stay that way.)”
Arielle is back! OK, she’s not on her way to becoming the next Coco Chanel, her childhood dream, but she is one way step closer to running her very own shop with her business partner, Felicity.
She’s also planning her perfect romantic wedding to fiancé, Piers, and Arielle is starting to believe that she’s finally found her place in the world… Of course life is never that straightforward.
With a new-found foe interfering with her shop decisions, not to mention haughty wedding planners and loved ones facing personal struggles, will Arielle figure out what’s important before all is lost?

Two years ago when Elle released her first book in the Kept series, I was fortunate enough to be able to take part in the book tour. When the opportunity arose to take part with the release of Lost (Part Two) I jumped at the opportunity. As part of that I got to interview Elle about her book and her writing.

Hey Elle! So this time last year things were very different, my little boy was still a bump and our house seem fractionally calmer, you’re back with your second book featuring Arielle, other than writing your socks off what have you been up to this last year?

I’ve transitioned from being an author with a day job who writes when she can, to an author who spends half the year undertaking consulting work, leaving the rest of the year free to write books. I’m thrilled to have more time to write. I’ve also gained a cat in the past year. We rescued a cat who used to sleep in the compost heap in our garden. When you read Lost, you’ll understand the significance of this!

Without too many spoilers! What can we look forward to in Lost?
Lost begins two months after the end of Kept, and Arielle is busy planning her shop launch in London, as well as her wedding to Piers. But, she has a new-found foe interfering with her business decisions – she was a fun character to write – not to mention haughty wedding planners to deal with, plus the heartbreak of her loved ones facing personal struggles. Arielle needs to figure out throughout the book what’s important… before all is lost!

If Lost (and it’s first part Kept) were made into movies, who would you want to play Arielle and Piers?
I’d quite like Henry Cavill – swoon! – to play Piers, and I could definitely see Emilia Clarke (Daenerys in Game of Thrones) playing Arielle.

Do you have any favourite authors? Do you think your taste in non-fiction/fiction affects what you write about? (I know that all my attempts at NaNoWriMo usually revolve around some kind of chick flick/lit story line!)
I have too many favourite authors! Maggie Alderson, Meg Cabot, Dorothy Koomson, Sophie Kinsella and Paige Toon are some of my favourite chick lit authors, and they’ve definitely inspired my writing. I also love Bill Bryson and Sebastian Faulks’ books.
I’m a big fan of crime thriller books and YA dystopian books, and my love of these will mean, at some point, that I will write books in these genres. (Or maybe I already have, and you just don’t know who my secret identity is!)

Lost is available both on Kindle and Paperback format now. If you’ve not yet read Kept, the first book in the Arielle Lockley series, buy it here.

About Elle
Elle Field lives in London with her boyfriend and their cat. She enjoys exploring new places, watching musicals on the West End, and eating her way around London’s culinary delights.

Her first novel Kept was released in April 2013; Geli Voyante’s Hot or Not followed in October 2013. Lost, the sequel to Kept, is out now. Look out for the final book in the Arielle Lockley series, Found, towards the end of the year.

Links
Elle’s Blog / Twitter / Facebook

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Currently…13th April

Currently...

Each Monday I start with a sum up of what’s currently happening around these parts – especially when some weeks seem to fly by quicker than others!

Watching:
Once Upon A Time – I caught up with the episodes that were on Netflix and now waiting for the next one on Wednesday.
Bones – Another one I was catching up on – I seem to miss it for a few weeks and then have a binge watch.
Grimm – I’ve started this from the beginning. I’m about three episodes in but don’t tend to watch while the boys are around because some bits are a bit gross!

Reading:
Blue Like Jazz by Don Miller and His Image, My Image by Josh McDowell – it sort of depends on what mood I’m in to which book I read. When I was feeding Jaxon earlier I read HIMI.

Wondering:
Not so much wondering going on this week. I’m sure there is more some weeks than others.

Making:
A mess, well sort of in a digital kind of way, I got bored so installed a new theme, then I sort of hacked the code to pieces and tweaked it a bit so that it looked less like the default and more like something I’d use. Well hopefully it hasn’t broken it too much otherwise there could be issues down the road. When I’m not in front of the computer I’m making crochet squares at the moment.

Eating:
I’ve been a bit better at being on plan and two days I’ve had heaps of fruit for lunch along with Healthy Living Fromage Frais that Chris got me. I joked that they should do adult sized tubs of Petit Filous and why didn’t they, so he bought me a tub of plain Fromage Frais. It’s not quite the same but if you load it up with fruit then it tastes okay.

Working On: 
All sorts it seems, I sat down with a plan for today and then got a call from my Mum to ask if I wanted a quick job, so I got on with that as it was a sort of wait on other people kind of job so got the first bit done then went back to what I was doing. There’s a folder of bits I need to get done before Thursday along with the usual ticking over bits that I need to do. At some point this week I need to go to the Post Office and mail the prize to the giveaway winner.

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The winner of the FitBit Flex Giveaway was:
Shauna!!!!

Dear Jaxon…9 Months

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

You’re such a character now! You love blowing raspberries and now I’ve moved the car seat to the other side I think you like the fact that I turn round and pull faces at you when we’re at traffic lights or stuck in traffic.

When you’re not contained in your play pen or buggy you’re a complete wriggle bum! On one occasion you started one side of church then next time I looked you’d rolled and wriggled yourself across the church! When I came to get you I don’t think you were that impressed because you were still trying to make an escape for it.

This month Aunty R got baptised at church. You celebrated your first Easter, you received a toy giraffe that plays music from your Fairy Godmother and a chocolate egg from Great Grandma and Great Grandad. I’m not actually sure how much of the egg you will eat because really you shouldn’t have chocolate yet, I think we might have to divide that up between me, Daddy and Our Sidekick.

You’ve also been a well travelled baby this month with two trips to Cambridge and a trip to MK. You’ve been in the Connecta lots too so we’ve had extra snuggles. Daddy carried you in the carrier at the Open Air Service on Good Friday, you gave up and had a nap against him – I think you felt super safe there curled up next to him.

Love you baby boy

Mummy x
Weight: 9.61kg – about 21lbs 4oz to the rest of the world
Clothes: You are most definitely in 9-12 month clothing now. I cleared out your clothing at the weekend and found that you’ve got hardly any clothes in this bracket! I think you must have had extras in the 6-9 bracket.
Nappies: Size 4
Feeds: In the last week or so we discovered that if you have formula for your feed around 10pm-12am then you sleep through to about 7am rather than waking in the night. I guess I would rather you were breastfed all the time but I was struggling with the broken nights sleep to the point that I have had a cold for the best part of three weeks!
Teeth: Six still but according to the doctor in BEDOC there are another four about to poke their way through.
Bedtime: You now go to bed at 7pm. Sometimes it varies depending on what else is happening. Yesterday you went to bed closer to 6:30pm because you were shattered and hadn’t napped properly during the day.
Naptimes: It varies but we are getting better – you go down for your morning nap at around 10:30/11ish – however twice in the last week you’ve made it to 1:30/2pm without a nap and then graciously gave up and crashed.
Likes: Having meal times when Daddy is around – he feeds you all sorts that you probably shouldn’t necessarily be having!
Dislikes: Still the lumps in the food but the health visitor made some suggestions so we’re going to try them out.

Let Your Blog Shine: Make a List of Your Favourite Books

LYBS: Favourite Books

Kisses from Katie by Katie Davis

What would cause an eighteen-year-old old senior class president and homecoming queen from Nashville, Tennessee, to disobey and disappoint her parents by forgoing college, break her little brother’s heart, lose all but a handful of her friends (because the rest of them think she has gone off the deep end), and break up with the love of her life, all so she could move to Uganda, where she knew only one person but didn’t know any of the language? A passion to make a difference. Katie Davis left over Christmas break her senior year for a short mission trip to Uganda and her life was turned completely inside out. She found herself so moved, so broken by the people and the children of Uganda that she knew her calling was to return and care for them. Her story is like Mother Teresa’s in that she has given up everything—at such a young age—to care for the less fortunate of this world. Katie, a charismatic and articulate young woman, has gone on to adopt 14 children during her time in Uganda, and she completely trusts God for daily provision for her and her family, which includes children with special needs.

I love this book, I’ve always felt that my calling is to remain in Bedford in some form or another. Being a foster carer was something I never exactly planned on doing but it’s funny how God makes things happen. Katie went out to Uganda to visit the area she felt called to, her parents hoped that going for a short visit would shock her into not pursuing a longer stay. Little did they know… I think at the beginning my friends thought we’d gone off the deep end when Our Sidekick came to stay with us and now nearly four years later he’s still with us. Being a foster carer/Mum to Our Sidekick and Jaxon along with supporting Chris in his endeavours is my current calling, I have a want to travel to Australia and Japan and sometimes I feel it stronger than ever but right now my calling is to be here. I do however love hearing about what other people are up to and how they tell people about Jesus. Dealing with two children is stressful enough for me – Katie has adopted over 10 kids!
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This is How We Do It {and Link Up}

This is How We Do It: Grocery Shopping

Today I’m joining with Lori at the Boutelle Family Blog and Ashley at Grace Mountain Diaries for This Is How We Do It. These are two new blogs that I found recently and we met through the LYBS group on Facebook.

Recently we’ve tried to plan our meals a bit better rather than getting to dinner time and trying to decide what to make then. Also it means that I can try to make sure that they are on SW plan rather than winging it and hoping that it’s “good”.

In our kitchen we have a chart that sticks to the fridge, unfortunately at the moment the glue on it snapped but it’s still in the kitchen so we can see the list.

I start by looking at our diary and filling in who’s out in the evening and the time we need to be out – it means that if I’m not on dinner, the boys know who’s here and when dinner needs to be made by.

I have a rough idea of the dishes I like to make (not just liking to eat) and which days they fit in with plans for example something that takes lots of work would be better on a night where we don’t have anything to do and something simple like Spaghetti Bolognese would work better on a day when we need a quick tea.

I then have a look at what we have at home, starting with the freezers, then the fridge and the pantry. A new idea we are trialling is to keep a list of the vegetables in the fridge on the Wunderlist app. That way we can see what’s in the fridge at home before buying more that we won’t necessarily use. On a Wednesday we get a delivery of fresh vegetables from Seasons Fruit and Veg. It can be pot luck as to what you get each week and some weeks we find that we have heaps of one thing and hardly any of another but we make it work, for example we had carrots in the lasagne we had last week, I chuck leek into spaghetti sauce instead of normal onion (Although we have a mound of onions! Might have to make up onion soup for Chris!).

Once I’ve checked what we have I assign different meals to the days, as I plan the meal I add what we’re missing to the bottom list. I also add milk and bread. We try to keep a bottle of milk in hand. So at the moment we have 2 x 4 pint bottles of milk in the fridge. This means that in theory by the time we run out of the second bottle I’ve had chance to replace the first and we don’t run out completely.

We tend to shop around for our groceries, so after writing my list of items needed, I go down the list and add an initial depending on which shop I need to go to. 99% of the baby food that Jaxon eats comes from Tesco whereas nearly all our other groceries come from Aldi or Iceland. This is mainly due to the fact that Iceland has hardly any baby products at all, Aldi has a larger range but the baby food section is still tiny, whereas Tesco has a whole side of aisle devoted to baby food and other baby feeding products. If it’s a big shop, then I’ll rewrite the list with the items grouped together by store (if I’m extra organised I’ll write them in the rough order they are in the store too. Makes the trips a heap quicker.

What do I need?
You don’t need anything complicated. You can start with a page in a notebook or spend out on a pad like ours.  Our pad happened to be on offer when we were in the supermarket but if you want a printable that you can have a go with, try this one from Ashley at Hello Nature (I love how colourful it is!). This combines it all into one sheet rather than the two that I have but you could also print two copies and use one for the copy you take with you and then the second copy could stay at home on the refrigerator. Then either use your imagine to piece ingredients together or grab a recipe book and start there. See what you can do with the ingredients you have in your cupboards.

Meal-Planning-Printable

TIGF: Things I’m Grateful For

Vintage slate chalk board hanging on wooden background

Each Friday I join with Ashley from Hello Nature and Laura from Ginger + Co to share the things I’m grateful for this week.

It’s taken three attempts to get Jaxon to bed tonight – I think he’s super muddled at the moment as both Chris and Our Sidekick have been around more than usual. Now he’s in bed for the third time I’ll try to write this post.

Unexpected Invitations
Following the Open Air Service in town today we were invited to go to lunch with some friends. It used to be a tradition that following the Open Air we’d go for lunch but last year and I think the one before that for one or another reason it didn’t happen. It was lovely to hang out with people. Jaxon got his first taste of Chinese food (don’t worry a just a few bits of noodles and some vegetables)

Opportunities
This sounds like a bit of a random but it does make sense. The phrase goes “when one door closes another one opens”, I had an email yesterday opening the new door and an email today closing an old door. I have mixed feelings about it but I think it’s one of those good in the long run things.

Friends
Funny, after my post last week about the friendship “dating” service, I’ve had a couple of out-of-the-blue text messages and invites for outings.

I am pretty sure there must be other things that I am grateful for but I seem to be short of ideas at the moment.

What are you grateful for this week?

REVIEW: Dribble Bib and Breastfeeding Butterfly

When we were planning for Jaxon’s arrival, I started looking fro eBay bargains – especially on things that might take actual trying out with a baby – rather than with a doll like I did with the Hug A Bub carrier (much to the boys amusement!)

The second bargain was my Breastfeeding Butterfly by Faye and Lou. I’d seen their products advertised in one of the magazines or brochures and so had been eyeing up their products anyway. I had been looking for a cover to use while at church because it’s just the way it goes that Jaxon would need a feed in the middle of the service or something like that.

I received my butterfly and waited for Jaxon to arrive before I was able to try it out. He arrived at the beginning of July and on our first trip out of the house after arriving home was to visit the midwife/health visitor person. I took the butterfly with me but given how warm it was, how over dressed Jaxon was and how flustered I was getting I gave up and didn’t use it again during that trip out. The first few weeks that Jaxon was in the world were a sort of heatwave so he spent a lot of the first week or so of his life in his nappy wrapped in a muslin because anything else was overheating him. While the weather was still quite hot I would just used an oversized  As the weather started to cool down again I tried the breastfeeding butterfly again – it was definitely helpful when out with friends as well as at home when Our Sidekick was in and out of the living room.

When the opportunity arose to review the new version of the Breastfeeding Butterfly, I jumped at the chance. I really do like mine and wanted to see what the difference was. The new version is made of thinner fabric – that’s a good thing as it can be used in the summer even when it is really warm. There’s a new design to it too so that it can be worn in two different styles. The first is like an apron, this means that you have all the fabric in front of you and it means that it can completely cover baby and to a certain degree helps them to concentrate on feeding rather than what’s going on around them. The second style is to wear it over your shoulder and this covers the head and shoulders of baby rather than their whole body.

Faye and Lou's Breastfeeding Butterfly

I definitely prefer the first way of wearing it as you can put baby under it and get yourself sorted both before and after the feed whereas the second style is a little harder to keep yourself covered and juggle a baby (I’m guessing had Jaxon been a smaller baby it might have been easier to try either ways of wearing the butterfly.

Although when out and about now I am happy to just get on with feeding Jaxon when he needs it but in some situations, like in church or when hanging out with Our Sidekick, it’s generally better for me to cover up amd feed Jaxon. The newer version that I received is made out of a thinner fabric unlike the previous version which seemed to be thicker (although cotton too). At present it is £24.95 which puts it comparable to other covers such as the Bebe Au Lait cover that I’ve seen in a well known High Street store.

I was also sent the Four Way Dribble Bib by Faye and Lou to try out. The bibs are made from brightly colour muslin with an inner waterproof layer. You can fold and popper in four different positions (and also works well as a quick wipe up cloth too when needed!). It means that each time you unpopper and refold you have a clean and dry layer to use.

With Jaxon getting his first six teeth all before he turned six months (yes and I kept breastfeeding!) we were going through dribble bibs and other similar cloths at a rate of knots. Most would get soaked thorough and wouldn’t keep up with the dribble that was coming out of his mouth, we were switching them and replacing them every couple of hours – and sometimes they’d get soaked through and his clothes would also get soaked through. He’s now heading towards 9 months and the dribble bib is out again as we think the next teeth might be appearing soon.

I did have a bit of a challenge trying to popper it up one handed while holding Jaxon in the other arm, but I put that down to it being the first time that we’d used it and would have probably made more sense for me to sit him down and attempt it.A single Four Way Dribble Bib is £9.95, had I been buying a bib I wouldn’t have necessarily spent that much for an individual bib however as it can be reversed multiple times due to it’s thickness I would consider purchasing (although I think I would see if a second hand was on offer.

My Fab Assistant

Second attempt

Jaxon seems to put up with me taking his picture all the time! The first time invovled his exciting fidgeting, then again I think he knew it was a meal time coming up.

If you have any questions or would like to add Faye and Lou to your social networks you can find them here: Twitter, Instagram, Facebook or their Website.

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This is a sponsored post and for full disclosure purposes, I received a Breastfeeding Butterfly and Four Way Dribbly Bib in return for a product review. Courtesy of by Faye and Lou.

Currently…30th March

Currently...

Each Monday I start with a sum up of what’s currently happening around these parts – especially when some weeks seem to fly by quicker than others!

Watching:
Castle – I managed to find the latest season that’s currently airing in the USA on YouTube.
Grey’s Anatomy – I normally watch this with transmission here but it doesn’t seem to be on every week which is strange. YouTube to the rescue again. Someone has uploaded the episodes in 2-4 minute chunks. It’s a little annoying to have so many “ad breaks” but means I keep up with the spoilers that the Grey’s Anatomy FB Page Team keep posting.

Reading:
If You Find This Letter by Hannah Brencher – I finished this early in the week. I really enjoyed it although having read some reviews since there definitely seems to be a bunch of mixed opinions out there.
Blue Like Jazz by Don Miller – I’ve had this on my bookcase after I picked it up in a bargain bucket a while back. I’ve finally got on with reading it now.

Wondering:
I got wondering the other day if there’s an online “dating” website but for making friends rather than romantic relationships. It was a hypothetical but I’m beginning to wonder if it’s actually out there.

Making:
I spent over a week debating what to do next, then as I came to a conclusion last Sunday about what I was going to do next, I got some exciting news so changed the plans agains. I also spent this weekend making a mess. We decided that when the Easter holidays rolled round, we would work on getting Our Sidekick’s room all fixed up. Today is Day 3 and hopefully we’ll get the wallpaper all stripped today.

Eating:
I had set myself the goal of being at target by my birthday. That gives me four weigh ins and 9lbs to lose. thats just over two pounds a week. I’d like to be able to do it but it seems that I leave the meeting with the best intentions and then something goes a bit haywire. For example on Saturday, I did a ton of walking but we had Subway for lunch and although my choices started well they didn’t entirely end well. Our Sidekick was on tea today and I ended up with extra fish cakes. Thankfully they are only little ones so 3.5 fish cakes at 2.5 syns a fish cake is about 9ish syns total. Need to look at the rest of the day and see if that fits in.

Working On: I am starting with a new client on the 1st April which means I need to the on the ball. I think even if I don’t schedule posts today, I’ll make notes of ones to use in the week. (Around looking after Jaxon and the boys doing DIY – it could be stressful here!)

 

DON’T FORGET! To enter the giveaway to win a Fitbit Flex, take a look here

GIVEAWAY: Pink FitBit Flex (and Extra Wristbands)

Giveaway!!!

Today is the eigth anniversary of my blog being up and running (in some form!).

This year I thought I’d host another giveaway.

I bought my FitBit Flex back in April last year when I was regularly walking to and from work. I would often joke that in my day I would have walked miles up and down the office and probably should keep track of those steps.

It soon became a bit of an addiction – could I beat yesterday’s steps with today’s steps?

Pink Fitbit Flex

Two slate wristbands

Even on the day Jaxon was born and I was pacing up and down the living room it’s funny to see how it changes. We were in Morrison’s for some lunch around 3:30/4ish. Then the big peaks around 7/7:30 was me walking around the hospital. It then drops after that because I was sat in a hospital bed or just pottering around the ward. The big peak at 11pm was when my Fitbit was in Chris’s pocket because I had to remove all my jewellery etc before going to surgery.

Fitbit Tracking 9-7-14

Back in February, I lost my Fitbit. It had been in my pocket when I’d been out and about because it didn’t always register when I was pushing the buggy and it fell out my pocket. Those lovely people at Fitbit replaced it as a goodwill gesture but in between it being lost and them telling me the replacement was on it’s way I’d already been out and bought a Charge HR. So I had a few days of dilemma and then I came to a conclusion. Use the Charge HR and giveaway the Flex. So here we go….

Enter here

(It seems the clever widget thingy hasn’t been working properly! Sorry!)

Just a few notes

  • Prize is a Pink Fitbit Flex along with a large and a small Slate Fitbit Flex wristbands.
  • Although you may be able to get assistance from Fitbit, this giveaway hasn’t got anything to do with Fitbit itself.
  • Open to all.
  • The giveaway opens on the 28th March when this post goes live. It closes at MIDNIGHT GMT on the 11th April.
  • I will announce the winner by the 16th April and will make contact direct with them with regards to delivery address and estimate delivery time.

TGIF: Things I’m Grateful For

Vintage slate chalk board hanging on wooden background

Each Friday I join with Ashley from Hello Nature and Laura from Ginger + Co to share the things I’m grateful for this week.

Uncle S
This was our last week on the Marriage Course. Uncle S and his sidekick for the evening came to boy-sit (I would say babysit but Our Sidekick would argue that he’s not a baby!). Uncle S was on a mission on Wednesday, he took over from me feeding Jaxon so that I could head out, he also sorted dinner for Our Sidekick. The three of them were having takeaway for tea so I think Our Sidekick was a bit excited!

Mum and Dad
Again my parents are in here, my Mum has been helping me with various crocheting projects that I’ve been working on, a couple of weeks ago I kept delivering the next bundle of squares to my Mum who was stitching them all together. Later today, Dad is going to have to Jaxon so that I can have a meeting with one of my clients.

Better Weather
Although the weather can’t quite make up it’s mind, it has been a bit better this week which has meant, Jaxon and I have been able to get out and walk about a bit more. On Tuesday we caught the bus into town for Knit and Natter at YMCA Foutain. We were then able to walk home rather than catch the bus. We got to Mum’s and Jaxon’s hands were getting cold so we spent some time there and defrosted. As we walked from Mum’s house to our House it did start to spit but thankfully it didn’t get any worse than that.

My Car
I’m grateful for my car this week because it meant that I could go and meet with a lady about baby wearing. Her third baby is due imminently and she doesn’t think that she can get to the next meeting of the local baby wearing group so we met at a local soft play place and chatted though the carriers that I have and what works for us and what didn’t work for us. (We loved the Hug-A-Bub when Jaxon was smaller but I now prefer the Connecta because of how quick and easy it is to get Jaxon in and out of it especially as the supermarket for example).

Our Adventures this week

Jaxon has been very happy and smily this week. He’s also been more mobile. In the bottom middle picture I had propped him up against the table and he managed to hold himself there for quite a while. The bottom left he was rolling round the floor entertaining people at Slimming World last night.

Let Your Blog Shine: Truth or Dare

LYBS March Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

Truth or Dare…

1) Truth: What is the most embarrassing tv show you like? 
Glee probably! First few seasons I did enjoy but the last two or three were only aired on Sky here and although my Mum would record them for me my poor Dad would sit through them under duress lol. I gave up in the end.

2) Dare: Show us your prom photo.
Since we got the prompt I’ve been attempting to find mine. Both my proms were prior to Facebook and although I managed to find one photo, it’s literally my left shoulder that you can see in the picture. My Year 11 Prom (Valedictory Ball) was 12 years ago and I’m sure I must have pictures somewhere but I think they are down in the Summerhouse or in the loft. My Year 13 ones are probably in the same place. If I manage to get to them I’ll share the love.

3) Truth: When was the last time you peed in the pool?
Haha! Erm….well I’ve only been swimming twice since Our Sidekick moved in with us so it’s got to be over 5 years ago if ever lol.

4) Dare: Post a photo of yourself when you first wake up. 
Wakey Wakey! Picture of me in the morning

You can usually guarantee that the morning starts with feeding Jaxon. This one he’d decided to lie pretty much right across me and then feed rather than being on the bed next to me or across my lap.

5) Truth:What is your favorite thing about the opposite gender?
Sense of humour I think. Chris has a quirky sense of humour – it often came out in his dress sense. When we first met he’d often wear bright crazy Hawaiian shirts.

6) Dare: Show us all the contents of your purse.
Didn’t we do this one…? (I’m writing this post while sat in the driver’s seat of the car. Jaxon fell asleep while we were out so rather than move him I figured I’d leave him where he is! Emptying my purse for a picture could be a challenge…..)

7) Truth: What was the worst thing you ever cooked or baked?
When I was a teen I tried to make a Victoria sponge cake and used plain flour instead of self raising. That turned out like two biscuits rather than two sponges! That would probably one of the worst.

8) Dare: Show us a photo of your goofiest face.
(Probably not the goofiest but it’ll work lol)

Goofy face!

9) Truth: What is the stupidest thing you have done because someone dared you to do it?
When I was about 19 I was on a short term mission trip to Turkey and on one of the last days we were allowed to go in the pool. I was dared to (or I was showing off) jump in the outdoor pool. It was October and although the air temperature and had been fairly warm the water temperature had been really cold all week. Well I bombed into the pool and it was that cold that I got instant pins and needles in my hands and feet. What I hadn’t realised until I’d turned round was that two of the younger girls had followed my “lead” and we’re panicking because of how cold it was. I rescued the one closest to me and we both swam to the other girl and all got out. Oops!

10) Truth: If your life was a movie, who would you want to play you?
Anne Hathaway (then again she’s older than me so not sure that really works!)

Anne Hathaway in The Devil Wears Prada

EXTRA CREDIT: Post a video of you singing!

About five or so years ago I thought it would be a genius idea to have a YouTube Channel, well I have a channel, I even have subscribers, but not much else happened. This was one of the few videos I made. How To Save A Life by The Fray…

I’ve written this from my phone and I’m not convinced the formatting is behaving itself. Will try and amend issues once I’m not in the car! 

Currently…23rd March

Currently...

Each Monday start with a sum up of what’s currently happening around these parts – especially when some weeks seem to fly by quicker than others!

Watching:
Elementary – Chris and I hang out and watch this on a weekly basis – then again at one point we were watching about two or three episodes in one sitting!
Forever – Another crime drama to add to the list – this one has the added supernatural idea of not dying.
Critical – Another medical drama on the list – apparently all the actors when through a crash course of trauma medicine so that they actually got it right when it came to what the procedures were.
Guardians of the Galaxy – I’m part way through it at the moment – I think I’m going to have to watch it again though because I kept missing chunks.
Criminal Minds – Penelope is the best!
Muslim Beauty Pageant and Me – I happened to spot this on iPlayer yesterday afternoon, the idea of a beauty pageant and the wearing of the Hijab and Islamic faith going together didn’t seem to work for me but it was interesting to listen to Dina Torkia talk about her experiences.
Cookery shows – I’ve been watching tons. There’s been barious didfernt

Reading:
Doctor Who: Eleven Doctors (Up to Doctor 3 now)
If You Find This Letter by Hannah Brencher. (I am almost finished – I think I must be on the last chapter now!)

Listening:
Jaxon’s lullaby mix right now. Acoustic version of Kumbaya is currently playing.

Making:
I finished a project and following some news yesterday afternoon I started making some squares that I already had into a new project

Planning:
Working on the next stages for my small business and how I fit that around looking after Jaxon. It’s still a tiny business in comparison to some small businesses but I’m getting there. What tools do you use for scheduling blog posts and social media updates?

Loving:

Spring Link Up: Ten Top Tips for a Spring Clean

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This weekend is the arrival of Spring – or at least it’s on the calendar as being the start of Spring because of the Equinox. (Yep I went to read what qualifies the start of Spring – it’s certainly not the weather that’s for sure!). Each year I make the intention to do what needs to be done round the house. The last few years I’ve always struggled around work, then last year I struggled with not being as mobile because by this point I was around six months pregnant. This year it’s going to happen, starting with the household audit mentioned in the post yesterday. This started as a Spring Clean post then I realised that actually a lot of the things on the list were more of a clean out sort of path. I hope they are handy either way!

So here we go with the tips for a good Spring Clean or clear out of sorts…

1. Write a List
Whenever I have a big project to do I always start with a To Do List – it means I can cross of what’s done and see what I have left to do. This is where I always start, I start with a list of the jobs that need to be done and the rooms that they relate to – often along with a shopping list of things that I need to purchase to be able to get on with the job

2. Get your Kit Together
Now you’ve written a list of jobs to do round your flat/house, check your cleaning materials – do you need anything like bin bags, recycling bags, dusters, cleaning products etc?

3. Clear Out Your Wardrobe
Firstly make the bed. Secondly get all the clothes out the wardrobe. Work your way through the pile by clearing out the clothes that are too small/too big or you no longer wear it. Bag them up for the charity shop or a hand-me-down pile as you go (rather than forming a pile then bagging it!). When you put the clothes back in the wardrobe hang them up the wrong way round so that the hanger points towards you, when you put the item away after washing put it in the right way round. That way the next time you clear out your wardrobe you can clear out the items that still have the hanger the wrong way round.

4. Book/DVD/Games Collection
I’m the worst for holding onto DVDs and books that I no longer read or watch. I recently had a big clear out of my DVDs and got rid of something like 30 films. I’ve still got a chunk to go. Try a service like Music Magpie if you’re getting rid of DVDs or Games. MM in particular has a mobile phone app so you can scan the barcodes, they also have their own courier who will collect your package of DVDs so you don’t have to attempt to get it to the post office. Books wise, some libraries will take donations if they are in good condition, if they don’t take them try local charity shops as they often have book sections. Some charities like Oxfam actually have their own bookshops.

5. Windows
Before you reach for the glass/mirror spray, open the windows and sweep out any bugs, dust or other debris, that way those bits won’t clog up your cloth. Try to clean the windows on a cloudy day, if there is direct sunlight on the window then you might find the cleaner dries too quickly and leaves streaky marks. If you can reach both sides of the windows (for example ground floor level windows) when you clean the inside wipe horizontal, then do the outside and wipe vertically. That way it makes it easier to see the streaks and the bits you need to wipe again.

6. Dusting and Vacuuming
This only recently occurred to me which is really silly. Start from the top and work down. Get the feather duster out and clean the top corners for cobwebs etc. Then dust the surfaces (Working high to low). Then last of all vacuum or sweep the floor, that way you don’t end up having to do the job twice. If like us you have units on legs in the kitchen, use the broom to get right to the back under the cupboards, we sometimes find stray bits of carrot or pasta under the units.

7. Dishwasher
Some dishwashers come with an actual function that will clean the dishwasher itself but if like ours it doesn’t have one you can do the following. Start by removing all the dishes, cutlery etc from the dishwasher – it needs to be empty. Take out the filter and tray from the bottom, fill the sink with hot soapy water and put the filter and tray into the sink (We’ll come back to that in a sec). Make sure that there is no debris left in the bottom of the dishwasher or in the cutlery tray. We get a bottle of dishwasher cleaner from the supermarket, it’s the own brand and costs like £2 a bottle. Follow the instructions on the bottle and place it in the dishwasher. Now go to the sink and clean the filter and tray, this catches all the odd bits of food or jar labels so make sure all the holes are clear – it’ll run more efficiently then. Once clean put them back in place. Set the dishwasher to the hottest setting (Ours is 80 or 90) and leave it to run. It’ll depend on your machine to how long it takes, and the manufacturer make recommend different so it’s worth just checking your manual before running it if it isn’t something you’ve done before. Once it’s ran you can load up the next run of dishes and get on with those.

8. Fridge/Freezer
Time to clear out those stray bits that have started to grow legs and whistle the theme from The Great Escape. Some items like vegetables can go to the compost heap rather than being binned. Things that have been cooked like leftovers can’t be composted so will need to go in the bin. Work on clearing out all the items that are no longer useable. In some cases just because the best before has past the item might still be usable. (Check out this article). So the bits that really can’t be used clear out. Stack the remainder on the work top and set about taking the actual shelves out of the fridge. Grab a cloth and your usual cleaning spray – like the room start from top to bottom. If you find that fridge smells. Grab a pot (think yoghurt pot size) and put in some bicarb of soda, then put it in at the back of the fridge. The bicarb will absorb the smells from the air and you should find it will smell better within a few hours.

9. Recycling
It varies across the country depending on your local council but ours takes various items in the orange recycling bins at the same time as our black bin for general waste. It’s always worth checking what they will take as you can load your bin up with those items. Our local council however don’t take glass, so this has to go to the bottle bank. While we are using lots of jars of baby food, we are having to make extra trips to the bottle bank or the recycling centre to deal with these. However the most recently two loads were despatched to other people, one to refill the jars with jam and the other to decorate them a la Pinterest for their son’s Christening decorations. The ones that I do need to take to the recycling centre, I run through the dishwasher so that even if they are stored for a couple of weeks before the next trip they don’t smell. Also it means that if they are being reused they don’t need to be washed first.

Recycling

When you’re loading up your recycling bin, be sure to flatten big items like cardboard boxes as they will fit in the bin better and you’ll be able to fit more in. If you’ve got plastic milk bottles, run warm water into the bottle then empty it, while the bottle is still warm you should find that you can squash the bottle. This is the same with big fizzy drinks bottles, if you release the cap so it’s still screwed on but the air can escape you can then crush the bottle.

10. Worktops
I try to work my way round in some kind of order – usually starting next to the microwave in the kitchen and working back to the sink. I also have the broom to hand so that I can sweep up the debris into a pile as I go (Again working top to bottom is quite handy). For a deep clean, I wipe down the fronts of the cupboards at head level then I move all the items on the work top onto the kitchen table then wipe down the worktops starting at the back nearest the wall and working towards the front. I then wipe down the units. at waist leg height. Then I sweep all the crumbs etc from the floor and sweep that into the bin. I use the Multi Purpose Cleaner on the top of the hob (we have an electric hob) then use the glass cleaner if needed. Our oven has removable dials so I take them off to get rid of the crumbs etc from around the dials. If I’m cleaning the inside of the oven too I tend to do this first so that I can work round the rest of the kitchen while the cleaner does its job in the oven. I recently discovered that you can remove the oven door completely which is handy for getting out the burnt bits of food from the bottom of the oven.

These are just a selection because I imagine with some deep thinking I could add a whole bunch more tips but this is it for now.

Do you have any handy tips? Maybe you have a method not mentioned above but works well for you. Please share in the comments.

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House Projects for 2015

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Having spent the best part of 2014 being pregnant or caring for a small baby and Chris working 6 days a week at some point, keeping the house on track hasn’t always happened. 2015 is going to be different though and we have a list of house projects that we’re working on over the next few months.

Household Audit
While doing the Marriage Course, we ended up discussing how the house is a state. We’re going to work our way round each room working through each cupboard, nook and cranny and clearing out stuff. This includes all the kitchen cupboards, the pantry and fridge/freezer, bookcases in the living room, the cupboard and the wardrobe in our bedroom. I think I’m also going to include clearing out old paperwork from our filing cabinet and tidying up the filing system. We’re then going to head down to the summerhouse and do a similar job.

Our Sidekick’s Room
This is already on the cards. The upstairs of our house seems to have a damp problem. I think it’s to do with the fact that our house is a glorified concrete block. We seemed to have solved it when we decorated the nursery last year and took the wallpaper off the walls but it’s come back on top of the paint job so we probably need someone to have a proper look at the house. The plan is to strip the wallpaper and repaint Our Sidekick’s room during the Easter Break and go from there.

The Summerhouse
I imagine if we were properly organised this would be stripped and repainted every year or so. We’ve been at our house six years in November and it hasn’t been done since we’ve been there. As the weather gets better we also need to work on replacing the roof. I was supposed to go out there and do a patch up job at least for the time being but between not being great leading up to Christmas and then being sick or the weather being too cold to take Jaxon outside for too long has meant that it’s now March and I’ve not got it done.

Nursery
The windows in the nursery need a good clean and the nursery full stop needs a good clear out. We have a bunch of clothes for Jaxon that are the next size up, at the moment he’s too small for the clothes but they need to be tidied away rather than just abandoned like they are at the moment.

Our Bedroom
It’s a bit of a dumping ground to a certain degree – it needs a good clearing out. Especially around my side of the room, if things are on the bed they often get dumped on my side and don’t always get dealt with.

Outside Walls
We’ve been looking into external wall insulation as we have solid walls rather than cavity walls. Hopefully it’ll help all round sorting out some of the issues within the house.

Let Your Blog Shine: My Biggest Fears

LYBS March Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

List Your Biggest Fears and Why…

Rollercoasters

Alton Towers NemesisThis is one of the few rollercoasters I’ve been on and not freaked out – mainly because I was sat next to my Mum and she screamed all the way round which made me laugh instead of freak out!

I can’t do rollercoasters, I go on them once in a while to prove that I still don’t like them but other than that I hate them. Last time I went on a roller coaster was two summers ago when I went on The Grand National ride at Blackpool Pleasure Beach with Our Sidekick and Chris. We were in the queue and said to them that one of them needed to sit with me and we weren’t going at the very front. We got to the front of the queue and lined up, they ended up sitting next to each other in front of me so I ended up sat on my own in one carriage bit. NOT GOOD! We climbed the lift hill and I was sort of okay but we got to the top and I started to freak out. I ended up crying pretty much all the way round, I vaguely remember Our Sidekick turning round to see if I was okay then his face dropping when he saw that I was having issues.

This is a big problem because Chris LOVES rollercoasters! I mean like really adores them. The best deal we have found that works for us is at Blackpool Pleasure Beach because he can get a full ticket which means he can go on all the rides whereas I can get a park only ticket which means I can potter round the park with the boys but not pay for the rides part which I’m not likely to use. I guess when Jaxon is a bit older I can always go on the little kiddies rides with him then look after him while Chris does the big scary rides lol.

 

Currently…16th March

Currently...

Each Monday start with a sum up of what’s currently happening around these parts – especially when some weeks seem to fly by quicker than others!

Watching:
Elementary
Critical – I might have got a bit animated while discussing the episode where the guy comes in with crush injuries to his legs. Oops! My poor sister in law was a bit green.
NCIS: New Orleans – I’m not sure I like it as much as the normal series or Los Angeles but I’m giving it a go.
The People’s Strictly – Oh these people are so inspiring. I clapped when the titles for the final came on because they were just like the normal show.

Reading:
Doctor Who: Eleven Doctors (Up to Doctor 3 now)
If You Find This Letter by Hannah Brencher.

If You Find This Letter by Hannah Brencher

Listening:
I keep listening to the Frozen soundtrack. I keep singing Fixer Upper in the car to Jaxon as well as Love is an Open Door. If I had the right type of camera I could add my own YouTube version.

Making:
Finishing up on a project, the deadline may move so it needs to finished as soon as possible

Planning:
Blog posts and ideas coming up soon. Trying to figure out how to develop audience too. Any ideas?

Loving:
The time I got to spend with the boys this weekend.

Happy Mother’s Day

Happy Mother's Day

Twenty-nine years ago, my Mum would have been pregnant with me (about eight months ish). This time last year we were discussing whether I got an official or unofficial Mother’s Day as I was pregnant with Jaxon. In the end I think we left it and now today is my First Mother’s Day.

We’re off to church as normal and then we’re off to my Mum’s for lunch. I’m sure there is something wrong in the calculations there and we should be having Mum round for lunch at ours or something like that but I’m going to make sure that my brother is primed and we help with clearing up even if Mum had the cooking in hand.

I have friends out there who will be in pain today too, either because they’ve lost their own Mum or because they can’t have their own children for one reason or another. I don’t know the pain of losing my Mum but I know the pain of losing my Grandma. So lovelies, if you fit in either of those categories today (or in a couple of weeks if you’re stateside) I send big hugs.

To me Mother’s Day is celebrating not just the lady that you call Mum but celebrating the ladies in your life who encourage you, who guide you and who inspire you. I am blessed with a lovely group of women at church who look out for me. There’s a lady we call Mummy S, her youngest child is the same age as me and she’s always at the end of the phone if I need someone to speak to. There’s E, V and H, all of whom I can just text or ring for a chat if needed. All four of them are Christians and go to my church so they encourage me in the way I seek God and make sure he’s at the front and centre. But then there’s also Ashley, Shelby, Laura and the other ladies in the Lifestyle Bloggers Group and the Let Your Blog Shine group that I’m part off. They are all similar ages to me but they encourage me to be better and to achieve the goals that I set for myself.

So go and say thank you to those ladies who fit that description, give them a massive hug and tell them how much you appreciate them.

Have a great day lovelies.

 

TIGF: Things I’m Grateful For

Vintage slate chalk board hanging on wooden background

Joining up with: Ashley from Hello Nature Laura from Ginger + Co


Uncle S Uncle S babysat again so that we could go to this week’s Marriage Course session. Just one more to go then Wednesdays go back to normal.

Parents Yes they get a mention every week okay? Mum babysat Jaxon on Monday so that I could help Chris (see below). They also took OurSidekick to his Trampolining club so that he didn’t miss it. When they got back and we were about to head home my Dad offered three or four times if I wanted a lift home if I was feeling really bad. 

Our Sidekick On Monday Chris ran a team building evening for his current staff and new staff. I cooked dinner for everyone and part way through the evening I started to get a headache. By the time I collected the boys from Mum and Dad’s, my head was absolutely banging. Our Sidekick was amazing though. He took Jaxon upstairs so I could get him settled for bed then he went back out to the car and unloaded everything in the house from the car that needed to go in. 

Chris For wanting to work on our marriage and make it stronger. Marriage Course isn’t about fixing it because it’s broken it’s about going from strength to strength to make it the best we can make it. 

Mum It’s Mother’s Day on Sunday so my Mum gets a bonus one. She’s amazing. Even when she’s busy she’ll make time if I need her help whether it’s me personally or looking after Jaxon. She spent chunks of her free time helping me on a project this last week and the finishing line is in sight. She’s my “help desk” with all things self employed ness. I love you Mum. 

Dear Jaxon…8 Months

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

You’re now 8 months old. And don’t I know it…
You’ve turned into an extra wriggle bum, I put you on the floor on your blanket and then watch you go. Earlier you’d made your way across the room and you were lying with your feet up in the air. Now you’re back on the blanket but you’ve got yourself stuck – you just need to tuck in the bottom arm and then you can roll over.

It’s now a bit later and I took you upstairs for your nap – you weren’t so happy that I put you down but in the time it took me to walk from your bedroom, go to the loo and come back to the bedroom door you were asleep – I think you needed the nap more than you were letting on.

In the last month you’ve seen all four of your grandparents, two of your great grandparents and we’ve been to visit Auntie K and J as well as a brief visit from Uncle Richard and Auntie R.

We like our adventures even when it means that things change at last minute. Yesterday we were due to go to the Yummy Mummy group but when Daddy rang and asked if we’d like to go for lunch we changed our plans. After lunch we went to have coffee with Hazel and Mini Fairy, we ended up being early because of when Daddy needed to go back to work. I think you enjoyed playing on the big sofas but at one point you nearly fell off the sofa which made my heart jump into my throat! You’re going to be like your Daddy and explore a whole heap I bet!

Hopefully as the weather gets better we’ll be able to have more adventures, Daddy and I were talking about when we’re going to take you to the zoo or to the safari park for the first time. I keep saying maybe closer to when you’re 1 and you can experience it all. I think you’ll get really excited when you see the monkeys and the giraffes as you have toys of those.

Each day you seem to learn something new. Yesterday you rolled on to your front and pushed up on your arms, if you were doing yoga it would have been a Cobra pose. If you get your legs to work with it then you’d be in the right position to crawl.

Jaxon after Breakfast

Love you

Mummy

Weight: You’re getting weighed today so I’ll be sure to come back with the update
Clothes: You’re still in 6-9 but your jogging bottoms are 9-12 – they are still a little long in the leg but
Nappies: Size 4
Feeds: You are still having milk during the night, morning and evenings, you sometimes have a little bit during the day but we are going to start you on solids at lunchtime too soon.
Teeth: Six still but I’m pretty sure the next ones are in there
Bedtime: You’re still going to bed around 9pm but we’re trying to move it a bit earlier because I think you sleep just that bit better if it’s just a little earlier. We’re also getting better at making you have proper naps during the day. Your first nap is around 11am but it’s moving closer to 10am now depending on what time you get up.
Likes: Thomas and Friends and Fireman Sam. Then again you pretty much watch whatever is on the television
Dislikes: You’re still not a fan of the lumps in the food but you’ll happily munch on biscotti or Rusks. I think it’s like how I don’t like lumps in my yoghurt but I’ll gobble down normal food with no problems.

Let Your Blog Shine: 10 Songs I Will Listen To

LYBS March Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

10 Songs I Will Listen to the Rest of My Life…

I’m not quite sure how I made it down to ten songs as I’m pretty sure there are more than that on my currently playing playlist. So these are the current ones, this could change in a month or even six months let along the rest of my life!

  • Shout to The Lord – Darlene Zschech (iTunes//YouTube)
  • I Could Sing of Your Love Forever – Delirious? (iTunes//YouTube)
  • Yesterday, Today and Forever – Vicky Beeching (iTunes//YouTube)
  • Days of Elijah – Robin Mark (iTunes//YouTube) – the video linked is actually one of American Marines singing Days of Elijah in church (Even if you don’t click on any others you have to see this one!)

Those are probably my favourite four worship songs, whenever we have Days of Elijah at church now I do the actions from the video (I haven’t quite got confident enough to shout Oorah in the middle of church but I do fist pump the air).

  • Rather Be – Clean Bandit (iTunes//YouTube)
  • Hotel California – The Eagles (iTunes//YouTube) – it’s got to be the older live recordings rather than the newer ones – they aren’t the same!
  • The Chain – Fleetwood Mac (iTunes//YouTube) – the last section of this song used to be used for the Formula 1 Grand Prix coverage on the TV. (Just like the Top Gear theme came from a rock tune too – Jessica by The Allman Brothers Band)
  • Layla – Eric Clapton (iTunes//YouTube) – it’s all about that opening guitar riff and that piano ending. I used to be able to play the solo, I couldn’t play it at speed but I could play it at a recognisable tempo!
  • Mr Blue Sky – ELO (iTunes//YouTube)
  • Thinking Out Loud – Ed Sheeran (iTunes//YouTube) – he’s a talented guitarist and then he learnt to dance for this video! Rock on!

Currently…9th March

Currently

I started this post sat in the kitchen of the church office waiting for the lasagne to cook yesterday. Chris is running a training/team building evening for his supervisors and I ended up cooking dinner for everyone while my Mum had the boys.

I thought ahead far enough to bring things to do but my iPad isn’t great at keeping up with blog posts not it’s running the latest release of the WordPress iPad app. Oh well I’ll stick with it and we’ll see how it goes.

So here’s the Currently post for this week…

Watching
Unbreakable: Kimmy Schmidt – It’s the first Netflix Original that I’ve actually sort of liked. OITNB wasn’t really my cup of tea and although House of Cards is that US politic drama like The West Wing, The Good Wife or Scandal I’ve really not got into it.
Grey’s Anatomy
Call The Midwife – it was the last episode this weekend and it made me cry and then shout at the TV
Gossip Girl – mixed opinions about this, I guess it’s still growing on me but I’m onto Season 2 at the moment
Fireman Sam, Thomas and Friends and Bob The Builder – these are the ones that I watch with Jaxon. Personally I find Norman annoying – why is he not punished more for the naughty things he does and who would want their kids hanging out with him? (Oh yes I think way too much into it clearly!).

Reading: 
If You Find This Letter by Hannah Brencher – it arrived on my Kindle this morning – HOW EXCITING!! I’d actually half forgotten that I had ordered it – oops!

Listening:
At the moment, as I write this Jaxon is crying because I just put him down to sleep. I wish he wouldn’t cry so much but if I “feed him to sleep” then he wakes up when I put him down and he cries anyway. Ugh being a Mum is a tough job – some days the tough side is more than the rewarding side but we’ll get the balance the other way soon enough.

Making:
I’m working on granny squares for a blanket at the moment as well as granny squares for the yarnbombing project. I need to get a move on with the blanket because the deadline is looming and there’s a possibility that actually the deadline might move – eek!

Planning:
My epic to do list. Chris and I have this plan to have a like a “whole house audit” so list every job that needs doing even if it’s a tiny thing like tidy the computer table or hide my VW Beetle and Campervan collection before Jaxon starts to play with it.

Loving:
The warmer weather – okay it’s not quite tropical summers but it’s warmer and it means I don’t have to wear a coat which means one less thing to try and juggle when we’re out and about – I’m still not entirely sure if Jaxon is warm enough but I make sure he’s in at least one layer plus a jumper if not two plus the jumper. Once we’re in the car it’s often warm enough because I can turn the blowers up to about 27 degrees and then it’s roasting!

Lost (Cover Reveal)

Lost book cover Elle Field

Pre-order here: Amazon UK | Amazon US

There are a couple of book releases that are coming in the next few months that I am super excited about. I’m extra excited that I get to be part of the cover reveal and blog tour for Elle Field’s latest release which is due out on the 7th April (just in time for a certain birthday! Actually it happens that me and Elle are birthday buddies!)

“I’m starting to realise that age is just a number, but Tabitha pointed out I’m only saying that because I’m twenty-five, engaged, and have my life together. (Touch wood things stay that way.)”

Arielle is back! OK, she’s not on her way to becoming the next Coco Chanel, her childhood dream, but she is one way step closer to running her very own shop with business partner Felicity.

She’s also planning her perfect romantic wedding to fiancé, Piers, and Arielle is starting to think that she’s finally found her place in the world… Of course life is never that straightforward.

With a new-found foe interfering with her shop decisions, not to mention haughty wedding planners and loved ones facing personal struggles, will Arielle figure out what’s important before all is lost?

Lost is the second book in the delightful Arielle Lockley chick lit series, following on from the #1 best seller Kept, which was long listed in the Best Romantic Comedy category, SpaSpa Book Awards 2013. Shopaholic and Lindsey Kelk fans will love the next book in this funny coming of age series.

About the author:

Elle Field is a twenty-something chick lit author who lives in London with her boyfriend and their cat. She enjoys exploring and photographing Blighty’s capital, seeing far too many musicals, and eating her way around London’s culinary delights.

You can read Elle’s literary, London and life adventures on her blog, on twitter @ellefie and like her page on Facebook.

If like me you have a Goodreads account you can connect with her here.

Make sure you keep an eye open for the book tour starting on the 8th April

Lost Book Tour #LostBT

Let Your Blog Shine: 5 Oddest Things in Your Purse

LYBS March Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

5 Oddest Things in Your Purse

Purse….okay US definition of a purse looks like this…

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UK definition looks like this…Unknown

So, in my purse (UK)

  • a half penny coin from Blists Hill
  • Watch battery
  • old train tickets – one from going to court with a friend last week
  • prayer request card from the ladies meal last weekend
  • a business card from a group of local Mormon missionaries.

and purse (US)…

My purse is usually Jaxon’s changing bag rather than carrying a second bag with me.

The five oddest things in that purse are…

  • crochet hook and wool
  • sewing needle (this lives in a little manicure kit that has a mini pair of scissors too)
  • freezer bag of boiled sweets and mint imperials (I’ve had a cold and sore throat so had sucky sweets to try and reduce the amount I’ve coughed. The lemon ones are low/reduced sugar ones and the mint imperials work out at half a syn each on Slimming World – not great but still better than Strepsils).
  • phone charger – I guess not so weird but the fact that I have to carry it is crazy – why does my battery keep dying?!!
  • Slimming World book – again not so odd but very helpful when needed

Goals…Update

Goals March

Life

  • Journal my way through the year
  • This is sort of happening, January and February I was definitely more focused but heading towards the end of February I was getting distracted with other things and didn’t get back to it so I probably need a catch up or just a cut and restart.

  • Have a date night with Chris at least once a month (without the boys)
  • Since starting the Marriage Course at church we get Marriage time on a Wednesday to do that but also we’re making sure there’s another slot in the week which is good – this seems to coincide with Our Sidekick going to contact so that we just need a babysitter for Jaxon.

  • Get to weight target
  • I’m working on this, having been poorly a fortnight ago I lost 3lbs in two weeks, hopefully I can shift the rest and get down to target.

  • Complete food diary (to aid in the weigh target goal)
  • I’ve not been very good at this. But I did ask for a new food diary page at group last week so I will make sure that I get this week’s filled and hopefully that will help to get there.

  • Attempt to complete step goals twice a week at least
  • I actually reduced my goal, I found I wasn’t making it over 7k on a regular basis so I dropped my goal to 7500 to try and encourage myself to get to that point, when I’m a bit more mobile and getting out and about I’ll then push it back up to 10k. Hoping some nicer weather is heading our direction so I can get out walking again.

  • Purchase and update diary
  • I went to buy a diary but I couldn’t find one with the specific layout I was looking for. I think I left it too late really – I guess I could go to Paperchase in MK but it’s silly driving to MK just for that. In the end I bought a Leuchtturm notebook and then created the pages myself – it unfortunately only runs from the beginning of February to September but I should hopefully be able to pick up an academic diary to cover the rest of the year or another notebook if that works better.

  • Sew the cross stitch kit from Christmas (it is Christmas themed but it’ll be ready for use at Christmas)
  • Okay…this was a good plan but I’m not actually sure where the kit went – I will have to track it down (but at this rate I’ll be cross stitching Christmas patterns in the summer!)

  • Reduce/Clear my In Progress reading list – see Goodreads for the current standing
  • I’ve finished a couple of books but the majority of them weren’t already on the list they were new additions! Oh dear!

  • Crochet “pavement” blanket
  • I fell out of love with the Pavement blanket so this has been put on hold but I have two other projects that I’ve gained in the mean time so need to get them done.

  • Keep on track with penpals
  • I have one letter outstanding to go to NY and a couple that are written but haven’t been mailed yet as I wrote them just before I was sick.

  • Learn how to knit socks
  • Knit a pair of socks
  • I went looking for the right size needles to attempt this but it didn’t happen. I think I need to text Judit for an instruction list and ask her to teach me tonight at knitting group if she can.

  • Try and get some sort of routine for Jaxon (I know he doesn’t always run to a routine but I want to try and get some sort of schedule including naps etc)
  • The routine is working better during the week but when the boys are at home during the weekend it doesn’t always stick so I think Jaxon sometimes gets a little confused but we are working on it.

Work

  • Create Daisy Media website
  • The website went live! YAY! It needs tweaking and updating but it’s there and it’s ticking over for now which is good.

  • Keep blog updated 2/3 times a week
  • This is sort of happening but not always – I am determined to get on it now!

  • Complete Website 1
  • It’s almost there, just finishing touches hopefully.

  • Redesign Website 2
  • This one hasn’t started as I need to complete the first one so that I can start playing with the template on the test site (talk about complicated – there must be another way – I think I need to go bounce that idea off Chris at some point!)

Home

  • Clear out DVDs
  • I did clear out a bunch of DVDs which were sent off to MagicMagpie. I got about £11 for like 30 DVDs – I’m sure I could have got fractionally more if I had put them on eBay but it’s the hassle of getting them all posted separately rather than all in one go. I think I’m going to organise another batch of DVDs to go before the end of April.

  • Temporary fix then proper fix the Summerhouse
  • Paint all the fencing
  • Sort the living room
  • Sort the bedroom
  • Sort under the bed
  • None of these have happened yet – the ones outside definitely need better weather to get them started.

  • Keep on top of sorting Jaxon’s clothes (space in the nursery is limited so have to make sure we keep on top of sorting out the clothes that are too small as he grows out of them)
  • Done! The latest batch were packed into an old nappies box this weekend and the two boxes are now stacked on the landing ready to go in the loft once Chris goes up there next.

  • Learn to boil an egg (oh it sounds really silly but I tried to boil eggs a couple of weeks ago and when I went to peel the first it popped all over the work top and was still raw inside….oh dear!)
  • Haven’t got to this one but we’re only a quarter of the way through the year.

Finance

  • Save up for a new MacBook
  • General save (rainy day sort of saving)
  • Saving for the Macbook got changed when I adopted Chris’s one – so I have a secondhand one in a way. With regards to saving for a rainy day that’s starting to happen slowly but surely and I’m sure we’ll get there.

Currently…March 2nd

Currently...

Watching:
Gossip Girl (Season Two)
Bangkok Airport (documentary on BBC)
Elementary
Transformers (well part of it because Our Sidekick had it on, something about it bugs me though)

Reading:
Catching up on blog posts and commenting.

Listening:
As I write this, Our Sidekick is working on his college application and Chris is trying to decide what to watch on the TV.

Making:
Working on a couple of projects including granny squares of varying sizes for a yarnbombing project in Hampshire.

Planning:
Currently planning blog posts. I’m determined to be more organised this month. Can’t be that complicated can it?

Loving:
Hanging out with the boys

TIGF: Things I’m Grateful For

Vintage slate chalk board hanging on wooden background

Each Friday I join with Ashley from Hello Nature and Laura from Ginger + Co to share the things I’m grateful for this week.

Chris
Last Friday was horrible. I’d not felt right when I woke up to feed Jaxon but figured that I’d just got too hot in bed and that I’d be okay in the morning but I woke up at 4am and the tummy bug went to town on my body.I made a charge for the bathroom but didn’t make it in time. I am pretty sure that Chris thought either the bed was on fire or something was seriously wrong with Jaxon because of the speed that I got out of bed! I would get up for a bit then go back to bed. Thankfully Chris was on it, around 8am he phoned into work and played nurse maid to me while looking after Jaxon. He took Jaxon downstairs so I could sleep and it was the best sleep I’ve had in ages! I think I caught up. By late afternoon, Our Sidekick was feeling ill too so Chris looked after him as well. What a superstar, I am so grateful that he looked after Jaxon so that I could fight the bug – I don’t think thank you shows my gratitude enough!

E This weekend we have a ladies meal and I know that E has been working like a trooper to make sure that everyone’s food is ordered correctly, that everyone has a little present or card of encouragement and somehow she wil have done that all around her day job. She’s just fab! 

My Parents(again!)
This week we’ve had social work meetings for Our Sidekick amongst other bits and my parents have helped again by having Jaxon if needed. Uncle S was unable to have Jaxon this week when the Marriage Course was on so they were able to have Jaxon and Our Sidekick then. My Dad even had Jaxon today so that I could get some work bits done.

Let Your Blog Shine: Your Morning Routine

Let Your Blog Shine - Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

Your Morning Routine

We don’t really have a set morning routine but when we do have one it sort of goes along the lines of this.

I sleep until Jaxon wakes me, this usually is any time between 7:30 and 9 – it has been as late as 10 sometimes. Sometimes I even wake before him – on those occasions I try to be productive but most of the time I just chill in bed before getting up!

We might have a feed of milk first thing just to get ready to the idea of getting up and making a start on the day. I’ll change Jaxon and get him dressed, he then plays in the middle of my bed while I get dressed.

Jaxon after Breakfast

We have breakfast in the kitchen, Jaxon sits in his high chair and we have the radio on – usually playing UCB UK. We usually catch the end of the Breakfast Show.

Breakfast is currently some form of porridge for Jaxon. He’s on Apple and Blueberry I think at the moment but he’s not a fan of it some mornings – maybe we should go back to the banana instead.

After he’s had his breakfast (or during depending on how stubborn he’s being it could be during!) I have my breakfast usually while checking Facebook and Twitter. I tend to have supermarket own brand Shreddies along with semi skimmed milk, if I’m being sensible then I’ll weigh both so that they fit in with the Healthy Extras on Slimming World.

From here we then start our day properly. 

Some mornings I am really unorganised and Jaxon ends up having some kind of breakfast while we’re out and about, I guess once he’s on proper food it might be fractionally easier to do breakfast on the go but for now we make it work. I try to get up over an hour before we need to be anywhere but some mornings it just doesn’t happen and we end up charging out the door – I think once he’s in the next car seat instead of the one he’s currently in then it’ll take a few minutes less to get him into the car and get on the road which in turn should make everything just a little less stressful!

TIGF: Things I’m Grateful For

Vintage slate chalk board hanging on wooden background

Each Friday I join with Ashley from Hello Nature and Laura from Ginger + Co to share the things I’m grateful for this week.

Uncle S
The ever so lovely Uncle S offered to babysit this week even though there was no Marriage Course as it’s half term. We were able to go out for dinner at That’s Amore which is a local Italian Restaurant in town. Uncle S was so amazing, Jaxon was taken poorly as I wrote about yesterday, Uncle S texted me, to let me know what was happening and I said that we were almost finished and that we’d come home, he said not to worry that they were okay but then about 5-10 minutes later he said that Jaxon had been sick again. We got home and Uncle S carried on looking after Jaxon while we got packed in case we were about to be admitted overnight again. Yesterday morning he texted me again to see how Jaxon was doing – I know one text message isn’t a lot but the fact that he took the time between appointments at his job means a lot.

Friends
A friend of mine has three grown up kids – her eldest is the same age as my cousin Vicky. She commented on one of my pictures from Wednesday/Thursday saying that if I needed any shopping etc. just to let her know and she’d pop out for me then drop it off. I said that I thought were okay and didn’t need any shopping. Then another comment popped up: “Even if you want me to sit with Jaxon if you need some me time or to have a bath – I know how exhausting being in hospital can be !!!”. Okay needed to scrap my heart off the floor. Having not slept entirely great all week everything is putting me on the edge of tears lol. This made me nearly start happy tears!

The Matron and Our Student Nurses
When Jaxon was poorly and we had to go into hospital, we were really blessed that the same Matron was on both times and we had lovely student nurses both times, our local hospital is a training hospital and I am all for students using me as practice – I had student Midwifes when Jaxon was born and we had student nurses this time too. They all need to learn and as long as they are willing to ask questions and ask for help then I have no problem.

Family
Again family gets a thank you. I rang Mum on Wednesday to tell her what was happening and started the call with “Hi Mum. It’s me” and she responded with “I know that” or something like that which made me laugh and broke the tension. We then chatted through what was happening and what she would do and things like that. We then talked about collecting Our Sidekick today if we got admitted. In the end we were discharged but Chris had taken the car with him and I was reluctant to take Jaxon out unless I needed to.

Medical Assistance
I know that everyone has their own experiences of the NHS and sometimes they are not good but in the all the times we’ve been while I was pregnant and since Jaxon has been born, we’ve always been looked after and have things to be grateful for. We’ve been blessed with lovely staff who have answered any questions that we’ve had, if they’ve been students they’ve always been and asked questions to make sure they are doing the right thing. We are blessed to have a health system like we do.

Unexpected Trips (Part Deux)

Our second trip to hospital this week

It’s the small hours of Thursday morning this time and it’s time for Unexpected Trips: Part Deux. Jaxon had been throwing up since 7pm and although I felt like a paranoid first time mother I wanted him to get checked out.

The first two times he threw up I wasn’t entirely worried just figured it would pass but while we were out for date night and Uncle S was on duty at our house he threw up 3 more times. Uncle S was again a super star and took care of Jaxon.

We got home and decided that, that was too many time for him to have thrown up in that short amount of time. I rang the Out of Hours line to get a call back from the doctors and then we packed for an overnight stay. I remembered comfy clothes but forgot my toothbrush and that was the thing I needed Tuesday morning lol.

So it’s now almost 1am and we need to wake Jaxon for his next dose of diarolyte but let’s rewind.

So we arrived in BEDOC again around 10pm. We were seen by a nurse who took Jaxon’s sats. His oxygen levels were 98% and his heart rate was normal. We were sent back out into the waiting room where he threw up again.

I was getting twitchy, I’d already explained twice on the phone what was going on and then again to the Nurse – I know they were just doing their job but my insides were churning because I couldn’t fit it – I couldn’t make him better.

We then went into see the On Call GP and repeated the story of what had happened including the fact that we were already admitted this week for observations. When Jaxon threw up in the middle of the consultation she could tell that we weren’t being melodramatic – the puke was now a very bright stomach acid yellow. I managed to hitch him out of his car seat and over the sink in the consulting room rather than him just throwing down himself or down me. The doctor attempted to get hold of the on call paeds team but the automated switchboard wasn’t playing ball and when she direct dialled the team they weren’t responding to their pages which was stressing me out a little bit too!

In the end I’m not sure if she got through or if she just rang Riverbank and told them we were coming but we got our referral letter and off we went. On the most direct route there’s a door that you need a security pass to get through after a certain time. It happened that as we were about to turn round and walk the longer route that we had done earlier in the week, a security guy walked past us – Chris asked him if he could let us through the door but he didn’t have the right pass, but as we were stood there a lad walked past and the security guy asked him if he could help us, rather than just letting us through the first door – he escorted us all the way to the front door of Riverbank Ward – I said to Chris he should have a gold star – I wish I’d taken his name so I could write into the hospital and tell his boss what a superstar he was.

We were put in the bed opposite to were we were before – the cot that Jaxon had been in, was still in the bay we had been in and I expected them to put us back in that same bay but they didn’t. We had a lovely student nurse called Chloe, she came over and introduced herself by name and took all our details to fill in a medical history sheet. While we were sat there the Matron from Monday walked past and stopped by to say hello. I made some comment about seeing her again then explained how we’d just been discharged less than 48 hours ago and she looked puzzled and asked why we’d been in before. I said “We were in with suspected cyanosis” and then penny dropped like a rock! “Oh yeah blue arms!”. Haha! Is it a good thing or a bad thing that she’s remembered him?

We were given a bottle of diarolyte for him to drink although with a chart to record how much he had and if he vomited, passed urine or had a bowel movement. The first dosage was 9ml to make sure he could keep that down. He managed to keep it all down but did dribble some down himself. Every 10 minutes between then and about 2am we had to give him 18ml, when we switched from a syringe thing to a teat it was more of a guess so one time he ended up with 25ml instead of 18 but he kept it all down which was the main issue.

We changed his nappy and although it was still quite dry there was enough liquid in there to show he wasn’t dehydrated. The doctor that we had was really lovely – she wasn’t the same doctor that we had but when I said that we’d been in previously she did send the Matron to look for any notes that were filed from our earlier trip so that they could look at the blood tests that Jaxon had taken. I had taken some post it notes with me so that I could do some other bits if I was filling time. I got some out and used them to make extra notes on our chart because the box wasn’t big enough. A tick worked for some of the boxes but I figured more info was better than none especially as I didn’t want to get discharged only to be back there again today. The matron came to check on us and was very impressed with the extra notes especially when I said about more info being better than none.

Around 2am we finished the final dose and by 3am we were home and back in bed. Jaxon didn’t settle straight away but I gave him a little feed of milk and that helped him go to sleep. I think he woke up a second time but I’m not entirely sure whether I got up for him or if that’s when Chris got up for him, the problem with sleep deprivation is that things get a little foggy lol. Chris gave Jaxon to me, he had a feed and we both went back to sleep. We woke up around 10am when my alarm went off (as I needed to be up in case Our Sidekick didn’t have his keys to get back in following his sleepover).

We took up residence in front of the TV and watched Mulan and started Hercules. I’ve now watched Grey’s Anatomy and now on Bones while Jaxon naps. Hopefully that’s the end of unexpected trips to hospital for a while. We have got an open entry pass thingy for 24 hours from discharge just in case we need to go back – I’m really hoping we don’t need it but I am grateful that the doctor gave it to us.

Unexpected Trips

It’s now Wednesday evening and I’ve started this post about three times. The first time was the very small hours of Tuesday morning. Yesterday [Monday] started as normal, well other than Our Sidekick being at home as it’s half term. We went to Hobbycraft with Emma and then went to Subway for lunch. Not on plan but I made sure there was cucumber, green pepper and gherkins in there so I had some Free Food.

We got home and Jaxon was asleep in his car seat, I put a muslin over the hood so that it was nice and dark. He slept for about an hour and a half – it was quite along time in comparison to normal but I guess I hadn’t entirely noticed.

Chris took Jaxon for a change and I could hear him giggling away while Chris sorted him out. He brought Jaxon back downstairs and gave him his dinner. Jaxon kept messing about while eating but also wasn’t really eating. [Since then I’ve looked at Wonder Weeks and it could just be that he’s about to hit another leap in the next week or so].

Once he’d finished Chris took him back upstairs to change his outfit completely as his dinner was all down him. I got a shout from Chris telling me to go upstairs and quickly as it was urgent. I got upstairs and Chris told me that Jaxon’s arms had been blue but the rest of him was normal colour. When I took a look his arms were like a dusky pinky purple sort of colour. As they were returning to normal and he was acting normal I wasn’t entirely concerned but Chris wasn’t sure, especially as Jaxon’s breathing was a little on the fast side and when I listened to his heart it was racing. (All of which could have just been the excitement of Daddy being around and the urgency of the situation).

I was heading out to a holiday club meeting with my Mum, so when she arrived I asked her to take a look – well by then Jaxon was playing to the crowd – Mummy, Daddy and Grandma all there at once – HOW EXCITING!!

Mum and I went to the meeting while Chris rang 111 and waited for a call back. When I spoke to him towards the end of the meeting he’d spoken to the on call GP on the 111 service and they’d decided that we should take Jaxon in to be checked over just in case. After we dropped home H (my SIL) following the meeting, Mum dropped me off outside A&E so I could walk round to BEDOC (the out of hours doctors bit in the hospital) and also offered to take Our Sidekick back to hers if he wanted to go rather than sitting in the hospital. Our Sidekick and Chris were both there and Jaxon was there looking round at all the people and the things going on. I went back out to tell Mum that I’d found them and that thank you for the offer but Our Sidekick wanted to stay with us.

We were seen shortly after that by the on call GP. He listened to Jaxon’s heart and chest which were all normal and clear, he took a medical history including things about Jaxon’s breech birth and things like that. He then decided that we needed to see the Paediatric Doctor who would have a better idea of things that could affect babies his age.

We were referred to Riverbank Ward so packed up the buggy and walked through the hospital. The quick route was all locked up so we had to walk round the outside (okay had it been an emergency and we needed to have got there quicker would we still have had to go outside in the cold?). We arrived at the ward and they put us in Willow Bay which is part of the CAU (Children’s Assessment Unit – I guess it’s the equivalent of AAU – Acute Assessment Unit on the adult ward).

At about 11:20 I said to Chris that him and Our Sidekick should go home if we haven’t seen a doctor by midnight. The doctor arrived to see Jaxon at about 00:30. After checking him over we were admitted for the night. I think it’s the first time since he was born that I spent more time awake at night than sleeping! In the end I was running on about two and a half hours sleep.

We saw the paediatric doctor in the morning during rounds, they asked that we had some blood tests done but other than that we could be discharged. (Yes! We were both getting tetchy and claustrophobic).

The phlebotomist came to collect us and she was very lovely. I held on to Jaxon really tightly while he had his blood test. I was tired and so what normally wouldn’t have phased me was making me really upset. I was nearly in tears! Once we got back to the ward we packed up ready to go home. I went to find the doctor just to check we could go home and she said yes and that we’d get called with any results if there were concerns.

We walked home via The Fountain to collect Chris and get a drink of something other than water or very watered down squash. Everyone asked how he was and sent well wishes. Made my very tired emotional self feel very loved. I was so grateful.

The gratitude continued. When I got home I fell asleep on the sofa. When I woke up Our Sidekick was stood over me and said “I’ll take Jaxon you go to bed”. What a superhero!

When Chris got home we had pancakes which were the best ever! Had chocolate spread and banana on one, chocolate spread on its own on another and then sweetener and lemon on the last one.

As I finish this post we’re back in BEDOC. Jaxon has been throwing up since about 6:30 this evening and my heart is hurting for him. I can’t fix it. I can’t make him better. We’ve been seen by a nurse to take his sats and things like that but we’re waiting to see the doctor. He’s not keeping down water so we could end up being admitted…. The nurse thought he might have picked up a bug when we were on the ward Monday/Tuesday and so now on Wednesday he’s throwing up.

Let Your Blog Shine: Rants and Ramblings

Let Your Blog Shine - Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

Rants and Ramblings

  • I know the speed limit is sort of advisory but when you’re doing over 15mph under that you’re holding up other motorists and as my driving instructor said “If you can’t keep up with the traffic get off the road”
  • Just the same some motorists believe the speed limit doesn’t apply to them so does anything around 20 or 30mph OVER THE LIMIT!
  • General Election – Assaulting my inbox telling me how you’re better than the next guy isn’t going to make me vote for you.
  • On that note – which party has the most Christian values?
  • How is it I know more about US Politics than UK politics? Am I just not watching the right TV shows or reading the right blogs/books etc?

TIGF: Things I’m Grateful For…

Gratitude

Things I'm Grateful For

Joining up with:
Ashley from Hello Nature, Laura from The Laura Way & Nay from Coffee-N-Ink.

I’m writing this post sat on the floor of The Fountain while Chris and the team tidy up. We stopped by for a flying visit and I thought I’d use the time sort of wisely. I attempted to sort out Chris’s Valentine’s present but the shop I went to didn’t have what I needed so going to have to go out again later when I get in. This post was started last week so it’s like two weeks gratefulness.

So here are the things I’m grateful for this week:

Blogging Friends 
The last 12 hours or so we’ve been having a team effort fixing bits of coding – it’s take a few attempts and a few of us working on it but we’ve come together as a group and managed to fix it.

Customer Service
I managed to lose my Fitbit and yes I’m gutted! I spoke to Customer Service at FitBit and they’ve been able to offer some suggestions of things to try but I’m pretty sure it’s run out of charge now 🙁 Their Customer Service warns you that they might not get back to you straight away and it could be up to two days – the response I got was within six hours! But then after replying I didn’t hear from them until Tuesday when I got a notification to tell me a “goodwill replacement” would be delivered on Thursday. However after not hearing back from them and trying the school to see if it had been handed in after Slimming World I went to buy a new Fitbit on Monday thinking that was enough time to wait. Well yesterday the “goodwill” replacement arrived so I now have a new one that I bought and a new one that I was “given” so what do I do now? Sell the replacement? Return the replacement I bought? Eek I don’t know!

My Parents
Again I am grateful for them. Yesterday they were originally having Jaxon so that we could go to Sixth Form Open Evening with Our Sidekick but we had a change of plan and ended up going for dinner with Our Sidekick. Extra focused time for him was needed so my parents still had Jaxon for us. They currently have Jaxon as we went to a fostering meeting that we have to do every so often.

Uncle S
He’s a superhero. So that Chris and I can do the marriage course he comes to our house and babysit the boys for us. It’s a long day for him as he does extra voluntary stuff before work on a Wednesday, does his full day at work, charges home to grab dinner then comes to ours to take over from me while we’re out.

Our Sidekick
I’m grateful for him because yesterday when he got in from his friend’s house after school he looked after Jaxon so that I could have a shower and have some time to myself before we went out. He was packing the papers for his round while looking after Jaxon and I think he had the television on too so it wasn’t like it was a chore (or at least I don’t think he found it was a chore).

Dear Jaxon…7 Months

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

Last week you turned seven months old. I had got as far as writing this post but didn’t get as far as finishing it. There were too many exciting (and not so exciting adventures going on!)

You’ve recently got the hang of sitting up. Sometimes you have a wobble and fall forwards or backwards but overall you’re doing okay and getting there. When you’re lying down you often roll onto your side or sometimes on to your front but still not quite got the hang of rolling the other way.

One day this week I put you down for a nap and you managed to roll yourself onto your side in your sleep. You looked really comfortable and I figured that if you got uncomfortable or stuck then you’d wake up and cry rather than me move you and wake you up.

We keep trying to encourage you to have more tummy time as we think you might be about to skip crawling. If you lie down on your back you can wiggle yourself across the room given the chance. I kept checking on you but you were on the floor for about two hours one afternoon and had made it about a metre across the floor and were playing with the bottom of your chair.

You’ve just been moved up to the next stage on baby food but you’re not convinced – I don’t think you like the fact that you have to work for it by chewing up the lumps which weren’t there before!

Love you

Mummy

Weight: You smashed 20lbs and you’re now 20lbs 5.5oz
Clothes: You’re in 6-9 months but in some things we’re heading towards 9-12 months just because you don’t fit!
Nappies: Size 4
Feeds: You still have milk during the day but for breakfast and dinner you get some solids.
Teeth: Still on the six although 7 and 8 can be felt in the gum.
Bedtime: We take you up around 9pm, you have a feed and then you head to bed, some nights are more settled that others but you nearly always get to sleep for about 3-4 hours in that first block.
Likes: You are a little telly addict so when Grandpa puts on Thomas and Friends especially for you then you’re glued!
Dislikes: You’re not a fan of the lumps in the new food but in order to move onto more yummier things is to eat those lumps and get used to it. You wouldn’t want blundered burgers or sausages lol.

Let Your Blog Shine: Signs I am Getting Old

Let Your Blog Shine - Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

Signs I am Getting Old

  • Quite a few kids that I used to babysit are graduating university this year!
  • The kids who were in my team at Gatecrashers who are now old enough to interview for part time or full time jobs in be building I worked in.
  • And those kids queue behind you in the pub to buy alcohol.
  • When you no longer know who is at Number 1 in the Top 40 unless you look it up on Google or tune in especially at quarter to seven on a Sunday evening to find out.
  • You’d rather order in dinner and binge watch TV on Netflix rather than go out clubbing or drinking.
  • You have more Grey’s than some of the people double your age (either that or the boys are giving them to me!)

The Ordinary Moments #1

The Ordinary Moments

Sometimes it’s hard to know what to write about. What did I do this week that people out there in the world might find interesting. I guess that’s part of the challenge. So this is about focusing on those other moments, the ordinary moments, those moments to anyone else would look boring but to me they aren’t.

This week started on a disrupted note. Our Sidekick went to a Parkour event over in Milton Keynes at the gym and it finished at 7am, in order to get us all back from church. He really wanted to catch the bus back with his friends but the first bus gets into Bedford just after 9:30 so that would make him late for church.

I guess we thought the craziness would pass Jaxon by as he could sleep in the car. It didn’t entirely work like that and he ended up napping in the evening while we watched Call The Midwife (Actually I ended up napping too! I missed a chunk of the storyline!)

Yesterday Jaxon was up with the larks after the disruption on Sunday but this morning was back to his snuggly self. He woke up for his feed just before 8am and fell asleep next to me. I love the random little snoring noises he makes. There’s a whole symphony of noises. He doesn’t quite chatter but he does make some funny little noises in his sleep that make my heart sing.

Currently…9th February

Currently...

Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
Pretty Little Liars (Season 5 – caught up to the episodes that are currently being shown in the US)
Death in Paradise (Series 2)
Life Unexpected (Season 1 – What is it with me and shows that got cancelled after one season?!)

Reading:
Notes from phone calls, Business card instructions (or at least measurements), random interesting emails.

Listening:
The audio track from the amount of TV I’ve been watching while working on different things. As I write this blog post I’ve got Life Unexpected playing in the background (well I did – Chris has just come downstairs and is discussing what we’re going to do to get our house in order).

Making:
Been crocheting my fingers off still but actually managed to get some more of the big Project Life journal I have done. Although my layouts are all in 12×12 layouts I’m looking for a smaller book if they do one. The local Hobbycraft only holds the 12×12 in stock and I don’t even know if I can order a smaller one through them – Might require some searching online or speaking nicely to my US penpals and see if one of them can send me it…

Planning:
Business bits are still happening I’m guessing it’s one of those things that will keep going while I get settled or at least stable even if not settled!

Loving:
The Marriage Course. Chris and I have been really blessed by a friend of ours. He’s giving up his evening to come and babysit the boys for us so that we can do the Marriage Course at church (it’s written by the same church who wrote the Alpha Course and Parenting Course material). Whenever I tell my friends that we’re doing The Marriage Course they instantly thing it’s the same as Marriage Prep stuff that we did before we got married or that it’s therapy because we have issues. I like to think of it as Car Maintenance for Marriage. You know how you take your car to the garage once a year or so to have it serviced and an MOT. Well The Marriage Course is a bit like that, you learn techniques to try and sort out the issues and make sure you have time together. We’ve been really rubbish in making sure that we have a date night. Thankfully going out of the house for the Marriage Course has made sure that we have that slot together and then we are fortunate enough to have my parents local and Jaxon’s godmother who will help us out with babysitting Jaxon when needed.

Let Your Blog Shine: Ten Things I Believe

Let Your Blog Shine - Blog Prompts

Over on Facebook I’m part of a blogging group. On the Wednesdays of each month we have a group prompt that we’re all going to answer. This weeks’ prompt is…

Ten Things I Believe

I believe in God. I believe that God created the world and all of us whether we chose him or not. I believe that God sent Jesus to die on the cross at Calvary to save us from our sins but also that he rose again on the third day to sit at God’s side. Although my faith plays a big part in my life I don’t seem to write about it enough or usually start the post with some kind of apology. A fellow member of the LYBS group regularly writes about her faith and her quiet time reading her bible and praying and it’s inspired me to stop apologising and get on with it.

I believe in the goodness of people. We live in a broken world where we would rather complain about our situation or those around us rather than appreciating what we have or building those people up. At church this weekend we heard about a project in Ghana supporting a community there. Unfortunately around March sort of time just before the harvest comes in, the number of children sold into trafficking goes up because the families just can’t afford to look after their kids – heartbreaking! But I believe the goodness of people can make a difference and make a change both here and away.

I believe in sticking your music on and dancing out the stresses (think Grey’s Anatomy!). Just stick on the music and dance, dance away what ever is stressing you out. I promise you’ll feel a better!

I believe a balanced diet can be a bar of chocolate in each hand. Then again now I’m on Slimming World as long as you have enough syns in the day and you have a handful of free food first then you can spend those syns on a bar of chocolate in the other hand!

I believe in hugs! Happy hugs and sad hugs, they are all needed. The best ones are free hugs. At Soul Survivor they used to have “Hug A Steward” at one of the last meetings as a thank you for all the work they do in the Big Top each year. I think it got banned in the end as it was getting too violent (not like horrible violent but the pile ons were causing injuries rather than sharing love like they were supposed to).

I believe that when Jaxon is a grown up he’ll probably be as crazy and adventurous as his Daddy. Yes it’s terrifies me as I’d rather curl up with a book and read than go abseiling or rock climbing but I am determined to suck it up and join in the crazy if that’s what Jaxon wants to do.

I believe that a handwritten penpal letter is the best kind of sunshine on any day. Even with the advances in technology and how easy it is to send a text message or an email, I would still love to receive a handwritten (or typed) letter in the mail (or hand delivered that works too!).

I believe that  we are blessed to have Our Sidekick in our lives. Lots of people tell us how great we have done to give him what we have but part of me thinks we are blessed to have him. Most of the time he’s lovely and polite and a joy to be around – okay he has his teenage stroppy moments but that’s once in a while usually when HALT is going on as well as the situation we might be disagreeing over.

I believe in helping other people when I can. In the last two years ish since I’ve learnt to crochet I’ve taught a bunch of people to crochet. I’ve also taught knitting to someone recently and starting next week we’re going to have a Knit and Natter session at the YMCA Fountain in town. I’m really excited that I can share my passion with other people.

I believe in sharing knowledge like a skills swap. Okay so I know how to knit but I don’t know how to make a pumpkin pie. But maybe you know how to make the pie, so you could make me the pie and in return I knit a scarf for a Christmas present or something like that.

Review: Freida’s Feeding Food

Lovely bars from Frieda's Pantry

Since Jaxon arrived back in the summer I’ve looked at various recipes for Lactation Cookies and other homemade healthy snacks. Especially when I was first getting the hang of how much I needed to eat to make enough milk but not eating too much that I turned into a couch potato. On one particular occasion I had a salad bowl from the supermarket while we were out and about but poor Jaxon was super grumpy that evening because although the milk had filled him up because it wasn’t as full of calories as it might have been he got hungry quicker. I’ve found that sometimes lactation cookies have addition ingredients that I need to buy from the health foods store rather than the supermarket so they can turn out a little pricey. Then I found these…

A friend of mine posted on Facebook about this new product called Freida’s Feeding Food. Well I got in touch, we had a lovely chat and I was sent some bars to try. Well oh my they are lovely. They are the same size as a chocolate bar so you can chuck it in your changing bag and take it with you when you’re out and about. They taste a bit like aniseed which I love (Apparently that’s the fennel in the mixture which encourages lactation! Which is funny because I don’t think I liked fennel when it arrived in our veggie box and Chris cooked it for us).

From their website:
Freida’s Feeding Food is based on a recipe that has been used by women in the Eastern world for hundreds of years.

It is a tasty and nutritious food bar for breastfeeding mothers. Freida’s Feeding Food is rich in Omega 3 and Omega 6 which are good fats for baby and you!

They can be purchased online at Freida’s Pantry. They come in four different size packs starting with 3 bars going up to 14 bars and when bought in “bulk” the price comes down.

The bars work out at about £1.20 each (£1.10 when bought in a larger quantity like 7 or 10 bars) – originally I thought that was a little more than I would pay for a cereal bar but having compared it against things like chocolate from the shop, a box of cereal bars or even just a giant cookie it’s a similar price and why wouldn’t I pay that on something that’s healthy and beneficial to me and Jaxon rather than something like a giant chocolate chip cookie that probably has over a days worth of Slimming World syns in it. it’s a little more than I would pay if I was grabbing a cereal bar in the supermarket for example but actually I bought a giant chocolate chip cookie from a stand in town today for £1 so why wouldn’t I pay that on something that’s healthy and beneficial to me and Jaxon. (After using the Syn calculator on the Slimming World website it has the equivalent of 9 syns in each bar, it is a lot on one item but when you think about the benefits and the fact that as a breastfeeding mum I’m encouraged to use all my syns each day, spending 9 on one bar isn’t that much).

Here’s the science bit…
They contain nuts and seeds in the recipe which contain things called galactalogues, which is a food or substance that may help induce lactation. (One of those technical terms that I’m not actually all that sure how to pronounce) They can also be helpful for mums who are expressing/pumping for their baby rather than breastfeeding directly. Galactalogues are most effective if mum is maintaining frequent breast stimulation and has a healthy balanced diet.

Freida's Feeding Food

This is a sponsored post. In return for the review I received 2 packs of 7 bars. The opinions are mine and all images minus the product image above this are my own.  

Currently…2nd February

Currently...

Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
Pretty Little Liars (Season 4)
Death in Paradise (Series 2)

Reading:
Mainly articles on the internet rather than books – I really want to get back into reading more books but I don’t seem to find the time. Even down time is spent tied reading things of a device rather than a paper book.

Listening:
The Disney CD that I have in the car for Jaxon. If I don’t skip it back to the beginning in time after one of the Lion King songs it starts playing Fairytale of New York because I still have Christmas music in the car. I need to sort it out.

Making:
Still working on the Pavement Blanket. I have a line of granny squares forming along the back of the sofa, probably annoying the boys but I like the colour!

Planning:
Still working on the business bits and it’s coming together. I worked on my website this week along with two meeting that I had with different people. One was really positive and a right laugh and the other one was more serious and a bit harder. Either way it’s coming together

Loving:
The fact that I got time to myself on Saturday. Chris and the Boys went to London for the day with some friends – I was due to go with them but had already got plans to see a friend for dinner so instead the boys all went together and I got the time to myself. I spent most of the day with Pretty Little Liars playing on the TV while doing bits on the computer.

Well That’s That…

Jaxon

Back in May I wrote this post about going on Maternity Leave. For one or another reason I decided to take Maternity Leave at the beginning of May even though Jaxon wasn’t due until the beginning of July. It did mean that at some points I was twiddling my thumbs but other points I slept – I needed it! I received a letter last week asking me to get in touch about what was going to happen next. Was I going back to work? Was I finishing work? I had a rough idea even last summer at the beginning of my Maternity Leave that I was more than likely not going back to work, but what was I going to do instead?

I had to make the decision by today, I had emailed towards the end of last week to ask what my options were and it was pretty much go back on the books and wait for an opportunity or leave. Even though I was like 99% sure of what the decision would be part of me didn’t want to close the door, I didn’t want to give up a job that has sort of been waiting for me to go back to. I spoke to Chris and that was the final 1% a decision was made. So…I’m not going back to my day job.

Yeah, I’m not going back, does that scare me, yes it does! Does it make me question my sanity? Yes a bit! Does it make me wonder if I can do a good enough job for other people and make my work stand out? Yes! Does it make me realise that I need to trust God for the future? Oh yes it does.

But here we go…on to something new, BRING IT ON!

Goals for 2015 – Finance

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My two main goals when it came to the finance section of my Goals for 2015 were to (1) Save up for a new MacBook and (2) General save (rainy day sort of saving).

After discussing the first with Chris and how it relates to me starting Daisy Media, we came up with a couple of plans. The final of which is the one that’s happening as we speak. He purchased his MacBook about 6-8 months after me which meant that it’s a slightly newer spec than my white MacBook. It also means that it’ll still run OS X Yosemite which is the newest OS that came out towards the end of last year. If he need to use a computer he heads for his iMac (which I have been using while he’s at work) rather than his MacBook.

So in the plan I end up adopting his MacBook, clearing it and starting from scratch – I got as far as the clearing it and starting from scratch but since about lunchtime OS X Yosemite has been downloading. It’s so almost there – 0.04GB to go so very close to installing.

That means I’ve sort of completed Goal 1 and am heading for Goal 2.

Currently…26th January

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Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
Pretty Little Liars (Season 2)
House M.D. (Season 1 – have gone back to the beginning while feeding. That way if Jaxon wakes up I already know what happens).
Death in Paradise (Series 2 – come on! I want Camille to know how Humphrey feels about her already!!)

Reading:
Smitten Book Club by Colleen Coble, Kristin Billerbeck, Diann Hunt and Denise Hunter.

Listening:

Making:
Working on The Pavement Blanket. Also started crocheting extra squares to use up some of my stash. They aren’t big squares but the idea is I should get two or three squares out of each ball (if not a few more!)

Planning:
Been working on my business plan and some others bits.

Loving:

January’s Favourite Post Link-Up

January Favorite Post

Hosts

Ashley from Hello Nature, Lexy from Crazy Cass Life, Nicole from a la Maxfield and Hannah from Hannah Says

My favorite post from January:

My favourite post would have to be Jaxon turning six months. It’s crazy to believe that half a year ago I was holding a new born. Now I have this baby that is gaining a personality at a rate of knots. Here’s to the next six months.

Now link up your favorite post from January!

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To Park or Not To Park…? (Part Two)

Could someone enlighten me to the intended users of Parent and Child spaces at a number of the local supermarkets?

I ask this question as a mother of a six month old baby, who currently rides in a rear facing carrier which is part of a travel system. Back in April I wrote a blog post about whether expectant mothers could use the spaces as I was six months pregnant. I found I struggling to get in and out of my car when I parked in normal width spaces due my own extra width and the lack of space between two parked cars. And on this particular occasion a car had parked too close to my car and I was only just able to squeeze my six month pregnant bump into the car.

When I approached the mainstream supermarkets (Tesco, Morrisons, Sainsbury’s and Asda) about their rules around pregnant ladies using their Parent and Child spaces while in their stores.

Tesco, Morrisons and Asda all agreed that as an expectant mother I could use the space however Sainsbury’s said that I could only use the space if accompanied by a child under the age of 12 unless I spoke to the individual store Customer Service Manager for special permission. I’m guessing I could have argued that a 30 week old foetus was under the age of 12 and was accompanying me but that wasn’t the point.

A couple of months ago, I took my baby to the doctors and ended up talking to a gentleman about how much of a challenge it can be to get the car seat out in supermarkets and he attempted to justify that Blue Badge holders could park in Parent and Child spaces when there aren’t enough Blue Badge spaces available and they weren’t accompanied by a child. Is this really allowed or has someone adopted the idea and it’s spread?

Furthermore, This week I have been to the Aldi store on Church Lane twice. On the first occasion there were no Parent and Child spaces available so I had to park in a normal space and manoeuvre the baby carrier from the car without causing damage to the car next to me. However as I walked towards the store two ladies left the store and returned to their cars, both weren’t accompanied by children and when I glanced into their cars there were no car seats. On the second visit (I didn’t have my child with me on this occasion), a young gentleman was loading his shopping into the boot of his car and although he had a “baby on board” yellow sign in the back of his car, he wasn’t accompanied by a child. Also on leaving the store there was another lady leaving her car to enter the store and again had parked in the Parent and Child space without being accompanied by a child.

Am I misunderstanding the intentional use of these spaces? If I’m allowed to use it when I’m not accompanied by my six month old child then I’ll start using them all the time instead of for their intended use.

I’m more and more tempted to start carrying slips like this.

This is a Parent and CHILD space. You seem to have forgotten your child

Found here – it’s titled My Parent and Child Parkin Crusade. I’d like to buy this lady a coffee and a slice of cake because I think it’s so simple but an absolutely genius idea.

Currently…19th January

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Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
Dirty Little Liars (I had been watching it in the past but stopped for some reason)
House M.D. (more rewatching of Season 1)
Elementary (Season 2 – been working our way through it altogether)

Reading:
Smitten Book Club by Colleen Coble, Kristin Billerbeck, Denise Hunter and Diann Hunt. I was looking through the books in the The Word for a present for my cousin who turned 21 this weekend and found this and it looked interesting. It means I’ve started another book without finishing what I’m currently reading – I think I’ll add it to my Goals for 2015 to cut down my In Progress reading list.

Listening:
As I write this post I’m listening to the boys chatter in the kitchen, Chris is feeding Jaxon and Our Sidekick is making dinner for us all. I also have the original We Will Rock You soundtrack playing as I had it playing when I was working on a website for one of my Daisy Media clients before her important meeting on Thursday.

Making:
More new friends. We’re forming a sort of Mummy Tribe and so far so good, we’re having our first coffee morning this week which should be good – we’re meeting at one of the lady’s house and currently have a waiting list of sorts because of there being restricted places at the lady’s house.

Planning:

Loving:

TIGF: Things I’m Grateful For

Gratitude

Things I'm Grateful For

Joining up with:
Ashley from Hello Nature, Laura from Ginger + Co & Nay from Coffee-N-Ink.

Opportunities A text message from my Mum started it but I think that was prompted by a conversation she had where she was on Monday and it’s gone from there. It’s a really good opportunity and very exciting.

Prayer Partners There’s a three of us and we’re encouraging each other in our faith but also other aspects of being a lady. One lady had teenage kids, one lady has her husband and her gorgeous fur baby. We’re each different in the sense we aren’t all employed in the same field or are the same age for example and get we’ve come together to give each this support. I’m very grateful to them especially this week which has been a little crazy.

Our Sidekick he got his mock GCSE results this week and some were what he expected and others weren’t. We had a little falling out yesterday and so I was a little worried that he’d be equally upset today. When he got in from school he wasn’t upset like yesterday and we had a lovely chat. He even arrived home with doughnuts that he’d bought himself. (Not going to help the waistline but when you’re teenager does something sweet like that you suck it up and deal with it!)

Two Other Mothers I’m a member of various pro-breastfeeding groups on FB. One of these has encouraged lots of little tribes to spring up to support the ladies around them who might need support and encouragement. The one that covers the UK doesn’t seem to be working a the moment. I commented on the page and explained that I needed some advice (and given its to do with breastfeeding Jaxon it was fairly urgent). Well two lovely ladies from Denver, Colorado were like “if you like join our group” so I’m an honorary/adopted Denverite for that group. I won’t get to go to meet ups and things like that but they are on the end of a FB message if I need someone which is super lovely.

Plane Tickets My friend is coming home for a couple of weeks from her mission trip and I’m soooo excited! When she left Jaxon was a bump and she’s been watching him grow from FB and emailed pictures. Now she gets to see him in person and I get to hug her for the first in nearly 10 months!! So excited to see her!

Secret Santa

I’m a member of a blogging tribe and we held a secret santa swap before Christmas. I have been part of this group for a couple of months and love the random conversations that happen some days. Recently it’s all been about how cold it is in Texas (The Laura Way), Indiana (Karen’s blog that I don’t have a link for at the moment) and Wisconsin (Hello Nature) and how this compares to Bedford as I’m pretty sure that I’m the only UK person. Now, for what I got in my Secret Santa package back in December.

The partner that I sent to was Shelby in California. You can read her post about her present here.

I received a present from Ashley from Hello Nature.

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I also received a bar of Hershey’s Cookies and Cream with a special Christmas wrapper which is my favourite and some mini Reese’s peanut butter cups that I shared with the boys (again some of my favourites).

The little green box like thing in the top picture is a journal. It’s really pretty and I just don’t know what to write in it. (I was proper organised and took photos as I opened the present and yet half of them have vanished!)

My First Car #myfirstwheelscomp

Sometime around February/March 2003, with some assistance from my Mum I applied for my first licence. I was determined that I would learn to drive. For my 17th birthday I was given a “batch” of lessons. Around this time I also got a new part time job at a local Builder’s Merchant/DIY Store so that I could pay for additional lessons.

The first driving school I went with was a local company and the chap who owned the driving school was some how related to the chap who owned the local shop at that point in time. My instructor was lovely to start with but could be quite short and horrible at other times. I spent my first lesson mainly talking rather than driving but having never had a driving lesson before I went with the flow and figured that was just the way it went. I would book my lessons so that I got collected from school and dropped off at home, that way I didn’t have to walk home on driving lesson days. It was quite handy especially if it was an early finish day because of free periods. Fast forward about 10 months (I know it was before my 18th birthday but not sure how much before it). I went to Milton Keynes (again with my Mum) to sit my theory test. Quite a few of the hazard perception videos had been filmed around Bedford so I got a little distracted identifying the different streets. Even with that I passed my test and got my practical booked once I’d spoken to my instructor.

I took my practical but it didn’t go smoothly, I messed up my bay park in the exam centre car park when I got back and that was that. Having said that I nearly always “nose first” park now and probably couldn’t reverse park in our current car even if I tried! My instructor was about to drop me off home and we had a debrief. I’m not sure how it when now but I just remember her blaming me, how it was my fault for booking my test when I wasn’t ready (she said I was ready before I went in!).

I was upset at failing when I’d felt so confident so I think I told her I would be in touch if I wanted to book another lesson. Thankfully my parents were understanding and I booked my next lesson with the chap that my best friend had passed with. (He did a good job because my brother went with him too).

About three weeks or maybe a month after my 18th birthday I passed my driving test. My dad happened to be home that day so when he saw the instructor park the car a few doors along from my parents house he got up from his chair and waited near the front door for me. I was really excited and practically skipped down the street, as I let myself in with my keys, my Dad opened the door so I almost fell over into him! He gave me a big hug and told me about the prank he had played on my Grandma when he took his test.

I wasn’t able to afford a car myself outright but my parents were in the position to help me out. My first car was shared with my Dad and was a blue Ford Fiesta that got nicknamed Whippy.

It looked like this although it didn’t have the front lights like this one.

Ford Fiesta - Similar to Whippy - My first car

I don’t remember ever going to test drive it or even see it before they bought it as I think my Dad did the test drive while I was at work one Saturday. There was a particular reason why I couldn’t drive it straight away I think to do with the tax or the MOT but the car lived in my Grandparent’s garden/driveway for about three weeks.

My grandparents live in a village and their driveway runs along side the house and then into their back garden. It meant that I could drive the car off the concrete paving where it was parked up the driveway to the gate and then reverse it down the driveway back to the grass and start again. Sometimes I’d practice manoeuvres like reversing around an imaginary corner or attempting to parallel park in like with the edge of the grass that ran along side the drive. It was sort of silly but made me feel all grown up and like it was my car.

The car had previously belonged to a Boy Racer who had tweaked with a lot of the wiring. If you went over a speed bump or pot hole too quick you could get the CD to jump. In my second car if you took a roundabout too fast it would bring the petrol light on and then switch off again when you straightened up!

In the end Whippy had seen it’s best days. It was mine for about 5 or 6 months and then had to be taken to the scrap yard as that was all it was worth. My Dad thought I’d be teary when we took it to the dump but I was okay. I think I ended up more attached to my second car which was my sunshine yellow Fiat Seicento.

Fiat Seicento - my second car (not this exact one but close enough!)

This is my entry into Insurance Revolution’s My First Wheels blogger competition. You can find info about how to enter here. Entries must be in by the 30th January. Good luck!!

The Prize
The winner of the My First Wheels competition will win:

A Head to Head driving Experience at Silverstone. With this experience, you’ll get to drive two incredible cars on Silverstone’s world famous circuits. You’ll take the wheel in a F430 Ferrari Coupe and an Aston Martin VH Vantage. This will truly let you test the cars and live the rest of your days capable of having an informed opinion on the key question: “What drives better? A Ferrari or an Aston Martin?”

AND

Overnight accommodation at the nearby Park Inn by Radisson Hotel on the day of your experience or the day before.

Goals for 2015

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I’ve never been one for making resolutions. Doing Slimming World this long and losing weigh has been about the only one I’ve properly kept. I’ve got a lovely group of friends encouraging me to get to that goal. I decided to add some more to the list. It’s now the 13th January and although it’s taken me this long to blog about my goals for 2015, I have actually started quite a few of them.

Life

  • Journal my way through the year
  • Have a date night with Chris at least once a month (without the boys)
  • Get to weight target
  • Complete food diary (to aid in the weigh target goal)
  • Attempt to complete step goals twice a week at least
  • Purchase and update diary
  • Sew the cross stitch kit from Christmas (it is Christmas themed but it’ll be ready for use at Christmas)
  • Reduce/Clear my In Progress reading list – see Goodreads for the current standing
  • Crochet “pavement” blanket
  • Keep on track with penpals
  • Learn how to knit socks
  • Knit a pair of socks
  • Try and get some sort of routine for Jaxon (I know he doesn’t always run to a routine but I want to try and get some sort of schedule including naps etc)

Work

  • Create Daisy Media website
  • Keep blog updated 2/3 times a week
  • Complete Website 1
  • Redesign Website 2

Home

  • Clear out DVDs
  • Temporary fix then proper fix the Summerhouse
  • Paint all the fencing
  • Sort the living room
  • Sort the bedroom
  • Sort under the bed
  • Keep on top of sorting Jaxon’s clothes (space in the nursery is limited so have to make sure we keep on top of sorting out the clothes that are too small as he grows out of them)
  • Learn to boil an egg (oh it sounds really silly but I tried to boil eggs a couple of weeks ago and when I went to peel the first it popped all over the work top and was still raw inside….oh dear!)

Finance

  • Save up for a new MacBook
  • General save (rainy day sort of saving)

Do you have a list of goals to achieve this year? Or are you like I’ve been in the past and not created a list? Please share your links in the comments I’d love to read them.

Currently…12th January

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Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
Scandal (Season 4)
Running Wild with Bear Grylls
House M.D. (from the very beginning)
Veronica Mars (Dad was watching it on Friday)

Reading:
Facebook or news stories which is good and bad. Need to get on with reading actual books.

Listening:
UCB and BBC Radio 2. Usually switch over to Radio 2 for Popmaster or have it on in the car as I can’t get UCB.

Making:
New Friends, went to a coffee morning for the local Attached Parenting group. Was lovely to meet new people although Jaxon was the youngest there I think.

Planning:
I’ve been working on all sorts of bits. At the moment I have a calendar out in front of me figuring out when to blog and what to do.

Loving:
Still on the motivated thing. Apart from yesterday when I had a headache. Even managed two extra naps yesterday. I think the second probably made the headache worse rather than better.

TGIF: Things I’m Grateful For

Gratitude

Things I'm Grateful For

Joining up with:
Ashley from Hello Nature, Laura from The Laura Way & Nay from Coffee-N-Ink.

Jaxon I know it sort of sounds a little crazy to say it out loud but I’m grateful for him. I’m grateful for his hilarious little giggle that makes me smile. I’m grateful for the way he rubs his face on my shoulder when he’s tired. I’m grateful for the way he’s started to do “nursing gymnastics”. The other morning it was his right hand on the same side he was feeding from then his right foot up on the other side. It was like he was body hugging!

Social Media There’s a couple of groups I belong to on Facebook that I am grateful for. I decided I needed to share my thoughts with the ladies and gents in one of the groups yesterday evening.

“Can I just say…
Thank you
Okay so it sounds sort of silly without a context but let me explain.
Apart from being fans of CLP there’s no chance we would have got to know each other, I might have bumped into Mrs K as she’s local to me (sorta!) but still I wouldn’t have stopped to chat to her. Not only that we’ve all formed such great little friendships too. (Or big friendships lol).
On my first CIN, Mr K walked me and a couple of others to the tube (and possibly rode the tube to King’s Cross) with us to make sure we were safe. But it’s not just on the actual CIN occasions.
When we went to Blackpool I mentioned it to Mrs A who despatched a long list of places to visit to me. When our guinea pig passed away a bunch of you were there commenting on a FB status (and sending my phone into meltdown!). So anyway, thank you!”

It was a bit soppy but having read someone else’s post and being like “oh that’s sweet” I felt I needed to say thank you and share the love.

Dear Jaxon…6 Months

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Dear Jaxon,

On Friday you will have been in our lives for six months already. It’s slightly crazy and I don’t quite believe it.

We celebrated your first Christmas back in December. I’m not entirely sure you understood what was going on but you loved the Christmas lights on the trees and when we opened your presents and gave you new toys you got rather excited. One of the first ones we gave you was a small Dalmatian dog. We decided he should be called Pongo from the story 101 Dalmatians. One day I’ll be sure to read you the story.

A few weeks before Christmas you were given a book of Winnie The Pooh stories. I started reading you part of the story but you kept trying to grab at the pictures, it’s a heavy book so if you’d pulled it onto your legs or something like that you might have hurt yourself.

Minus the odd few feeds when you’ve been given formula, you’ve been breastfed. We were trying to hold on until you were six months as that was what we had been advised by the health visitors. For a while you’ve been staring us down for our food or getting grumpy when we’ve been eating at meal times and you have just had milk. We were recommended to keep breastfeeding you rather than wean early so just had to deal with the grumpy fog you seemed to be in. Having given you your first spoonfuls of porridge on Christmas Eve along with a little bit of fruit you perked up and were smiley again. Now you’ve been on “solids” for breakfast and tea and breastmilk in the middle you’re more fidgety and more vocal. You chat away and even though we don’t understand it seems like you’re having a conversation sometimes.

If I sit you on my lap you keep pushing up to try and stand up, if we take you by the hands and hold you up you’ll walk round the room. We keep getting told off because apparently it’s bad for your legs, but you did walk down the hall at Auntie K’s with help from Daddy and neither Auntie K or J told us off and they both worked in medicine for many years so would have known if it was a problem.

This jumper was knitted for you by Grandma. She made you a pale blue one in the previous size, then you got too big for it so I asked her if she could knit another in the next size up as it’s really snuggly and would be good in the cold weather. You received some other clothes for Christmas too so you’ve been wearing the ones that fit you at the moment. Some of them are 12-18 months so you’ll wear them in the summer when it’s warm enough and you’ll fit them.

Jaxon - 6 Months Old

Weight: You’re due to get weighed tomorrow but I might have to go eslewhere or postpone to next week but I’m pretty sure we’re going to be between 19lbs and 20lbs.
EDIT: I guessed right. You were weighed at 19lbs 11.
Clothes: Mostly 6-9 months but in trousers I am pretty sure you’re going to stay in 3-6 months for a bit longer. Socks wise you are currently wearing a 12-18 month pair – that doesn’t make sense and I think it’s the socks rather than your feet!
Nappies: Size 4 – we haven’t got back to the cloth bum but we’ll try again soon.
Feeds: You still have milk during the day but for breakfast and dinner you get some solids.
Teeth: Make that 6… yes 6 teeth! Your top four all came in within a few days of each other which was a little stressful.
Bedtime: Still around 10 but we think we have a plan now. We take you upstairs closer to 9, change your nappy, put you in your pyjamas, feed you and have a story. Then hopefully around 10 you are settled and ready for bed.
Likes: You still prefer to be naked rather than in clothes, I imagine that I’ll spend most of my time chasing you round the house to put clothes on you once you start walking.
Dislikes: You’re not a fan of your car seat – I think this is because you’re getting a bit long for the carry seat, you just about the right weight to move up but the seat we have got doesn’t rear face and we’re reluctant to have you front facing so early.

Happy half birthday little one.

Love you

Mummy x

Currently…5th January

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Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
University Challenge – I caught up on nearly all the Christmas specials.

Reading:
Finished You’re The One That I Want by Giovanna Fletcher. Started The Land of Decoration by Grace McCleen. The Land of Decoration was part of my Christmas present from Chris.

Listening:
The radio mainly. I didn’t really go out this last week or was too busy chatting to notice what was on the radio.

Making:
Working on a blanket inspired by this paving that I saw while walking the other week.

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Planning:
All sorts of bits. I’m on a mission. Just need to convince Jaxon that I’m on a mission and would appreciate his cooperation! Either that or I might have to go work in a coffee shop so he can people watch while I work.

Loving:
How motivated I feel. December I felt sluggish and stressed. January feels a whole heap better.

TGIF: Things I’m Grateful For

Gratitude

Things I'm Grateful For

Joining up with:
Ashley from Hello Nature, Laura from The Laura Way & Nay from Coffee-N-Ink.

Family It was great to catch up with everyone over the Christmas break. Some of my family I didn’t see or only spoke to via text or FB but I still managed to get to see a whole bunch of them.

Weather The weather has been unusually mild so we’re still around 10-15 Celsius rather than the single figures we usually get around Christmas. It’s also been quite dry (this afternoon Jaxon and I are walking to my Mum’s and then walking towards town – all of which I might be able to do in a fleece rather than my full winter jacket which is good.

New Starts It’s cheesy, it’s cliched but I’m drawing a line and properly focusing back on Slimming World and getting down to my target, it’s only about 10lbs away but after weighing in today I might get a scary number following Christmas. On the other hand, today’s weigh in also means that I’ll have the guideline to start the next chapter. Bring it on target by my birthday at the end of April (I’m sure it’ll be before then but it’s a starting point)

Internet Friends Okay so that sounds like they are imaginary or something like that but I promise they are genuinely actual people lol. I’m a member of two blogging groups on FB and it’s lovely to have people to bounce ideas off or ask those stupid questions that I don’t know where else to ask. Blogging tips and all sorts come out of those chats!

Best of 2014

Hello Everyone and welcome to 2015. Before I start looking forward with a goals list, I’m looking back at the posts from last year. Here are the top ten posts from my blog in 2014.

1. Welcome to The World Little One

Newborn Jaxon

In July we welcomed the latest member of our family to the world. Jason arrived by C Section on the 9th July. Our introduction post was here.

2. Jaxon’s Birth Story
Dear Blueberry

When Jaxon was one week old and I was still resting up in bed, I wrote up the notes that I’d been jotting down while not being able to get around easily. They formed into Jaxon’s Birth Story.

3. Why I Don’t Celebrate Halloween
Trick or Treat?

With lots of people posting “How To’s” with tips about Halloween I decided to share why I don’t celebrate Halloween.

4. Dear Blueberry – 37 Weeks
5. Dear Blueberry – 40 Weeks
6. Dear Blueberry – 41 Weeks
Dear Blueberry
From last Christmas when we announced that Jaxon was on his way, to his arrival I wrote a weekly (well almost weekly!) entry called Dear Blueberry… These were the most popular ones but all the Dear Blueberry entries can be found here.

7. Top 10 Tips for an Organised Christmas
10 Top Tips for an Organised Christmas

8. 30 Days of Lists – Blog Hop

I love lists, I am a bit of a nut when it comes to lists. I have an ongoing to do list that I regularly cross of bits, add bits and then rewrite the whole list when there are more crossed out items than uncrossed items. I think this is why I love my Filofax even though I own an iPad, why I love a paper diary even though I still duplicate everything onto my iPhone calendar so that Chris and Our Sidekick have some item what I’m up to and why I love Bullet Journals although I still haven’t entirely got it down.

For the blog hop we were encouraged to go and pick a previous prompt and do our thing. The prompt I chose is “Favourite Websites and Blogs” – the picture above was Kam’s entry for that day.

9. April 23: To Park or Not To Park

As I was getting bigger while I was pregnant – I was finding it harder and harder to be able to park my car and get out. On a number of occasions, other cars would park so close to my car that I couldn’t get in it. At least back in April, Tesco, Morrison and Asda allow expectant mothers to use the Parent/Child spaces however Sainsbury’s wouldn’t allow me to unless I spoke to the Customer Service Manager first. Fail Sainsburys You Fail!

10. Our Christmas Traditions
Christmas Traditions
Similarly to the Halloween post I decided to write and share about the traditions that my family do.

Have you written a post including link to your Best of 2014?

2014: A Big Adventure

2014

The whole of 2014 was a big adventure, we started the year by announcing that we were going to be parents. (53 comments and 81 likes later I think it’s the most popular Facebook status I’ve had ever!)

As Jaxon was due by the summer holidays we took our main family holiday in the Easter Holidays. We went to Ironbridge and the surrounding area for a week. It was quite tough and part way through the week I was desperate to come home. I don’t think I’ve ever got home sick since I was a kid but something got me that week and Chris really considered bringing us home early.

I worked up until the beginning of May and then started maternity leave. Towards the end of May, my Mum hosted my baby shower at her house. It was an interesting afternoon (Especially when my father in law attempted to stay!).

Jaxon arrived at the beginning of July after giving us a few false alarms. August was my brother’s wedding followed by Jaxon’s dedication in September. Loren was over from Australia for a month and she got to meet Jaxon while she was here. Jaxon had his first trip on a train to London, trip on the tube and then a trip to the airport all in November. In December, Our Sidekick had his mocks followed by a chest infection. I think he was glad to get his exams over and done with but really didn’t want to be sick that close to Christmas. Unfortunately just before Christmas we lost a family friend to Cancer but he’s now no longer in pain and he’s heaven partying with God,

Currently…29th December

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Watching:
Scandal (Season 3 – yes I chain watched a lot last week!)
Captain America: The Winter Soldier
The Lego Movie

Reading:
Finished Billy and Me. Started and finished Christmas with Billy and Me. Now starting another Giovanna Fletcher book or the book that Chris got me as part of my Christmas present.

Listening:
Not a lot really. Need to replace the Christmas CDs in the car. One of which is going to be replaced by Fleetwood Mac. Richard and Heather bought it for me for Christmas.

Making:
Finished the joint project with my Mum and have started new squares. Thinking I might make a blanket for snuggling under on the sofa. Our Sidekick loved the one that my Mum has on her sofa so it might be time to replace the fleece blankets with a crocheted one.

Planning:
Working on blog plans. I’m determined to get this blogging lark down and organised. Starting now.

Loving:
How blessed we all were this Christmas. Jaxon has been spoilt!

Hope You Have a Happy Christmas

Happy Christmas 2014

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Hello One and All,

I hope you are all doing well this Christmas morning. This is just a high speed drop by kind of post to wish you all a very Happy Christmas and hope that you have a great New Year too. We’ll be celebrating as it’s Blueberry’s first Christmas – I imagine that there will be a whole heap of crazy ensuing in our house shortly. But we’ll be doing one present each and then heading off to church as usual.

What kind of traditions do you have in your family at Christmas?

The “one present and then go to church” tradition is one that Chris and I instigated when we got married. Prior to that, we had different traditions in my family. When we were old enough too we’d go to the Candlelight service at Chapel at 11:30pm and then wish everyone Happy Christmas at the end of the service which was shortly after midnight then we’d go home and to bed before getting up in the morning to do presents. Christmas Day would usually start with Rich and I trying to sneak around upstairs without getting in trouble for being awake too early which was good fun. We were allowed to open our stockings before we went downstairs, there was always a bag of chocolate coins and a satsuma. Then the other presents in there would be little things like a nail varnish or a book or something like that.

Once we’d managed to coax Dad out of bed, we’d all go downstairs. Dad would go into the living room first and would usually create some hype about Christmas being cancelled or that Father Christmas hadn’t been this year because we’d been so naughty. We’d then open our presents, my Mum would write a list of who my presents were from while I opened them while my Dad did the same for my brother. When we’d done our presents my Mum and Dad would take their turns and Rich and I would write down who the presents were from. At some point between Christmas and New Year we’d be encouraged to write Thank You notes. (Leading up to Christmas I’ll be looking on Etsy or in the supermarkets for thank you cards to send out)

Following presents, my Mum would start on the Christmas dinner, and we’d then watch films or play computer games depending on what had been received, at lunchtime we’d stop for Christmas Dinner around the dining room table all together.

After dinner while we all nursed our over stuffed bellies, we’d flop in front of the TV for the Queen’s Speech which my Dad would “encourage” us to watch. Sometimes we’d play board games or might do other bits and pieces depending on the presents that we had received. I’m sure some of the Christmas Day afternoon activities would involve my Mum teaching me to knit (For the 100th time!) or helping me start a kit that she’d bought for me as a present.

Tea would vary but usually involved sandwiches and nibbly bits, we’d work our way through the Christmas specials – in the last few years this has involved Doctor Who, now that technology allows you to record more than one programme at a time and things like that we often queue up our respective devices and spend the evening playing board games instead of hanging out round the TV. Rich and I are banned from being on the same team when it comes to Articulate. Somehow we get on the same wavelength and apparently that’s an unfair advantage, Rich will often describe something obscure from a program that me and him watch but my parents and Chris don’t watch or something like that and we’ll get it that way.

But anyway, I hope you all have a very Happy Christmas, whatever you are up to and have a safe time over Christmas and New Year.

Han 🙂

Rambles: The Last Few Days

Rambles

This is a bit of an unpolished post – I think I spend so much time trying to polish up the posts and made them publishable that I don’t blog and disappear for over a week! So this is just a spontaneous ramblings around what I’m thinking and feeling…

The countdown to Christmas is in single figures. In fact it’s now in the lower single figures, you can almost smell the turkey.

In some crazy attempt to be a Superwomen I volunteered to cook Christmas dinner. Not only have I not really done a whole roast by myself before, the majority of the time I cook simple things usually pasta based. Because of all the bits we’re involved in tomorrow at church, it made sense for us to have our big Christmas Dinner this evening for the evening meal rather than tomorrow lunchtime. Thankfully Chris is helping me to write a plan. Along the lines of:

1. Turkey in for x minutes
2. Add potatoes for x minutes
3. Etc
4. And so on and so forth.

In theory it’s idiot proof and I manage to do it. As a kid my Mum always cooked at Christmas and since being married Chris always cooked so I decided it was time to get over my lack of confidence and cook for us all. In theory this year is a little easier as by next christmas Jaxon could be walking and attempting to help us in the kitchen.

I started with how long the meat was going to take as that’s going to take the longest amount of time, I’ve then worked back from that. I’m currently typing this while waiting for Chris to finish what he’s doing so that I can walk through what I have done and what I have left to do. We’re also waiting on a friend popping by to deliver a present for Jaxon – how exciting.

While making the bits for dinner I also managed to make these sausages rolls for lunch, I cheated in that department as I use prerolled pastry. But Our Sidekick said that they were lovely and he’d love it if I made them again sometime.

Sausage Rolls

Currently…22nd December

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Watching:
Strictly Come Dancing (All finished now. Caroline’s contemporary routine was my favourite. Maybe SCD needs to consider including it as an actual dance like Dancing With The Stars)
Scandal (Season 2 – been chain watching. Managed about four episodes yesterday evening)
Mary Berry’s Christmas show – can’t remember the name of it off the top of my head but while Our Sidekick hasn’t been well for the last couple of days I’ve been working my way through all the Christmas cookery shows on iPlayer.
The Apprentice – Interviews and final – Chris really likes it but I’m not a fan – definitely one of those “I’m doing it because I know it makes you feel loved rather than because I like it”

Reading:
Started Billy and Me by Giovanna Fletcher. Still reading it.

Listening:
Christmas songs when I’ve been in the car. I put on Smooth Xmas the other day and minus When A Child is Born all the songs were depressing about being lonely. I ended up switching it off and going back to UCB so that the Christmas songs were positive and happy.

Making:
Finished the next part of the exciting project. Finished a Christmas present for Our Sidekick’s mum ready for contact (which was unfortunately cancelled as Our Sidekick was too poorly to go). Now working on a joint project with my Mum.

Planning:
Working on plans for Christmas between seeing friends and family.
What to write in my new journal that came in my Secret Santa present all the way from the US.

Loving:
The countdown to Jaxon’s first Christmas and the presents that are appearing at our house. Feeling very very blessed.

Currently…15th December

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Watching:
Strictly Come Dancing (Final next week wahoo!!)
Grey’s Anatomy (what’s going on with MerDer??)
Scandal (Season 2)

Reading:
Started Billy and Me by Giovanna Fletcher. Loving it so far but by the time I’m getting to bed I can’t always keep my eyes open!

Listening:
Christmas songs. Now have Rend Collective’s Christmas album on my phone so can listen to it lots.

Making:
Bouncing between a Christmas present and crochet squares for another exciting project I’m working on.

Planning:
Plans for Christmas, plans for meals this week and plans for the little business.

Loving:
The countdown to Chris’s Christmas break and the days to Jaxon’s first Christmas.

Rambles: Attempting to Be Superwoman

Rambles

This is a bit of an unpolished post – I think I spend so much time trying to polish up the posts and made them publishable that I don’t blog and disappear for over a week! So this is just a spontaneous ramblings around what I’m thinking and feeling…

Yesterday I sat at my Mum’s dining room table, I asked her, when she had me and my Dad was at work all day were there days when she didn’t want to go home to an empty house. It was a simple enough question but it made me cry all the same. Maybe I’d just been holding it in or all those crazy Mummy hormones exploded everywhere, but it was a cry that I needed. Our Sidekick and Chris were both out for the afternoon and the idea of coming home to an empty house sort of filled me a bit with dread – there was nothing to fear and I’m fine now but I just didn’t want to go home at that moment in time. Don’t worry I am keeping a note of all these feelings just in case but as they seem to come and go rather than hanging around for hours on end I’m not entirely worried but now that my Mum knows how I feel hopefully her and Chris will keep an eye on me and point me in the direction of help if it looks more serious.

My Mum gave me a hug too which made me feel a bit better then she took charge. I’ve been working on a present for Our Sidekick’s Mum for Christmas and his Christmas Contact slot is getting closer and closer and I just have to keep knitting and getting it done. (I’m writing this post when I probably should be knitting but right now I need a time out lol). My Mum told me it was completely fine to feel like that sometimes and that with Christmas coming we are all trying to be Superwomen and get everything done before Christmas gets here. She’s self employed so not only is she trying to get all the Christmas shopping done and get the decorations done she’s trying to get all the ends tied up ready to have some time off over Christmas just to hang out. My Mum took charge and send me home to get my knitting and then come back, Jaxon was asleep in his car seat so my Dad looked after him and made sure he was okay while I popped home. It was just what the doctor ordered so to speak, I came home and made dinner and then watched Strictly while knitting and feeding Jaxon in the gaps.

If You Can See This My Baby Fell OffEarlier in the week my new shirt arrived from Redbubble designed by GeekySweetheart. I decided that I was going to wear it to church but figured that if I was going to do that then I needed to make sure I was wearing Jaxon for at least part of the service. Although I’ve got a bit rubbish and stopped baby wearing for a bit – it’s something I want to get back into especially if I can start back carrying Jaxon as I might find it easier than having 18lbs of baby strapped to my front! I decided to invest in this shirt because I think it’s really funny. I’ve got a baseball shirt with it printed on the back in pink font and wore it to church today. The pastor was the first one to spot it and thought it was really funny – I got quite a few comments especially when Jaxon wasn’t with me and people were genuinely like “Is Jaxon okay?”

So while I attempt to be Superwoman I need to hit publish, evacuate the computer for Chris and go back to knitting. What are you all attempting to do before Christmas? Are you like me and have a mass to do list running that doesn’t seem to be shrinking right now?

 

Dear Jaxon…5 Months

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

Hello little boy. How are you today? This morning you weren’t so great. I think you knew that you were spending part of the day with Grandma and Grandpa and decided to be grumpy. Each time I put you down you started to cry. When I arrived back at Grandma and Grandpa’s you had started to cry but as soon as you heard me you settled again. We had a little feed as you had already had enough to drink. Then you crashed out and slept in my arms for about half an hour. While I write this you’ve just opened your eyes but I’m pretty sure you’re still asleep.

It’s now past bedtime and you’re asleep in your cot. Daddy, you and I went out for tea while Our Sidekick was at trampolining. You had a feed and I put you back into the car seat while I ate. Part way through my dinner I looked over and you were falling asleep.

We had less crazy adventures this last month. We went to Milton Keynes with Grandma and Heathrow with Cat, Kieran and Loz. With Christmas coming up we have some adventures with Daddy and Our Sidekick. One of those is going to Suffolk to visit your Great Aunt. Actually it’s meeting your Great Aunt for the first time. We were going to see her earlier but various things got in the way and we couldn’t go in the end.

You love to smile and sometimes manage to sign something resembling “drink” or “milk” which is really cool. It’s easier when it’s an obvious sign but sometimes I have to go with the big cheesy grin you give me in response to my question.

Anyway, I love you little one.

Love Mummy x

So here’s some stats…

Weight: Around 18lbs. We haven’t been to get you weighed recently but on Thursday I’ll be getting you weighed so we can figure this one out properly
Clothes: 3-6 months but you’re on the border of 6-9 months.
Nappies: Size 4 -we attempted reusables but they kept leaking. I need to have a proper look at what’s going on.
Feeds: You had been down to one feed a night but I think you might be growing. You seem to have a feed around 1-3am and then a second around 5am. Some nights it’s okay but sometimes it’s hard work to get up twice in the night. Sometimes you end up in the bed because I can’t keep my eyes open and I fear I might drop you.
Teeth: Those two bottom teeth are still in there. You have three of your four middle teeth on the top poking into your gums – daddy and I can see the teeth getting closer. You like when we run our fingers over your gums. I think it’s soothing.
Bedtime: Sometimes it still varies but nearly every night you’re in bed around 10pm so it’s more of a routine.
Likes: you still love the bright colours and music of Strictly Come Dancing but according to Grandpa you like Top Gear too. You like being naked or just in your nappy.
Dislikes: You’re still not a fan of being on your own and some days it’s worse than others. You like being naked but don’t always like putting your clothes on. In the summer it’s fine to run around with no clothes on but right now it’s very cold!

Currently…8th December

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Watching:
Strictly Come Dancing
Grey’s Anatomy
Home Alone 4 (It was okay but not the same without Macaulay Culkin!)

Reading:
Not a lot really mainly FB statuses and emails.

Listening:
Christmas songs. About to add Rend Collective’s Christmas album to my play list. If it’s even a fraction of how good Homemade Worship for Handmade People is then I’d wear it out as I love that album.

Making:
Christmas presents and “stockings” – technically they are pillowcases with our names on them but it works for us. Been crocheting a heap of squares too.

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Planning:
Plans for Christmas and plans for the little business.

Loving:
Loving hanging out with friends. Saturday was such a good day between hanging out with friends and my folks

Mary, Did You Know?

It’s Advent and I’m sure nearly every Christian blogger is somehow writing about Christmas and I’m joining them for now.

It’s 3am on the 1st December. Why am I writing this now? Because while feeding Jaxon I was starting an Advent bible study. I have got so rubbish about reading my bible, so I decide to sort it. When Jaxon gets up for his night feed around 3am I read my bible and the devotional notes and I deal with it. If anything crosses my mind then I scribble it down before I forget or the “Christmas craziness” kicks back in.

There are to do lists in my head to be written, there are Christmas cards to write and presents to wrap but right now I need to get my heart right.

There’s lots going on in my life at the moment and my emotions are being stretched, bent and broken. But God is constant. At Church when I was a kid we’d sing a hymn:

Will your anchor hold in the storms of life,
When the clouds unfold their wings of strife?
When the strong tides lift, and the cables strain,
Will your anchor drift or firm remain?

We have an anchor that keeps the soul
Stedfast and sure while the billows roll,
Fastened to the Rock which cannot move,
Grounded firm and deep in the Savior’s love.
Found here

But does my heart cling to God in the storm? Sometimes I don’t think it does. I cling to the life raft of technology or my knowledge. I know in the past I’ve gone all out to hang on to God but I think too often I chicken out.

I got thinking about Mary this morning. You know the story but hear me out. Mary is going about her day to day life and an angel shows up to tell her that God thinks she’s the woman for the task and tells her she’s going to have a baby.

“Woah hold up!” You can imagine Mary saying. “Having a baby? But I’m not married and Joseph will dump me once he thinks I’m having another “man’s” baby.” And yet, she’s actually like “Okay, if that’s Gods plan then let’s do this thing”.

Now if God sent an angel to tell me I was having a special baby I think Chris would think I had officially lost it and would probably take me to the local psychiatric unit (not to mention the hundred of medical questions surrounding having a baby this close to Jaxon’s arrival and a C Section!). But rewind to when we were engaged. I can imagine that Chris would have questioned whether I’d been up to no good and things like that but we’d either have dealt with it by moving the wedding date forward or I would have done what was needed to bring up baby myself.

But God had that covered too and sorts out Joseph too.

Chris and I have trusted God for quite a few things since we’ve been married. A job for me when I was unemployed, the strength to look after Our Sidekick, the provision to get pregnant and then the finances to support our family not to mention other things.

So Mary steps out and says “if this is your plan God then I’m in, but you’ve got to help on the Joseph front” and God does because his “Save My People” plan needs full commitment from all parties.

So Mary Did You Know just what was going to happen to your baby?

Jaxon will go through heartache in his life I know that, he’ll fall in love and that girl might break his heart too. He’ll make and break friendships. His “big brother” will leave our home and (I hope) still have contact with him. But in a way these are all little things. I joke that Jaxon has figured out all complicated things like world peace and the cure for the worst sicknesses in the world but because he’s a baby he can’t explain them or write them down to share with people. I hope for him that he’ll find happiness in his future. That he might have his own family one day when God has got it planned for him. I hope that my Grandma is alive to give Jaxon the same advice that she’s given my cousins, my brother and I over the years. But in his life time he will lose his great grandparents just like I’ve lost mine. My Great Grandma for example would have been 100 in October this year.

Did Mary know that her little baby boy was sent on a rescue mission? That he’d go through the worst kind of death that the Roman World could throw at him and yet he would still go through it all because he was God incarnate, he was our superhero and he was here to save the day whether we accepted or not. He chose us before we even chose him. He came to mend a broken world. He came to father the fatherless.

Okay got to sleep now because my brain turns into mush. It’s a bit of a ramble but apart from tidying the formatting up a bit and making sure there’s a link to the hymn website this is how it came out of my fingers at 3am on the 1st December.

Currently…1st December

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Watching:
Strictly Come Dancing (I guessed who was going this week and got it right).
Grey’s Anatomy
Home Alone
The Newsroom
Dancing Cheek to Cheek (BBC documentary – it’s fascinating – there are classes and people who study historical dance – cool!)
Snow and Snow 2 (has the girl who played Victoria in HIMYM)

Reading:
Mainly been reading crocheting patterns, finished another Christmas present and working on what to do for the rest. Then have some samples to work on which is exciting and scary lol.

Listening:
Christmas songs. I know it’s only just December but I decided that if I was going to write about Christmas traditions and plan presents then I needed Christmas songs in the background.

Making:
Finishing up some Christmas presents and start others. Also working on my friend’s website.

Planning:
Still plans for the little business. Actually explained it to two people last week who weren’t family members. I seriously need to work on my “elevator pitch”. Any tips?

Loving:
I’m still cooking more but need to get a bit more adventurous with what we have in the house. We get a veggie box each week and when I cook we nearly always end up with boiled to death carrots. I need to actually learn how to cook them properly instead of just killing them!

Our Christmas Traditions

Christmas Traditions

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Each family have their own traditions when it comes to Christmas and the “holiday season”. With Halloween, Bonfire Night, Thanksgiving (for you U.S./Canada Peeps and us this year as we celebrated with our friend from the U.S. who is working at church.) and then Christmas all in quick succession I thought I’d write about what we do leading up to Christmas

Growing up, Christmas would start with Mum blu-tacking our advent calendars to the banister opposite the living room door in the hallway before bed on the 30th November, so that they were there ready for the 1st December. During December we’d work our way through very curious. It would then continue by putting up the tree together as a family. My Mum would have had a theme all planned out and we went from there. Everyone would join in but Dad had the assigned job of putting the topper on the tree.

During the Advent period we would work our way through the Christmas films that we had on video and then the ones of television as they were shown. These including Miracle on 34th Street (New version), White Christmas and Santa Claus: The Movie amongst others. Some were more preferable than others but would end up working our way through the collection.

On Christmas Eve as kids we would leave a carrot out for the reindeer and a mince pie and drink for Father Christmas. As we got older, Christmas Eve involved going to the Candlelight Carol Service at church. The service would start at 11:30pm and after a few carols and a short talk, the service would finish around midnight and we’d wish our grandparents a Happy Christmas before going home to bed.

Overnight our stockings (which were Christmas themed gift bags) would appear at the foot of the bed. Each year there would be a different selection of little presents but the stakes would be a satsuma and a bag of chocolate coins. My satsuma would either be eaten before we got downstairs for presents and breakfast or it snuck back into the fruit bowl at some point on Christmas Day.

Once Richard and I had managed to encourage Dad out of bed, we’d all head downstairs together to get open our presents. There was usually some kind of winding up from my Dad, he’d put his head around the door and then comment how there were no presents for us and the living room was empty – he did it every year and we still fell for it as if *this year* was the one that it actually happened. While I opened my presents my Mum would write down who they were from so that I could write thank you letters in the following days after Christmas. My Dad would do the same for my brother. Now that it’s the boys and me, I tend to end up writing down the thank you list and we take it in turn to open our presents as there were three of us last Christmas (this Christmas with Jaxon will probably be the same as he’s probably not going to manage to open his own presents himself).

My mum being the organised type would have the potatoes peeled and the vegetables prepped the night before. I think the turkey would have been in the utility room defrosting too the night before. Following present opening, Mum would get dinner ready. When we were younger it would often be that she’d sort dinner while we played – I think as we got older we would try and help out even if it was just getting mum a cup of tea or a cold drink to keep her fuelled! If we weren’t helping out we would be playing with our presesnts or watched a DVD for example. When Richard got games for his games console we’d often end up playing that even if we weren’t all that good at it – one year when he got his first Playstation we spent most of the morning trying to figure out how to play one of the games – I think it’s one of the few games I probably could still play and not die every time!

Mum would have decorated the table either different to the theme in the rest of the house or with a similar theme to the house. As we got older there would often be big church candles in the middle of the table. One year it became a competition to attempt to blow out the candles – you weren’t allowed to properly blow like you would your birthday cake candles, I think Richard figured he breathed heavily enough he could somehow manage to get the flame to go out. I think we were banned from playing it in the end!

The afternoon was spent recovering (usually nursing a very full tummy), Dad would get us all to watch The Queen’s Speech on the television and then work our way through the specials that were on the TV. Tea would be nibbly food and sandwiches rather than anything big. If we end up back at Mum’s for tea on Christmas Day, we usually end up co-ordinating tea around the specials including Doctor Who.

As part of marriage prep, we discussed traditions and creating our own now that we were going to be our own family unit in a way. We talked about the traditions that we each had in our own families and how we’d adapt those traditions into something for us. Something we decided was that Christmas Day would primarily be us at home together. We would go to the Christmas Day church service then come home to do stuff together as a family. Once we were married and had a proper conversation we decided that before church we could each open one present before getting dressed and having breakfast then heading off to church. Following church we would then prepare lunch and get it cooking then when it was at a convenient point we would intersperse the preparation along with opening presents. During this time we’d also call our parents to wish them Happy Christmas and also the grandparents and other relatives (this year it might include ringing Richard and Heather!).

When dinner was ready we’d gather around the table, pull crackers and tuck in after saying grace. Following dinner we’d either all help tidy up or come up with a deal where we’ll recover for a bit in front of the TV and then go back to tidy up.

Tea would either be at home or we’d go to Mum’s for tea and board games (and an episode of Doctor Who).

Boxing Day would typically be spent with my Grandparents growing up but now Chris and I are married between Christmas and New Years there’s a whole shuffle of attempting to see at least his parents, his aunt and housemate and my grandparents. We usually come up with some order that works.

This year with Jaxon’s arrival I think it’s going to be pretty much along the same lines but we are going to start leaving the bits out for Father Christmas and the Reindeer, have additional bits as its Jaxon’s first Christmas. I have a special bib for him although I don’t expect him to be on solids in any form until after Christmas and a special onesie made by a new local company called Handmade in Castle Road. Can’t wait for Jaxon to be able to wear it.

I even end up blogging about Christmas now. 2012, 2011, 2010. It seems I didn’t blog about Christmas but I definitely did write about it in relation to Jaxon’s arrival (at some point in the future) – Christmas 2013.

Do you have any particular family traditions? Do you have any particular ones that are a bit unusual to people outside of your family?
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TIGF: The Thanksgiving Edition

Gratitude

Things I'm Grateful For

Joining up with:
Ashley from Hello Nature, Laura from The Laura Way & Nay from Coffee-N-Ink.

I’m actually going to keep up and post this on Friday – believe it or not!

Friends this week started off with the mother of all Monday Blues. I just felt like the wind had been kicked out of my sails and for a chunk of the day didn’t really know what to do with myself. I tinkered with my friend’s website as it wasn’t rocket science and the particular bit I was on didn’t need a ton of brain power. I posted on FB how I felt and got a few comments back. A friend of mine in the US saw my status and wrote a comment to the effect of “see how you do tomorrow and if you still feel rubbish go to your doc”. It was only when I went to read about Post Natal Depression (PND) did I clock that although it usually comes on within the first six weeks following the baby’s birth it can take up until six months to properly surface. The fact that at least one friend said something along those lines I’m grateful that I’m not alone and that even from the other side of the Atlantic someone is watching out for me. (I felt a heap better on Tuesday and wondered if it was just Monday Blues. I am going to keep an eye on my moods and get Chris to keep an eye too).

Pottering around On Tuesday, Jaxon and I delivered some leaflets for church. It was good to be out in the open even thought the temperature has dropped and it’s been colder the last couple of days. Yesterday I pottered round town before and after a coffee date with Rachel 1. After that I ended up having lunch with Rachel 2 and her gorgeous little boy who is super cute and has a crazy Afro like Our Sidekick. Today I hope to go for more of a potter especially after last night’s dinner!

Unexpected Dinner Invites
So you have it in American shows and films where someone gets adopted by a family for Thanksgiving dinner rather than them be on their own. Well that was us last night. I think “Our First Thanksgiving” might need its own post at the beginning of next week otherwise this will be an essay while I gush about the food.

Our Sidekick
He’s a sweetie. I had a headache yesterday and probably should have given up and attempted to nap when Jaxon decided to give up but I didn’t and my headache was getting worse. I fed and changed Jaxon then asked Our Sidekick if he could look after him for me, I’d only be in the shower so if something happened he could knock on the door and I’d get out asap. Well they had a lovely time. Jaxon was curled up on a blanket on Our Sidekick’s floor like he does on the living room floor and Our Sidekick packed his papers for his paper round. It meant that I got a proper shower and the hot water helped to release the tension in my neck and then my head.

Coffee and Lunch Dates
I’d read about how sometimes being a new mum can be a little bit lonely but it’s only know that I am a newish Mum that I’ve kind of got it more. Some days I do feel lonely and spend a chunk of time on my own. Other days like yesterday I bounced from a coffee date to a lunch date to a quick chat to a dinner. Today will be boring in comparison! It might be something little but just having sandwiches made for me and then someone to hold Jaxon while I ate my lunch just made so much of a difference. It doesn’t cost much just the bread, a filling and maybe some nibbles to go with (we had halved cherry tomatoes, grapes and egg muffins) but it just made me feel more human and less lonely. It was lovely to hang out with Rachel 2 and her little boy (he’s about 13 months older than Jaxon).

Getting Healthy – Part Six

This is a bit of a ramble so I apologise!

There’s a store in town called Michael Bailey and even when they have sale clothes on display in the window I do not have the money to buy an outfit from there. However part of me wants to go and try on a dress they have in the window.

2st 1lb down. 10lbs to go to Target! Bring it on!!

So what’s that got to do with getting healthy? Well as you can see from the picture I have a new sparkly sticker on my book and a new certificate for the fridge. On Tuesday after going to Slimming World and collecting my two stone award, Mum and I popped into town at high speed. On the way home we stopped at the traffic lights just outside the Michael Bailey shop. There was this very slinky long red sparkly party dress. Even minus the price tag it isn’t something I would necessarily wear – it was almost a Bond Girl dress.

But as I lay in bed Tuesday night attempting to go to sleep before Jaxon woke up next, part of me wanted to try the dress on, just because I could. Well who knows if I actually could fit in it but the idea of fitting in a smaller dress size is filling me with excitement!

My size 16 maternity jeans no longer fit me. I’m having to wash them more frequently so that they will “unstretch” again after being in the tumble dryer. My size 14 smart black maternity trousers do fit better but are getting baggy. Really I need to go and get a new pair of jeans but I need a pair that doesn’t rub against my C-Section scar. Any ideas?

When we were in Milton Keynes on Friday I told my Mum my plan. When I am in a smaller dress size and reach my target (currently 10lbs away). I’m going to go to Superdry in Milton Keynes or Boutique Planet in town (they stock Superdry too so that’s all good!) and treat myself to a Superdry jumper in a size that actually fits me rather than drowning me to hide my curvy bits. I might even go into Marks and Spencer or Debenhams and have a look to see if they have a sparkly number like the red Michael Bailey one but more in my price range just in case there should be an event to wear it to!

At the weekend I went through my chest of drawers and cleared out two bags of clothes. I had a button up shirt that I bought from Next. IN A SIZE 20!! And a smarter top to wear out in a size 22. What was I thinking?? I think I was actually a 16/18 but once Jaxon was in my belly this time last year I was going to need that extra fabric to cover up the bump. When I went back to work after Christmas last year and was beginning to show I went back to tighter t-shirts. Well they were tight at a size 16. Now my size 16s are getting baggy oh yeah! I tried on a skirt that my mum gave me after it was to big for her. I tried it on and it was a size 14! If I lose the extra 10lbs I might even get in a 12 but we’ll see how that goes first!

If you’ve attempted to lose weight or get healthier have you set yourself goals like that with a physical thing as a present to yourself?

Dear Jaxon…20 Weeks

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

This week or so has flown by. You’re getting stronger and stronger when it comes to standing up and moving around. You’ve still not got the hang of holding up your head while lying on your front but you will happily stand up while we hold your hands or under your arms. (Depending on who’s helping you depends on how you are held).

Last Friday you, Grandma and I went to Milton Keynes. We started in the Centre looking at the Christmas lights. After doing out shopping we went to IKEA as Daddy had asked us to get some bits. While we were there I spotted a high chair so we got it. You’re not entirely sure about it but I keep putting you in it while I do cook, clean or generally tidy up in the kitchen. On Sunday I moved your chair into the hall way while we all did our chores so that you could see me while I swept the stairs.

You’re starting to get more frustrated and noisy at meal times because you really want to get in there and start eating. Daddy and I have discussed two or three (or more times) but keep coming back to trying to breastfeed you exclusively a bit longer. You’re 5 months old in almost two weeks so it’s about six weeks and then we can start to introduce solids. I’m excited to see how you react.

I think I am going to change it so that I write to you monthly for a little summary and then when there are new things that you do or new adventures that we’ve had them write about them too rather than attempting to write a weekly post. We’ll see how it goes otherwise I might be back.

Love you lots little one

Mummy x

Found

Found

When I was at school I would often end up doodling in the margins of my exercise book or on scrap paper, I think I used to end up with comments from the teacher about how I should stop doing it. Sometimes I couldn’t help it! This looks like a heap of fun – I learnt about Makala’s Sketchnotes plan when a friend of mine was at TCUK2014 conference. She hosts a monthly Hangout for people to join in. You can find more info here: Sketchnotes Hangout

The Brief History of Graphics Video Series

As if I really need another crochet project at the moment I’ve been looking at other shapes rather than just granny square based blankets. I like stars and hexagons and found these two to try. The first link is from Spud and Chloe which looks like a good site to have a proper look round. The second is from Atty’s but they were both found on Revelry which is home to lots of other patterns and ideas too.

If you’re like me, you read the Harry Potter books as they came out. Amy over Lemon and Raspberry is hosting a re-read along. If it wasn’t for the amount of Christmas I still need to sort I’d be joining in – I think it’s a great idea.

Christmas is coming and the Goose is getting fat, or so the saying goes. I’m winding Chris up because I keep singing Christmas songs and watching Christmas movies. I can’t help it I love Christmas and I’m more insufferable this year because it’s Jaxon’s first. I’ve been writing and rewriting my Christmas lists with everything from presents to crafts to do for the house. Part of Christmas present shopping is trying to support local business not just the big websites that deliver really quick to your front door. Clare works for one of the local businesses in town and she writes for their blog. Take a look.

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Dear Jaxon…19 Weeks

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

So normally I write to you on a Wednesday as you were born on a Wednesday. I decided this week that I would write to you after we’d taken Loz to the airport today. It was an early start but you were actually already awake so I didn’t need to get you up. In fact you woke me which was good as my alarm decided not to set properly.

It was your first trip to the airport. You and I got ourselves ready to go. K and Loz arrived at our house while Cat popped to the shop. K got your car seat into the car and put the buggy in the boot while I strapped in the chair. I sat in the back next to you in case you needed me and Loz sat next to me. There were quite a few queues on the way as it was rush hour but we got to the airport in the end.

As we walked through the airport, K kept pulling faces at you and making silly noises, you loved it and smiled every time. You had your photo taken lots of times so we could document Loz’s last few hours with us here in the UK. Hopefully one day we’ll go and visit her in Australia but not until you’re a little older.

Smiley Jaxon with Loz

Loz and Jaxon plane watching

We had breakfast in one of the restaurants, it was on one side of the terminal so we could watch the planes taking off. We saw Emirates, British Airways, Aer Lingus and Lufthansa planes take off.

I think my favourite picture is you and Loz looking at the planes.

We all had big cuddles before Loz went through the security point to the gate for her flight. We all walked back to the car and got all loaded up to go home. We didn’t really speak but we were all a little (or a LOT) sad that Loz has gone. It’s been too long since we last saw her (I was 18 when her and her family moved to Australia) and it could be too long before we see her again.

This week you’ve been attempting to sit up more. You’ve not quite got the hang of it yet, you hold yourself up for a few seconds the you’ll drop sideways or forwards. Sometimes it’s backwards so I have to keep an eye on you so you don’t hurt yourself. If you go forwards you end up with your forehead on your feet and you get stuck.

I’m taking you to be weighed officially in two weeks when you’re 5 months old. This week I stood on the bathroom scales with you and you were 7.8kg that’s about 17lbs 3oz. That means you’re about 7lbs heavier than when you were born. I haven’t checked but I think that means you’re still on the same percentile line which is good.

You keep watching Daddy and I when we eat. Apparently you did try and steal some food of Daddy’s plate the other day, we’re not supposed to start weaning yet but I’m wondering if we can give you a little taste of foods maybe some baby porridge or something like that and see how you do. I’ll have to discuss that with Daddy. I’m sure a taste wouldn’t harm would it?

When laying on the floor you’ve managed to start rolling onto your side. You sometimes start getting frustrated and I can’t work out whether it’s because you can’t get all the over onto your front or if you get half way and then can’t roll back the other way. I’m guessing it’s something that will come with practice in the end.
You’ve also started to hold your legs up in the air which is funny.

Rolling over...

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On Friday, it was Children in Need, I got you a Pudsey onesie to wear. You looked super cute. I think you might have to wear it a few more times before you grow out of it.

Love you little one

Mummy xx

Currently…17th November

Currently...

Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
Strictly Come Dancing (I expected Judy to go sooner but now she’s gone – I would like Anton to win someday – he’s been in every series so far and not got that far)
Forever
Grey’s Anatomy
Criminal Minds
NCIS: Los Angeles (There doesn’t seem to be as many episodes of the normal NCIS)

Reading:
Once again not made it back to my reading book. I’ve been reading blogs and news stories. There were quite a few news stories last week about the poppies at the Tower of London – we had been to see them on Monday. It was also Jaxon’s first trip to London which was quite exciting.

Listening:
More of the radio. On Friday it was Children in Need, so whenever I was in the car I had the Radio 2 Jukebox on. I requested Friday I’m in Love by The Cure for a friend of mine who was volunteering manning the phone lines at the radio station – however it was played without my dedication.

Making:
Working on Christmas presents, I have to try and get as much done as I can when Jaxon is asleep or occupied – which is sometimes easier said than done! I’m getting there though.

Planning:
Working on blog posts and ideas for my little business, it’s getting there but I’ve got to work on things like “Do I need a website?” “What should it say?” “Do I want a blog on there too?” I guess I will get there in the end but I just need to have a chunk of time to properly work on it – either that or I need to plan it and then when Jaxon is in bed go mad and get it done!

Loving:
The fact that I’ve cooked so many times recently – okay it’s not exactly gourmet meals but they are proper meals with a balance selection of food! It sounds really sad but I’m impressed.

What’s Cooking? Chicken and Pesto Tart

What's Cooking: Chicken and Pesto Tart

On Saturday, Chris asked me to put my organisational skills to use and while feeding Jaxon/watching Strictly, he got me to write a meal plan for this week. Some days are really simple like burgers, home made chips and vegetables but other days are a little more complex. Between programmes on the television, Our Sidekick and I had seen this Chicken and Pesto Tart, as advertised by JusRol. I thought I might have to wing it and try and create my own, however having googled for an idea of a recipe, there it was on the JusRol website.

On Sunday after church we went to the local Aldi supermarket to get ingredients and bits for all the meals this week. We managed to find the ready rolled puff pastry in the fridge section and I got all excited about making dinner.

Chicken and Pesto Tart
Our Chicken and Pesto Tart

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So we ditched the cherry tomatoes as I had forgotten to get them (and I’m not entirely sure they are in season…) instead I chopped up a green pepper that had come in our veggie box and chucked that in with the chicken and the pesto. There seemed to be a lot of spare pastry even though I had followed the instructions – also because it was pre-rolled it was slightly too big for my baking tray! I think if we do it again we’ll do it with more chicken to make sure everyone gets a fair share and possibly use two peppers instead of one. I guess it’s all a learning curve. Anyway for now here is the recipe as from the JusRol website.

Ingredients:

  • 1 pastry ready rolled sheet (They obviously recommend JusRol, we used Aldi’s own one but size wise it was about 375g)
  • 1 egg yolk or milk to glaze
  • 4 – 5tbsp green pesto
  • 300g cooked chicken, skinned & cut into thin strips
  • 8 – 10 cherry tomatoes halved
  • 50g spinach leaves (optional) wash

Preheat oven to 220°C (200°C for fan assisted ovens)/Gas Mark 7.

  1. Unroll the pastry sheet onto a baking tray lined with parchment paper.
  2. Combine the chicken and the halved tomatoes with the pesto and spread over the sheet, leaving a border all round edges so the pastry can puff up.
  3. Top with fresh spinach leaves if desired (optional).
  4. Brush the border with beaten egg yolk or milk and bake for approx. 20 minutes until the pastry is risen and deep golden.

 

 

Dear Jaxon… – 18 Weeks // 4 Months

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

This week contained a heap of mile stones. On Sunday  you turned four months old and attended your first baptism service at church. On Monday we went to London with Grandma and Grandpa which meant that you went to London, on the train, the tube and an escalator all for the first time. As I write this you’re sat in your flower thing reaching for the cuddly animals that dangle from it – what an acheivement.

Grandpa and Jaxon on Tower Bridge

So on Monday we headed off for London. Grandma and Grandpa came and collected us, Grandma had an appointment to go to so you, Grandpa and I waited in the car park while Grandma went in to her appointment. You weren’t entirely happen so I was just about to feed you when Grandma appeared. We went to the station to catch the train and I think because there was so much going on you were happy to wait a little while longer for a feed. While on the train you had a feed which meant that you were okay until we stopped for lunch about three hours later. Although the weather forecast had said it would be dry it started to spit while we were at the Tower of London looking at the poppies. Grandma, you and I lost Grandpa at one point so while we stayed in one place waiting for him to try and find us again we got out your rain cover so that you were nice and snug even if we were getting a bit damp!

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Following lunch we decided to walk towards Covent Garden but in the end we decided that we’d head back towards St. Pancras as the shops that we wanted to visit had branches in the station. We caught the District line to Leicester Square – thankfully on each tube train we were on people were happy to move around us or free up the buggy spaces so that we could park you.

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On our way from The Tower of London towards Covent Garden along the river we spotted The Shard as well as other landmarks like the Gherkin. While we waited for the train home you were getting upset so I got you out of your buggy and before my phone died I managed to snap this picture of us on the platform.
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There you have it at 4 months and one day you went on your first trip to London. I’m not sure how much you will remember but when you’re older I’m sure we will tell you all about it, tell you about the poppies and what they signify. I’m sure if you ask Grandpa he will give you a history lesson all about the war too.

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So here’s some stats…

Weight: 16lbs 3oz – this was at your weight in around 3 and a half months, we went two weeks early because we wanted to check you were still gaining weight okay and to ask the HV some questions.
Clothes: 3-6 months but if you keep growing you’ll be out of them soon!
Nappies: Size 4
Feeds: Most of the time you’re down to one night feed and often that’s around 5-7am so if you don’t go back to sleep again I can always get up and we start our day then – some mornings we get huggle time with Daddy before he goes to work.
Teeth: two bottom ones in the middle. I keep meaning to ask our friendly neighbourhood dentist whether I should be cleaning them or not yet!
Bedtime: It still varies and often varies depending on what we’ve done during the day. We’ve started to try and get you settled and ready for bed around 10pm, if it’s bath night then it’s a little earlier so you’re nice and calm.
Likes: Watching Strictly or Dancing with the Stars – I’m sure you shouldn’t be into those programs
Dislikes: Being on your own (for example if I pop to the kitchen or the loo). Baths – it’s possible that it was because Daddy is normally present for baths and recently I’ve been doing it myself without Daddy.
Other things: This month you got to meet Loren one of my friends from school. Hopefully one day we’ll make it to Australia to see her and where she lives but for now she’s seen you and thinks you are lovely. (I think she’d smuggle you home with her if there was space!)

Remembrance

Poppies

On the 28th July 1914, the conflict that would become World War 1 broke out across Europe. The armistice was signed on the 11th November 1918. Today is Remembrance Day, at 11am all across the country there will be a minutes silence to remember those who have fought in battle for our country. This year marks 100 years since the start of World War 1.

They went with songs to the battle, they were young.
Straight of limb, true of eye, steady and aglow.
They were staunch to the end against odds uncounted,
They fell with their faces to the foe.

They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old:
Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn.
At the going down of the sun and in the morning,
We will remember them.

They mingle not with their laughing comrades again;
They sit no more at familiar tables of home;
They have no lot in our labour of the day-time;
They sleep beyond England’s foam

Currently…10th November

Currently...

Currently… image from rukristin

Watching:
Strictly Come Dancing
Forever
Grey’s Anatomy
Doctor Who
Downton Abbey
Million Dollar Listing NYC

Reading:
Eleven Doctors, Eleven Stories (I’m up to the Second Doctor)

Listening:
Not so much music, as I write this I’m listening to the adverts during Downton Abbey and Jaxon’s snoring as he fell asleep in my lap after a feed. I think today in London took it out of him. There was so much excitement. He went on the train, the tube and an escalator for the first times.

Making:
Still working on bits for the charity craft sale on the 23rd November as well as Christmas presents. I was working on my mother in law’s present when she and my father in law arrived for a quick visit last night – oops!! I carefully put it away as if I was clearing the sofa to make sure there were clear seats lol.

Planning:
Working some more on blog posts. I’ve figured that if I park my note pad next to me with a drink just before feeding Jaxon then I can scribble ideas down when he’s on the right side. When he’s on the wrong side I can read FB and things like that one handed. I’ve also been working on the Christmas lists as suggested on my 10 Top Tips for an Organised Christmas post.

Loving:
I’m loving the family time we’ve had in the last week or so. Chris and I have been watching Downton Abbey together.

TGIF: Things I’m Grateful For

Gratitude

Things I'm Grateful For

Joining up with:
Ashley from Hello Nature, Laura from The Laura Way & Nay from Coffee-N-Ink.

It’s Friday so it’s time to share the things I am grateful for this week. This week started with Jaxon being poorly. He started with a cold but by Sunday he was wheezy. We’ve been to the doctors of some description four times this week so I’m glad it’s now Friday and he’s finally getting better – he’s still a little wheezy but he’s getting there.

Today I am grateful for my car. It sounds sort of silly but without it today I would have been truly stuck. My morning started by discussing with Our Sidekick about whether he could be off sick today. I explained that unless he was really dying could he go give it a go and if needed I would collect him from school. Once he’d despatched himself for school it was time for us to get organised. Today started by popping to the supermarket to get some bits for Jaxon before dropping him off at my parents house. I was off to a meeting with Children Services for Our Sidekick. It was hard work and when I came out of the meeting I really needed a hug and to know that I am okay. I’m grateful that my Dad was able to have Jaxon on his day off so that I didn’t have to worry about taking him with me to the meeting. My Mum would have probably had him but I know she was busy with it being beginning of the month.

I drove back to my parents to collect Jaxon, as I drew up outside their house and stopped the car my phone rang. It was Our Sidekick’s school asking if I could collect him. Well the deal had been that he needed to try and he had so I said I’d come get him. I jumped out the car and went into my parents, explained that Our Sidekick needed to be collected so I would go get him and take him home then I’d be back for Jaxon.

I got to the school and collect Our Sidekick, while I was driving him home I had a coughing fit and we had to pull over. I’m grateful for Our Sidekick because even though he was sick, he was amazing and took care of me, he passed me a tissue when I was coughing because I was also crying (that eye watering cry rather than crying because I was happy/sad). He kept telling me that I should stay home instead of going to help out my brother, I figured as I was just going to house sit at my brother’s while their new flooring was fitted and not really do anything it was better to sit and not doing anything at his house than let him down and stay at home.

I dropped Our Sidekick at home and then went back to my parents to collect Jaxon. He was still asleep and when I tried to the move the buggy I did wake him up – oops bad Mummy! I was grateful that he did have sleep before we went to Richard’s as I wasn’t sure how loud it would be when we got there.

We were at Richard’s house until Richard got home from work – I think the guys doing the flooring finished just as I loaded up the car to head home. As it had coincided with Chris finishing work, we came home via Chris’s work so that he could have a lift home. We got home and Our Sidekick was chilling in his room wrapped up his duvet.

I fed Jaxon then we got on with Our Sidekick’s paper round – I thought the papers and been collated but they hadn’t so Chris and I collated the main paper, residential pages and the leaflets all together and packed the trolley. We got Jaxon all wrapped up and headed out. The plan was I would pull the trolley, Chris would push the buggy and we’d both do the papers but actually the method we did actually worked. Chris sort of pushed the buggy with one hand and pulled the trolley with the other. Between the houses he would pre-fold three or four papers and then hand me the stack, while I did the next section of houses on the route he’d move on and start folding the next stack. It took us about 50 minutes to do the whole round. I think that’s probably half the time it takes Our Sidekick (even including the collating the papers it was even less time – maybe we need to help him pack his papers on a weekly basis). As we walked along part of the round we could see the fireworks from the Rugby Club all the way in town – as the crow flies we live about a mile and a half from the rugby club but it was loud even here!

It was tiring doing the paper round but it did need to be done really before the end of today. We came home and I had a BBQ Chicken Baguette for dinner – I think the lettuce in the baguette was the only thing on plan but given the exercise that I had just done I think I can let myself off a little bit lol.

Getting Healthy – Part Five

Getting Healthy

-2lbs. 13lbs to target

Here’s part five. I’ve been walking more when the weather has allowed it.

I weighed in at Slimming World this evening and to my surprise I lost 2 pounds. That means I’m back within a stone of my goal and if I can lose another 2 pounds I will have my 2 stone award. I am aiming to be at target by Christmas which means I have 7 weigh ins to get it done.

Dear Jaxon… – 16 and 17 Weeks

Dear Jaxon...

Dear Jaxon,

I’m not sure what happened there. I missed a whole week. Then we got to the weekend and I think it just went to pot from there on wards!

You have two teeth in your lower jaw, they are still working their way through and you keep showing me when you bite into my finger…or other parts of me!

You’ve been biting more and it’s been hurting – I think you’ve just discovered that you have the teeth and sort of exploring rather than doing it on purpose to hurt me. I also think you’ve been getting hungrier and I might not be able to keep feeding you exclusively by myself. So between the biting and the hunger we might be introducing formula but I’m attempting to hold out for as long as we can. I spoke to the health visitor at the baby clinic and she said around the 4 month mark a lot of babies have a growth spurt so if I can keep going my body should keep up with you so there’s no need to top up with formula.

You met Loren for the first time as she’s here from Australia. You weren’t sure of her at first but you warmed to her. You also met Lucy and Julia who I went to school with. Julia held you while I ate my dinner, she’s a midwife at the hospital and I think you sensed how caring she is because you settled in her arms like you’d known her for ages.

On Wednesday, we went and had your next set of injections but first I had to have my flu jab. We put you down on the examination bed in the doctor’s and you looked up at the ceiling and at the Nurse while I had mine done. While we waited to make sure I didn’t immediately react to the injection you had a cuddle with the nurse. We then went upstairs and got your vaccinations done. You weren’t very happy this time and I struggled more this time then I have previously – I think it was because you were quite grouchy anyway.

On Friday we spent a chunk of the day out in the garden with Grandpa working on clearing some of the mess. Daddy keeps getting worked up about what needs to be done, so we got on and did some bits. The big Eucalyptus tree that had been leaning over a bit got a hair cut which meant that a massive area is now a little more accessible and Our Sidekick won’t risk hitting his head when he goes down the garden for his bike now! I’m thinking I might take a bit more of it but we’ll see how it goes.

You and I went to the craft morning at church – you weren’t able to join in but you were really well behaved while I got on with making bits and pieces. We sat with Caroline and chatted about all sorts of bits and pieces.

By Sunday morning you were actually really poorly. Daddy and I took you to the drop in clinic as you were wheezing but the doctor there said that it was just viral, all in your nose/throat and you’d get over it in time. We went to church and then when we got home for lunch you kept crying, then you started coughing lots but it sounded like a bark rather than a cough. So we phoned 111 and took you to BEDOC to see the doctors there. Turns out you might have bronchiolitis but because you were alert and chatting they decided to send us home with an inhaler rather than admit you for nebuliser or oxygen treatment.

That was fine I could cope with that but Monday morning you were worse. You were wheezing really bad and your breathing was shallow and rapid. At one point you coughed so much that you brought up lots of milk that you’d just drunk.

I called 111 again and they said to get seen by a doctor within 6 hours so we rang for an appointment and went to see Dr B. She gave us some different medicines and now it seems to be working. We have to go back and see her later in the week.

I forgot to take your weekly shot but did snap lots of pictures anyway.

My new Talent

Who's been sleeping in my bed?

All snuggled up

Another piece of Grandma made knit wear

Dino Jaxon

Tuesday in Five

Tuesday in Five

1. Today didn’t go to plan. But somehow it worked out anyway. It started with me having to wake Jaxon. He’d slept 11 hours and not woke for a feed. Before you’re like “oh my gosh I wish that was my kid” listen to what followed. I woke Jaxon at 7:30 to give him a feed. By 8am he was breathing fast and shallow even though I’d given him the inhaler we were prescribed on Sunday. The short version is we ended up at the doctors who prescribed us different inhalers and another medicine.

2. Following that I went to a meeting about some social media bits. I’d been recommended to another business in the building my Mum works in part of the week so I’d been off to chat to that business too. All very exciting.

3. I came home and Jaxon slept for another hour and a half or so, so I did things like design business cards and tidy the living room.

4. Following school, the Independent Advocate Chap came to meet Our Sidekick. Then we went to the college to look at Further Education options for him too. It was interesting but I think Our Sidekick had sort of already made a decision.

5. We went to Knitting at Pensieri this evening. Was lovely to see Judit and the others. Two of Mum’s friends who usually come with us weren’t able too as one is poorly at the moment and something came up for the other one. Hopefully we will see them soon.